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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She kissed another guy! How could she do that?

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a LDR and my girlfriend that's so far away called me and told me that she had made a mistake and that she and this guy kissed.. But she promised me she is not seeing her any more. We have talked it out but... I still feel like weird... from the inside... Like... how ... (61 words)

Should I break up because of a sparkless kiss?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't kissed my boyfriend because I'm nervous. I won't feel the sparks like eveyone says, I really like him honestly I don't want to wreck it with a kiss and I don't want him to end it because I'm a bad kisser. I never kissed anyone so how do I kiss a boy like when do I ... (84 words)

Every time we get really close he seems to pull away.

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28 February 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Every time we get really close he seems to pull away. I know he was very hurt before by a girl he loved and who was very disrespectful to him not even going to his mothers funeral and they lived together for years. with me he loves but yet will find something little to get ... (225 words)

How to bag him for myself???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If I really like someone and that guy, I'm really close to but he doesn't want to be in a relationship now... what shall I do to get his heart because it is really hard for me to forget about him. He is exactly my type of guy and I really adore him and he really likes my ... (82 words)

Why is he so tough and unreasonable all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I took the situation the wrong way and was hurt and angry. When understanding what really happened I realized I was wrong and apologized. He told me I was being disrespectful to him to not even say goodbye. Now he is angry and said he needs time. If I call him I think it ... (121 words)

Why would girls prefer the chasing of a guy instead of the safety of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I just had to break up with my gf of 7 months today because I found out that a month earlier while we took a one week break she asked an ex of hers out and only took me back because he rejected her. I know it's not like she cheated on me but that's still a shitty thing to do ... (231 words)

What should I do here for the best? I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Well I feel kind of silly asking strangers for help but I don't know what else to do or who else to ask. I was a single parent for a couple of years when I met my current partner, at first it seemed like the ideal relationship, he showed interest and love towards my son and ... (290 words)

Should I keep me mouth shut and hope for it all to fall in me favour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me best mate is a woman. I've been in love with her since Year 9. She is getting married in six months. She frequently tells me she's getting cold feet about it all and I try to reassure her that she picked the right guy. But in my heart, I know I am the right guy for her. I ... (297 words)

Comingout question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. i am a male, 18, and have recently decided that the time has come to tell my family that i am gay, but i have no idea how i should tell them and am worried that i will just run off when i am about to. also, should the truth have come out earlier - will it be unexpect... (75 words)

What is causing the unpleasant 'fart' noise during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sometimes when i have sex with my boyfriend, i make an unpleasant 'fart' noise. it only happens when i go on top and i won't do this now even though my boyfriend likes this. i thought it was the condom but i dont think it is anymore. what is causing this and how can i stop it ?... (58 words)

I resent that she's turned the tables on me and wants me back AGAIN.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Having read much of the excellent advice given on here I am hoping that someone can help me. Over my 17 year marriage my wife and I have split up 3 times. The first time was after 8 years and was partly because of my social anxiety disorder affecting out social life (now cured) ... (442 words)

I think I have schizophrenia, but I don't know how to tell my family...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people fellow advice givers, well, I have schizophrenia, and I just don't know how to tell my parents, I mean I have not been diagnosed with it but I have researched alot about is and I am really convinced that I am,and i want to tell them, but I am scared of what they ... (100 words)

Everyone knows we're lesbians but our parents, should we tell them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend erin (yes she is a girl) and i have been dating for a little. we've fooled around and made out. everyone who knows us knows that we are gay. they've seen us make out in public. the only people who dont no are our parents. we dont no if we should tell them but i ... (67 words)

Why does he tell me he wants me and to marry me but doesn't do nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. What is it with me. I spilt up with my ex 6 months ago. I have thought bout him everyday missing him. Wishing he was here. Wandering what hes doing.wanting him back. He has just come to me and said that he loves me so much and realises what he had with me. He was ... (376 words)

What should you do with your hands when you kiss a guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When you kissing a guy, what should you do with your hands? I always end up doing nothing with then when he is having a good feel but I am a little shy to feel him, will that come with confidence, even when he put my hands on him, I just kinda freeze.... (54 words)

I'm feeling a little unsure..I'm dating a "womanizer"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have liked this guy at work for a while and we finally snogged, the thing is I am not the type of girl normally just to do that sort of thing and I think he now thinks we have this sort of work thing, it was good but I am very shy and to be honest I don't have a clue why I ... (134 words)

He had sex, said he loved me but now says we shouldn't be together

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i met a guy in may 07 whom i work with. he is muslim and very religious. we were instantly attracted to each other and started to spend alot of time together. one thing led to another and we had sex. things changed as this was wrong in his beliefs so we tried to be just frien... (304 words)

What is he REALLY saying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i really really need your help. wt does it mean when a guy asks you to ask him what you mean to him, and then so u ask him and he says to me your a gurl?? is that him blowing me off or is that him not being able to tell me how he really feels. help plz... (69 words)

I care about him too much to be just a "hang out partner"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So. I have a friend I've known since middle school and we have been hanging out together alot. I've expressed an interest in him, and he kind of backed away for a while. When I started kinda ignoring him he asked me out on a date and since then it's been really relaxed kind ... (196 words)

Why is he such a playboy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this guy (22), you could call us friends I guess. We we drunk and ended up kissing one night. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. I found out the very next night he tried to do something with a random girl! And we went to a party with all of our mutual friends ... (140 words)

Should we have sex or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im really young but my boyfriend and I want to have sex. we have fooled around naked but never did it for real. should we go for it or wait. [Moderator's note: Please add your real ages in case you registered with a wrong age which is the one that will be displayed. Thank you.... (55 words)

I accepted his apologies, why doesn't he accept mine?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age - I got jealous and was mad and Hurt. In turn i hurt him because he looked at differently and saidthat I was being disrpectful. Which looking back I was rude and disrespectful but I was enraged. things appeared to be different than they were. After talking with him I understand ... (115 words)

Doubts about an ex!

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my partner and i have been together for a year. when i met her she was renting out a house to her ex girlfriend and also her ex had taken over vehicle payments on a leased car. my problem with it all is that my girlfriend wont stop helping her out because she says she feels bad ... (149 words)

Moving country for a bit and unsure what to do with the guy I care for immensely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. Me and this guy had been texting, bumping into eachother on the odd occasion and having very few one-to-one sit down chat sessions to start off with. But one thing is sure, there was some major sexual chemistry between us both. A month ago he visited me (spur of the mom... (331 words)

My "text" affair has gone wrong and I fell for him, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a happily married woman who has been having a text 'affair' with an older fella who I met through work although we don't work together. He is in a position of high standing and he has made me feel good and given me confidence. I feel he started the flirty stuff and also ... (332 words)

Is he playing head games and should he be ignored?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age - Color me confused here, but here is the situation. I met a guy online, we hit it off great. He was funny, intelligent, compassionate...all of the things women like. We have been chatting via phone and IM for a long time and then boom out of the blue, he starts playing head ... (234 words)

"Maybe", "Let Me Think About It"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. Ok, for the last 2 weeks I have liked a girl that works in a pharmacy nearby my house. I am really bad at conversations and every time I try to talk to her when checking out, I end up looking like a completely and total idiot. Most of the time, nothing comes out when I ... (279 words)

He's having sex with someone else, but he finds no problem telling me about it.

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I been going through some shit lately. He's having sex with someone else, but he finds no problem telling me about it. He tells me it's only because of the kids he loves me, so it's best if we keep just a friendly relationship. When I do and I associate ... (165 words)

Sickness Phobia

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and I have a fear of other people being sick, I've had it as long as I can remember. When I was younger I was scared of being sick too but I've kind of grown out of that, I don't like being sick but I am not terrified of it half as much as I am terrified of ... (201 words)

My boyfriend's best friend is unconsciously trying to sabotage our relationship!

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my boyfriend's best friend is unconsciously trying to sabotage our relationship! His best friend is a girl and anyone with working eyes can see she has a thing for him. My boyfriend insists they are just friends, though. But when he says that, I can see it in his eyes ... (267 words)

A married woman and me...Relationship complex??/

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I answered few questions of the group... all of them related to relationship with a married woman. My question is to seek ways to come out of the feelings left out in my mind even after I stopped the relationship. Really shattered. I sometimes feel like I have committe... (107 words)

How can I stop this mindset and get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age - I lived with Tim for 8 years. We owned a home together and moved out last April. Main problem was his ex-wife and his kids. The Ex harrassed and stalked me during those years, I did have a restraining order and she broke it 21 times. The kids were older and the youngest ... (182 words)

What can I do? My boyfriend is in love with his ex!

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is still in love with his ex!! I asked him to tell me truth if he still loved her and he said yes but he really doesn't want to be, they split up years ago but this is the only woman he's ever been in love with and the only woman that he's ever seen himself ... (102 words)

Is it bad to fall in love with your own aunt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Please HELP, I am a young guy and I fell in love with my mom's sister and we both are in love for 2 years, we did everything (kissing, licking, pressing) but not sexual intercourse, is this bad to fall in love or to marry own aunt? This is not a one sided love, we both love ... (84 words)

He's so hot he could get any girl he wants. Is he interested in me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How would I know if he likes me! I'm in matrick, almost 18, he is 25 and my youth leader. He is so nice, but he is nice to everybody, he is supposed to be. I like talking to him, he makes me smile and laugh. At church he he always says hello and talks to me a lot. I have no ... (140 words)

How can I start talking to her without looking like an idiot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey anyone and everyone :P Basically my situation here is that there is a girl on my bus to college in the mornings who I really can't stop thinking about but we have never said a word to each other and I'm not the most confident of people, rather shy in fact. I'm ok whe... (215 words)

Have I been single for too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age - Hi, As a single parent of 2 teenagers still reeling from the effects of acrimonious and lengthy, energy-sapping divorce I have lost all sense of self and fun and ability to enjoy life. Since the failure of this relationship I have had problems with confidence, esteem and ... (261 words)

Is this really a size zero diet?

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28 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - If I do a 2-4-6 diet, for example, one day fast, the next day eat 200 cals, the next day 400 cals, the next 600 cals, and then the next fast again, and go round in this cycle would it be possible to get to size zero? With only doing small exersise, for example, 15 minutes ... (111 words)

Do you think dating other girls can make her jealous or do you think my hope is lost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated this girl for about a year, pretty much all throughout our senior year of high school. we took things very slow and over the course of the rest of the school year and into summer we fell in love. We were each other's best friend and told each other everything. we had ... (1435 words)

I am afraid to perform fellatio, can there arise any problems from this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am afraid to kiss my boyfriend's penis or suck the fluid off him but he wants me to do that. is that safe is there no problem in sucking? is there a problem that can arise in the future from this?... (42 words)

I have probably took my virginity away by masturbating and I'm scared!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my mom thinks i'm a virgin.but i really don't know either.Because i have been masterbating and probaly unvirgined myself.what should i do?tell my mom or get checked but my mom has to come with me?if she finds out that i'm not she is going to kill me.... (47 words)

I like him but I get the sense he can't be bothered. Do I forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started talking to a guy lately, we have known each other for three years through friends but we have never really talked properly. He texted me a lot for a few days but then started to lose interest, I texted him but I could tell he couldn't be bothered so I wasn't goin... (129 words)

How can I last longer? It's driving me insane!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a huge problem. For the past couple of weeks, every time my girlfriend and I have sex, I don't last... at all. I last maybe a couple minutes, and then bam. This never used to happen up until pretty recently, and I feel like there's nothing I can do about it, it is ... (83 words)

She's looking for a job in the states but I want her to come and live with me.

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having this LDR for 4 years now... My girlfriend went to the usa to study and I remained in Holland where I have my own House, and a good job. My girlfriend don`t want to move back to europe because she has a better job opportunity in the United States. She is done with ... (103 words)

Can you suggest ways that I should confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I did quite a bad thing: I know my boyfriend's email password and decided to check his mail last week. I came across photograph's of a young man in his underwear with captions. Obviously I want to confront him about this, but without him finding out that I obtained the ... (126 words)

Is it just a guy thing? Does he need time apart from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think this is normal? Is it just a guy versus girl thing? He needs space when there is a problem I need to talk and get resolution. I called him 3 times, this a.m. and he said I am starting to push him away. Now I understand he needs time and by me calling, it drives ... (64 words)

Am I too controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age - When he gets angry he needs to take time to himself. I think that things should be talked about immediatley and resolved. I just called him and he said that by me calling him I am pushing him away and that he just needs time to get over his anger. He is stubborn but he loves ... (160 words)

I feel like an old stupid woman!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age - I am a 53 year old caucasian woman. Been married for 28 years. My husband is 58. Have four adult children lost an only son to suicide. My husband cheated on me for 1 year with three asian young women. He had a five month affair with one and took her on 2 vacations to San ... (256 words)

He only ever sees his side of the story!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - We get along perfectly. We love each other but when we have an issue he won't work on it and runs away into his cave. I don't understand this. Why won't he try to work on it. We love each other and when we are together it is fabulous, it is when we are apart that things get ... (175 words)

I text this guy when I am drunk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help me! i cant help but text this guy when im drunk (not saying anything bad tho) sometimes he texts me back..and we talk.. i texted him last night..saying something unnecessary ..something i didnt need to say hasnt texted back going to see him at college on monday ... (102 words)

Slow, slow, quick quick slow...?????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I was wondering if people had any advice for me. I tried going on top of my boyfriend last night but it just wasn't really working. I was a bit drunk but I didn't really know what motion I was going for, the speed etc. so any advice on this would be appreciated. ... (84 words)

Do actions really speak louder than words when first dating someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Do you think its a bad sign if the person you are dating never commits to plans? OK, so I'm not a kid anymore, I'm in the later part of my 20's ... dating should be easier, more straight forward right? Well, I met this girl about a month ago who makes me feel like I'm i... (486 words)

My husband said I don't do "sexy things"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - question for man and women. how the women can look sexy ? my husband complained to me he said that i don't do sexy things.i told him buy me sexy clothes and you will see sexy.and his answer was you don't need clothes to be sexy there is other things that can make you... (84 words)

When is the time to know if I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!!! I have been very thoughtful these days, llike 2 weeks ago my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and he came inside me, so I have been thinking, when is it time to know if I'm pregnant, and what to do if I am?... (46 words)

He got mad and now he's throwing it all away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - He is so stubborn. He got mad and now is throwing it away. I am not perfect all the time. Should i keep calling him or just let him walk away. And I will suffter and cry. I know in my heart he loves me which makes this so hard, he is very good at being alone has been for ... (89 words)

What do I do? Should I avoid her calls? Is she just upset I can't provide for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have dated for almost a year now, but we've dated in the past as well. We've known eachother for a little over 15 years now. Things didn't get really serious till recently, talking about marriage and children and all of that good stuff. I lost my job a... (307 words)

Immediate changes to the body after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, this question is actually a little graphic in places, sorry. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago, it was lovely, there was hardly any pain and we stayed in the missionary position for the whole time. Since then, we've slept with each other 4 more times an... (185 words)

Myex made me think his feelings for me were rekindled but he likes someone else, how do I get over him?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well this may be long so bear with me please. well basically me and my boyfriend split up last year around october time and it was the worst point in my life as he was my everything, and well he broke up with me over txt!, after kissing me whilst on a break giving me happi... (527 words)

I have feelings for my ex but also for another girl, who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - there is this girl that i like and she likes me back and now we are getting really close to each other, now the thing is i just have broken up with my girl for about a month and a half now, well now she is coming back to me and even said that she still loves me and i can see ... (288 words)

I feel bad for treating him like this and he keeps on forgiving me, what is wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I moved to Denmark half a year ago to be with my absoloutely wonderful boyfriend. but I have been acting strangely lately towards him I can't understand why or where that comes from. I was very depressed for some time because I had no friends, the weather was too cold and I ... (231 words)

My ex does not allow me to get involved as much as I would like as her pregnancy is developing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my ex gf is now 21weeks along and we have been on and off for the past month, most of the time we get along but other times we argue like crazy just over baby things, she knows i want to be apart of this babys life full heartedly and would do anything for this baby but shes ... (168 words)

I'm ready for sex but I don't like my body!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello (Im 14 and im still at school ) i have liked this boy for about 2 years now i told him last wednesday and he was like oh ok me and him had a fight on thursday he said sorry on friday and he gave me a long hug at break then he gave me another one at lunch then in my... (274 words)

Should I tolerate every wrong than live with the social stigma of being divorced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got married to a man who everyone told me was respectable and no one had anything bad to say about him. I saw him once following tradition, my father sat and spoke with him as did my brothers the one thing I asked was that they notice how tall he was. In Kuwait at ... (995 words)

I'm unsure about whether I should give the relationship another try if we live closer to each other in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who lives many miles away from me for 8 months. We recently broke up after I found out that the entire relationship was almost all lies. He has cheated on me twice, lied about his sexual past, and said that he was never really ... (256 words)

Can it really work being friends with an ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - can being friends with ex's really work? or are they wanting you to stay in their lives so one day they can come back? i am so inexperienced, my bf broke up with me about 2months ago. we have been together for well over 4 years. we were best friends and first loves. he d... (328 words)

Are his thoughts as abnormal as he thinks they are?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I seperated in January 08. I don't think he really has any problem but I need to support him so I am looking for advice. He has always looked at other women, and I have never had a problem with it, in fact I would point out attractive women to him! Last year h... (374 words)

I don't know if I should break up with my LD b/f or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

- I dont know if I should break up with my long distance bf or not. Now, usually, I am the type of person who is very determined and commited to making something work, especialy realtionships. I dont give up easily on things- I always try my hardest, and in fact, I probably... (1024 words)

He proposed but his mom didn't approve so he broke things off

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i and my colleague were good friends for nearly 1 year.later it turned to love.we both started liking each other.but he proposed me recently.even i said ok...we were close for nearly 1 week.but on feb 13 he told me that his mother wont agree for marriage so we w... (119 words)

I need to get over him but something keeps pulling me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay this is kinda long but I'm just desperate for answers. okay there's this guy that I liked since last May and before I started liking him, he would always stare at me, whenever I would pass by him, he wouldn't look at me until I turn around to look at him then I see him ... (270 words)

More romantic & less painful?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im still 14 and my boyfriend is still 16. He has been hinting that he wants to finger me. As we are making out, he slides his hands dow my body to my waist and on my thighs. Recently, he has made his way down to my vagina, but with my clothes on. He applied pressure to tell me ... (171 words)

What is a female orgasm?

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - what is female orgasm? How a male can feel that female has enjoyed with intercourse? ... (17 words)

He treats me like his girlfriend but on myspace he says he is single

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am best friends with my ex. We have twin sons together. He has started wanting me over all the time. He is kissing on me in public and cuddles me all the time. If i am in pain he tries to help me get rid of it. He is treating me like his girlfriend, but on his myspace it says ... (76 words)

Years of seduction

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am an Egyptian brother, 26 years old my sister is 21 now. I started to like my sister a few years ago, but till now had only mildly flirted with her by undressing in front of her or uncovering ******* and body while asleep when shes watching, she likes to watch me and ... (142 words)

I fight alot with my b/f and now I've been out with another guy

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so,im 16,my boyfriend is 18 we have been together for almost a year now. he broke up with me after a month of beging together,and we got back together a week after. a few months after that, i broke up with him for another guy..(huge mistake!) but, after about a month, we ... (288 words)

Am I just a rebound for when his relationships end?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been friends with a guy for 8 years now. we've always got along well and flirted a little. when his 1st relationship ended 5 years ago we slept together but it went no further. then we had a couple of dates 2 years back but things got confusing. (neither of us are the type ... (170 words)

What do I do when my ex boyfriend is texting me?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year broke of with me in november by text message. I know right? bad news.... We didnt talk for about a month until he texted me in january wanting to see our dog that we had together. Trying not to be a bitch i went and took the dog and saw him. He asked me ... (397 words)

Bad reputation to see 2 guys from my office?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there! Just a quick question. I am separated from my husband and currently going through divorce proceedings. Basically he started sleeping with another woman and I found out about it - so that was that. Anyway since then I started dating a guy from work. I've known hi... (346 words)

She says she doesn't want me to date her since she's sick - But I want her!

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Please tell me what is going on. I met this wonderful girl. She is like no one I have ever met before. And, I enjoyed talking with her more than any girl before, and I can't imagine that I could ever meet anyone where everything she says or even just the sound of her voice ... (380 words)

He does sweet things..does that mean he likes me?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I just met a new guy and I'm beginning to like him but I'm not sure whether or not the feelings are mutual. We both recently got out of relationships and although I'm not looking for a new one, it still feels good to know that feelings are shared. On th... (154 words)

Why do I have a problem with the fact she's not a virgin?

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. My girlfriend's 17, and we get along really well. We've only been dating for about a month, and everything's happy fields of candy dandilions, etc. A small sticking point for me though, is the fact that she's not a virgin. I don't know why this bothers me, I expect girls to ... (89 words)

What does she mean by "She doesn't deserve me?"

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay girl this question is mostly for you but guys feel free to answer too. okay well my gf(ex now) broke up for many reasons but one i didnt quite understand is she said she doesnt deserve me. or she thinks she doesnt deserve me i forgot which one but anyway any ideas on what ... (61 words)

Questions about masturbation

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've heard that women can tell if you mastrabate. Is that true? Also, (women) what do you think about guys who do it? I know it's natural and stuff, but really... Thanks... (36 words)

Would a romantic getaway be our chance to deepen the relationship?

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28 February 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have a relationship with a gorgeous older woman. She is over 15 years older than I am. I am considering inviting her on a romantic weekend away. I am debating about whether or not it is a good idea to ask her on a weekend away. Is it a good idea? We often go out but have ... (340 words)

I lied to my BF and told him I'm not a virgin - should I tell him the truth?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend. I really truly love him but I lied to him about not being a virgin and he believes me. Should I tell him that I am or should it remain a secret ?... (40 words)

Does this mean you never loved me?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - rite!this is a question for the guys neh! if i dump u and u didnt seem t0 care,u dont b0ther calling,when u see me u juts pas me by,u dont beg 4 forgiveness in fact u seem prity okay bwt the brake up of a two year relationship but u know that i love u so much that if u really ... (76 words)

Am I supposed to wait for her or say to heck with it?

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Last June my best friend got married. As bestman i escorted the Brides cousin down the isle. During the rehearsal and wedding we had so much fun. we just clicked. We spent all last summer together. weather we were talking on the phone or going out to eat or whatever. we were ... (317 words)

Ladies: Use your women's intuition - is this girl into me?

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to know if this girl is interested in me or not, and I would prefer it if only girls answer to this post. I've know this girl since freshmen year, and we talk but we weren't like best friends or anything. A month ago I broke up with my girlfriend and I think my frie... (383 words)

I know I should wait to have a baby, but it's soo hard!

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm gonna be 18 soon and like a lot of other girls my age I really want a baby....I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I know it doesn't sound like a long time but I know he's the one..we live together were together everyday and I love him more than anything in ... (138 words)

Really like my long distance fella, but falling for his closeted sister!

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - k so I am in the most incredible relationship with this guy and things are fabulous. We have a bit of distance between us so we see eachother whenever we can. All is great. He has a sister (17) (fyi I'm 19-20 and he is 21-22) n e ways, His sister is a closet lesbian and I am ... (131 words)

Pregnancy cramps - is this normal or should I consult a different doctor?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please don't tell me to ask my doctor about this because i have and she didn't give me an answer. i was wondering if any other pregnant women have had cramps and felt there abdomen harden. i know that's a sign of it contracting, but i get it once or twice a day. is this normal ... (65 words)

All we've done is kiss, but I want to go further... any advice would be great!

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well i am 14 years old and my bf is 16. we have been dating for 8 months. All we have done is kissing and making out. We want to go further. What is the best way to get in the mood. If he fingers me will it hurt? When we have sex will it hurt a lot? I am a little nervous but ... (75 words)

How do I let my sick Dad know I've forgiven him for cheating on my Mom?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - um...hello i need your help my dad and mom divorced because of my dad's cheating, but now he is suffering because he has poor health, he thinks i'm angry at him, but the truth is i can't find the courage to tell him i've forgiven him a long time ago. ... (80 words)

She's beautiful, and perfect for me... I think she's falling in love, what should I do?

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a best girl friend. i fell in love with the wrong person i got really hurt and she was always there to cheer me up, make me laugh, distract me from things etc. so far shes done a great job. when im with her i forget about every problem i have and my heart is healing but ... (203 words)

How do you get over a young love bad relationship?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get over a bad relationship.. In short: Fell inlove He ran away to come be with me Spent lots of time together Had sex He wanted me to be pregnant I wasn't He went back home Broke up Lots of arguing Found out I had an STD Lots of arguing.. I stil... (119 words)

I'm getting mixed messages from my ex - what is going on here?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About 5 months ago the love of my life broke up with me, said he didn't love me anymore.. after I had just went up to El Paso, Texas to visit with him. I fell in love with him all over again and then I started nagging him and I think thats what triggered him to not want to be ... (248 words)

She thought I called her ugly and fat, how can I fix this?

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i need some help about this. this afternoon i went over to my g/f's house and its mostly everytime i go there we end up touching each other or having sex. so today when i went over her house i told her that we could only go up to the touching part and not go all the way and ... (327 words)

Is there any way to kinda like "help" make a girl like me?

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a quick question. I am a freshman in high school and I've been kinda lonely since all of my friends have girlfriends and I wish I had someone to talk to and stuff like they do. The only problem is that it seems like no girls like me. I'll admit, I am a little on the ... (130 words)

We're underage but want to have sex, where can we buy condoms?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm under 16 and i want to have sex with my bf the only problem is we need some condoms and we dont no if we are aloud to buy them and where ... (35 words)

Is she pushing me away because she thinks we're moving too fast?

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - so here it goes.... I met a great girl at the start of the year. We went out...went out again two days later ended up having a wonderful time. Things were great, she'd call/text all the time, etc. Then two weeks into it, late at night she tells me she doesn't want to be in a ... (385 words)

I am a married woman in love with a younger guy, what do I do?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married woman in love with a younger guy, what do I do? My husband is abusive how do i get out of this marriage? ... (34 words)

He was all over me, I couldn't go through with it, he called me a lesbian and left.

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am totally inexperienced but have been curious for about a year and a half. Before that time I did not know much about my body and had never dated. I thought I was ready to fulfill my dream of sex. I got a date with a fraternity guy who is very handsome. He invited me to a ... (283 words)

Is he trying to make me feel jealous? Or is it something else?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Mi name is Sadie. Six months ago I became a counsellor at a camp for kids. I met a boy named Adrian. At first I would pass him straight because I was not interested in him. I was never even aware of his presence in a room. Two weeks later, we had a hang-out session... (673 words)

I question my love for my husband because all we do is fight

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for almost a year now. He and I are best friends. Or at least we were before we got together, it doesnt seem so anymore!!! We fight all the time about stupid stuff!!! He works out of town 3-4 days a week and is home on the weekends and we fight most of ... (369 words)

I'm told "you're pretty"..but I've never been kissed

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well latley iv been thinking is it weird that i am a middle schooler 8th grade who still has not kissed a guy my 2 best friends have not, one has a boy friend id love one but im really awkward around boys when it comes to crushes and all that. i just wanted to hear what you ... (81 words)

I say I love you when I don't think I even mean it

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really dont understand myself ya know, ok this is complicated, sorry if its a bit scatty and a bit of a jumble but yeah, lol, ok basically whenever I get into a relationship, (i'm on my 3rd in 6 months) I don't know why but I really get this stupid urge, well it's not even an ... (204 words)

Feeling terrible after having sex

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just had sex i feel terrible is this how this is soppose to feel and another thing thing is i didt use a codom should i tell my parents... (30 words)

She likes me and my best friend..what do I do?

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a question. I just recently told this girl I like that... Well I like her. She also has admitted that she has feelings for me.but the problem is she also likes my best friend. My best friend has been having bad luck with girls recently. He has been bad situations that ... (101 words)

What makes me unattractive?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know if this question is out of place on here but basically Im 24 and no one thinks im attractive guys blank me all the time yet I think I look ok so it must be me thats deluded lol. At college in a sociolly lesson the teacher did this exersise with us (which I now ... (166 words)

He picks on me alot...does he like me?

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in 8th grade and this guy always picks on me a lot. and he is the type of guy who plays sports and has lots of friends,and is always playing around with girls but hasn't kissed them. and i have 4 classes with him.(including lunch). And after every time that he would pick on ... (99 words)

I like her but shes the best friend of one of my mates

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl in my class who is really good looking, not quite the smartest but i still really like her and when we do hang out we get along. There are two problems with me liking her 1. i can't talk to her properly as i get embaressed and 2. one of my mates is her best ... (115 words)

Should I tell on her?

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28 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my girlfriend are going through a rough spell. We've dated for about 3 years. I'm a contractor and her house flooded. I did all the repairs, plus more since she's my girl. We'll I did everything but the floors and then found out that she has been on pills for several ... (98 words)

14 year old boyfriend fears

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28 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So im a 14 year old girl who is having major problems. I have never had a boyfriend or someone who likes me. I have a spinal problem, meaning im a lot shorter than everyone else my age and i have a problem with my speech. (I talk out of my nose. Not my fault. Problems when i ... (164 words)