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writes:dear cupid, my fiance and i have been together for three years now and he has only perform oral on me three times whereas i lose track of how many times i heve gave him oral.i have asked why he wont do it and all he says is i just dont want to.im tired of going down on him if he wont return the favor.how can i get him to without losing him?
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reader, loving arms  +, writes (17 February 2009):
I agree with the people who say stop pleasuring him and think hard about whether you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who cannot/will not be honest with you and is selfish as well. Doesn't sound good does it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): Stop going down on him. Really it's that simple. It may seem like it's just foreplay, but it reveals a lot about the relationship. Who wants to be in a relationship where you're the only one putting in effort? If he continues to be unwilling to even discuss it with you I'd say take a long look at the rest of your relationship and make sure that this is the guy you want to be locked down with for life. Crappy communication skills AND selfish? I'd say next!
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (16 February 2009):
 just talk to him, ask him to tell you the true reason why he wont do that..tell him that what ever it is you'll understand...comunacation is key
gudd luck
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