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anonymous
writes:ive been "together" with this guy for about a year now. hes never made a real commitment to me and we dont consider each other our boyfriend or girlfriend.i just turned 18 and hes 21 so its hard for us to hangout on weekends and stuff bc im at parties where hes at clubs and bars that i can't go to. he used to text or call me everyday and then once the summer came and his friends came home he started texting me once a week, and now pracitically never. if we ever do hangout its bc i initiate it but when we we do he acts so into me and says how much he misses me. we went 2 months without hanging out and then at his party he introduced me to people as "his girl" and kissed me in front of all his guy friends which makes me wonder if he was just trying to show off. he ignores me a lot but then when i do talk to him he acts like he misses me so much and likes me a lot and he even says i love you. i really really like him and think about him every day but this is getting too fustrating.why does he ignore me for so long but then acts like he loves me?boys i would really love your advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): It sounds like he's confused. He wants to go out and meet other people at clubs but probably has not been successful or feels guilty at the end of the night. When he sees you, he's reminded of how comfy he is with you, and is probably thankful to have you. But I'm sure you don't want to be the second best option. Ask him if he's sure that you are what he wants. If he says yes then ask him to make you feel more appreciated and missed not just verbally but by his actions. He should be obliged at that point.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (16 February 2009):
 hmmmmmm i really dont know...i think that when his wit his friends and is having a great time thats when he forgets you..but when his lonely and really wants someone to kiss i think thats when you come in..you guys should talk about it and if you guys dont feel the connection like before then dump him..its better then going throught what youre going through,it might get harder if you hide these feelings
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