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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Alternatives to shaving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I used to have unbelievably long, dark hair on my arms. It was literally about 3 inches long, all the way from my wrists up to about 5 inches above my elbow (above there it was/is quite fine and unnoticeable). It was also quite thick and dark. It made me really ... (195 words)

I'm sooooo scared that I've gone down the wrong road.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been brought up in a Christan background. I have a lovely family, they do not drink or swear, just a normal loving family. I've been with my fiance for 3 years. I'm sooooo scared that I've gone down the wrong road. Is this what god has planned for me? His parents ... (143 words)

I'm beginning to feel kind of bored with my boyfriend, we do the same old stuff each and every day.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I got with my boyfriend of 4 months, I used to text this lad and we were like best mates. He admitted he fancied and has done for a long time. I was quite shocked and I felt like I had a kind of connection for him too, I left it for a while because this lad didn't want ... (209 words)

How do I let go of resentments toward boyfriend and feel closer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I let go of resentments toward boyfriend and feel closer? I have been dating a great guy for several months who treats me very well. Everything had been going well until I started focusing more on our incompatibilities instead of the good things about him and our rela... (237 words)

In-love-with-a-dork

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in such annoying situation with a guy right now. he's really cute and funny and always really nice to me, i only met him last month but one of his friends is my best friend. i told my best friend that i liked him, which she told him after he told her that he liked me... (185 words)

Is it normal to not like porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

11 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it normal to not like porn? All my friends always talk about the porn they watch but whenever I try to watch it... I didn't find it very interesting or arousing, I prefer to just use my imagination when I am masturbating. Is there something wrong with me? By the way I've ... (118 words)

I need some valentine's day help...

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know there's loads of questions on girls getting their better half something for Valentines day but none of them answer my question. I've never done Valentines day before. My boyfriend is staying over from Friday to Tuesday, and for Saturday I was thinking of doing him som... (150 words)

Is he doing the sensible thing here by keeping us at arms length?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need a straight answer. I suffer from post trauamtic stress disorder so am inclined to get paranoid from time ot itme so need anothers opinion. About a month ago my high school boyfriend got back in touch. We havent spoken in 3 years because I moved away and we now live at ... (277 words)

Am I just being stupid by not giving Jimmy what he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, (Not their real names) I love Matt (18 yrs old) I love Jimmy (14 yrs old) I am Sarah (14 yrs old) Matt is my ex, we dated when I was 12 and he was 16. I never really got over him, as in, I tend to fall back for him whenever I really think of him or see him. W... (210 words)

Will she forgive me and give me another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Can anyone help... my wife and I recently split up because I was drunk one night and ended up in bed with a man, the thing is I can't remember how I got there. Since we have split up I've told her all the truth, that I have been having these gay feelings for a while now and ... (190 words)

I don't know where my life is going right now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

11 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well me and my girlfriend are taking a break from dating because I'm in a tough spot in my life. no job, no money, I don't know what else to do. We've been dating for a little 3 years.I do miss and love her. I am 28 years old. It's just that I wasn't happy the way things are ... (192 words)

I'm looking for tips to talk to him and maybe hangout.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - I met a new guy at the gym. I had my class t-shirt on so he knows how old I am. The last guy I met there was way older than me. He has been there the last two times. The first time I saw him I saw that he was cute and fun, joking around with his friend. I saw him eyeing me bu... (185 words)

Should I tell him I consider him a good friend and NOTHING MORE?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, this situation is really driving me crazy... I had mentioned that this guy (former college professor of mine) and I had become really good friends. We've known each other for about five years, been really good friends for about 2 1/2 to three and have been flirting ba... (414 words)

I've had a crush on him for the longest time. Should I give him a Valentine's day present? (I need an answer ASAP)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just got into Secondary School(I think it's called High School) and I saw this guy who was really really hot and adorable. The just the other day, I was flipping through my old school yearbook and I saw his picture and I checked with the yearbook I found in the new schoo... (361 words)

A moment of weakness...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 9 years just sat me down the other day, and told me that 6 years ago he had a moment of weakness and with a co workder pulled over in a parking lot and and pulled his pants down, and before anything could happen the cops pulled up and he has regreted it ever since ... (141 words)

Body dysmorphia???

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11 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hey. I'm 21 years old, and since I was 17 I have been experiencing something that I thought was pretty normal. I know every woman has body worries, but I feel like mine are getting out of control. I'm a size 10 and weigh just under 9 stone-and I'm aware that that is a normal ... (465 words)

The guilt is eating me alive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just cheated on my girl friend of one year. I knew it was wrong and once things started to progress from just kissing I had to stop because I just knew that what I was doing was a terrible thing. I told the girl I had to stop and I just went home. I feel terrible for what I ... (106 words)

Do men appreciate valentine's cards or is it just women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men like valentine's cards or is it a bit tacky?... (11 words)

Is it ok to give a valentine's card to my male teacher?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it ok to give a valentine's card to my male teacher? I don't mean it romantically (the card says "You're a cool cat")... it's just that he's always been really nice to me so it's a thank-you. Is that weird at all? Could he take it the wrong way?... (50 words)

He has trouble staying hard and has never finished. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years and have been sexually active with him for over a year. He has trouble staying hard and has never finished. I feel terrible. What should we do?... (39 words)

No time or privacy for masturbation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It's a shame, I live in a very small house with paper thin walls, 95% of the time whenever I'm home there's someone else home in my family and I never feel comfortable about doing anything while theres people in the house or next room. It's like I really want to you know, and ... (109 words)

Should I make contact with my old teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a real thing for this teacher that I had. He left around a year ago now and I haven't been able to stop thinking about him, I actually cried when he left. Obviously he doesn't teach me anymore and I'm over 16. We used to get on so well, we had a laugh together and shared ... (151 words)

Should I just go cold turkey and not write him any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I will pare this down to the most essential elements. Me: 29 year old female. In high school I was the smart, funny but overweight girl, who had friends but never a boyfriend. He: My major crush in high school, goodlooking, funny and charming. After high school, I lost... (467 words)

I can never tell whether blokes like me or want to be just friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5757 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi how can u tell if someone wants to be with you or just mates? I can never tell whether blokes like me. can i have some advice please... (29 words)

I kissed a girl and now everyone thinks I'm either gay or really, really stupid.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a party on saturday night, and got really incredibly drunk. I know this was a stupid idea, before any of you start, and I regret it so badly. The problem is that I kissed a friend -- a girl -- and now the whole of the school, my brother and my parents seem to think I'... (137 words)

Everytime we have a big argument, my husband threatens divorce!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know almost all married couples have arguments and fight occasionally. The thing which bothers me is every time we have a big argument, my husband threatens of divorce. We have a 3 yr old son and have been together for 8 yrs. We are Indians and divorce is not common for us. I ... (102 words)

Anal sex tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am hoping to get some tips on anal... my bf and i have been trying baby steps with it and im cool with it, i was just wondering if i could get some tips on it. ... (38 words)

I don't think he ever wants to get married... should I walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - we have been together for 5 long yrs. we have grown children, he is twice divorced, i have never been married. we are very much in love with each other, yet this issue causes a break-up then back together relationship. i feel he wants to live together and never plans on ever ... (86 words)

Do men like receiving Valentine's gifts?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do men like receiving valentine cards/gifts ??!... (7 words)

Valentine's Poetry for Cupiders...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

- As VALENTINE'S DAY fast approaches, and Cupid is having a wild time with his Arrows, I wanted to share some lines of poetry. LOVE, WHAT IT IS by Robert Herrick (1591-1674) Love is a circle that doth restless move In the same swee... (119 words)

How can I make V-Day not an "acid test", but meaningful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

- I am so in a fog about Valentine's Day! Last weekend, I just felt so very close to my guy, though our relationship is not very well-defined. I looked at cards yesterday, but didn't buy any... yet. And chocolate, too, have a better idea about that, knowing his taste. But I kind ... (114 words)

How can I help her get over her ex and feel better about herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

11 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so me and her have been talking for awhile, she assured me she carea bout me and i mean alot to her, you can tell she lieks me but right now shes not ready for a realtionship because she is in the process of getting over a mean break up with her ex, the guy JUST LAST WEEK ... (169 words)

Why is he chatting to some random girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, my boyfriend gave me the password to his email account about a couple of years ago to check something for him when he was out. I was boried the other day and I looked in his email account (I know i felt bad as soon as I did it). Well I found that hes been chatting to a girl ... (163 words)

We're dating but both still have profiles on dating sites?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my bf and I met on an online dating site. The thing is we both still have the profiles up! He brought it up a few times and said, "I'm thinking about deleting the profile." But he never did. I know that he's logging on every day. I haven't mentioned this to him but ... (139 words)

I want a name that is mine..not a generic name!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've posted before about how I hate my name, and I've decided I want to change it. It doesn't sound like a big deal, but I've never been able to identify with the legal name I got. I feel like it's not even my name and I was meant to be named something else. I've hated it ... (970 words)

Am I being unreasonable or is she letting me down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Last week my best friend died tragically and today was her funeral. The past week has been horrendous for me. My fiance is away visiting family at the moment and has not really what I would consider supportive of my loss and grief. Today I have send her several texts as s... (191 words)

Domination in bed - any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i was just wondering.... i want to get into more domination like stuff with my boyfriend we both like being aggressive in bed and we need/ want to spice it up a little bit... i was wondering if anyone had any suggestions? fun toys costumes?... thanks... (47 words)

I'm pregnant and I do not want to have this baby!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I went to the doctor to get birth control and found out that I was pregnant. I already have 3 beautiful kids and I don't want anymore. Hubby has mixed feelings - guilt being the biggest. I know that I cannot handle another child and I am freaking out. What can I do? I am ... (101 words)

Is it normal to get spots on your chest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - is it normal to get spots on your chest in the middle? and how can i get rid of the spots? the same as any other or what??? :S... (31 words)

Problems with Momma's boy... what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my current bf for 3 years and I think the only time we have problems is when his mom gets involed. My daughter and I moved in with him about six months ago and live in a house she has bought for him. He is a fulltime student at a local University and does not ... (303 words)

The office scandal - what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am bisexual, my coworker and friend knows I gave big hints. I really like her she's in a unhappy / abusive marraige. We have had a connection always touching each other hands 2 her complmenting my voice. She and I have a eye connection thing going on -she waits till I look at ... (347 words)

I have a boyfriend and a daughter and I keep thinking about the great guy from my holiday!...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know what to do. I recently met this guy on holiday who was lovely and we liked each other a lot. However, I have a boyfriend already. The guy knew that as I told him so nothing happened between us but we had such a lovley moment togehter, he was like my best freind ... (176 words)

Long term relationship fizzling out? Love him too much to leave.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over four years now. we have our ups and downs, but mainly its been ups. we only broke up once for like three days last summer and he realized how dumb he was a came back. Lately he has not been very affectionate and does not really seem to be ... (389 words)

I will always be in love with my husband but I don't feel the way I used to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - There was once a time that I could really smile and feel this beautiful content feeling for my husband. Look at our pictures and smile. Back in 2002 when him and I got back together after a 1 1/2 separation he promised me that he will never think or look at another women again. ... (456 words)

I love my ex but he hates me because my friends set us a trap...

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im gonna say it straightforward...my ex hates me well...thats the way it seems and i mean i didnt really say anything nasty when he dumped me over a text after spending almost the whole day together!that was like three weeks ago and when he dumped me i asked why was it my ... (315 words)

I still love him very much with all the mess he has done. Is this crazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met my husband 9 years ago and we will soon be having our 8th anniversary and I am have a hard time deciding if I should stay in this relationship. For the 1st year things was wonderful but, soon after our daughter was born he begin to cheat, staying out all night and no ... (177 words)

I'm doing all the legwork in the relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 20 years old and have been with the love of my life for about 7 months now, we have a terrific past with each other before dating and now that were finally together its been the happiest times of my life. Before we were head over heels for each other and she told me I'm ... (358 words)

How do I believe this when I have heard empty words at least 9 times before?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I need some advice. I was with my boyfriend for over 6 years. The last 2 1/2 years I have spent overseas. But we would spend summers together, christmas, easter and see each other throughout the year. He has cheated on numerous occasions. I have always... (188 words)

She seems too interested for someone who doesn't care! is she jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

11 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was close to a girl a while ago, one night something happened and all that changed and she started dating another guy, we werent dating but things between us had been complicated. I have recently started talking to her again an I have gotten close to another girl. The girl i ... (165 words)

Shouldn't I love him no matter what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my bf, he's a great guy. But sometimes I wish he were better looking. I make him wear a hat all the time cos his hair is awful and he's going bald. But I sometimes feel like that is really messed up. Shouldn't I love him no matter what? But it really bothers me when he ... (103 words)

4 years and I'm bored with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - help please, I'm driving myself crazy. i've been with my guy for four years. He made me really happy and i used to believe he was the perfect person for me. However, four years later i'm beginning to doubt us. He's been a perfect gentleman, and a great bf. I know I can trust ... (191 words)

Unprotected sex..strange symptoms & pregnancy concerns!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. im 17 years old and had unprotected sex 5 times in the last week (stupid thing to do i know). im due my period in two days . i am now experiencing -nausia-fatigue-cramps-pimples-light headaches-etc.....someone told me that it could be my hormones kicking in because ... (117 words)

My b/f spends all his time gaming!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is obsessed with gaming/computers, and will spend upwards of 12 hours a day at his computer. One weekend he spent all saturday on his computer, and promised me that the next day he wouldn't spend any time on it. The next day, he started gaming two hours after we... (209 words)

How do I tell my b/f I want to finish it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for nearly four months now. He has a really great personality and I like him a lot but to be honest, he's not the type of person I could see myself with in the long term. We have very few common interests, he's also a good bit older than me (I'm ... (226 words)

She's rather return an unknown call then to return my call

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I had a girlfriend. We had problems with communications. Many times When call her, she will not answer or return my calls. However, when she needs my help she will call and I will quickly answer the call.I have called her on this. She says that she is sorry but keeps ... (471 words)

He gives off signals of being interested. Is he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this senior student in our school. When he taught us biology(because it's a practice in our school that senior students should teach freshmen upto juniors, they are like substitute teachers) and i'm a sophomore. that time, there was 3 of them who was teaching us. and ... (150 words)

She loves me, doesn't want a sexual relationship! Thoughts??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

11 February 2009 (M)

age - After 4.5 years being engaged,I accidentally discovered my fiance' just recently got on eHarmony, and was very briefly on it 17 months ago. We lived together for 2 yrs, until she got a job 70 miles away [she hadn't worked in 5 yrs] 20 months ago. I also found she's been telling ... (165 words)

My married lover says its ok for me to go out with other guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i!ve been in a long distance relationships to a married man.we always keep in touch,but one day he told me that he has nothing to promise me about our relationships he said all those things to make our relationship clear,bec.he said he loves woman,i realized that he has another ... (92 words)

I'm scared to leave..scared to stay..I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age - i have been in my house for 25 years. i moved here to be near my mum and dad, their house was a few doors away. now my two sons ahve left home my mum has died and my dad as gone to shelted housing. i am still grieving for my mum she only died in july 2008. i cannot get used to ... (120 words)

I don't want to lose my husband but I can't live with a liar!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Need some help.. How do you trust a husband that has lied on numerous occasions?? He's never cheated or anything like that but we've had alot of problems lately over his drinking and friends.. We seperated earlier this year because once again he lied and went out to drin... (233 words)

Monogamy NOT marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - For years I played the field. I had a couple of relationships along the way and was faithful in them. But the women wanted marriage and I did not so we parted ways. Now I am at the point i am tired of dating different women. And I became celibate because I thought that avo... (246 words)

I can't seem to get through to him that I am leaving!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently caught my boyfriend in the act of watching porn. And, confronted him about it, he denied it. Even though I do have proof, he asked what the proof was deleted it and said I was a liar. I just can't seem to get it through to him that I am leaving, and moving away. ... (64 words)

LDR & I feel like my b/f ignores me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

- Me and my bf have a long distance r/ship and I honestly feel like ending it. I constantly feel like I'm not good enough for him, that maybe he doesnt feel the same way for me and maybe hes interesting in someone else. Since its a logn distance r/ship, keeping in contact throu... (341 words)

Do guys prefer blondes over brunettes?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - do most guys perfer a pretty blonde to a brunette. any guy i have known always went for the blondes heavy or thin. do guys not like brunette are we not good enough or pretty enough like the blondes... (40 words)

He says he couldn't sleep without hearing my voice. Does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if he likes me?? He phoned me every night.And he say that he could nt sleep without hearing my voice.He claimed that this has become a habit. Should I ask him if he likes me?? But I am afraid this would ruin our friendship.... (55 words)

My wife is leaving me because I cheated

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

11 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My Wife of 2 1/2 years is leaving me because i was unfaithful on more than one occasion. I realized I messed up and want to fix it, but she just keeps saying no. no matter how much i beg and plead that ive changed and will get better, she doesn't trust me and said she has ... (73 words)

I get to a certain point and then its painful! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when i masturbate (clit) and i feel the massive build up it feels good up to that point then i start to feel like its sorta painful or sore and i have to stop ! can anyone suggest a reason ?or advice ? cause i want to cum for my b/f but i just cant get past that point...... (59 words)

What to get a guy when for V-day when you just started seeing him?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you get a man for valentines day - whom you have only just started seeing? We have liked each other for a long while, however it has only become more within the past two weeks. Would really appreciate your suggestions!! ... (43 words)

How can I not fall for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I guess I get easily emotionally attached to people because I kissed a player type guy at a party and now he is all I think about. While we were kissing, he kept touching my boobs and put my hand down his pants. I knew that I really shouldnt have sex with him so I left. I ... (131 words)

What signals to guys give when they like a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, How do you know if a guy likes a girl? Hey guys what signals do you give to girls? Thank you... (30 words)

My husband cheated on me and has done nothing to get my trust back, help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - People think I am doing great because of what I portray for people to see. It is really hard to leave personal issues at the door when it affects my family. I still love my kids dad despite the horrible things he have done to and upon me. We've worked things out several ... (315 words)

Fooled around with a married man what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

11 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - There's this really cute guy at my work that we flirt with each other a lot. Anyway we made out and did others things at his place. To a very long story short I found out hes married and of course he didn't tell me and I completely regart it. Does this make me a slut? Since I'm ... (127 words)

LDR gone sour I need help!!

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11 February 2009 (F)

- I am in a LDR for the past 5 years. Our relationship had been through some rough times, but we have been able to work it out. However, this last time, I don't think I had been able get pass through it. What happened was that he was messing around with another girl, and alth... (224 words)

Confused and disgusted what should I do?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so confused with this guy! Im so sick of men giving the run around.We had a great night together last week.We had sex for the first time after going on dates for a couple months,it was very nice and romantic.I mean super sweet,not like a slam bam thank you mam type of thing ... (227 words)

Bipolar boyfriend I need help!

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all Agony Aunts, I once again need your advice, and thank you in advance for taking the time to read my question. I think I may be in love, I've been friends with him for 4 years, we've been friends with benefits for a year, because he is afraid of commitment. And ... (196 words)

I was unfaithful but never had sex. My wife doesn't believe me, how can I get her back?

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11 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my Wife of 2 1/2 years just recently separated. I was unfaithful more than once and twice with the same female. No sex whatsoever was involved at anytime, but she doesn't believe me. I'm sure I wouldn't either if I were in her place. I also looked at porn on the ... (103 words)

I'm back with my ex-husband and my ex-boyfriend is contacting me!

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend text me today and wanted me to come see him. There's a big long story behind all this but I'm not sure I should get into it now. Anyways, When we broke up, me and my ex husband of 15 years (and 2 daughters) got back together. We're together now but I have to ... (437 words)

What are the associated risks with anal for a man?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my boyfriend is interested in trying anal. Im completely fine with it but obviously I don't have a penis so were going to buy a double sided dildo so I can still be pleasured while he trys this. But the only problem is, im worried I could hurt him. What are the associat... (66 words)

What should I do if I want to see him again, without making it awkward?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This weekend I ran into a guy at the bars whom I have always had a crush on, but he has had a girlfriend the entire time I've known him. He has been with his girlfriend for 2 1/2 years. Well, I ended up going home him with him after the bars and fooled around for almost 3 ... (290 words)

Does he like me? Or her?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so first of all i must put out there that i am only fourteen so dont think i am like in college or something but i like this guy in my grade he is fifteen years old his name is not important. but we flirt a lot...or at least i think we do. i looked it up online to see... (303 words)

2 best friends are fighting!

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok,so my 2 bff's are in a fight and 1 of them doesnt want 2 be her friend anymore no matter what i say or do,but my other bff wants 2 make peace.and it feels like 1 of them wants me to choose but she says thats not what shes doing.and i have a special bond with each of them and ... (85 words)

Am I holding on to a hopeless crush?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - 3 years ago I truely fell in love for a senior that was my drill instructor and best friend. He went to boot camp and became a Marine and basically sucludes himself, but this interesting friendly relationship was abusive with his demeaning, hurtful words (never physical). I ... (206 words)

I want to ask her out but not sure I'm brave enough

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11 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's three people in our group: me, my photographer friend, and the girl I like. We're pretty good friends with each other. I suspect she have an idea that I like her (otherwise why do I spend so much time talking to her??). Only problem is, I suspect my photographer ... (501 words)

What's up with this guy? He's really weird!

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok theres this guy that goes to my school. We don't really know eachothr. Everytime we pass eachother in the hallway he looks at me and sometimes smiles really weirdly. The other day I was walking to 7th period and I passed him and he did the weird smile. Then he ran up to the ... (125 words)

I think my boyfriend's fascination with lesbians is stupid!

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11 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Am I stupid or wrong if I think my boyfriend's fascination with "lesbians" is juvenile and stupid? I will admit I feel slightly insecure/inadequate, since of course to him these girls (who would have to be bi, he said...) would have to be hot for it to work. I feel kinda b... (380 words)

WHY did my b/f cheat on me??

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey recently my boyfriend cheated on me and im having a really hard time dealing with it... what keeps playing on my mind is WHY?? i just want to know so i can try to logically understand the concept however when i asked him he said it was just a stupid stupid moment... how ... (80 words)

Is looking at live nude webcam girls porn or cheating?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have asked this question before but feel the need to ask one more time. Has any girl out there had her boyfriend look at live nude girls on a video cam? Or are there any guys who watch it? Is it normal and I'm being old-fashioned or is it disgusting and not just regular porn? ... (137 words)

They say I am a one burner

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11 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi have weird question. I have a beautiful girlfriend whom love me and always be there for me.Sometimes i feel like break up because my friend say we are talking too long 4 years. They say i am one burner. What your view on this... (45 words)

Would you be the g/f of a guy who "isnt your type?"

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Would you be the girlfriend of a guy who is not necessarily your type looks wise.. if he treats you nice (except for one screw up) waits to do things when you are ready isn't cheap is sweet BUT worries about whether you will cheat a lot..his x hurt him I dont know how ... (86 words)

Does he not want his sister to know about us?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I call my boyfriend out of the blue. He likes me calling him every now and then.. This time he was relaxing in his room and his sis was there. We talked about a minute or two. And I noticed he wasn't talking that much so I let him go and went back to work. Also, he d... (132 words)

I want to change my name but I'm worried about the fallout if I do!

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I realize there are worse things, but my problem has bothered me a lot for over two decades, and lately it has just been driving me crazy. I have a full name that I not only hate... but I feel like it isn't even my true name. I feel like I was meant to be named something ... (391 words)

How am I supposed to get over the ex when she is my best friend?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Every single website i've seen so far on how to get over a break up says NO COMMUNICATION. But I can't do that. My ex is my best friend, one of my only friends...i dont have many. I want to still be best friends with her, and hang out with her just as much. but how am i ... (63 words)

Is this premature ejaculation? Don't know what to do!

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11 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, i am 17 years old and i have been dating a girl for almost 3 months now. she comes to my house and we watch movies and cuddle on the couch, eventually we make out for a long time and touch eachother form 40 minutes to an hour. when she puts her hhand down my pants and ... (117 words)

Ex says he's "blown away" but our time together but where will it go?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - So, my boyfriend and I broke up last July. We had only been seeing each other for about 3 months, but we were very close and got along great. One day, out of the blue, he sent me an email and broke up with me. He said I wasn't outgoing enough for him. i was totally ... (308 words)

What are the signs that says you're ready for sex?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you no when your ready for sex? ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and im 16 hes 19. im a virgin, and im really scared about the whole sex thing ive been fingered and that but i think it would really hurt any tips ? im wondering if anybody could help please. i w... (74 words)

Into pain! Any suggestions?

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11 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my lover and i are really in to pain we love it biting scratching hitting pinning etc...but i was wondering if anyone has any new tricks to help us torture each other hehe... (33 words)

Should I stay with who I'm with? Or make a switch?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, where to begin.... i met D almost 3 yrs ago online and we fell in love it was a great relationship everything i could ever dream of in a man, he was. It was a long distance relationship. Then cos of him having to study so much in med school and health issues with his ... (252 words)

Best way to achieve Big "O" and what to use?

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. What is the best thing to use to achieve orgasm. Is there any thing that might be liying around my house I could use? Also, I am wondering what the best sex positions are.... (35 words)

Very irregular period--3X in one month??

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11 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello! im 19 yearz old unmarried... i have irregular periods for last 2 months.... having heavy bleeding after 10 or 15 days... i dont know why it happens like this...in one month im having three times periods.... im so tense abt this irregularity... plz tell me is it really v... (72 words)