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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I stop being in love with a married man????????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy through work, he has his own company and so do I. We ended up meeting on a business trip two years ago and the affair started. He chased me and broke me down until I couldn't resist him any more. It was not about sex as we had many occasions to have sex but didn't. ... (325 words)

My friends at uni are "scoring" and I'm not. It's starting to affect my confidence. Can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm in my first year of university. I'm quite enjoying my time here, but there is something troubling me. I keep hearing all these stories of my friends going out and "scoring" with women. I'm quite an outgoing person, but I've been out countless times and never so much as ... (196 words)

I've been holding back too much, I want to let myself go and show how I truly feel

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's someone who i really like at my college. The first time i saw his face there was this instant attraction, and finally after a few weeks we began talking and are now pretty good friends. He does know how i feel about him because i told him (drunkenly) back in October ... (294 words)

Should I hold on to her? Even if our relationship time is limited?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just need advice. Ok, so here's what's going on. I'm pretty much in my first real relationship, the girl I'm going with is great. But recently, she told me she plans on keeping her virginity until she's married which is a bit of a bummer because sex contributes a lo... (144 words)

How do I regain his trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I show the man that I love that I have changed? I went through a lot of traumatic experiences in a short amount of time and it put a lot of stress on the relationship. I left him multiple times until I finally did for good. I never cheated on him but that isn't the ... (154 words)

My younger sister has been looking at lesbian porn on MY PC!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

16 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, I really need some help. I really don't get along with my 10 year old sister.. she gets on my nerves, you dont even know. Well the problem is.. I got on the computer around 12 today and was checking the history and I saw that someone was looking at lesbian porn on ... (125 words)

Why wont he and how can I get him to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, my fiance and i have been together for three years now and he has only perform oral on me three times whereas i lose track of how many times i heve gave him oral.i have asked why he wont do it and all he says is i just dont want to.im tired of going down on him ... (76 words)

Does it hurt the children more to grow up in a divorced home or an unhappy one with the parents together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was engaged to my ex for 5 years. We ended up breaking up for a stupid reason and I didn't contact him for months. He ended up sleeping with a girl and getting her pregnant after the break up. I found out later. We spoke and texted everyday and all day for 8 months. He told ... (254 words)

Can any one suggest a way to kill off unwanted emotions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Can any one suggest a way to kill off unwanted emotions? Long story made short, I'm married for 6 years with 3 gorgeous kids and a fabulous husband. We have a great life together, all except I seem to not fancy my husband any more, I love him dearly but feel like I'm ... (203 words)

My ex boyfriend and I... advice as I'm going nuts here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up almost 3 months ago We had a crazy break up- hate eachother one minute/ love the next. He eventually asked me to be friends so I agree after much hesitation. So we hung out, had sex- sleepovers. That eventually stoped, because I stoped it, after he... (692 words)

I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys I really need everyones opinion on this please im realllllly confused atm... I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend 3 months into out 10 month relationship... it was a funny way we started the relationship... ( we got togther only a m... (369 words)

Her parents are making her break up with me, help!!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and my gf is 14, we've been going out for 4 and a half months now, I really love her and she really really really really loves me, her parents just found out about us, and they're making her break up with me in front of them!!!!! What do I do? I am freaking out!!! ... (62 words)

Should I be upset or is this texting just not serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My Husband is a OTR truck driver and got a text from a girl that said "no one loves you more than I do, pass this on to 5 people you love." He says that this is not serious that it is more like a game and people just text stuff like that. Should I be upset or is this texting ... (91 words)

How do you know if you are a good or a bad kisser?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know if your a good or bad kisser? PLEASE HELP!!!!!... (16 words)

I was RAPED 4 years ago, how do I tell my boyfriend our son ISN'T his???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was raped four years ago, and my in these past few weeks thing are being revealed to me. I have seen this man again after all these years and my 4 year old son is his spitting image. I never told anyone I was raped except my sister. How do I tell my sons father that our son ... (187 words)

Suspected PID (pelvic inflammatory disorder)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I know this is going to sound stupid and most of you will probably say just do your own research but I've done that and still can't find a solution, I've had some problems health related the past few months and I saw my doctor today, he said it was thrush and suspected ... (145 words)

Should I contact her and let her know what her fiance has been doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for about a year with a man from another country. I just found out that he has a fiance waiting for him there. I had no idea, and now we are not seeing each other (obviously). Initially, he gave me her contact information and told me to tell her i... (132 words)

My friend wants to learn to kiss with me but I'm not a lesbian!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has recently told me that she doesnt know how to kiss,, She has never kissed a boy before and is now in a relationship,, And now today she text me on my phone asking me if i could help her,, So i said yeah sure what do you want me to do?? And she said teac... (161 words)

Soon to be divorced man wants to marry me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A couple of months ago I contacted a friend who lives in a state I also lived in some years ago. We had not talked in 4 years. I called him to say hello, and to share good news about a family member who is involved in the same career as my friend. We've remained in daily ... (293 words)

'Oil up for sex'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my friend was talking about oiling up for sex with her boyfriend and I'm just curious what it actually means! Is it just using lube or literally covering yoruself in something?... (32 words)

What would I see on an 8 weeks scan?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 7 weeks pregnant, me and my husband were wondering what may we see on our 8 weeks scan which i will be having next wednesday. Will it be an ultrasound and will i be able to hear a heart beat. I have had a scan at 6 weeks and could see my baby and saw the flickering of the ... (69 words)

My boyfriend hardly kisses me and is always making excuses for it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about a 1 year but we hardly kiss. The weird thing is that when we talk about the things we like doing with each other, he says that he loves kissing my lips because they are so soft. We can go for months without kissing passionately, he ... (174 words)

I keep thinking I should be better for him in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me he once was involved in a threesome with his previous long term partner. He wasnt allowed to touch the other girl and just watched as they got on with it. I now feel like our sex life isnt enough. I have asked him if he wants something like this with us but ... (114 words)

I fear sex is the only reason my ex wants me to visit him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend moved back to his home country for work. We decided to break up cos we thought that a long long distance relationship would not work because at the time we was going through a rough patch in our relationship. He has been away for a few months now and I have to ... (191 words)

Job-phobia!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Job-phobia? Ok so I am 16, last year I tried to work somewhere and I worked for like 1 week. It was hard work and they didn't pay me. I am a pretty shy person about this kind of stuff so I wouldn't fight for my money. Now that I am 16 I want to work so I can help my family c... (163 words)

Your opinions needed... What is wrong with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been going out for a year. We both love each other. I am suspecting that he is cheating on me with this other girl.. The other day he told me that he hasn't been talking to her recently and told me that she has a boyfriend anyhow. I still don't know what to believe. And ... (96 words)

I prefer masturbating to actual sex! What's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Ok so a very bad sex experience on a virgin makes him get the wrong idea? coz I am afraid I really got the wrong idea about what sex is.. I didn't enjoy it... not in pain but pleasure... didn't feel anything special... I prefer masturrbating.. What's wrong?... (53 words)

Did I overreact since we aren't in a committed relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been seeing this guy for about 6 months now we are not boyfriend and girlfriend but we a understanding that we arent seeing other people he just isnt ready for a committed relationship and I respect that but the other day he forgot his cell phone it wasent m... (183 words)

What can we do to keep it fun except for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well im 16 and well i have been with this boy for like 2 months now and well you no what its like when get to the age of 16 .. well i dont want to rush in to sex and i have talked to my boyfriend about it and hes cool about it but its just i dont want him to get bored of me ... (97 words)

Why didn't he ask her to marry him after 9 years?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear All, I planned to forward this question coz I'm kinda worried about this cousin of mine. She has been seeing this guy for about 9 years now. But she told me that he has never touched her or asked her sexually, except "the kissing" thing. Right now she is 27 and as time ... (223 words)

I didn't know girls can actually cum...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i didnt know girls can actually "cum" i thought i was called discharge. im really confusing. Any help ??... (27 words)

So am I pregnant or NOT?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Okay..I was on birth control from like June to December. I stopped taking them in December because I took an HPT that came back positive. I took it because my period hadn't come on and birth control is supposed to make it regular. So..since den I took a different kind... (138 words)

Did he change his mind about his feelings or was he being shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys, basically i have gotten to know this guy through friends and we have started getting to know each other better. basically we exchanged numbers etc and text continuously like everyday! anyway, valentines day, he texts me asking me to be his valentine, me just wanti... (189 words)

My g/f is close to her male friends, I'm scared to ask about it in case there is more to it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 2 and a half years now, she's 22 and a half and i'm nearly 27, when we first met i was in an unsigned band and out a lot but due to work commitments i had to leave the band which meant my social life has declined, a lot. After about 6 ... (359 words)

I'm 13, he's only 10, so should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok sooo i think i like this boy but there is a problemo, im 13 nd he iss 10!!! ino i feel so disgusted in myslef that i could fall for some one at that age! But i know that he likes me to!! should i tell him how i feel or should i forget about him, the only problem with that ... (93 words)

I slept with my boss, should I resign?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I´ve been really,really stupid. Last week, after a business meeting, he offered me a ride home. We had been flirting about a month. In the car we started to kiss and he invited me to his home, because his wife was out of town. We had quite a lot of drinks and we ended up in ... (164 words)

50 GB of porn clips in one week?! Does he have a problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hacked into my bf's email accounts and found out that he's been downloading an excessive amount of porn: he's downloaded close to 50GB worth of porn in the span of one week. Is this normal? I am just so utterly disgusted with this right now. I mean I have no problem wi... (134 words)

Breastfeeding a 10-year-old? I'm shocked, what do you think?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was shocked! I recently discovered that my aunt sister in-law is still breastfeeding her 10 year old daughter. I came about this information from my own daughter around the same age. Being the concerned parent that I am casually engaged the topic in conversation with the girl ... (151 words)

My fear of flying makes it hard to travel and see my boyfriend so what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice here. My boyfriend lives in a different country and we always visit each other alternatively. I spent three months with him last year and got back home December.Now the time is drawing closer for him to come and then right after its suppose to be my tr... (127 words)

Would you tell a co workers wife that her husband has been unfaithful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Would you inform a co workers wife that her husband has been unfaithful to her? However, this comes from someone who has been cheated on before so there is an obvious bias. Should the wife be informed? I really don't know what to think, maybe if it was anonymous so tha... (77 words)

I want to seduce my hubby but not in a sick pervy way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HI, I want to seduce my hubby but not in a sick pervy way but am thinking of putting on a DVD just to let him know what is on my mind!!! Anyone seen any good DVD's lately that could get him in the mood for what I want to do to him...? ... (53 words)

I'm desperate to have sex, any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to have sex but im 15 and want to have sex but cant find a girl who live close to me and i cant find anyone on the web who is close to my age, what should i do?... (41 words)

I always run back to him although the relationship makes me feel depressed, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age - I am a women over 40 and been dating a guy for 6 yrs. now. If u size it up may be considered 3 yrs.total because of the long distance. I am I feel totally depressed all the time with this relationship. I think he is a BAD HABIT like being addicted to a major drug? He has lied, ... (161 words)

Why is it soooo hard for guys to express their feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so this V-Day started off great with my boyfriend! But ended in a disaster. :-( We've been dating for almost a month. We watched a live sports game. Afterwards, he had planned for us to go to a hotel, with jacuzzi, and have a little wine. I just got my period hrs. befo... (249 words)

Is he friendly or flirty? What should I think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm looking for some "outside" opinions on this. I have a person I know who is in most of my classes. I'm in post secondary school. We met when we came to school and have remained aqaintences ever since. He sometimes seems to be flirting or complimenting me, but at the same ... (226 words)

I want to have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to have sex but im 15 and want to have sex but cant find a girl who live close to me and i cant find anyone on the web who is close to my age, what should i do?... (41 words)

I don't have any faith in myself anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have very low self esteem. Im 20 years old and i have no boobs what so ever. I cant come for the life of me. I feel completely defective as a woman. My boyfriend used to read porn before he came with me, but he stopped after starting a relationship with me.Weve been together ... (389 words)

My new b/f is obsessed with making out and I'm only 13!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my new boy friend is obbsesed with making out and im only 13 so ive never made out with a guy. i really want to make out with him but idk and i really like you but will it be wierd? hes also had alot of experiance so what if he expects me to be really like oh ya ive done this ... (130 words)

Does my husband love me or is it over for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married over 8 years my husband works a lot of hours and he is always busy I got sick a while back and I was very week I asked him if he can stay with me that day His answer was I am not a doctor or do you want me to stay and hold your hand, I got work to do and t... (90 words)

Should I tell my mother that I've been using her vibrator?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

16 February 2009 (?) - Okay so I have a major problem. It's the second time that I've had the guilty feeling this bad. But it's for really stupid things. I've done really really worse things and I've never given it a second thought and it just bugs me that I'm bothered by things that arent ... (264 words)

Should I continue working on this dead relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guyz im 18 and very confused. my bf of 2 years is an absolute dork. he hurts me and cheats and neva apologises. ive tried leavin him but i always cum runing bk. and nw hes introduced me to hs family. what i want to know is should i continue workin on dis dead realtnshp ?... (57 words)

He is also gay, I thought he liked me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, im 14 and gay. one of my classmates is gay too and i have a crush on him (we confessed to each other that we're gay). we were talking about getting together and stuff, but suddenly on one day he said he's going to meet someone else. what's going on? was this just some kind ... (85 words)

Is there any hope to bring my husband back... and his old self?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I split up a little while ago. He has caused me a lot of pain and no matter what we did we just couldn't see eye to eye. I know that I poured my heart and soul into our marriage and wanted to fix what ever was broke up until the bitter end. It wasn't until the ... (1125 words)

Did my god brother abuse me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age - When I was a child I use to visit my god brothers house. the older one use to do sexual things to me like rub himself on me with our clothes on while his brother watched. I was about 7 and he was about 4 years older. Is it normal for kids to act like this. I remember him ... (136 words)

I'm still so angry! How can someone lie and cheat so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - 5 years ago i met this guy, we hit it off straight away - he was seeing someone else at the time. Couple of months later they had finished and he asked me out - i declined saying i had to much exams and work commitments - he slept with someone else that night. 3 months later he ... (352 words)

Shall I sleep with him - will this makes things better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age - I have not been too happy with my b/f. We have a 6 year old. We do not live together. I have two older teenage boys. My older son has been causing a lot of grief and I had social services involves as I hit him in a way to cause harm as he brusied me. My b/f has been very ... (269 words)

The girl I like wants to sleep around just to make her ex angry, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So last night i was talking to the girl ive been talking to we dont date because she is still in the process of getting over her ex that she went out with for 3 years and hes come up frequenty in conversations, this girl has alreayd told me i mean a lot to her, and she ... (326 words)

Shall I dump my b/f and get back with Bryan or not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago i started goin into a chatroom for the first time. I met a guy in there(Bryan)and he was very kind and caring. After a few weeks of just being frends i started to develop emotions for him. I didnt want to tell Bryan how i felt simply because if he didnt feel ... (556 words)

Why did he call me after all this time? I'm worried he won't call again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Im 19 year old girl and my situation is this...i used to work in hotel with this one guy and i really fancied him and at the time i thought he fancied me too but nothing ever happened so i left work to go to university. I havent seen or heard from him for the past 6 months ... (206 words)

Should I tell my mom my brother's taking drugs???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I NEED HELP!!! This has really nothing to do with relationships, but my mom asked me to find out whether or not my older brother is doing drugs(he is). She is worried about him and wants to know what's going on. Now I told her that's unfair to ask me to do. Her reply was well... (178 words)

I'm 13 and my boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need you advice. My boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me, but I think I am too young. What do you say? I really would like to have sexual intercourse, but I'm not sure whether I am old enough to decide that.... (44 words)

How do I say NO to my ex boyfriend's best mate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a single, young woman of nineteen years and I am currently in a friends-with-benefits kind of thing with two young men my age (only making out). I honestly do not feel good about any of this. You see, one of these guys is my ex-boyfriend's best friend, who has apparently ... (200 words)

To scenarios to enable me to talk with her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really need help! I like this girl and she likes me. When we are at school she's often quiet. I want to be able to talk to her. I want to use the time and just talk. Do I walk up to her and just start talking? Would that make her comfortable?? I would like two scenarios I ... (75 words)

He was all sweetness one minute then the next says he's not IN love with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age - Dear cupid, I wrote you a month ago. My boyfriend said he loved me but is not in love with me. I stayed with him for a month after that. He said his feelings might change. I don't know what happened, he was so nice and sweet and then one day he says he's not in love with me.... (151 words)

How do you purge "successfully"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you purge successfully? I have tried and nothing seems to work, I am desperate to lose weight quickly.... (21 words)

I've given up on finding love.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've given up on finding love. I feel like love is a really special thing that everyone is entitled to, however it seems that it's just not meant for me. I've become really cynical and find myself avoiding all my friends who have significant others because it makes me feel ... (85 words)

I snooped - will he take me back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age - Just recently I snooped on my boyfriend's computer and I got caught. He never accused me or discussed it. He just came out of the computer room with this smirk on his face and started acting pissed. I asked him what's wrong and he said "I think you know". Later that night I ... (163 words)

I think I am loose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When I first started dating my now husband, I cheated on him. Now he has mention that I am loose. What do I do. What do I do to not be loose. Is it possible that he was just trying to be mean? I wouldn't put it past him. I have heard that girls are loose all the time from my ... (77 words)

I'm not sure now if I did the right thing... advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'm 18 and just dumped my bf of 2 years. He's spoilt and full of pride. When I dumped him I was kind of hoping he would beg me not to. Instead he just said ok! It hurt so bad and I really don't know what to do...... (51 words)

I have a boyfriend but have a crush on someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 13 year old girl who has had a crush on a guy 2 years older than me for a few months now. At the same time I still feel strongly about my boyfriend. Unfortunately I'm not sure if he feels the same anymore. If things are to die with my current boyfriend should I hook up... (75 words)

Been together 10 years but he said he'll NEVER tie the knot...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 25 year old female. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. We have a 8 year old daughter together. When we first meet we began shopping for wedding rings. He told me he wants me to have the best. Now later down the line he has said nothing about a wedding to me. ... (117 words)

Why am I turned off by boyfriend's attention (or lack thereof) to my breasts?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - When my BF and I started dating, we talked a lot about sex, what we liked, what we didn't ,etc. I made it clear how much I liked my breasts to be touched, etc and he happily complied (or so I thought). Although he says he's not a Breast Man, but he has a subscription to a tit ... (261 words)

We're ready to move our relationship up a notch... how is this usually done?

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16 February 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hey... I'm 18 and I have very little experience with the whole "dating" thing. I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months, and I think we are ready to move up a notch in our relationship (I'm talking physically here)... Ok, I should say I think I'm ready, I know that he ... (74 words)

Childish behaviour?

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly two months now and we had our first proper argument the other day. At an inappropriate time I mentioned how sometimes she can be selfish in always doing the things she wants to do. We soon made up however but a day later she ... (214 words)

What a guy wants...?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question to be answered by the fellas. It seems it is so confusing what you guys want. You all want sex and you want to sleep with a girl early on in a relationship. But, if a girl does sleep with you early on, then she is too easy and you become uninterested. ... (128 words)

He never wants to spend quality time with me and I'm beginning to distrust him.

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old black girl dating a 50 year old white guy, we've been dating for a year now. He told me that he separated with his wife but my corncern is he only sees me during weekends and he told me that he will make love to me if only I get tested! I agreed and the ... (93 words)

Her ex popped up just as I was leaving. I find this difficult to handle.

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16 February 2009 (M)

age - I recently spent the night with my girlfriend to celebrate valentines. The next morning I left to go home and an ex she had intimate relations with dropped by to use the restroom. I had a real issue with it and he knew she was seeing someone. So she hugged him and invited him ... (96 words)

I fell in love with my soulmate but it's a friend of my wife...

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, Let me just come right out and say it, I fell in love with one of my wife's friends. Yes, I'm sure I will get bashed here but it wasn't something I planned on doing. I have known this person for 7 YEARS and always found myself with her even before having the feeling of ... (320 words)

How can I keep the noise down during sex?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a little daft asking I think but here goes... I live in uni halls, a block of 16, and our walls are very thin. Last time my boyfriend came over to stay the night my next door neighbour made a joke about being able to hear everything through the walls and although we ... (180 words)

My ex now has a new lady friend and it hurts so much to see him with her.

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - We split up 6 months ago after years of arguing and near break ups, 3 kids and awful arguments. I was happy and we seemed to get on much better but now he has met a new 'lady' and everything has changed. I don't want him back but it hurts so much. I can't stop thinking about ... (85 words)

Mother in law is slowly dying and do not know how to cope with her...

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My mother in law has a dehabilitating illness that will eventually kill her, there is no known cure and her condition has gotton extremely bad. It is now to the stage that she falls over about 4 times a day in her house. She would then either call the neighbour, my husband or I ... (459 words)

I couldn't get an erection because I was too nervous, how can I relax more?

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 15 and the other day I went to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time (my first time ever), but I couldn't get an erection. I already posted a question on why this was and people said it was because of nerves, if this is the case then, what can I do to stop... (72 words)

Do I have an STD???

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What's wrong with my genitals? I have this blister on my genital (bottom part) and it burns and itches, I try some cream to make it better but a few days later it comes back again.... could this be an STD? I am too shy to go to doctor and show them. - -; ... (56 words)

Tormented because my skin is too black.

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am slim, tall, and I think I am pretty enough in my face. But I have very very very dark skin and in my country this is not a good thing. It affects your life badly, I will not have marriage proposals or the ones I do get will not be good offers. No man wants a wife with ... (383 words)

I've just had sex with my TEACHER!

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had sex with my teacher last week and I don't know what to do. I can't look him in the eyes any more, I feel ashamed and bad. Can somebody give me an advice what to do?... (42 words)

Should we slow it right down and just date for a while and see what happens? Someone help!!!

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I came out of a long term relationship and after 5 weeks I met Lucy. She had come out of a 9 year marriage just 4 months before. Her husband walked out on her and her son. We hit it off straight away and the chemistry was electric. We didnt go out that much but had an amazi... (810 words)

2 men... only one heart.

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need advice, my chilhood sweetheart and I had a son whom is now 6 years old, I am now married to another man and my ex works away we usually keep in contact via text or pm etc, he has recently told me him and his wife are getting a divorce and that he has always loved ... (275 words)

Online dating!

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Has anyone had any good outcomes from online dating? I started online dating in September 2008 and met someone in November, it didn't work out and shes put me off for life :(. She was very insecure and has major ex boyfriend issues, I didn't find this out until I really fell ... (126 words)

Does this mean that he really does want me for me, that he doesn't just want me for sex?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A few years ago, I worked with a guy for a few months and I didn't really think anything of it. I went on a night out and bumped into him, we ended up going back to his place and I spent the night with him and had sex, we were both drunk. This was about 3 years ago. Sinc... (401 words)

Am I over-analyzing or what??

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I like includes quotes when she emails me sometimes. Her latest, which she started her last message with, got me thinking: "If you make it plain you like people, it's hard for them to resist liking you back." Am I over-analysing now? Or...?... (48 words)

B/f can't focus beyond where his brain stops processing

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My b/f is not very experienced in the sex department. Although he seems to know what he is doing, he is still very unsure of a lot. Especially for his age. :o( So here's the thing. I've told him a few times that my fav. thing is to be fingered. So the other night when he wa... (215 words)

My b/f is so unromantic!

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this is now getting 2 my nerves,my boyfriend is soo unromantic,like on valentines,he didnt get me anything,i feel so sad and jealousy when i see how other gals r treated special. what can i do to change him and upgrade him because this sometimes affects our relation... (63 words)

I'm having sexual thoughts about my mate's MOM!

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I don't know how to say this but I have sexual thoughts about my friend's fat mum. Should I try something with her or what or is that wrong??... (32 words)

My room mate also happens to be my ex husband and my boyfriend finds that difficult...

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an interesting situation in my life, and not sure how to help my boyfriend understand it. I have a roommate - who also happens to be my ex hubby. I AM divorced from him. We have been the best of friends since we were 16 (both in our mid to late 30's now). We have one ... (418 words)

I don’t think he’s had time too heal... what should I do?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m confused. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year; I love him a lot and care for him. He has a child of 3 with another woman... A few days ago she called and they ended up arguing. He was really upset, he said when she broke up with him just before we met she broke... (263 words)

I must be the world's worst girlfriend...

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always had a problem with commitment and very rarely do I get past 3 months with a guy. It normally gets to a point where sex stops, I don't get in the mood for it, any little things that they do really irritate me... but it's not them, I know it's me but I don't know ... (365 words)

I am not happy with her double standards!

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16 February 2009 (M)

age - I have a girlfriend of over 4 years. She has 2 kids (18 and 20) due to her request of no sex or sleeping over while the kids were in the house, until they were 18 years old. This request was made years ago. Now that they are both of age I told her that I wanted some changes, ... (239 words)

Is it possible to keep communication without feeling pain or disappointment?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Since the man I was dating the last year wasn't taking our relationship seriously I don't call him any more and I have told him that I see him as a friend from now and in the future. Although these aren't my real feelings I pretend that I don't have any real interest for him. ... (128 words)

My latest boyfriend refuses to lick me clean after sex!

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My latest boyfriend refuses to lick me clean after sex, is it too much to ask? It's his mess after all? All my previous boyfriend's were happy to do it.... (31 words)

I feel so slutty! Please help me!

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really need help :/, I'm only fifteen and I can usually get boys with ease but everytime I go see a boy, This may sound werid but I always get really horny and want sex with them and straight after it I always seriosuly regret it and feel really r... (144 words)

Am I too scared to commit?

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16 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I am going to cut the self pity part and simplify it- I have so far had 4 serious bf's and one serious hook-up. (by serious I mean, I really really REALLY liked them) 3 of them cheated on me. One even had sx with another girl while i was on a trip, and the other one kissed one ... (237 words)

End of a long relationship! I'm only 15! Help!

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really need help. My ex boyfriend left me after a 1 year and 4 month relationship and I cannot cope at all... Throughout our relationship he always said these things exactly: "I promise that I love you and only you" "I promise that We'll be together forever" "You... (387 words)

I like him, he's not over her! Is there something more between us?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im newly single. left my ex to live a life. around new years i met this guy, lets call him j. when i first met him i told him i didnt want anything because i just got out of my engagement... well, we hit it off pretty well, and i ended up sleepin with him. we slept together a ... (402 words)

I trust my boyfriend but don't trust the girl who likes him!

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay umm there is this female i'm-a call her H she happends to like my boyfriend you know it wasnt really a problem at first i mean they had went out before but they broke up. so me and H have known each other since about 6th grade we have bumped heads a few times but that is ... (114 words)

How do you offer fellatio?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how would you give head to your boyfriend?? do you let him cum in your mouth? do you deep throat? i NEED details... (26 words)

He was my first, what can I do to get over him!?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, Me and my boyfriend split a few weeks ago, because I moved states.... And within a week of us breaking up, he slept with 2 people....And then continued to mess with my head for a week after. Like one day he would say he still loves me and only wants me...Then the next... (117 words)

I want to have sex but a promise I made stops me...

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i love my boyfriend and all and i want him to be my first BUT i promised my frends that i wouldnt lose it till i was a FRESHMAN. a promise is a promise but i aint sure that it is a promise i can keep cause everytime i think about him and me doin the nasty it just makes me so ... (87 words)

If I didn't bleed during first time sex, what does this mean?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my question is..if i didn't bleed on our first intercourse does that mean I'm not virgin anymore? I'm worried about it..i feel that something has changed from him towards me...what will i do..i know in myself and god knows that he is the first man who touches me...please help ... (53 words)

I freeze up when it comes to sex at the age of 22, please advise!

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Advise Please, Ok here it goes, im 22 and sadly still a virgin, not a bad looking guy but when it comes to getting in bed with a girl, i just freeze up....down there if you know what i mean :( ... I dont know if its lack of confidence or what so any advise or help would be ... (61 words)

We don't trust each other with our friends, what do I do?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy is of the feeling that his best friend likes me..This has created some kind of misunderstanding in between us.No proper understanding:(:(However I am very sure that there is nothing like what he thinks.We even had a talk on this.The reason what's making him feel... (191 words)

Is he serious about me?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy from work and I have had a crush on each other for 3yrs, but we never did anything about it because I had a boyfriend. Recently I broke up and with my boyfriend and this guy found out. Since, he happens to be head of my work group and also my soccer captain (co-ed ... (411 words)

Bisexual or lesbian?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a relationship with this guy. I'm 17 he's 20. I like him alot. but i think i might like girls MORE than him? ive always found myself sexually more attracted to females. and i dont want to hurt his feelings...im confused! i love him..but would rather be with ... (55 words)

Why is phone sex all he wants from me????

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok me and this guy have been talkin for awhile but the thing is we never met before because we met online..i'm 18 and he is also 18. We'll be meeting pretty soon.The things that i love about him is his personality and he is good looking, and he makes me feel really good. We've ... (136 words)

Met him at a wedding, I don't know what to think, does he feel the connection as I do?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is my story its really long though,please answer my question it would mean the world to me...i'm 15 and the guy i like is 19..we live far from each other,he lives in milwakee and i live in az so we dont see each other..i went to milwakee to a wedding and we stayed at the ... (486 words)

Ex-girlfriend found someone else but continues to pursue me for sex!

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i'm confused about my ex-girlfriend.We broke up about 8 months ago. She found a new guy but we been having sex the last six months while she been with her new boy friend. She tells me how much she loves me and miss me.We meet in the morning and talk on the phone when can.She ... (173 words)

Why does he ignore me for so long but then acts like he loves me?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been "together" with this guy for about a year now. hes never made a real commitment to me and we dont consider each other our boyfriend or girlfriend. i just turned 18 and hes 21 so its hard for us to hangout on weekends and stuff bc im at parties where hes at clubs and... (240 words)

Sleeping positions during pregnancy?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I may be pregnant..if I am ...im not that far along...is it safe for me to sleep on my stomach because thats really the only way I can sleep... (30 words)

Does he still care about me or am I just seeing what I want to see??

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and i have been broken up sence the 3rd of this month but i still love him....recently i feel like he kind of still cares about me but i am not sure. 1. he stares at me in the hallways at school (but not a creepy stare lol) 2. he talks about me to people i dont ... (199 words)

She's worried she will called a whore

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! I really need some help! So theres this girl I really like. Shes hasn't lasted more then 3 days with out dating someone until now. Shes dated 3 people since shes has moved here to my town. Shes looking for a good relationship. So am I. She really likes me... (268 words)

Why would he not respond?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would a guy initiate contact with you via text, and then just not respond to you after that? This guy that I've kind of seen a couple times called me after not talking in a while, but I didn't pick up because I didn't want to seem too available, so he left a voicemail... (129 words)

I have an attraction to both sexes! I want to tell everyone...

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well.. for a start, I have a attraction to both genders. The only person who know's my sexuality is my girlfriend. I really want to tell my friends and family, but how can I? I live in a small town in the west side of British Columbia, Canada. Where I live gay's are not ... (106 words)

Is it possible to forgive in time even when the trust has been broken?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had a falling out. We live together and I broke his trust. He hasn't moved out or anything he's refusing to when in the past he has just left me. Saying he didnt love me anymore and that we were over its only been 5 days. But what I'm asking is to guys is it ... (81 words)

Told my friend he only liked me as a friend

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is my situation: My friend sent a message to my crush/guy friend asking him how he felt about me. He didn't answer. So she told me to ask him directly on msn. I did and he said he only sees me as a friend. So I'm really confused because he does these things all the ... (240 words)

They say age is just a number so why is this wrong?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm 13, almost 14, but I am VERY mature for my age. Well, there's this guy, whos name I refuse to mention, and he's freaking amazing. We have so much in common, and he likes me, well, from his behavor I can tell. So, here's my issue, he's 18, almost 19. I really, really ... (94 words)

How can he be so interested and then poof? Gone?

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I met this guy back in Jan and we got together twice, and talked on the phone every day or every other day, then he went away on business. While he was gone we would still talk over the phone every day or every other day and he would even tell me to come up there to ... (257 words)

I still feel pregnant!

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I just got off the birth control shot and I'm purposly trying to get pregnant again I was pose to get anotha shot feb.5th....never went and had sex that day and let my boyfriend bust in me....thats not the only time since then that he did that....i think in pregnant so I ... (79 words)

Was I in some way wrong? Follw up to my question

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My mother is diagnosed of a fatal disease and lives in a different part of the country. I usually fly out to meet her. I have one good friend in my city. since my mother has been sick, i have not felt like being very social. this friend has been getting very insecure and jea... (283 words)

He says we should just livein the moment

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16 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I am confused. I am leaving my country beginning of June. Me and my Bf have ben together for three months. he says he loves me, and that we should not think of that moment (when i leave). But if i am leaving that soon, he can't really love me can he? Thats very impossib... (56 words)

I never wanted a relationship with him! Why do I feel this way?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My "friend with benefits" recently told me that he had met someone who he thinks he could have a future with and doesn't want to mess it up by fooling around with me. Initially I was happy for him and dropped the "benefits" part of our friendship but as time went on the more I ... (230 words)

Short girl tall guy?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do tall guys 6'3/6'4 feel about short girls? I'm 5'1 and I've been feeling really insecure about it lately b/c the guy I like is around 6'3-6'4 hes a giant..how can I kiss him? is it strange to u guys if you were with a short girl? how do u feel about it? idk if ill ... (71 words)

My b/f? Or my good friend?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no idea what to do! I mean i'm only 14 and i have a boyfriend in Nicaragua who told me he loves me (which i doubt sometimes) and a really good friend...and he told me he loved me...i have no idea what to do! I have a feeling that i love them both...but sometimes i get ... (158 words)

When will I ever be attracted to another guy?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been seeing a man for 2 years, he had a girlfriend, but i was very much in love with him and believed we would end up together. I thought I would give him time to work out his life and if it was me he wanted to be with - but I wasnt. He is now married and moving on with ... (144 words)

Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners?

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners? For instance a guy in my gf's class (Im a junior shes a freshman) told me she flashed him on a bus in junior high and this bothered me. FOUR different times it came up and I asked her if it were true and it took me ... (144 words)

Is it bad that my boyfriend doesn't finger me when I give him a handjob?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it bad that my boyfriend doesn't finger me when i give him a handjob? he did it a few times in the beginning of our relationship and seemed pretty into it but for weeks now whenever we do anything sexual it's really one-sided and i don't really get anything in return. like, ... (464 words)

Tender breasts, nipples bright pink... is anything wrong with me?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - recently my breast have started to become more tender and my nipples have become a brighter pink colour im not sure if this is because they are growing or if there is something wrong. does anyone know what could be wrong or is it something i just sholdnt worry about... (56 words)

Do women actually enjoy anal?

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey do women enjoy anal? Also if me and my gf were to try it what should I do to make it as enjoyable as possible? As far as lubes, toys, and technique. Thanks.... (34 words)

Ahhh!! Out damn spots, out I say!

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - for many years i have had spots not really bad ones just ones that are always there also my whole face if just covered in black heads what is the best thing to do to get rid of them? and what makes spots worse?... (49 words)

I'm not sure I can be with someone who is so selfish in the bedroom...

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I fear I may have been a massive bitch to a boy - so excuse the length, but I need to be honest here if I am to get honest answers back. There was this guy I met at uni about 4 months ago. He was really nice and sweet and we really got on. We started off as friends and t... (391 words)

Call me a bitch or a whore but you know I'm right.

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really laid it on thick with this guy who already had a girlfriend. I even made made him cheat on his girlfriend by having sex with him while they were together. They were together for two years and broke up two months ago after she caught us going at it. At the time, I ... (234 words)

My girlfriend wants her space to think after I cheated on her.

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I cheated on my girlfriend we have been together for two about half years it was hard for me to tell her but I did she was so angry with me, I felt like the scum of the earth knowing what I had did to her it was so hard to hear her cry that much I apoligized to her mom and dad ... (143 words)

He is the PERFECTEST guy ever but my parents would shoot me, but I'm really not caring, and I just want to be with him.

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old and I've been talking to this 19 year old, I'm a freshman and he graduated last year. He always says how much he likes me and he wants to be with me, and ive had sex with him. He bought me a phone so i can text him, and he is paying for it. Hell pick me up from ... (188 words)

Would you forgive?

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My mother is diagnosed of a disease and lives in a different part of the country. I usually fly out to meet her. I have one good friend in my city. since my mother has been sick, i have not felt like being very social. this friend has been getting very insecure and jealous ... (170 words)

I don't want our friendship to end. What is going on with her? Why is she being like this?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am bisexual and have fallen in love with a girl I've known for about 6-7 months. By the way, I am 13 and so is she and I'm a girl. We go to the same school. I wanted to be honest with her so I told her I was bisexual and that I liked her. A few days ago I texted her and said ... (291 words)

What interests older men about younger girls?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What interests older men about younger girls? I'm not talking about a 40 year old and a 12 year old... I mean, like, a 30 year old and an 18 year old. She's too old to still be too innocent, and isn't that what mean are usually in to? i'm asking because my cousin is in this ... (81 words)

Does this mean I am bisexual and if so am I normal?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 weeks ago i met this girl that looked like a boy. i felt attracted to her then when i found out she was a girl i still liked her. she started to feel my legs and writing me note and i wrote them back, then one day after school we kissed I liked it but I don't know if it i... (85 words)

I wanna have sex, but I'm just too scared. Is that normal?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Eventually I wanna try to have sex but I'm still so young. I would have sex now, but I'm terrified of the condom breaking and I'm too scared to ask my mom for birth control so some of the stress of sex can rub off. I don't know how to handle this situation. I wanna have sex... (70 words)

Does anyone know if I should restart taking the pill as normal?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started on the pill about 3 weeks ago and was taking them correctly. However on Wednesday (I'm posting this on Sunday) I was travelling from uni to my boyfriend's and the sachet I had brought with me somehow fell out of my bag on the train so I couldn't take it- I needed a ... (159 words)

What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand. It's just... his hands are so masculine, and I just want to know their feeling. Plus, I think he might like my hands as well (they're small and soft)... I feel like this sort of contact could be the threshold ... (56 words)

Sexual advice needed please.

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well I've madeout a lot and cuddled and shit but I do think I'm prude and I get pressured to get fingered and giving blowjobs and handjobs and sometimes even sex. I do wanna try to get fingered and try a handjob and a blowjob. I know what they are but I know nothing on ... (92 words)

How can I let this older man know I'm interested in him?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, I'm 18, I live alone and have a daughter age 2, I know a man from working at my uncles gym he lives a couple of doors away from me, well I really really like him and got feeling for him that I have never felt before, he's a lot older than me and the kind of guy I would ... (93 words)

Need some advice for my mess and his cheating......

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can you advice me? I am at the breaking point cos I don't know what else I can do. Let me explain it to you. I am a deaf mum of 1 kid and live with my hearing partner of 4 years. We are in mid 30's. Since I discovered that he's been cheating on me about 3 or 4 times but god ... (768 words)

Will having anal sex hurt me or will I feel pleasure?

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been toghether for 2 years. Our relationship got physical a while ago but he says he wants to try anal. I am really scared of doing it because it will be the first time I have done that but I don't know whether to let him or not. My question is will... (70 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I let his friend finger me???

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, One day I was at my boyfriends and he introduced me to his best friend. At first I wasn't attracted to him but as time went on I started to like him more and more. A few weeks later we were all under a blanket watching a film and he held my hand. As soon as my boyfrien... (148 words)

Why does my ex ask if I'm dating?

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16 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why does my ex girlfriend who I have a child with consistently ask if I am dating? She is the one who left the relationship and is now dating someone and I never ask her. Please advise. ... (40 words)

What should I do? I don't know how to tell him I have some what feelings for him.

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy and we've been talking for a couple weeks now. He seems like the perfect guy but people have said he's majorly prude, and very shy. But he's so hot and cute and we seem like we click. We get along very well. But I don't know how to tell him I have some what ... (86 words)

Should I just hang out with him as friends and see if maybe he ends up with me??

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16 February 2009 (F) - I've had a crush on this guy since my freshman year in High school, i'm 20 now. I recently got a Facebook account and added him as a friend. He e-mailed me so we've been talking. He asked me to hang out and gave me his cellphone number. I text him and now he has my cell phone ... (226 words)

Dating cousins.

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16 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister confided in me last night that her and our cousin have been dating. His great, great, grandfather married my great, great, grandmother and they had kids and those kids had his mom. Therefore, he is blood. As my sister told me about them dating off and on for two years ... (107 words)