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writes: I am confused.I am leaving my country beginning of June. Me and my Bf have ben together for three months. he says he loves me, and that we should not think of that moment (when i leave). But if i am leaving that soon, he can't really love me can he? Thats very impossible? Reply to this Question
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (16 February 2009):
i think its hurting him that you will be leaving and is trying not to think about it- he just want to enjoy this time he is spending with you. just enjoy yourself
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Love. Seems like such a broad thing for such a simple term. Through my eyes anyway. Instead of giving you an essay, I'll just tell you it is completely and utterly possible.
The problem with many people is that they believe that love can only exist after time commitment to each other, through experiences and growth. That is one way but not the only way.
You can 'fall in love' with someone simply by connecting with that person. "Connection" works on a relative basis and is not an universal thing written in a textbook. There are no rules of engagement. It doesn't happen because you mix chemical A and B together. Love happens when one person connects with you and vice versa.
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