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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The clubbing scene.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Soooo, I'm 16 and I would like to try clubbing. There is a 16 year old club close to where I live, and I'm thinking about trying it. See the thing is, I'm kinda afraid. I WANT to live life though. I want to experience. I'm afraid that the persoon I drive with will get drun... (136 words)

We could have waited until we were married but we let it happen too soon. I'll never feel pure again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The first time I had sex wasn't the right way. I feel bad about it. When my boyfriend and I did it for the first time I only gave in because I thought he would abandon me or cheat on me if I didn't. It was painful and I was scared, and even though it's almost been a year later ... (157 words)

Did I take my jesting too far with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

15 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I went to this pool party (I live in Australia) with some our friends. My girlfriend never let me see her breasts (because of a scar on one) and she thinks it might turn me off. Anyway we were in the pool making out until my very (very) drunk friend pulled her ... (165 words)

My crush didn't wish me happy birthday or come to my party. Any ideas why not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hay.. I have a crush on my school mate. We're both 18 and I have always suspected that he likes me too even before this crush started. But now I'm confused because he didn't even say me happy birthday or come to the party, even when he saw everyone's wishes me and kisses m... (94 words)

I'm on the pill. Is it safe to let him "finish" inside of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently started seeing this new guy...we actually had our second date yesterday (V-Day!). Anyway, the relationship has gotten physical, and he's confided in me that he has a hard time "finishing", especially while using a condom. I am on the pill, have been for awhile. ... (65 words)

I'm very nervous to give my first handjob.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very nervous to give my first handjob. I'm worried I'm not doing it good enough, or I'm hurting him. What should I do? Any advice?? thanks!! (:... (30 words)

I think my boyfriend may be cheating on me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm Kirsty, I have been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months on and off. We have our silly wee arguments and all that and recently I have been feeling left out. I am convinced that he is cheating on me, when I'm with him there are other girls phoning him and he goes ... (125 words)

In love with an ambiguous friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody, Let me start by admitting my problem: I usually fall for straight guys. Usually is only physical attraction but on a few occasions it's been more than that. In fact a couple of years ago I fell in love with a guy at work who knew I was gay, but that's a dif... (517 words)

Whenever I have sex, it feels like there's this pressure inside of me and it makes me feel as though I am going to pass gas.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kind of a wierd question... whenever I have sex, it feels like there's this pressure inside of me and it makes me feel as though I am going to pass gas or something if I try to relax, so I keep my muscles down there tightened to make sure nothing embarassing ... (91 words)

Relationship advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this is my first post on this website but as i can tell from the posts ive looked on your all incredibly helpful and filled with rich information from life experiences so ill start at the beginning and hope someone can help me with some advice or opinions Well me and my... (227 words)

How do you say sorry to a guy friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how do u say sorry to a guy friend who used to go with but your now friends and you dont fancy? its hard to explain...but i asked him out in yr 7 and it didnt go well...he said yes and i knew he liked this other girl and i got annoyed at him when he asked another girl out cos i ... (124 words)

I have trust issues and think men are horrible...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am turning 32 next month and hence have been thinking about relationships a lot. I have had three boyfriends and they all hurt me and dumped. I have trust issues and think men are horrible. I also blame myself for not being beautiful enough for them. How do I move on from ... (95 words)

She always makes quotes when she emails me, am I over analysing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I like includes quotes when she emails me sometimes. Her latest got me thinking: "If you make it plain you like people, it's hard for them to resist liking you back." Am I over-analysing now?... (41 words)

I am not asking for perfection, just acknowledgement of my presence, my feelings, and the wish to be held or kissed once a day.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey, I am married, 14 years to a man I have known since I am a child. Since having children, there have been many times I have felt he had been unfaithful through the years. I have never had proof - (to me would be seeing him with a woman, or having a picture of him with som... (846 words)

No valentine...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - If a guy (who you are supposedly seeing) didn't send you a Valentine even though he got one in return - does this mean he just doesn't care??... (28 words)

I really like him but he likes my friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I need some help!! I have a crush on one of my good friends and I've liked him for about 1 year and a half, I really like him. And here's the thing, he likes one of my Really good friends, he tells me he likes her sometimes, and I'm not sure if he knows I like him. Another ... (161 words)

Do guys find nose piercings attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) Was just wondering if guys found nose piercings attractive? My friend is worrying about it at the moment as she is thinking of getting it done. Thanks x... (36 words)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for the pill but I can't start taki... (312 words)

Anyone got a song that relates to, I MISS YOUUUU!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my unrequited love has gone on holiday for a week, It's been two days and its ACTUALLY KILLING ME. For some reason it helps me to listen to songs related to my situation. Anyone got a song that relates to, I MISS YOUUUU!!!! Not a "I've broken up with you now I want y... (96 words)

I don’t want to make a move and end up ruining our friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently been getting closer to this girl I met at school. We have known each other for about 5 months now and for the past 2 months we have spent a LOT of time together. She has a boyfriend of 2 years and up until a week ago I thought that she wanted to just be friends ... (523 words)

What do you think? Do you think cops should be charged and tried as normal people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, being a popular site I thought some great answers would come for this so I thought why not? With Britt Lapthornes murder being police that did it, I'm just thinking who can we trust? Nobody! It seems. It makes me wonder did Maddie Mcain get kidnapped or worse by police, and ... (84 words)

Tell me how to move on with my life and forget about him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - You know the song, Hot N Cold? I and my ex-boyfriend are just like the song. We constantly break up, make up, and then break up again! We always supposedly decide to stay as friends, but then we start kissing, hugging, and then going out again. He broke up with me again... (216 words)

We were on different pages, did I make the right choice in leaving him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been seeing my boyfriend for almost two years and while it seemed we both wanted the same things...i carried the relationship fully the fummy part is that i was blind to this. When i realized that i was taking responsibility for our relationship and putting forth all the ... (419 words)

I want a tattoo, my mom doesn't want me to get one, my dad, divorced from my mom, will even pay for it, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. People always say you should try to respect your parents wishes and I think growing up I did a good job of doing that. I'm now my own woman, live out in the big city in my ow flat, going to unversity to get a degree and after giving it a lot of thought (about 6 ... (290 words)

Having sex with another girl, don't want my parents to know, don't want to stop either, what do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need you help. Im 13 and i am having sex with another girl (16). I dont know what i shall do. I cant tell my parents, but otherwise, I cant end it because im so horny and i like the sex with another girl. I am afraid my parents could find out.... (56 words)

He texted that he didn't like me but I like him, he ignores me, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ALright so this there is this guy and i used my friends phone to text him and i said 'do you like(then i said my name)' and he texted back and said no and we were kind of friends before but now he won't even look at me in the hall or return my texts or reply to my messages on ... (82 words)

I gave her a gift, she rejected it, now I don't know how to respond, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i gave the girl who is kind of really good mate a snow patrol ticket for her to go with me she rejected it and said it was too much n she was really sorry but i work with her weekly so i dont know how to react next time we speak.. should i bring it up? next day i cn her ... (137 words)

I need help with an erection problem, any suggestions from the guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 15 and the other day me and my girlfriend went to have sex for the first time. It would of been my first time ever, but I couldn't get an erection and even when it got a little hard it just went again. I'm really attracted to my gf and always get erections when g... (88 words)

I am confused by my ex's messages, do you know what he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex instant messaged me the conversation started normal then he was like um hunn u kno like honey.n I'm like u cheated u can't call me that.n he said he was soo sorri n he misses the old days. N his away message was like how he loves sum girl n misses her So wut does he want.... (60 words)

When I marry him, will his debt become mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - when i marry in july this year do i take on my husbands tax debt ?... (16 words)

I have no idea how to approach, converse and get numbers...please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. Im not sure where to start so ill give some background and the problems. When I was younger (8-10) I missed a couple of years of school as I had to take care of my little sister. This was due to my mum having a drink problem. This meant that I never picked up the sk... (384 words)

He had a fling with her while we were going through a rough patch...I forgive him but forgetting will be harder!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married 10 years and together 12years. We have 2 girls aged 8 and 4.Yesterday when I picked up our post there was a valentine card from a woman he knew at work about 5 years ago.He could see I was a bit taken back by this as the card was quite ... (272 words)

I have a desire to have sex with my sister, what do you think?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

15 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i need help to sleep with my sister but she says that she is complely by say that that stuff is gross when ever its mentioned. i feel like she just say that to convince her self. when we were little we would alwaly show eachother our privite parts and sometime when our mother ... (120 words)

How can our friendship go back to the way it was?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can a man and woman return to being friends after flirting? Let me be more specific - this guy and I have been flirting back and forth since last summer, culminating to when I was home for Christmas (gazing into my eyes, lots of eye contact, smiling and laughing, sittin... (246 words)

My boyfriend makes me so paranoid that he will cheat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so paranoid over my relationship me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now, and I am so paranoid that he will cheat on me. I have never had this feeling in previous relationships. Its not total paranoia as he has cheated on every one of his past serious... (169 words)

How can I find out if she's really bi and if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15, and I think I'm in love with one of my best friends. We havnt been friends for that long, but i cant stop thinking about her. Im openly bi around my friends (only my brother knows in my family) , and she says that she is bi too, but i dont know if i believe her or not. ... (170 words)

Sex is painful for me, what can I do to enjoy it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Sex is more pain than pleasure for me.my bf says im extreamily tight and things will change but i feel they wont.iv started makin excuses evrytym he brings sex up.what should i do? ... (33 words)

I really, really like him but he just wants sex... should I do it anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice although I think I already know the answer. I am 26 years of age (virgin) I started flirting with this guy at work that I have known for about two years, we had arranged to go out once but it never happened, he said we wanted different things, we chat ... (156 words)

I loved this girl and she left me, what do I do now, I am very unhappy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i am akshay, i am alone in this world. My parents are not with me they have left me alone when i was 10 years old. Now i am 18 years old. I have no problem for money because i earn (approx Rs4000 per month). I dont know why they have left me and now i dont think about them. ... (319 words)

Is this Nyphomania? Do I need help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 yr old female and have been having sex since I was 14. I don't have enough fingers or toes to count my sex partners. I think about sex the majority of my day and have had sex with plenty of men that I did not care about or had any feelings for. I am a very sexual person ... (204 words)

She acts different when her Ex's are around...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am young and confused but here goes, i need some help my girl friend and i are fighting all the time because every time one of the people she messed around with before me comes around she acts completley different. She doesn't show the same affection or anything when these ... (70 words)

His ex is always there....

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Now i been with this dude for about 4 months now. But before we were together he had a girlfriend for about 2 months. Now the problem that i'm having is that he claims he's over her and what not but he still calls her. Then on top of that his mom loves her because number one ... (456 words)

Abusive drunk father, living next door, support needed please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Well my question isn't about relationships, at least. Not with a boyfriend. My family is a complete mess. I'm 14 years old, I have a brother aged 16 and another who is 23 - they both still live at home with me and my Mum. I also have an older sister who lives near to us. ... (1335 words)

I hate my family - do I have to forgive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - OK back in 2006 I had enough of my siblings, all my life my second to oldest brother and my older sister picked with me all my life. All they ever did to me was tear me down and mess with me. Maybe this is why I have a low self confidence in myself and have very bad anger ... (290 words)

We're only talking but it doesn't feel quite right...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - three weeks ago I got reconnected with my first love/ serious boyfriend through facebook. His sister in law found me which lead to all his family members finding me. He requested to be a friend and even sent a message saying hi. I didn't think we broke up on bad terms and ju... (498 words)

Nosy coworker irritates me! How can I tell her she is "too involved" in my affairs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello: I started a job last year and neeldess to say I have observed and or experienced who is two-faced, manipulator,mind gamer etc..in the workplace. I always ran my own business, but now, I work with other people , so it is different working within a workplace 'socie... (925 words)

I love my cousin but she rejected me, how can we stay friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Guys . This is about me and my cousin. She is 15 . Im 19. Things are like, this started 2 years back. This cousin of mine and me is too close. More than just cousins. We used to talk for hours, we used to hold hands, she used to rest on my shoulder and chat for ... (202 words)

How to be single and happy when all around you are couples?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Over the last year or so i've changed in some ways and i'm not sure exactly how. A relationship ended over a year ago has resulted me a feeling for a need to change myself in order to become more successful with men, basically to find and keep a good guy. One of these ch... (373 words)

What does becoming redundant mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (?) age - What Does becoming redundant mean. I guess I am a uninformed American (I was going to say Stupid...but I'm not) I think I know what it means but not sure. I have asked the question in one of my answers to someone else, but haven't heard back. I'm guessing it means what we ... (99 words)

Is this a normal size?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Hi iam almost 17 and I have a 3 inch penis I don't know what to do about it does anyone know what I should do or is that a normal size... (32 words)

We were having a good time, why did he change so suddenly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 and have been falling inlove with my friend. basically last night we were holding hands and he kissed my head and we just sat together sometimes and he asked me about the time i got off with him a few weeks before.. then he was asking me if i wanted to have sex with him. ... (225 words)

How does she feel, is she just being friendly or does she want more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl I know has a massive hang-up with her ex bf, he dumped her and she still isnt over it even though it was about 6 months ago. since then we've got to know each other really well and become really close friends she says alot that im the only one who cares. recently shes ... (176 words)

Is it any wonder I've changed after what I've been through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heyyy, A couple of months ago I got in to some serious trouble with social services and the police for underage sex with my bf (i felt ready to do it, he's 15 nearly 16 now) I told my friends some VERY personal infomation about it because I needed them to know so I would... (397 words)

He married to get into the country, now I want to marry him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I know what I'm about disclose is terrible and I feel like crap for my part in all of this but I really need some advice..... I met my partner about 2 and a bit years ago at work and we just clicked straight away. We went out a few times, spoke everyday at work and we would sp... (721 words)

Inlaws causing problems in my marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My inlaws especially the mother and her daughter hate me more than anything, they're always talking bad about me behind my back, I found out through some e-mails the mother inlaw had sent to my husband's best friend and his wife , also she sent e-mails to her sister p... (557 words)

Do you consider eczema a turn off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I used to suffer from severe eczema, now its recently cleared up although I do get the occasional redness, not bad or anything, just the odd red patch around the body, never any on my face or anything. I was just wondering if most of you took off a guys clothes and ... (77 words)

Would seeing the scars on my thigh put a guy off?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year and a half ago, I experimented a little in the way of self harm (cutting) when I got angry/upset. On the two occasions I did it, I was very drunk. On the second occasion that it happened, I was extremely drunk and was cutting my leg a little. I didn't realise how ... (240 words)

She has a b/f and only likes me as a friend, how can I forget her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i love a girl and she also loves me so much but just as a friend and she is even having a boyfriend. i cannot forget her because she is my friend also what shall i do to forget her ??... (43 words)

My former crush who I still like wants to date me but I'm seeing another boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so Ive known this guy for a year now. We went out but that was a long time ago. We have become really really close and we tell eachother everything and we help eachother. He means everything to me. He is like a brother to me. Well yeah, so we stopped going out and got ... (228 words)

Should I buy him a better present next time or is he not being fair on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, these are the presents I bought for my valentines. I though about them really carefully before I bought them and each one of them has a meaning behind it. A teddy bear (it was a erally cute valentines one and reminded me of him because i always call him my teddy bear) 5... (178 words)

Should I have tried to occupy the friendzone? Or walking away like I did?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I've really made a fool of myself and I'm crushed. I recently made a move on a very special woman at work who has recently separated from her husband. I've fancied her - from a distance - for years, but respected the bonds of matrimony and left her alone (i.e. just ... (334 words)

How to move on from a seperation - depressed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My marriage ended June last year. We were married just the year but had been together for 5 years in total. She moved out and we have had no real contact since (apart from the odd email to sort a few bits out). I never got the answers I needed and stopped asking after the first ... (205 words)

He admitted there are 2 others girl in his life! So I refused to meet him, but now I miss him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey frnds i am feeling very low. I am in a relation with a guy.He never expressed any feelings for me. Though he knew that i love him very much. We were involved in kissing, handjob. He always insisted m for intercourse but i always refused . I wanted him to love me first. W... (184 words)

Is this woman in the office indirectly trying to attract my attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. Just a quick question if I may about office behaviour from women. I've got a big crush on this very special woman at work - we smile at each other alot (broad - not fake.......we're talking real crow's feet around the eyes type smiles here!) when passing in the corridor ... (365 words)

Can you be in love with two people at the same time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Can you really be in love two people at the same time? I recently made the BIG mistake of sleeping with my now married ex boyfriend. I immediately vowed it would never happen again as I also have a boyfriend and felt terrible for cheating on him. I stopped all contact with... (312 words)

I want to be able to date boys but I'm scared since I was raped by my friend's uncle!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was raped by my friends uncle when I slept over at her house when we were 13 (about two years ago). He was visiting from out of town, and he raped me while I was in bed (my friend slept in a separate bedroom because her parents didn't want us up giggling all night). He left ... (487 words)

I have clitoridean orgasms, but not during sex, what's wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im having A MAJOR NIGHTMARE I can orgasm with clitorial stimulation. But I cant have one during sex ! no matter how hard we try. weve tried positions and everything ! WHATS WRONG WITH ME??????? I WILL EXPLODE ! [Moderator's note: You say you can't have an orgasm during pen... (70 words)

My crush makes me confused, your comments please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there's this guy i've known for about 4 months now whom i have a crush on.. here are some facts that just confuses me too much. 1. i caught him staring at me so many times. 2. he cares about my feelings. im not sure but that might be his personality. 3. one of ... (333 words)

Why would a guy initiate contact with you via text, and then just not respond to you after that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would a guy initiate contact with you via text, and then just not respond to you after that? This guy that I've kind of seen a couple times called me after not talking in a while, but I didn't pick up because I didn't want to seem too available, so he left a voicemail... (130 words)

My b/f insists to have sex with me, I'm underage, should I give in?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

15 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and i have a 18 year old online boyfriend, but every time we chat online he says that he wants to have sex with me, but i kind of want to have sex with him but im not sure if i should, so should i have sex with him or not?... (53 words)

My friends have problems accepting my sexual orientation!

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have mostly identified as bi, but have not slept with a woman until last summer. Previously I was very unhappy with my bf, mostly coming from sexual differences (I like kissing and need touch to feel loved, for him "sex" equals "intercourse", which left me mostly cold). ... (631 words)

What does he mean by wanting to settle down?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf has been talking about he wants stability in his life. He is tired moving place to place. He wants to find that one person he can come home to. He says that he really wants to settle down and hopes that I'm that person. He wants to see how far we can go. Does he mean ... (79 words)

Dump or no dump?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age - Today is Valentine's Day and I got a Valentine e-mail from the guy I've been dating for a year. I know things are tight, but come on... For Christmas, he asked what I wanted and I said I wanted charms for my bracelet. Guess what he got for me? Skin creams and lotions ... (332 words)

How I can get birth control without my mom finding out?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months and we've been moving quite fast in our relationship. I Love him to death and he loves me and this I am sure of. We talked about sex about 2 months into our relationship but didn't do anything because neither ... (140 words)

Should I give in and date my friend if I'm not really attracted to him?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am recently single (less than six months after a two and a half year relationship), and I have been enjoying myself somewhat. I haven't been dating anyone, but I've had some casual hookups and it's been going well. Not that I am against being in a relationship again, I'm just ... (310 words)

Can I make him forget about his ex?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, the guy i have been sending messages to telling him how much i like him still loves his ex. i am talking to him on myspace and he is telling me how much he loves her and how she thinks he is talking behind her back, and etc. anyways is there any way i could make him move... (102 words)

My b/f seems to pick fights with me over everything, how can I stop him?

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15 February 2009 (F)

- How is it possible for two people to love each other and constantly fight? My b/f seems to pick fights with me over everything and I don't know how to stop him. It seems I can't make a comment about anything. The other night, we were watching a movie and I was watching the ... (362 words)

I'm confused with this girl, is it really bad timing?

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15 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok ill put this in point form so its not a bible to read -Im 19 and this girl is 21 and we go to school together -We've known each other for about 7 months now and we're close -For a good 5 months she flirted with me like crazy drawing hearts on my hands, always being arou... (253 words)

What can be done about the lack of passion and all the other flaws in my marriage?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, this is going to be long and complicated but I would really appreciate your help. I met my husband 8 years ago and we have just had a gorgeous daughter. Up until around 6 months ago we had a good relationship. Now I am all messed up because I feel I have been ... (1105 words)

She moved out because she thought I was cheating, not true, what should I do?

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15 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Before you judge me I have anger management problems so I get angry very easily but I am getting help for it. Anyway me and my girlfriend (of a year) had this fight the other day. She found this flirty text on my phone that my chicky friend sent me. She get really mad at me ... (143 words)

Lonely city chick!

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel lonely. I live in a city in which the only person I had was my bf. I kicked him out a couple of weeks ago and has not come back. We had a family phone plan and I decided to look through our monthly statements and found out he was talking to another girl. When I asked ... (280 words)

I need your opinion guys... is he playing with me?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok,so there's this guy and he is my 'friend'. About a month ago we were talking and i had the guts to tell him i like him. He told me he likes me back but i didn't believe him..i still don't. He has a reputation of been a liar and a player. We are not going out but we kiss ... (106 words)

How can I talk her into having sex with me again after all these years?

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15 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, when I was 9 me and my first cousin who was 11 and a girl, had sex. This lasted for like two years, until my parents broke up and I moved away. Me and her still talk sometimes, but we never talk about what happened back then... but we haven't really seen each other since ... (136 words)

How can I persuade my wife to make this video?

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15 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I want to video tape my wife playing with herself but she doesn't want to how can I convince her to do it for me?... (25 words)

He will only have sex after we are married, what are my options?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had sex countless times before with only one guy over the course of two years. This guy is now my ex; has been for over two months now. Anyways, I've been friends-with-benefits with another guy for two days now and earlier today, he told me he wants to wait until marriage ... (145 words)

What is the G-spot?

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15 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - what the hell??!!1 i just want to know what this g-spot is everybody's tlking about..today is the first day i've ever heard of it and they say guys have it too What is it exactly???... (48 words)

Desperately want to have a loving relationship, but not aggressive enough to get what I need, please give me some suggestions ?

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15 February 2009 (M)

age - Learning to date and select a mate at 49 (or is there hope for me) entered relationship 25 yrs ago lookig for lifetime companion. She wasn't the one but got pregnant and was giving in to mother and sister to abort but feeling terrible and I was too so I comitted to stay... (253 words)

I am in a relationship which is unfulfilling at the moment, I want to get married, no evidence of that here, should I move on?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age - I want to move on. I have 3 children. My yongest 6 for another relationship. I am so unhappy. I am 45 want to get married. Not even living together. Xmas bad, no invites to meet his family or friends. V-day texted him and told him that I know he does not appreicate me or ... (260 words)

Is there someone who would have an answer to my question on ovulation?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't had my period since December 19, and they put me on Depo on January 26. I have been having sex recently nd I am pretty sure I had a break out bleed on the 13th of Februrary. Now I will get to my question after you have a breakout bleed, can you ovulate since I missed ... (82 words)

Being gay and a virgin, should I worry about the first time?

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15 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello I am 26 and a virgin. I have known that i'm gay since i was 13 and i have come no closer to having a relationship in the next 13 years. Never been kissed or anything! I'm not out but i've been using a lot of gay dating websites and still nothing. I am planning... (135 words)

Met him by chance, liked him a lot, he was supposed to call, didn't, should I try to find him?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently visited a city where a friend lives about 100 miles away from where I live. we went out that night and while looking for another friend a guy began talking to me in friendly banter. I immediatley liked him (very much a first for me) and proceeded to have a ... (242 words)

We just got married and he does not want to have sex with me, I don't ask, and the problem goes on, what do I do?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey every body. my husband is getting cold even we just get married.i talked about my situation before ,it is about sex. i don't know if it is normal to go with no sex in relationship for 2months especially if it is in the beginning.because he is my 1st man. i don't know what... (253 words)

I had sex with him, he had a girfriend, they broke up, but she wants him back, he 's undecided, what now for me?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I messed up this time and I hate myself for it! I'm 15 years old and i have had sex before with others but this time it was different, i'm not a whore but i had sex with this guy that i dont really even know. he snuck over at like 2 in the morning and he stayed all night lo... (193 words)

Valentines Day Opinionaire...

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick Question for Valentines Day... I have been taking a poll on peoples opinion on valentines day and I'd really appreciate any answers I can get. Is Valentines day to you a holiday to be embraced and celebrated, or is it strictly representative of consumerism an... (79 words)

How do you resist other girls when in a relationship?

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15 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - How do you resist other girls, Been going out with my existing girlfriend for about 5 months now... And there is about 3-4 girls who are all over me when I see them and I keep getting closer to accepting one of those invitations. They know I have a girlfriend but I can't help ... (123 words)

Has anyone ever heard of someone my age or older initiating a career in music and being successful?

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15 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Good evening (and happy Valentine's Day) everyone, I didn't feel comfortable revealing my identity, but I will say this: that I'm one of the "regular" aunts on this site. Anytime someone needs me, I'm always happy to listen and I understand feelings and try to invest though... (1464 words)

I'm bedding my best friend's daughter. How do I get out of this?

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15 February 2009 (M)

age - Today was the 6th morning I've woke up with my very good friend's daughter in my bed. It all started when she was shopping for a car. He, not being mechanically inclined, asked me to go with her and make sure she was not getting a piece of junk. I had her meet me at my house, ... (450 words)