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female
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30-35,
*arzbarr
writes:so theres this guy i had 2 flings with. and he constantly rings my mums house all the time now and its really starting to piss me off, my mum told him to stop ringing her house and thretened him about my brothers and yet he still rings. this is like really starting to get out of hand now. and when i pick up the phone he wants to meet and hang out. and i hint and give him signs that im not into him and he presures me and shit HES LIKE REALLY OBSESSED WITH ME, hes a nice guy but i dont like him WE DONT HAVE THAT CHEMISTRY.and im scared to tell him i dont want him because obsessed leads to violence and i dont know what to do?
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reader, marzbarr +, writes (12 November 2010):
marzbarr is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhes a werldo..... he ask really werld things and say the wrong things ...im starting to wounder why hes never had a descent girlfriend
he was nice at first i thought but than i noticed something about him werld
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): Well by "fling" i'm guessing you had sex with him? If so then yes he probably got the idea you liked him, what do you expect? If he is really bothering you and you don't like it you your phone company and block his number and tell him you're not interested.
I think you like the attention because if you didn't you would have told him to leave you alone a long time ago.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 Tell him (nicely) that you are sorry but you are not interested and nothing will ever happen between the two of you. Not all obsessions turn to violence, you say he is a nice guy so there is a good chance he wont do anything violent.
However you can always contact the police if he does become scary or agressive, they can put a restraining order on him so he cannot come within a certain distance of your house and he cant contact you.
One other thing you can do - get your mum to ring up the telephone operator and ask them to block his number from calling your house - that way he cannot ring you anymore. Phone companies do this for free here in the UK (not sure in Australia but should be similar!) and it is very easy for them to do, so I suggest once you have told him to leave you alone and you are not interested, then get a block on his number calling your house. That way he cannot bother you any more.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): Stop hinting! Just say u don't like him!!!
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