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writes:Just recently I snooped on my boyfriend's computer and I got caught. He never accused me or discussed it. He just came out of the computer room with this smirk on his face and started acting pissed. I asked him what's wrong and he said "I think you know". Later that night I sent him an e-mail apologising, but no response. I have not called him and nor has he called me. I basically told him I'm sorry for disrepecting his privacy. However, this is not the first time I have snooped. Before I snooped this last time I was basically feeling as if our relationship was over anyway. He stop calling, coming to see me and there was a lot of silence in our coversation. We did have a great valentines day this year (2009) until I got caught snooping. If I give him some space will he take me back? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI got him back ;-) No more snooping for me!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for listening and answering. You're helpling me with my healing ;-)
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reader, anoms  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 well its possible he knows about the first time you did it but let it slip, if thats the case then he knows you definatly dont trust him, if you read his emails then i could see why he would be very unhappy, but atleast you admitted to it. you said your reliationship is almost dead but you still snooped on him so this doesnt help things does it, you really have to leave things in his hands now and let him decide what to do next, and if he wants to end it you realy should respect this, well im sure its not the positive note you wanted but good either way, he may get over it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHonestly, what made me need to snoop was there was this girl on Tagged that I belive/know he's been comunicating with. I asked him was there anything for me to worry about and he said no. However, they always seemed to be on the site on the same day. So when I went to his house this weekend I took the chance of snooping and discovered that they had been sending messages and winks to each other. I just got caught snooping. P.S. she lives in another state.
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reader, x_Raquel_x +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Hi there.... you clearly do not trust this guy, otherwise you wouldnt have snooped in the first place.
I think what you need to ask yourself is... if the roles were reversed would you like someone snooping on you?
i know my answer would be "no" to that question...so the next question would be... why should he take you back..if he does at all?
Hope I helped
Raquel xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Hi,
Ok, first off can i just ask you did you trust him in the first place? if not if you were to rebuild the problems you have together try to get trust as this is one of the main things needed in a relationship. second off try not to be too clingy as this will make him want to get away from you and thirdly try and get on with your life s normal.
hope this helps :) x
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (16 February 2009):
 how would you feel if he snooped on you? reverse the situation and act how you think he wants you to act.would you want time alone? or reassurance?? we're all human, we all snoop and if he has nothing to hide then he will be open about his computer so he shouldnt have acted this way.x
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