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writes:For the past few months, I've been sort of seeing this guy. To be brief, I feel that there some chemistry between us; we have been hanging out together alone and with friends, we've slept together and recently spent the night together. It feels as if we are together but there is no label to the relationship, I feel that how things have been that there is some chemistry and I am convinced that he is not using me.Whats on my mind is the communication between us; we haven't spoken about what is going on and I have been contemplating whether or not to ask him what he thinks about this. Whats stopping me at the moment, is I'm wondering whether or not it is too soon to say something. To make things more confusing for me is the fact that some few weeks I got very,very drunk and kissed someone and later exchanging numbers. I sometimes feel slightly guilty about this and as if I cheated. What should I do?
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reader, absolutelyinsane +, writes (13 November 2010):
So there is no label to your relationship. But you definitely need to talk things out. If there's some sort of "understanding", maybe he'll understand. But remember, honesty is the best policy. Especially when you're about to start a relationship with this person you need to start an honest foundation to ensure a long-term future with this person. Wishing you all the best :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 Well first off you didnt cheat so dont feel bad or blame yourself, you are not officially a couple just remember that.
Ok so it sounds like its just a lack of communication between the both of you'se, it sounds to me like neither of you dont know how to bring up this subject, but hey a few months is not to soon to ask him were he thinks you stand.
So just be honest with him the next time you see him ask him where he thinks you and he are going and what does he want out of it, i bet he will be glad you brought it up and at least then you will know what he wants. goodluck.
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