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writes:ok ppl,!umm im seemin to have mixed emotions bout my best friend and he lives like 2 house down from me so we see and hang out with each other everyday! but he has a girl.. but i already worte a question bout that one incident but anywho, um yea and sometimes i seem to not like him..be irrataed by him or just dont wanna be touched by him cuz hes just so touchy feeling.. and he has a gf.. yesterday when his gf left.. and he walked my 2 best friends home..he came back to my house and asked if i can come outside for a lil while and i was like ok .. then we started talkin bout everything like we always been talk boput then he brought up i dont wannna be with my gf anymore and that its so hard to brake up with her and all this crap and im like wow...and my and my other best friends tell him dont brake up with her cuz she our best friend tooo so um yea then like ....he names these girls that he likesand then he was bout to say something else but then he was like nvm, so i told him to say it and he was like no so i was like ok then whatever... and like i sorta got a feeling bout it.. then as the night went on at that very min he started to hug me and put his hands in my jacket pocket and kissin on my neck and my cheek... almost about to kiss me and for a second i was gonna let him but then i was like no cuz he has a gf thats my friend... and then he was just touchin my butt and everything...so i dont know what to do!.. and like i can tell when some oter guys hug me at skool and puts there hands around my waste he just gets jealous and the like im the same way cuz when hes around his gf and does all that stuff...i get jealous tooo.. and he keeps sayin he wants to brake up with her so bad but he doesnt wanna make her sad or mad.. but he has mixed emotions bout all these girls mostly his best friends...so im just tryin to ask how i get rid of these feelings or like try not to give in to whats hes doin to me at times or does he like me (even tho he says he doesnt)?? and what should i do bout HIM?
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 okay......this is really though so let me get this straight, your best friend's boy friend likes u?
there are two types of people that do this.
1flirtatious fools
2sensitive, confused people
for the record, i think the guy in question is a type two.you know, its a guy thing. guys know how guys feel.
i think u should look up your girl-friend and tell her about it.but im not very sure....good luck
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reader, ilovetoro +, writes (11 November 2010):
wow, that's a toughy... if i were u, i would let the two of them brake up.
Then i would wait a little while, like at least 2-3 weeks, b4 talking to ur bff and asking her how she would feel if u guys were dating.
Even if she says that she would b mad, this is ur life, and she should be happy for u.
But u r really in a tough situation, so good luck!
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