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writes:I am bisexual and have fallen in love with a girl I've known for about 6-7 months. By the way, I am 13 and so is she and I'm a girl. We go to the same school. I wanted to be honest with her so I told her I was bisexual and that I liked her. A few days ago I texted her and said I loved her. She replied back saying "seriously..." So I said, "what if I said yes what would you say?" And she said "I don't really care soooooo. It's a yes." I got confused about that and asked her what she meant. She said she was just asking if I was serious. A couple days later I texted her saying I was sorry for possibly freaking her out by telling her that I love her. She said she wasn't freaked out. I texted back saying, "It sucks that we will only ever be friends" and then she called me and said, "Guess who I like...and it's not you." So I guessed and I was wrong then she told me and I'm completely heart-broken. She knew I liked her a lot. I wish she didn't tell me who she likes. So today I texted her and she was acting all weird. She was being a bitch. I kept asking her why she was being like that and she said "why do you care soooooo much" and I said "idk becuz I do. Becuz im not like everyone else. I care until you hate me then I hate myself for caring so much" Thats where our conversation ended. I don't want our friendship to end. What is going on with her? Why is she being like this?
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reader, AyameSohma  +, writes (7 May 2009):
 I have recently had this happen to me,
A good friend has just come out and told me she loves me.
I told her it dosent make me care any less about her i just need a bit of space, i accept her feelings im just sorry that i dont feel the same way.
If she is going on about people she likes she may just have trouble ajusting to not talking about this kind of thing?
sorry if thats not very helpful
hope things work out for you.
Message me if you need a friend x
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reader, brokeninside +, writes (16 February 2009):
 well i've never been in your situation but its probably because she doesnt want to accept the fact that you loved her. i know she said she doesn't care but then again you weren't there to see her facial expression. so you should move on. if she doesn't accept you for who you are than theres other fish in the sea.u can find other friends that will accept you for who you are.
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (16 February 2009):
 she's freaked out, cuz you gave her some big news. i'd give her some space and stop telling her that you love her.
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