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writes:When I was a child I use to visit my god brothers house. the older one use to do sexual things to me like rub himself on me with our clothes on while his brother watched. I was about 7 and he was about 4 years older. Is it normal for kids to act like this. I remember him giving me gifts to keep me sweet.Later in adult life we did have a fling but it when no where and I can not help wonderig whether he thought I was cheap. I have always been sexy and good looking.Has anyone else experienced this. I thought it was all part of growing up but it felt wrong but I enjoyed it a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHank you all i feel better know.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 It's quite common for kids to act like this, I don't think it's abuse just experimentation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Hmm this sounds a bit strange, especially considering his age, and who cares what he thinks about you, its not like you have feelings for him right? It actually makesme feel quite sick considering the age of my younger sister but i wouldd say try and move on with your life and leave him to it, you say you have always been quite good looking use this advantage to go out and geta nice boyfriend who treats you in the right way.
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reader, Kepi +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Well, there are different interpretations to abuse, and really, although i can't claim to be an expert on this one, there are a few things to consider.As kids we all start to experiment with our newly developed sexual feelings and it can take many different forms, you know like I'll show you mine if you show me yours and stuff like that, generally these situations would be perfectly innocent and generally in private....however, you mention that his brother was watching.... this is where you need to consider the whole scenario.How old was the brother? If much older was he initiating this contact for his own gratification (if this is the case then you were both being abused)Ask yourself: Why are you looking for an answer to this? has it had a profound effect on your life, or was it just something that you considered to be part of 'growing up' . your statement that you enjoyed it a bit, well, at least it shows that you weren't being made to do something you didn't want to do, not that this would justify it in any way, but maybe if its not a big issue in your life you should mark it down to part of growing up. (I'm sure I'll get a lot of angry responses to that statement...but unless it was down to the brother manipulating two young children (which is a whole different kettle of fish) you shouldn't get hung up on it)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): He was 11. Not old enough to be responsible. Kids do things like this. Parents should have watched you closer; lessons for others - so noted! Talk to a therapist if it bothers you. I remember exploring with girls the same age when I was about 12. If he were a little older, even 12, at the time, I would say he would start to bear more responsibility, clearly, but 11 is still too young.
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