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What else can I say other than I'm frustrated?

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Question - (11 November 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *issy 1992 writes:

My "guy friend" says that I need to use more words when we are "playing" around. All I can say is I'm frustrated when he is teasing me. He is a very vocal person and wishes that I would be to when we are "playing". He makes me lose my mind I cant remember any thing when he touches me. What else can I say than I'm frustrated?

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A female reader, Sissy 1992 United States +, writes (23 November 2010):

Sissy 1992 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Sissy 1992 agony auntSo i figured out what he ment he didnt want me to think of new words he wanted me to speak my mind not to hold back what i was thinking. I feel so much better now that i know what he ment.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (12 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntWell just be honest with him hun, its obviously not your thing just tell him that.

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A female reader, Sissy 1992 United States +, writes (11 November 2010):

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Sissy 1992 agony auntIm very comfortable around him. When I ask him what i should say he says think about it. Then starts touching me barely which F's my mind up so i cant think at all.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (11 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntAsk him what he would like you to say and it will come more natural to you in time, the more comfortable you are with him the better it will be.

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A female reader, Sissy 1992 United States +, writes (11 November 2010):

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Sissy 1992 agony auntI want to be more vocal I just don't know what to say. My mind goes blank and all i can say is im frustrated.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (11 November 2010):

chigirl agony auntTell him what you have told us? You are not that type of person and being more vocal doesn't come naturally to you, and if he keeps pushing it you will get put off by it? That it bothers you when he asks for you to be more vocal and you don't want to be more vocal?

Or, do you want to be more vocal, but are at a loss for words and don't know what to say? Ask that maybe he teaches you?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (11 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntJust be honest with him and tell him how you feel when he teases you, tell him your mind goes blank and that you just dont no what to say, get him to tell you somethings he would like to hear you say.

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