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writes: I cant stand my bf best friend!!! i dont like my bf hanging out with him.hes okay as a person but i juss hate the things he does. he treats my bf like crap,barrows large amounts of money never gives it back.hes trys to make my bf controlling and possessive over me because he thinks all women cheat.he trys hitting on me behind my bf back and flirting.and the biggest thing is hes a dog all he cares about is scoring with tramps an cheating on his own gf.its makes me uncomfortable bein alone with him or knowing my bf is hangin with such a jerk.it doesnt help that hes goodfriends with all my bf ex girlfriends and that his cousin likes my bf..i tell my boyfriend everything that he does and he still wont ditch him.i trust my bf ..but how can i become more comfortable with him being friends with this dog?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanxx everyone..it is flusterating to see someone mistreating someone you love but thats his decision not mine
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (11 November 2010):
well I hope you don't call him a dog in front of your boyfriend, because ultimately that might make you seem controlling.
However, I think you should not be around that guy if you don't like him. You can't control your boyfriend and you already told him how you feel. I don't think this is an issue unless your boyfriend starts acting like this guy. if he's not rubbing off on your boyfriend then you're in the clear.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 November 2010):
Don't be around him when you know your boyfriend is hanging out with him..hang out with your girlfriends instead. You don't have to go out of your way to be nice to him, you just have to tolerate him as long as you are in your boyfriend's life.
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