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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm not sure... could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm 13 years old and I'm very scared of something I did. I had sex twice, one time I used a condom, the other time I didn't but it was only for like... 5-10 minutes. I don't know what to do!! He said something about he can sperm in that amount of time without even ... (63 words)

How can I get my friends to stop talking about my ex in front of H?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, well I'm having girl problems again like always. My girlfriend (ex now) and I broke up because she said she liked someone else and I appreciated that she told me instead of keeping it a secret and I accepted the fact that she left but I really miss her and we agreed we ... (260 words)

Is he just being a typical guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my boyfriend is always out on the field. Always driving from here to there.. Sometimes he's local. And he's been saying 'let's meet up during the day for sex.' I thought sure..but I do have a job. And I just can't get up and go as I please!! He text today saying... (214 words)

I want to hang out with someone but I have a hard time making friends. I need to get my mind off him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I broke up. I want a relationship but we agreed to be friends and hang out. I am supposed to go to his place this weekend and I can't wait. We had been living together and that meant that I was almost never alone. Now I am moved back in with my parents and I ... (153 words)

Broke it off with a married 'friend', is he trying to keep things going with me ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Long and short of it, I in the naturalist of fashions was attracted to a married guy I work with. He was also attracted to me which was learned my first year of working with him.During that time we had natural 'moments' of 'dreamy' verbal affection with hold-'hug touch', ... (475 words)

All because of a picture...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf wanted a pic of me and I sent it to him twice but he didn't get it... now he is mad at me and won't talk to me.. is this a reasonable issue for him to be mad at me about? I really want to talk to him.. what should I do ?... (55 words)

I want to take things slowly but not tooooo slowly, Opinions needed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy (man, boy, person... whatever title you choose) for 6 months now. We met when we came to school. We had both talked prior to coming to school online. We both live in residence. Anyway, short after I came to school I went out with someone he knew for ... (548 words)

Will I ever find someone not trying to get into my bedroom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Will i ever find someone who really loves me again? I know what love is, i lived it before it was with my ex fiance, We were crazy about each other, than we managed to mess everything up with the help of our parents and friends. It's been almost 4 years since i'm single. He was ... (96 words)

Is there any hope for me and my former cheater husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Im wondering If anyone can help my sitation, I was I in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4yrs. He left me 2 months ago, I found out lasy year he was having a affair with a married women for about 7 months. Any way He pleaded with me to work things out which I did,but ... (327 words)

I'm 5 months along and I'm still not showing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just want to know if there is anyone who is in my same situation or has been. I am 5 months pregnant and I have gained 15 pounds. the only thing that doesn't make sense is that I am not showing anything except a little pooch. How could I have gained as much as I have and ... (62 words)

A negative test but positive symptoms, what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i stopped taking my pill a month and a half ago and started to have sex with my boyfriend nearly everyday unprotected, but i have not started my period now it been two week late. however i have taken a pregnancy test and it was negative, although it was neg i still feel i m... (109 words)

I really want to kiss him but I don't know if he's ready.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ya so Ive been with my boyfriend for a month or so and I real want to kiss him but he's kinda of shy towards me with out his friends I'm 14 and clueless I've only kissed one guy but it was spin the bottle. And I really want to kiss him but I don't no if he's ready.... (59 words)

Should I just try to get to know her more on Facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some help with a woman i like. She is still in highschool. this is her last year. And i really don't ever talk to her that much. the only time i do is on facebook. But we have known each other when we were little kids and i know a lot of her friends and because my uncle ... (130 words)

His reactions causes more damage to me and to him than this minor incident.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - He got upset because an owner of a business he goes to ignored him to talk to me. He said I was disrespectful since I did not walk away immediately;. He was fine for the next few days when I was with him but then when he was alone he blew into a major issue and says it is ... (112 words)

I thought I was bi but I've been feeling much more attracted to women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17, and right now i feel like my head is about to explode. i thought was bi but recently i have been feeling so much more attracted to girls and my feelings for guys has sort of vanished. also i feel like i cant talk to gay/bi girls without feeling slightly intimidate . ... (59 words)

He must like me.... but am I just being bit too keen wanting him to call??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Hi all cupids... Quick question, I decided to sign up to a dating agancy 2 weeks ago and was amazed at the amount of interest I got. But within 2 hours of joining this guys literally made me laugh so much. He begged me for a date and after a few days i thought why not. We... (179 words)

Why hasn't he followed through when all the signs say he likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'd really like a guy's perspective on this please? Why would a guy meet a girl, tell his friends he likes her, give her his number, act like he likes her when he's around her but...not reply to her text asking to meet up or ask her out himself? The guy in question is si... (114 words)

How do I get him to ravage me silly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf is very wary of having sex with me but i am so in the mood to have it, i was wondering if anyone had any thoughts on how i could seduce him. i mean i want him to ravage me i want him so much. any ideas?... (49 words)

Why doesn't she want to have fun and play around like she used to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this is just a quik 1 :) iv been goin with my gf now for .... amount of time and we used to have fun and play around (coz we are too young for all the way) but lately it desn't seem she wants to, its nothing to do with her period cos..... well it just isnt lol. (its not like... (118 words)

He has a GF but is really nice to me and I'm afraid she's gonna get mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i like this guy who's my senior but he already has a gf. Of course, i hope they'd have a good relationship but there's something that's been bugging me. For one, his gf keeps glaring at me in the corridor and he's been subtly being really nice for me like when he was playing ... (148 words)

Pregnant with his child, but suspect he's gay... I'm so confused!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my partner are about to have our first child, although he's very manly ie:- sports, beer, sex, the usual, I've seen a few times now that he has been on gay porn for straight guys and shemales websites. It makes me feel sick but I don't want to confront him and embarras... (107 words)

I hate having an "All-American" name, what should I do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 and for as long as I can remember, I've been very unhappy because I hate my name. I don't even identify with it. I feel like I was supposed to be named something else. I want to legally change it, but I don't want to hurt my family. I hate the name so much it'... (212 words)

If I can't go away from her I continue to hurt myself, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - she is my friend from since 8 months, the bond of our relationship was so strong that i could feel her pain, her feelings, i used to solve her problems, one day i proposed her only to find no on her side. she never changed her attitude towards me, rather our friendship grew ... (152 words)

My girl is skiing in Austria with her guy friends and I'm a nervous wreck.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf is in austria atm, skiing with skl. i kinda dont like her doing this cos i know that her mates (boys) will try flirting with her. its been 4 days since she left, and 4 days till she comes back. i have been a nervous wreck for the last week, thinking about her, crying and ... (134 words)

I'm in love with an older friend of the family, and seeing someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this sounds crazy but it is a problem I am dealing with. I have been in love with someone for several years now that is a friend of the family. He is older than me and it is a secret affair. I feel that I am very much in love with him and my situation breaks my heart ... (180 words)

What are your thoughts on a 24 y/o male masturbating to pictures of a 16 y/o girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - What are your thoughts on a 24 year old male masturbating to pictures of a 16 year old girl? There is a girl I know that is 16 year old and I have masturbated to the thought of her. She is very cute and quite nice. I would never do anything with her in the real world becau... (88 words)

Everytime I masturbate I have bad luck, bad karma or something bad happens!

This question has 130 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - HI! This might seem silly, dumb or mentally not normal to some but i have a weird problem, so please don't judge too soon. I also don't have any mental issues, been checked by the docs so Please don't say that you have issues. It seems like that everytime i masturbate I... (275 words)

I think she's cheating as she's alot wider down there than she used to be...

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25 February 2009 (M)

age - i think my girlfriend may be having sex with some one else. she is a lot wider down there than what she used to be, i have been seeing her for a year know and i dont fit aswell as i used to. am i write in thinking this way. can some one help me out on this?... (58 words)

My boyfriend leeches off me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - so my boyfriend and i have been together a long time. he still has no job. hes not really making much of an effort to find another one. I supply alot of our entertainment money. He never has a problem using my money. Sometimes he shells out a little money to help. but ... (110 words)

I'm meeting his parents. Should I bring his mom flowers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupiters! I am going to meet my boyfriend's parents this weekend! It's a dinner at his house. I was wondering should I bring the mom flowers, or is that too much? I just think it's polite. I mean I won't go as far as bringing a dish because I don't know them that well. ... (75 words)

Once she's had her orgasm, that's it! The sex is over!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a small problem with my other half and I. We have been together for 5 fantastic years now. Been engaged for 6 months now. When my other half and I fool around she likes me to go down on here, which I like doing. I give her an orgasm and thats it. The end. Finishe... (161 words)

I'm getting so frustrated over what used to be a really fun relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have some issues with my boyfriend of over a year.. I don't know what I should do, in all honesty I don't want to leave him, but i've got to the point where I don;t think i can take anymore! He will never admit he plays any part in any argument we have- he will always make... (293 words)

Do you think he just doesn't like sex.... with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My other half keeps telling me he has no sex drive yet he can watch porn for at least 3 hours a day. Do you think that it's possible he just doesnt like sex? Dumb question I know!... (38 words)

How do I stop being taken for granted and seen for who I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year old female. I've been seeing a friend and occasionaly we makeout. But I feel he's started taking me for granted. I know I'm fulfiling some of his basic urges but I'm an attractive, intelligent girl (at the risk of sounding cocky). How can I get him to realise that ... (83 words)

Female to male anal

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - In general do women tend to like or dislike the thought of a straight male liking Anal sex and do/would they like to give it?... (25 words)

How long before I can date again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 2 years but things got sour and we broke up the other day. This was because first my mother wasn't supporting the relationship and she had banned me from seeing my boyfriend. The last time I saw him was in May last year then October the same ... (215 words)

I'm scared to death to let him go...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of a thing for each other. so I ... (258 words)

How can I ask him this? Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, the kids from our class are doing surveys about different things. Mines is about music. We have to give them to 10 different people who will take our surveys. I want to ask my crush if he wants to take mine. Tomorrow I will see him for sure when he has maths class. ... (79 words)

Is it okay to start getting affectionate with a friend "with benefits"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Heres a question. Is it fine to show a 'friend with benefits' affection outside the bedroom? Like holding hands, giving long hugs, saying I miss you etc or is it gonna freak him out thinking I'im asking for more? He gets uncomfortable talking about 'love' and doesn't talk ... (120 words)

Help! The condom broke and period still not here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I had sex about 11 days after the first day of my last period. The condom broke and it's been almost a month and I still haven't recieved my next period. I took a pregnancy test two times, the first only one line showed up and the second two lines showed up but ... (96 words)

His arguing makes me feel so insecure.... what should I do for the best here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm with someone who I've been off and one for over four years but we're back into a relationship and things have been pretty great but we keep arguing and I'm feeling insecure, it seems like I'm the bad guy when I just ask for an explanation.. I'm told "I'm sorry, I just am ... (88 words)

So many problems... can you help me?

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25 February 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Please please I really need help! I posted a question yesterday is my b/f pervy. I can't stand any more. It's such a long story and I've posted bits over the past few years. I've been with him 12 years, I loved him so much, I stood at the door crying and begged him not to go ... (411 words)

What's wrong with my girlfriend and why is she being so distant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been dating this girl for almost a year and just within the past few weeks she has seemed very distant she keeps making excuses about not kissing and stuff like that. What's wrong?... (37 words)

How can you tell if you're being used or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well this is what happens when you get bored in astronomy class... but anyway I have been thinking a lot lately. I met a girl a few weeks ago, I hung out with her for about 4 hours the first time we met and things just clicked immediately and one thing led to another. I have ... (132 words)

How can I crush his majorly oversized ego?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy through a friend and we drank together. We ended up kissing and he kept groping me and shoved my hand down his pants. I knew that I shouldn't have sex with him because I feel that he has been around so I left. I hung out with him a couple times since then and he ... (139 words)

First time handjob advice, please??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is quite simple, how do you give a good handjob? I'm in a new relationship but never done one and I want to feel confident about being able to do it properly. Girls and Guys please give me some tips! :)... (46 words)

Tips about being on top and generally making sex more exciting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've only had ever sex in the missionary position and I was wondering how I could make it more exciting and fun for me and my partner as I'm kinda getting bored of it. Any suggestions? I would like to try being on top at some point but am too shy and nervous about this as I ... (82 words)

Insecure when GF doesn't show me attention. Change or breakup?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship where I feel my girlfriend has all the control. She is 21, and I am 24, we have been dating for 2 months. I feel like I love her, but its hard to be happy when I realize that I am soo needy in this relationship. My last relationship by comparison, I had ... (212 words)

Why does he ejaculate so quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my fiance have sex at least 8 times a day why does he release so quickly?... (18 words)

Is it true that if you are not sure if you want to be with someone it means you don't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it true that if you are not sure if you want to be with someone it means you dont? I am with my current boyfriend and although we get on very well, I am not sure he is the one that I want to settle with. Could these doubts mean that he is not the one for me? Would I be ... (69 words)

Can anyone recommend a good shimmering body lotion???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi girls, Im just wondering if anyone can recommend a good illuminating shimmering body lotion. im going a wedding next month and i want my skin to look nice in my dress. im quite tanned and i really want to have nice glowing shimmery skin. im not bothered about price real... (81 words)

My fiance says our relationship has become boring, what can I do to make it more fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my fience have been together for 3 years this march and were both 20years old my fience said that our realationship has become boring,which i admit it had and coz im at college and he work full time and we dont live together yet i see him a few times a week and we dont ... (105 words)

Is her life better without me in it? Is she just unsure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm following up a previous question of mine (posted 2/23 asking for objective advice/serenity)... I am unable to make a decision; I've been spinning my proverbial wheels for about five months with regard to what I can/should do about my ex-girlfriend. I love her tremend... (636 words)

Help? Is this too soon?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, I have mustered up the courage to type an email asking the girl I like to join me for a walk and possibly a meal. I am nervous about sending it though. We have only met 4 times, and only 2 of those were times we had arranged to meet and spend any time together. I f... (82 words)

I met the man who said he loved me and now I havent heard from him in days....has he changed his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i met this guy through a friend...i say met but we only ever spoke on msn and then over the phone. tbh i never had the guts to meet him in real life because i'll be honest i'm not the prettiest girl. so cut to a whole year later, i still hadnt met this guy but we seemed to... (160 words)

My abusive ex boyfriend wont leave me alone!

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, I broke up with my ex over a year ago (31/12/07) because he hit me. things were not going well before that because he was a bully and used to called me names like ''fat'' and ''ugly'' to hurt me. I made a police statement at the time about the assault bu... (453 words)

It hurts so much to have sex, I think I'm just too small

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age - ok so im a virgin and have been with my non virgin boyfriend for a while now. i want to give him my virginity and we have tried having sex FIVE times now and have yet to make it work. im am a rather short girl and weigh 103 therefore im smaller than most girls down th... (318 words)

Falling for male friend--future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so im 31, and have formed a very very close friendship with a sensitive, shy guy. I've known him a year, fell for him 6 months ago, and have spent the last 6 months looking for signs he feels the same way. I feel I have to say something or Im going to burst, but I hav... (159 words)

Lack of confidence....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - The problem with me is that I have absolutely no confidence in me! I'm short and lean (5'11 and 58kg), ugly, talks tech 24 hours, jobless (thanks 2 the sharemarkets!) I just cant think I'm good! And those^^ feelings comes in my way when I try 2 have a conversation with... (223 words)

Not sure what to think

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I started seeing a guy about 5 months ago. He is 49 and I am 42. After about 4 months of dating, we decided to move in together. We really seem to communicate and get along very well. We have alot of fun together.Our sex life is very good. The other day I was using his comp... (346 words)

His university course is taking my place! How do I compromise some "us time" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Feb 09 My boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 or 10 months but were the best of friends for four or so years prior to me 'making my move'. We just finished high school in november so had seen each other at LEAST 6 days a week, every week all the time. Over this time, ... (685 words)

I think I've upset him and haven't lost what we had.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Friends with benefits: I lied 2 him and told him I had been with loads of guys but I haven't, I am still a virgin. He said he feels bad because we have done things and he feels bad that he has ruined my first time, he fingerd me and he didn't know I was still a virgin. I told ... (152 words)

Frienship or more going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have this co worker that i have a thing for. i love his personality and i love how he is alway making me laugh. i know he is shy but can u help me try and figure him out? while we are at work i feel like at times he trys to avoid me and sometimes when i talk to him he answe... (798 words)

I feel like we will drift apart

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been in a long distance relationship for almost two and a half years. My boyfriend did most of the travelling as I do not drive, and I occasionally stayed at his on weekends (around once every couple of months) getting there by train. I have three children from a ... (322 words)

Prego? Or too much sex caused damage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The weekend before last I stayed at my boyfriends house over night, and because this rarely happens we slept together 10 times over the period. 3 times with protection, 7 times without. We also had unprotected sex the weekend before. My period was due the weekend just passed, ... (146 words)

The old lady deserves better than this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age - I am almost 81, my wife is almost 88. Mona has 6 grown children from a previous marriage. Since we met 17 years ago we have always professed our love for each other. We have never wished not to be together. Although there never was any cause to prompt such action the daugh... (248 words)

He doesn't get it! I don't feel the same way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I met someone online (in an online game), we had talked for almost a month as friends and then we decided to just hang out. Come to find out, he left his girlfriend of 5 years, whom he was living with, for me. I was not happy to hear that, we didn't even know each other. ... (358 words)

I found out my girlfriend had cheated in the past and is lying to me too....Can I trust this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My question is similar to one I've read, but I want to post the question for myself. I'm in a relationship where the trust has been damaged, I've been lied to a few times. Each of these lies had a "purpose", or some kind of plausible reason for not telling the truth... but... (791 words)

Why is this relationship so hard to handle? I'm so confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I'm 20 years old,and I just wonder why relationship is so hard to handle.I've met a guy a month ago,and he seems like a gentleman and so polite to me. All close friends all told me he seems to like me a lot.He seems like a honest person and not a player.We've been on a small ... (268 words)

Shouting out during sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

25 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anyone offer any advice here. I have just split with my partner over the following. We have been together nearly 3 years and I loved him like no one else, but felt he showed his true colours the other evening. We had made love and in the heat of it, I shouted something ... (336 words)

I'm feeling guilty for ending it all and not remaining friends

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25 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have broken all contacts with this girl and have gone away from her life forever. ours was a long distance relationship for one year and i had gone to her place in berlin a couple of times to stay with my grandparents during my holidays and really enjoyed being with her. we ... (466 words)

How do you stop being a rebound after a divorce?

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25 February 2009 (F)

- How do you stop someone being a rebound after a divorce? I've been seeing a wonderful man for two months now after my ex left me for another woman. He had been seeing her over the past 3 yrs and we split 6months ago.The divorce was straightforward as possible.I have custody of ... (263 words)

Why am I like this? Why always older men?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why am i like this? Whenever a older married man say around late 30s to 40s trys to help me out with anything, i always end up sexually attracted to them and end up sleeping or kissing them, why does this happen? My best mates dad was like a dad 2 me but then i started to hav... (189 words)

She talksto me but won't go out with me

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25 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What do I do? Ok it's a long story but bear with me... There's this girl I like. I've liked her for well over half a year now. We go to the same school and I'm in one of her classes. We are friends and we talk just like good friends do. The thing is, I asked her out last... (194 words)

I don't understand his behavior

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I would like to have your opinions on this matter. Even if I always condemned it, it happened that I became interested in a man at my workplace who is married, really I did not want this to happen, it just happened. It's hard sometimes to always stay rational and we c... (363 words)

I had a miscarriage after the wedding, I'm so depressed and thinking about divorcing!

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a boyfriend for 4 years and he was amazing but i felt like i needed something new so during the summer i met someone i really enjoyed being with and i broke up with my boyfriend and started dating this other guy immediately. 2 months after hangin out i got pregnant. i got ... (181 words)

He says he only wants to be friends, but I want to make our relationship work...

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just broke up after 4 yrs dating and 1 1/2 yrs living together. I had to move in with my parents. We had been having money problems and so our sex life suffered. He says that he doesn't want a relationship but he's ok with being friends. We hung out today and ... (130 words)

First time for everything

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys i posted a question that follows in a min , but it ended up that after a week, i apperntly waited too long for him - my head is spining in circles and i really dont know what to do ....iv got major feelings for this guy, as much as i knew it was all bull, i let myse... (576 words)

Should I tell him how I feel and maybe he admits he likes me too?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so heres the thing... umm im totaly crushing on a guy, uhh the thing is i think he likes me to, but he wont admit it, i want to tell him how i feel and then maybe he'll admit it too, but i just dont know what to say or do D: HELP... (54 words)

I cannot accept porn versus my own esteem.

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25 February 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have awful body image issues. This is very embarrassing. I have a boyfriend who loves me and I know he watches porn on Redtube. He's told me so. He knows I'm insecure, but he doesn't understand it. Now, I don't nag him about this, but I feel very unattractive. Despite the ... (263 words)

I'm trying to get over a guy and looking for support

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im trying to get over a guy and looking for support. Ive liked this guy for a while but he's treated me badly in the past and is currently ignoring me. He only talks to me when he wants sex. It hurts so bad to see him able to talk to everyone else but me that I've now deactiv... (212 words)

Why does my almost soon to be boyfriend keep me away from his friends?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Once more..Why does My almost soon to be boyfriend keep me away from his friends? K. lemme give you an intro. ok so he likes me alot. he tells his friends me and him are doing stuff. and chillen and the reason i USED to not talk to him was cuz we were in an argument. k. so hi... (154 words)

I revealed a secret she told me and now she won't speak to me anymore

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25 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, im a 15 year old male, who recently had my best friendship with my 15 year old female best friend Jeanny complete fall apart (it actually happened 4 months ago). However, i used to like her (i still do), and basically what happened is she trusted me with ... (258 words)

I might be bi, but I'm already with my guy

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never been with a girl and I don't want to be in a relationship with a girl, but lately I've been having major fantasies about being with a woman. I have a boyfriend, so this cant really happen, but I am almost really wanting it to be able to happen. I love my boyfriend, ... (77 words)

He shows me no affection outside the bedroom

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a boyfriend we are both in our upper 30s and he shows me no affection outside the bedroom what soever. hell/ goodbye kiss thats about it. I want more, not to sound selfish or greedy but that is what I need. when we are not sleeping together we act more like friends ... (102 words)

Am I too young to give him a handjob?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am 13 and I have a boyfriend who I absolutely adore and I really want to take it to the next level with him. Am I too young to give him a handjob? And if not how do I do so?... (43 words)

Will 0.5 alcohol beer affect my baby?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out that non-alcoholic beer still contains some alcohol. I've been drinking that since I got pregnant (about one a night) is there a large chance that my baby has birth defects? ... (33 words)

What should I do to make him more comfortable when we do it?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a really good best friend, but we have done other things together, like kissing and hugging and that kind of thing and we flirt all the time. Anyways, he can't have sex until he is 17, I am not a virgin and he is but we both agreed that we want to do it together. I ... (103 words)

I don't think he's quite a first class jerk, but I don't know how to respond!

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25 February 2009 (F)

- Hoping some of the great aunts can help here. This is not a huge problem but some second opinions would help. I enjoy my job immensely and have good relationships with my colleagues. I work hard to make sure I do. There is a guy in the office that I cannot figure out. I used to ... (179 words)

I don't like him, but he sure likes me!

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This boy is in love with me but I honestly can't stand him. I also have a boyfriend that I like very much. And every time I tell him I don't like him like that, he's like why do you hate me? At one point I was like fine I hate you, gag me with a spoon. Then he bought me diamond ... (121 words)

Dick size & pregnancy?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - does dick size have to do with getting a girl pregnant....i went with this dude and he had a super little penis (we definatly didn't have sex) but he has a new girl now and I guess she's pregnant with his baby I'm sittin here thinkin to myself you have a baby dick and your 20 ... (65 words)

Silly to use condoms when on the pill

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it silly to make your partner wear a condom or pull out while on the pill? My bf and I are each others first, so I'm not worried about std's but I heard the pill is only something like 92% safe. That scares me, so I make him put on a condom or he can pull out and finish on ... (78 words)

How often to go to doctors for checkup?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I may be pregnant and if I am....how often should I go to the doctors for a check up on the baby....i hate doctors....what should I except on my first visit....what do they ask you....what do they do...please me spesific... (40 words)

What does that mean?Anything?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This might sound a little silly but at lunch today i was sitting in between my ex (that i still love very much) and and one of my friends that likes me (but i have no feelings for at all for him) Well they were bugging me and and keep putting there hands on my legs and ... (175 words)

How do I tell family I'm pregnant again?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do I tell my grandpa I'm pregnant.i live with him and iv gotten prego before and he would be really dissappointed when he finds out I am again...i don't knoe how to tell him...what should I do... (38 words)

Seeing married teacher...

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, SO I really like this old teacher of mine (graduated '08) and he likes me to. We've made out and done some touching and what not and are "planning" on more. I really really like, enough to say I love him. I *don't* think he loves me, he is married but I do love him. ... (88 words)

Bad stomach pain..pregnancy?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - after I had sex I had really bad cramps in ma lower stomache for 2 days I might be pregnant but the cramps went away already...what was the bad cramps for...was it just part of pregnancy or what... (38 words)

Not sure if I've had an orgasm or not

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok im not sure if ive had an orgasm or not. when me and my bf mess around it feels amazing. so i guess i get orgasm very easily like that or im going to be extremely happy when i get an orgasm. i just wish i knew if what ive experanced is an orgasm or not.... (57 words)

Relationship ambivalance equals painful sex

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating a great guy for about 5 months. In the beginning, kissing alone would get me all hot and bothered. When we finally did have sex, it was fantastic. Now that the relationship has progressed and I've learned more about him (nothing of which is terrible), my... (208 words)

I want to stop masturbating

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I hate masturbating. The thought of it makes me want to cringe sometimes. I ecspecially hate the smell it leaves after your done doing it. .But I love doing it too. I do it 3 times a week at the least. Help. I want to stop.... (46 words)

Pregnant from fingering......?

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25 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my gf, who i love very much, were over my house one day. We were in the basement watching a movie cuddling and making out a little when she teased me down into her pants. well long story short i fingered her and thats it, she didnt give me a hand job, i didn... (196 words)

My girlfriend is mad at me, I need help... PLEASE!!!

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25 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I went to morgans island (water park) with my gf and friends, I went on the rides without telling her. Then when I got back she looked mad so I talked to her and asked her if she was mad and she said no. And then I went to sleep on the ground because I had a headache. Then when ... (234 words)

She's staying in my house, sleeping in my bed but nothing!!!

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25 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - OK new problem, still a virgin :( but I got this girl staying in my house, I have been friends with her for couple years now, she doesn't want to sleep on the couch so she sleeps in my bed with me, 3 nights now. I tried to make a move but no luck, maybe just no game, I don't ... (75 words)

Any advice on how to strike up a good conversation?

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25 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I seem to be really rather rubbish at conversing with new people, the people who I have known long term I'm fine with, but it's just new people. Now I wouldn't be asking for help on this really, but I've just started going out with this guy, who I only met about a month and a ... (147 words)