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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I cant tell if he's asking to be nice or friendly or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

- Hi there. I work with a guy who is forever asking me what I am doing after work. I cannot tell if he is asking to be friendly or if he is interested. I have noticed that he seems kind and compassionate but wonder if his question is based on his kind nature or if her is inter... (89 words)

V-day Do guys like surprises?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Any ideas of what to get my bf for V-Day? Is clothes okay...I bought him (2) dress shirts and plan on buying him a pair of jeans to go with it. Is that too much? I'll be spending a little over $50. On V-Day it will be 3 wks. of us being together (officially) We've known each... (123 words)

She says she doesn't miss me but I don't want to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend broke up with me a week ago after almost nine months. before we started going we were friends and she was dating someone else who she broke up with because she wanted to be with me. we got along great and fell in love. last month i started giving her attitude ... (432 words)

Jealous? Or thinking badly of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this group of guys the other day and we partied at their house together. I kissed one of them two nights in a row and he wanted to do more, started touching me all over but I took his hands off and left. I really like him but he seems to be a party boy, so I guess it will ... (159 words)

V-day ideas for a guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have been with my boyfriend for two months now and i dont know what to get him for valentines day. i dont want anything too soppy and i have also been looking for a card that isnt soppy because we havent been together that long. we are like best friends and because we are ... (134 words)

How can I get over my ex quicker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I dated this one guy (we'll call him X) the summer between sophomore and junior years but the timing was really off for numerous reasons. The last couple weeks, though, we started hanging out again but my ex (we'll call him Z) and I just broke up two months ago after a two ... (124 words)

Is hubby contemplating an affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age - I have been having a "gut" feeling that my husband is getting a little too close to one of his secretaries...I recently found numerous of personal texts to her from him and vice versa. Nothing real out the ordinary yet...but i feel it's getting a little too close and a little ... (134 words)

I think I might be sick next time..

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a smelly cock and he keeps wanting me to go down on him, what do I do? I keep wretching - think i may be sick the next time- help!... (33 words)

My childhood memories have made my life a rollercoaster ride, how can I get past them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need help and that's why I'm here. My story here has not been told to many people and I have not seeked any help as I have been trying to help myself but it hasn't worked. When I was a child my mother took me away from my dad (whom I was very close with at 6 years ... (1233 words)

How can I get my Mom to see how awful she's being?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately me and my mum just haven't been getting on. There is only the three of us, me, mum and dad and the dog lol. Of course, since there is only me and my parents (and the dog) its not surprising that we keep butting heads every other day. But lately me and mum have rea... (443 words)

He's giving me a promise ring - what should I get him for V-Day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I give my perfect boyfriend for valentines day if he will give me a promise ring?... (18 words)

What should I do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i apologise if this question is a bit complicated but i'm confused about things, and need a bit of help. A few weeks ago, me and my bf (we'll call him J) split up, and i was devastated. The weekend after i dealt with things in a bad way by going to the cinema with this guy ... (291 words)

Questions about chlamydia...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Can you have chlamydia and not know it? and if so can you pass it on to someone else during sex even if you dont ejaculate inside?... (27 words)

Can you call this a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Umm Im not really seeking advice here...Im just asking for opinions and I would really like to hear Your opinions...There's this Guy I know{He's 18}...he Lives about 6 hrs away from this girl he has fallen in love with. They met Through a friend of his[His friend lives in the ... (128 words)

Am I overreacting to this man threatening me in a parking lot?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just wanting some advice. I am a mobile carer and this afternoon i arrived at one of my ladies and there was no where to park outside her house. So i parked two doors up knowing i would only be twenty minutes and i hoped to be out of the way by the time the owner came home. B... (385 words)

I'm pregnant... what happens if I have sex right now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am 16 and well....prenant. I am a couple monthes in. I havent been to a doctor so i ahvent been able to ask but... Well, okay so the first time i lost my virginity was when i actually got pregnant. ironic, right? anyway, me and my boyfriend are hanging out tonight and i ... (79 words)

How can I get my roommate out of my mind so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently had a girl move into my house, she is 17 years old and still in high school. I share the house with my step brother and another roommate as well. About a week ago me and a friend got pretty drunk and came home late Friday night. My roommate was still up and my ... (213 words)

I'm stressing out! Am I having an orgasm or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, This is kind of a personal question, and i wonder if anyone else has the same experiences or not. Since i was about twelve (five years ago) i have been rubbing my clitoris and believing that i have been making myself have an orgasm, but recently ive read th... (396 words)

My birthday and V-Day in a week and I have a cold sore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Its only a week 'til my birthday and almost valentines and i'm coming out in a coldsore, i know for some people (especially me) they are just a part of they're life and its one of them annoying pains you just have to learn to deal with, but there's alot of upcoming events ... (147 words)

Do I tell my best friend about his GF's dirty intentions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend has a girlfriend. his girlfriend doesnt just like him she likes another guy. i really like my best friend. the other guy that she likes told me that she told him that she wants to have sex with him. should i tell my best friend or not?... (50 words)

I need advice, my BF just confessed that he is female!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and i've fallen for what i was made to believe a 17 year old boy, recently, a month into our relationship he has confessed he is a 15 year old female but mentally has always been male, he looks male, acts male and sounds male yet has female genitalia, he is changing into ... (124 words)

How can I make V-Day special for my long distance man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this amazing, loving, perfect boyfriend. We have been together for almost a year and this will be our first Valentines. Unfortunately due to the fact that we live almost 3-4 hours away from each, we will not be able to see each other. I really want to something special ... (74 words)

Protect Myself, or Trust my Friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This question is regarding a friend not a lover. My friend moved around the corner from me and her car broke down. The bus station is too far to walk and she has no way to get around. She asked me to borrow my car, and I let her use it everyday for over a week. Then, she ... (264 words)

I'm scared my ex-BF will share my personal info, why is he doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem it seems. I don't know how to deal with this. My ex broke up with me 4 months ago. I am over it, the thing is that he is always talking about me with my best friend who happens to be his friend too. Apparently he is checking his chat logs dating back when we ... (167 words)

How do I casually ask for a guys address?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright here's the problem, I bought these 2 necklace's and I really want to send the guy I'm madly in love with one of the two, but I'd have to do it by mail. But I don't know his address! I want to ask him but I'm scared it will get weird, how do I ask him for his address ... (64 words)

I really want to date him but he lives three hours away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, I Think I found the one. i know i'm Only 14 But i'v never Felt this Way before the only problem is he lives three hours Away and He Loves Me And i Love Him but i dont think He Believes in long distance, But i REALLY want this to work, the only way we stay in touch is ... (77 words)

Should I call to say I miss him or wait a month and then call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My dad past away 4 month ago. He was always there for me through all my relationships. When he passed away, they said I have to come live with my mother, who i havent seen since she left me at age 8 years old. Well i started living with her, she's Persian and really strict and ... (743 words)

My married man has disappeared, what's his story?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i am a 36 year old woman and i have been in a new job for 12 months. I absolutely love it after being at home for 6 years with my children. I have been with my partner for 17 years, reasonably happy. I have met a 54 year old married man at work who i feel completely ... (139 words)

Is my penis normal? And are my friends really as big as they say?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and have around a 3" penis when erect, is this normal? Also my "friends" say their like 6+ can this be true or are they just trying to show off?... (32 words)

How do I decide what (or who) is best for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. I am twenty eight. I have been in a relationship for two years. For the most part we have a good relationship. But I lack trust in him. I don't believe that he ever cheated, all though i caught him talking to an ex about a year ago. They text and all that ... (191 words)

Am I kidding myself or can my ex and I work it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my estranged husband has been telling me we can work things out, but then wont talk to me about our marriage. we've been married for 23 years. he started seeing another woman 4 months ago, and is sharing a flat with her. am i kidding myself that we can make it work ?... (56 words)

Is he really telling me the truth this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex wants me to take him back but I was really done with him this time. We have been together for 2 1/2 yrs straight and off and on for the other 3 1/2. It was his choice when we were not together. He was my first everything and we have a daughter. He cheated on me so many ... (204 words)

How can I tell her I like her without actually telling her that I like her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there I'm 14 and have not had a proper relationship with someone yet. I really like this girl at my school but am not sure if she likes me or not. I have not told anyone and do not talk to anyone about her because I don't really have anyone. So I joined this site. How can ... (118 words)

Is it okay to consider sex with a single mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I’m single. I have been friends with a beautiful woman who is a single parent of three. We had a lot of good times together. A few months ago she moved out of the area. We kept in touch. She said that if I was interested in getting away that I should come for a visit and see ... (194 words)

How do I tell my parents I'm in a relationship without hurting them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,i'm just after some advice. Several months ago (about 4months now) I started seeing a guy quite a lot older than me (25years). We have spent a lot of time together, got to know eachother and have fallen in love. We get on so well and have great fun whilst loving an... (142 words)

How can I convince my Mom to get her and us out of this house and this misery?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i am 16 and my parents are goin throuh divorce.....sorta. They have agreed to divorce and alls they do is yell. my mom is looking for a house. She cant talk about it in front of my dad b/c he starts rampaging about how she just needs to leave. But hes really just upset ... (285 words)

Does he want me just for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 27 years old, and it has happened to me many times, that guys only want to have sex with me, I am very atractive but I also have a great career, i am profetional and finantially stable, i am also very selective to pick my partners, so I can normally tell when a guy only ... (289 words)

Am I setting myself up to get hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age - Is she really interested as I am ? Met a woman six months ago while out at lunch. Gave her my card as we really really had a nice connected coversation and upon shaking hands the eye contact and chemistry was outstanding. Six months go by and I run across her again, never... (361 words)

Should I wait 5 years for him to leave his wife?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this man for almost three years now. He is perfect. He is kind, caring considerate, attentive, loving, great in the sack the problem is he is married. He has a child from the previous marriage and states he can't leave his new wife until his daughter ... (96 words)

Hubby with escourt while I was out of country at funeral!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I have been married for 14 years this June, no kids. My husband has always been into Porn websites and I have confronted him numerous times but he still goes onto them sites. We have not had sex in I dont know how long and its not from the want of trying on my par... (845 words)

Older woman will not think of me as a sex partner

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have a friend who is an older woman. I would like sex with her. However she does not think of me as a potential sex partner. How can I change that? ... (37 words)

Haven't been to doctor yet will my baby be ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 8 weeks pregnant and my body is feeling great..the first 4 weeks were horrible all i did was throwup and complain..just a week ago it all stop..im able to eat more not everything but more,,i still cant stand the smell of anything being cooked..could there something be wrong ... (106 words)

My boyfriend is interferring with his sister's love life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend wants his sister to stop going out with his very close friend. He just found out they are going out on dates and stuff...told her to end it. He feels that he's a bum and is only being nice to her to get into her pants. I guess he knows him that well. But last n... (123 words)

I want to go for it but don't wish to make a fool of myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help, to cut a long story short I lead a very "sheltered" life, I have never had a boyfriend never had any physical contact with a guy and i didn't bother me until I started my new job. A guy there wants a bit of fun and he is gorgeous (not sure what he see in me) ... (154 words)

Can he love me if he isn't attracted to me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I decided to go to therapy to deal with out communication issues and when we discussed our non-existent sex life it came out that he is no longer attracted to me. When we met I was about 15 pounds lighter but that was seven years ago before professional school, ... (131 words)

In love and want to take the step to forever!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with the same guy for almost a year now. we get along great. this is the same guy i almost married years ago. i have come to the conclusion that he will never stop drinking on a daily basis. i accept it. i dont approve of it but everyone has issues. he says now ... (154 words)

Can you get addicted from smoking just once?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well i am 19 years old..and i have never smoked a cigarette all my life..all my friends do..i want to try smoking 2 just once..is there anything wrong in smoking once..or would i get addicted???... (35 words)

Such a young age to lose his libido?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 21 and in the last two months he has seemed to lost his libido completely. And I was wondering what I can do to help him. And is it normal for him to lose his sex drive at such a young age? ... (45 words)

Odds of pregnancy when on pill and withdrawal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Last weekend I had unprotected sex (no condom) with my girlfriend. She is on the pill, and I pulled out before I came, but the possibility of pregnancy is still a little worry. I was just wondering if anyone knows the odds of pregnancy if the girl is on the pill and you pull ... (60 words)

My girl has left me after her father has passed away, should I give her time or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a girl (28) for over a year now. We were both in serious relationships before meeting, and fell in love in just a few months. We would contantly talk about how great we were for each other, and how much happier we were together than in any of our past ... (609 words)

I kissed another guy, how can I get my boyfriend to trust me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have made the biggest mistake of my life! I have a bf who i admit we have had our problems but yesterday i cheated on him and kissed another guy! It didnt even feel right. I confessed to him today and he is completely beside himself. He says he loves me but its going 2 take ... (73 words)

He doesn't love me, should I spend Valentine's day with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months, he doesn't love me (told me a couple of months ago - after I told him I loved him) He said it was too early for him (which is fair enough, I've accepted that and have not mentioned it again). But my question is, should I spend ... (144 words)

Could my pubic stubble hurt my bf during sex? Should I trim instead of shaving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm thinking about shaving "down there" but i was wondering... when you're having sex or other forms of sexual contact with a guy, doesn't that kind of hurt him in between days? i'm way too hairy to shave every day (it hurts really bad and i bleed and get horrible razorburn) ... (114 words)

How should I tell this older man I like him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. i am a bundle of nerves right now and I don't know what to do. i am in love with a guy 11 years my senior,and I think he loves me too.however there are complications...a lot of them.firstly,my father is his mentor.secondly,the age gap and that iam not 18 yet,but I... (168 words)

Could my boyfriend be gay because he watches she-male videos?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i`m 22 years old i have a 2 year old daughter and im 6 months pregnant and my boyfriends goes on porn alot but when i recentley check what videos hes been on it says chicks with dicks and shemales does that mean he could be gay?... (47 words)

I really need to know if you think he’s just using me for sex and if I should move on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well I meet this guy and he’s really sweet and the first day I meet him we went out on that same day and I think we hit it off, and then we went out 2 days in a row after that, I think I really like him but it’s so confusing because he said he didn’t want anything serious ... (304 words)

What's the difference between teenager love and adult love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i'd love to know the difference. i know adult love is more complicated but teenager love is also complicated and emotional too. but it's about ages and i don't know what's really the difference ? can anyone explain it to me please ?... (44 words)

After 5 years, my girlfriend wants to see what else there is! Please HELP.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone...So I have posted a few question regarding my situation with my girlfriend. We have been dating for almost 5 years and its has been amazing. I am 23 and she is 21. We have transitioned through highschool, proms, and life. We have dealt with a lot of change, but ... (435 words)

Why are people so hostile when they hear the truth?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - why are there so many people in society and especially on here that get so hostile? everyone asks for advice, but when some of them are given answers they turn nasty and don't want to know. or you just get plain rudeness. if you don't want to hear the truth why ask?... (57 words)

Is it OK to sleep with another man's wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it o.k to sleep with another mans wife. I have a married wowan friend at work who has expressed a wish to sleep with me, she has given me details of her marriage woe's etc. I admit she is very attractive. My ex wife cheated on me with my best friend, should I sleep with thi... (92 words)

I'm lost, how do I get over my ex girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i get over my ex girlfriend? i cant stop thinking about her. we just got out of a 9 month relationship . it seems such short time but through that time were the best moments of my life. i still love her so much and i just cant stop thinking about her. what do i do to get ... (70 words)

Why can't I make her happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Took her to dinner and a movie on Friday night. She stayed at my place on Saturday night. I picked her up, helped her pack her bag. We were getting a snowstorm that night and the next day. I tended on her hand and foot. Cooked for her, got her snacks and beverages. Treated her ... (267 words)

How to build a relationship with no love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age - I have been married for 30 years and 15 yrs ago i had a friendship which my wife found out about. for the last 15 years she has referred back to this relationship, she has become very jealous has become over weight and all we do is argue. i have lost my feeling and love for her ... (100 words)

My b/f keeps going out & partying with her and she's crushing on him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

- Would you be uncomfortable if your bf was going out partying with a girl, every weekend, and sometimes even during the week, but not just any girl, a girl who has a major crush on him, a girl who has made moves on him? My bf is doing all of the above. And whats worst, is ... (494 words)

He would never last more than 2 minutes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does this seem odd? I was with my ex boyfriend for 2yrs and in all that time when we had sex he never lasted more than 2 minutes! Hes only 30. But before i met him he had slept with nearly 100! We never talked bout our sex life i just accepted it. Thats a selfish lover is... (255 words)

My wife doesn't initiate sex easily

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Sir My wife does not initiate sex so easily. At times when i ask for it, she says you perform coitus if you wish. After my orgasm, in this case she is not co operating, after withdrawing my penis i would see white stuff all over my penis. i know the lubrication mean... (150 words)

He loves me? He loves me not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over four months now. Last night my boyfriend and I were laying in bed and I've been wanting to tell him I love him... I finally got up enough courage to do that. I said it and I got a lot of sweet kisses and touches but no I love you ... (183 words)

1st time sex and he had a glow on his face

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am just wondering what is that "glow" on my boyfriends face when we had sex for the first time? I'm not sure if you understand what I mean, but I'm just curious what that means, his face just seemed bright and glowing.... (43 words)

I've had a crush on him for a year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have this problem.. i have a crush on someone, i have a crush on him since january 23, 2008 -- so it means that i have a crush on him for a year. and he's a graduating student while i'm in sophomore year only.. my friends told me that i'm in love with him and my crush knew ... (97 words)

How do I get my mistreated brother away from my aunt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i've got this aunt and we used get along gr8 until now. she's been takin care of my baby brother since my parents died a few years ago. he's now 11 and she's started making demands for large amounts of cash. she says its to buy him stuff and pay for his school but none of ... (143 words)

My world is falling apart

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a really tough time in my life right now. My dog died and I thought that I was grieving but now I think that i'm depressed. I don't even smile anymore and if I do its for a short while. I also have problems at school with this guy named robert. People tell me he ... (161 words)

Am I better off on my own? Or not completely satified with my b/f?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend split about 7 months ago! Since then i have been seeing another boy who is soo sweet and caring and someone i really could live securely with for the rest of my life. However me and my ex only split up on the basis of our families not wanting us to be to... (346 words)

Consulation sex leads to pregnancy?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week i was very depressed and my boy friend took me to his house and consoled me and without my knowledge i spent the night with him. im feeling very dizzy these days, am i pregnant ?... (38 words)

Should I take my girlfriend back after she cheated on me?

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4 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I just found out yesterday that my girlfriend cheated on me. We've been together solidly for 3 months and on and off for 4 months before that. It was only a week ago that we lost our virginity to each other. It was my first time whereas she has had many boyfriends and ... (458 words)

How can I break my hymen, since using a dildo doesn't work?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a virgin, and I'd like to break my hymen myself, so I won't have to worry about the pain when I eventually have sex. The problem is, that I've tried inserting a dildo before, and was able to get it in, but there was no bleeding, and no pain. I'm not sure if this means ... (96 words)

Getting cold feet?

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4 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married for a number of years, we're in the process of buying a house and moving accross country. My best friend is female and everyone else has always said how well we get along and likened us to a married couple ourselves but it has always been plutonic. The... (275 words)

How can I get my husband to stand up for me in front of his parents and demand what is his?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for four years now. I love my husband to death but things just aint what it should be. The day I went to pick up my wedding dress my mother in law told me that if she could have, she would not allow me and my husband to get married. I thaught that we spoke ... (826 words)

I was bullied out of my last home, should I fight for justice or just let go?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age - HI i was bullied out of my last home (joint owner) and have struggled to get back on my feet. #my ex partner took loans against the mortgage as he conned me into signing them by saying he had the right as he paid the mortgage. at the end of the relationship (he had met som... (251 words)

Things aren't getting better with my fiance, should I broke up and be with the new guy?

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4 February 2009 (F)

- Im 20 and have been with a 27 yr old for 2 years. We got engaged on my 19th birthday and things were going great. Only problem was we had sex about once a month. We got a mortgage and a house together as i thought things between us would change. We both worked and came home to ... (396 words)

I'm pregnant and my hubby is constantly putting me down and cussing at me, will this ever change?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 8 wks pregnant with my first child...i recently got married to my high school sweetheart in sept of 08..been together since 06 recently he is being really mean and calling me nameslazy..etcand constanstly putting me down and cussing at me i tryed telling him the first tr... (86 words)

I'm fat and I'm depressed because I can't make my family happy, help!

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im depressed and my family is depressing im fat and i dont know what to do..i cant make my family happy enough. and i am not perfect can you help find a solution. oh and i join the rotc. and my grades have dropped!... (47 words)

We're still messing around after breakup, what's it mean?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with this guy in the yr 2005 we been through so much and ppl hated on us. but for some reason we still mess around on the low and its 2009 now. i feel like he has too much pride to let ppl know hes still into me after all the things we went through and after all ... (77 words)

From the mistress to the girlfriend

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am now dating a guy that I've known for 2 and 1/2 years. We first kind of started seeing each other this summer when I was his mistress while he was living with his ex g/f who was his g/f at the time. She found out that he was cheating on him and moved out. A few months later ... (136 words)

My b/f is ignoring me, calling me clingy & needy!

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been dateing my bf for about a month now and today i go up to hm cuz he hasent talked to me for a week he hasnt called or texted m worred he dont love me any more today i went up to him he ignored me then when i asked him what wrong hes just like leave me alone went with hs ... (95 words)

Cyber sex after my guy left! Is this cheating?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend that I love dearly.We have a very good relationship. Lastnight after he came offline I was still on my computer.He had to go to work so I sent him off to bed.Not that I had anything planned,but I knew he was tired. I met this man online a few nights ago,s... (129 words)

My brother's girlfriend plays "Dr. Jeckell/Mr. Hyde"

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4 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My brother's girlfriend make teases me a lot when he isn't around. She calls me names and makes me feel bad about myself all because I'm overweight (but I'm dieting) but when my brother is around she puts this "innocent act" on. I did nothing to her and I'm always very nice to ... (113 words)

I'm not sure if I'm attracted to him

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started hanging out with these two girls and they introduced me to their guy friend. We all started to hang out a lot and I think he started to like me because of the way he looks at me and talks to me. He is funny and nice but physically not my type. He is kind of short, not ... (115 words)

Was she a virgin? or did my ex b/f take it from her?

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4 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need to know if my girlfriend is a virgin. She claims she is, my friends say she is not, i don't know what to think. Before we started dating, her ex bf (my best friend) and her were in her basement drunk and naked making out. He was on top of her and he began to slide his ... (265 words)

He comes in with a girl on his arm but I thought he liked me?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i like this one guy and we were planning on going to this dance our school was having if we could. He ended up not being able to. But the dance thing happened last weekend. But this week he comes to school with a girlfriend on his arm. While a lot of my friends say he likes ... (90 words)

Why did he go MIA?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy and I have been hooking up for about 4 months, i guess you'd say we were sex buddies. Well I began liking him and I am pretty sure he liked me because he'd always say he liked me and one night we were cuddling and he said "lets play a game- you say something I don't ... (193 words)

Confusing relationship and I need to wake up and move on

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What does he mean?? Hello Guys: I am very confused now, so I ask for help here. I am a foreigner in this country and my husband works in another states, he is very mean to me and am used to live( for study) separated from him. But I have never thought about devoice, ... (979 words)

If he doesn't care why would he text so much?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u make me cherfull and he said ... (338 words)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for several years, but the past ... (1081 words)

Should I go ahead and do it?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy and I want to have sex with him but I'm a virgin and he is not. Should I go ahead do it or should I wait, by the way he is 3 years older than me.... (40 words)

I said yes to my ex's request to meet!

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, thanks in advance for reading and answering my ?. The details are I broke up with my ex 3 yrs ago in May. He contacted me online and asked me to meet him next week to catch up. This is the first time we have had contact since end of 2006. At that time I asked him not to ... (158 words)

I just feel like my husband just harasses me for sex.

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! Me and my husband recently got married last year, and sometimes I just really don't want him touching me. Sometimes I feel like he is harassing me for sex. If I say no I don't want to have sex, I have to have a big long, keep you up all nite long discussion about it. ... (137 words)

Do I stick it out with my girlfriend or cut it off?

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4 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So heres the deal... i have been dating this girl for 15 months and i love her soo very much but in the past few months it feels like we have been going downhill fast Sooo then i have been talking to this other girl and i have known her for a couple months, we are like best... (161 words)

Offline and online relationship troubles...

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4 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 and once again single. I've broken up with my girlfriend of the past three months, because whenever I want to do something she always makes excuses, and always tries to do those things I want to do if there's something in it for her. She wasn't always like this, and ... (184 words)

Is she taking revenge for me shouting at her?

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4 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Sir I am married to my wife for the last 10 years. We had some fight now and then and i have two kids/. At night i see that when i am turned to other side and snoring[which she uses as signals] she moves her folded legs with thighs attached to each other from one s... (185 words)

I can't believe that today I cheated on my GF, what do I do now?

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4 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i cheated. I cheated. I f***ing cheated! I feel like shit. I hate myself so f***ing much right now. I swore ide never cheat on my gf, I did today. I cheated on her with my ex, who cheated on me! my girlfriend has never done anything like that at all. I don't deserve her, she is ... (152 words)

Does this guy like me or am I just creating false hope for myself?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I would really like some advice about a guy I really like at the moment. All the body language signs that a guy shows when he likes a girl are there ie body position, feet pointing at me, fidgeting and, grooming. Anytime I'm near him he changes from being relaxed to can't ... (155 words)

How can you find out if your man is being honest with you?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age - How do you find out if your man is being honest with you about things like is he still getting high? Has he gotten high since we've been together?... (29 words)

I'm 24, she's 16. Can I go for it now or should I wait?

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4 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old. There this girl that is 16 years old that I am attracted to. Part of me want to see if there is a chance to see if they is a chance at us hooking up, but part of me says we are too different. There is the age difference and there is a religion differe... (155 words)

I'm losing my V-card on V-day... LADIES, how can I make this perfect?

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4 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey my names Connor im 16 and a bit confused. see heres the thing....im a virgin. i aint ashamed o it. im with the most amazing girl in the world. shes 15 and has had sex before. we've been talking about it alot lately and she says she wants to be my first. i want to, i ... (182 words)

Would you be friends with someone this jealous and insecure?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - if someone hurts you by always being suspicious of things, being jealous and extremely inconsiderate, would that hurt your self-esteem a lot? like a friend who gets clingy and every time you have to do other things, they suspect that you are lying and are purposely ignoring... (157 words)

Marriage dilemmas and a friend who doesn't know how to trust...

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone! i have a question to ask: ok. lets say X and Y are a girl and a guy. and they are together. Y has no plans of giving up his bachelor life. that is what he tells his family (who he is very close to). he says he has no plans of marrying X for a long time. X on... (171 words)

Should I divorce my overseas husband?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid. I've been married now for nine months. I'm a parent of one 3 year that is not my husbands. My husband is currently working overseas. So the only way that we communicate is through e-mails. For the last few months things have been upside down. I have caught him in s... (253 words)

Would I be a fool to try again with someone who treated me so badly?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband I have been separated five months. Our marriage was rocky and eventually just fell apart because he was having a midlife crisis and couldn't decide what he wanted...so I left. He has been pleading with me to reconcile with him almost as soon as I left. At first,I ... (118 words)

Was fooling around with my older sister's ex wrong of me?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I realy don't know were to start. Last year around March I ended up talking to my oldest sisters ex. He was 33 and I was only 17.I know sound realy wrong of our age difference. My sis and him hadn't been together for years cuz my sis was his lover cuz wen they were to... (351 words)

Is she pushing me away or just stressed out?

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4 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I have been dating for about 4 months now and everything has been simply amazing up until about a week ago when she tells me things feel different. We never fight, we always poke fun at eachother and have a laugh. We both have so much in common and have told ... (222 words)

Have I been given the silent break up?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was seeing this guy for 3months and we got into an argument and he accused me of cheating when i haven't.. i guess he wanted to break up.. and since then ive not heard from him so i guess this is his way of breaking up with me..any advice please.. still don't know where i ... (100 words)

Our sex is horrible and I need more pleasure, what should I do?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Trying to make my relationship work at home I was previously cheating on my boyfriend with a married man but I no longer do that. I love my boyfriend but our sex is horrible 10 pumps and he's done I need more pleasure from him what should I do? Its hard to climax when he's been ... (58 words)

He's always flirting - does that mean he actually likes me?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I was really good friends with a guy in my class. we started hanging out all the time. so i said to myself that i like him. i told him and now he doesnt really talk to me as much as he used to. he said that im cool and pretty and he loves me but only as a really good friend and ... (83 words)

How should I tell him that I'm pregnant with his baby?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've known this guy for quite a few years now and we've never been good friends but we've kept in touch every once in a while. back in december we started hanging out and the night of his birthday we hooked up. the condom broke so he took me to go get the planB pill 2 days ... (151 words)

Am I right to be jealous about her male best friend?

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4 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Before me and my girlfriend got together, she had a "bestfriend" who is a male. While I was still courting her, she told me that although she and that guy were "bestfriends" both knew that they loved each other but just don't have the guts to go to the level of lovers since ... (171 words)

Is he still interested? Or has he gone cold?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 15 and heres my story..i like this guy and i know him for 2 weeks now he called me gorgeous,hot,cute. we talked on the phone and he said we should hang out and we should get to know each other..last week everydayy he would say good morning and we would text all day and talk... (158 words)

Stay? Take a break? Or move on?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Any advice. My boyfriend of over 2 years does not give me the attention he used to. He was in rehab and as soon as he got out we got back together. We were insuperable always together and so in love. Than he got a new job new friends and got sponsor on a skate team and im in ... (113 words)

Did anyone get pregnant on the first try?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is a really dumb question but I'm very superstitous! I got pregnant the first time my husband and I tried with the help of an ovulation kit. I keep thinking that it was too easy and that something about this pregnancy has to go wrong, there's no way I would be lucky ... (98 words)

In my 30's and never had sex yet...

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4 February 2009 (F)

- OK this is kinda hard to explain... I'm in my 30's and STILL a virgin. This is very embarrassing! and I have to make sure anyone I know never finds out ever! I have had boyfriends but it never goes further than kissing before I then freeze or make an excuse to not do it. I ... (201 words)

I'm too jealous, but I love him..

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Me and my fiance got together 18 months ago and things have been great, we're getting married this year too. We've never argued before but since December last year we have done nothing but argue, we have a few good days and when it's good it really is good, ... (271 words)

Worried, depressed and oppressed... What should I do?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is a high school teacher and has been emailing his advice to a student in regards to her life choices. She told him that she was thankful that she wasn't pregnant and now knows she is not straight, but instead is gay. He even recommended a beautiful Sarah Waters ... (771 words)

Should I get the HPV vaccine?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Should I get the HPV vaccine? I'm 15 and have never slept with a guy. I probably won't do so till I'm in my twenties, so is it worth getting the HPV vaccine now? Should I get it even if I won't have sex for the next 4 years? (The HPV vaccine only protects for 4 years. D... (74 words)

Does chewing gum make your teeth yellow?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't a relationship or love question but I thought I could get some accurate responses on here. So when you chew gum does it make your teeth yellow? Because I just can't seem to keep my teeth white. I whiten them every once and a while and then they always end up ... (110 words)

I'm trying to date my best friends ex, why is she acting like this?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend dumped her boyfriend. it happens that i really really love him and i told him and he said he loves me as a homie but he loves my best friend that dumped him too (but more than a homie). then he said later that hes not rejecting me but he just got out of a bad ... (138 words)

What can I do to make him listen to me?

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4 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My man is SUPER sick, fever and cough but he isn't taking anything and he is really getting me worried. I told him to take medicince and I've been calling him to make sure he has been drinking it, but he was been drinking something for a pain that he previously had, not this... (93 words)