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writes:I had been seeing a man for 2 years, he had a girlfriend, but i was very much in love with him and believed we would end up together. I thought I would give him time to work out his life and if it was me he wanted to be with - but I wasnt. He is now married and moving on with his life.Now, I am left to pick up the pieces, my heart is still broken and i wake up every day wondering why and how this happened... I try and mix with other men to take my mind off him but i keep comparing them and wishing he would come back to me.When will I start realising there is more to life? When will I ever be attracted to another man? Reply to this Question
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Yes you'll be attracted to another man, you're going through a stage of heartbreak right now, it's normal to feel the way you do. Give it time.
Word of advice: don't date men who are already in relationships. They will say that they'll leave their SO and run off with you... but they won't. Especially not if you're already sleeping with them. If you refuse to sleep with them unless/until they dump their SO then they might actually do it, but if you give up the goods without asking anything in return then... you won't get anything in return. He has no incentive. Sounds harsh but it's the way cheating guys (not good guys, not real men) think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): I am so sorry that this has happened! You must be feeling very fragile right now. Maybe, before you get out there into the dating world again, you should take a little time out for yourself and mend a few things first. Just give yourself time to process, keep as far away from this now married guy as you can and try to build up our self-esteem again. Good luck!!!
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