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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it logical to assume someone can do a 180 transformation on how they control their temper and resolve issues?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A few months ago I met a girl via the internet. We talked quite a bit and found a very good connection from the get go. After about a month and change I took a trip to meet here. Overall things were great. Sex, chemistry, time spent together. I came back home for two weeks ... (474 words)

My sex drive is going through the roof! Why???

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 24 year old female. I think that my sex drive is too high. I think about it all the time, in the car, at work, the grocery store, everywhere!!! I'm in a great relationship, but my boyfriend's drive is nowhere near mine. I take care of myself more than I have sex with ... (66 words)

She has commitment issues. How can I proceed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - About 10 years ago I met this girl in my 7th grade English class. And we became really good friends. We're still great friends to this day. A few months ago I got back from a 2 year trip to a foreign country. When I came home I reunited with this great friend of mine. I told ... (144 words)

How to make confident and funny small talk?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to know how to make confident and funny small talk with a girl I'll see tomorrow, any advice?... (20 words)

Wife wants my consent to follow sexual lust for another man...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent. I have always been faithful to my wife, but we have on a few occasions fallen out rather dramatically over suspected cheating on my part. It's always been the case that she found out herself that i was not cheating... (627 words)

How can I kiss him and make it look real?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have never kissed a guy and I am 13. My school is preforming a play and I got a lead and my character and another character have to kiss. I wasn't nervous at all but when I found out who I was supposed to do the kiss with I wasn't nervous but annoyed. You see the guy who ... (163 words)

I think I am impatient... How can I stop being like this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am being driven ever so slightly made by the fact that the girl I like doesn't respond to me messages to her often for several days. Am I just being impatient? We don't know each other that well and have only met a handful of times. I know that even before I started ... (83 words)

How do I get over the father of my daughter?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up 2 months ago, we noticed it wasn't working out. We also have an 8 month old daughter together. I thought it would be easy to get over him but it's not. It hurts me to even think about letting him go and I don't want to but I have to, I ... (74 words)

Is it possible for a guy to actually to be scared to fall for someone?? I thought it was only women who felt like that.

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24 February 2009 (F)

- Right I met a guy before christmas. We dated a few times, and then he let me down a couple of times when we arranged to meet. So I text and said I don't mind being let down once but two three times is not on, so let's leave it here. He didn't put up much of a fight and so all ... (361 words)

Can a woman do as good as a male in a male job?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can a female be as good as male in a male job, can women be as tough as men in male jobs?... (22 words)

When a guy takes you to meet his parents, is he thinking long term commitment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is introducing me to his parents this weekend. Does a guy think of it as something long term? I mean not all guys do this, right? By the way we've been dating for over a month now.. Yay!!... (45 words)

I keep having dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me...

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I always have dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I do not see any signs that he is and I don't think he is but what do you think this means... about once or twice a month... I have dreams that he is with someone else.... (49 words)

If my man watches heaps of Asian girly porn and teen porn, does that mean he would prefer them in real life?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If my man watches heaps of Asian girly porn and teen porn, does that mean he would prefer them in real life? I have found all this crap on our pc and now when we go out I am seriously paranoid he is perving at asians etc. (although I have no idea what he is thinking? It is... (82 words)

Curiosity killed the cat???

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi my dilemma is from the fact that I found out my girlfriend cheated on me. However there is a catch to it! As my girlfriend was checking her mail and forgot to sign out, I being nosy and completely in the wrong decided to read some of her emails. I discovered that she had ... (97 words)

Incest... or love?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age - I think I am in love with my second cousin. But I think this is incest..... Is this true or not? I'm wondering because it varies from country to country and I live in the united states.... (39 words)

I was just wondering if this is an anorexic diet???

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24 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - heyx I was just wondering if this is an anorexic diet: eating 200 calories one day, 400 the next, 600 the next, 800 the next, and the next day fast completely, and then repeat the cycle all ova again on this day system. Also, everyday doing 100 crunches, 100 sit ups, and one ... (114 words)

I keep falling for unavailable women!

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 24 year old male and I have a problem. I keep falling for unavailable women. Generally, I'll fancy a girl. Then, if I learn that she has a boyfriend, I'll fancy her more. But if it turns out she's single, then I grow frustrated and less interested. I am looking for a ... (62 words)

I'm sooo totally paranoid!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for two months but we we're "getting together" several months before we did. He's a lovely guy and totally different to all the idiots i've been out with! I know people say that a lot and get let down but I truly believe he's a genuinely nice lad... (231 words)

Should I break it off, because I can't accept his child in my life?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Here is my story and wonder what should I do? I am back with my ex boyfriend that I was with when I was 16 (now 21) we dated until I was 18.. I had to move to the mainland after high school. I cheated on him before but he took me back and our relationship was not the same as ... (434 words)

He's so friendly with this other girl and I'm so jealous about it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to stop being jealous? My boyfriend who I've been with for a year now keeps flirting with other girls especially this one girl who says that her and him are best friends and tell each other everything and that she knows him more than me. I mean they even have ... (145 words)

Girlfriend USED to dance, how do I not let it bother me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am dating a girl I've known for close to 8 years. We have now been dating for about 4 months. I found out years ago that she danced, not stripped but danced. Very provocative clothing, g-string, bra type of stuff but never took anything off. But the fact is, I'd like her... (164 words)

Her friends at Uni are all guys.

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a gf we've been together for 3 years and it's been some real origional love story, we love each other to death she's soo caring all she wants is to make me happy, but since she finished high school(last year), and I have one more year to graduate from uni, and I thought ... (411 words)

Too paranoid? Or should I be concerned?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well im on the contraceptive injection , Depo-Provera. I got the shot last thursday, first day of my period. I had unprotected sex the monday after. the injection has a 99.7% protection rate, but if i took a pregnancy test now would i be abe to detect if i am or would it be too ... (87 words)

Whats it like being an adult nurse?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Going to university in September to study Adult nursing. I want to know briefly what its like working in a high-stress, constant high/low working environment...such as nursing?... (27 words)

Can someone help me decipher his actions?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - can you help desipher this guys actions?! I've read about and 'signs he likes you' and stuff.. thi guy.. the facts... *he looks at me alot, i catch him looking at me..and i often have to turn away first.. *if his mates are teasing me, he doesnt get involved but laughs al... (170 words)

Foreplay is nice but sex is painful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just started in a new relationship but i have a problem. I dont enjoy sex. I love foreplay but actual intercourse is painful even with lots of lube. I dont enjoy a second of it, it doesnt feel good, i count down the seconds until he is done. This isnt just with the ne... (147 words)

I don't want her man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm married and have been for seven months. I used to like this one guy. And he cheated on his gf with me (this is not the guy that I am married to.) This happened two years ago. Well, I have been trying to tell her about certain incidents involving me and him,... (291 words)

My wife is trying to get into playgirl to earn extra money

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 34, my wife's 32, and we've got a 5-year-old son. For the past few weeks my wife's become obsessed with trying to get into Playgirl magazine as a means of earning extra money. The first time I heard it I asked her "You said what?" and she said Playgirl magazine. I sa... (215 words)

I'm a virgin, he's not

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so there's this guy I really like, he's 19 and I'm 18. I'm a virgin and I just found out that he's not, but he only did it once when he was a senior and with a girlfriend he had had for over a year. He's a really great and sweet guy and when I asked him he was just honest ... (111 words)

I don't want to be the reason she does something crazy

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I broke up with my girlfriend last night. we have been dating for 2 years. I am very much in love with her, but She cheated on me more than once. Last night she came over to "talk" she started to cry and then after a while of begging me to take her back, she began to get ... (176 words)

My b/f wants to see the wild side of me?!

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend wants to see the wild side of me? In other words to take charge and say..'I want it now!' And just have sex right then and there. What else can I do to show him I do have it in me? I feel he'll lose interest or our relationship will become boring if I just... (71 words)

My partner feels nothing when we have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with a guy for about 4 months now (my first gay relationship) and we are very much in love. I have a fantastic time with him, except for the fact that he 'feels nothing' when we have sex. He says that he has been like this for around 3 years, around the time he ... (118 words)

Crying during sex?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Last weekend, my gf and i tried anal sex for the first time. The initial penetration hurt her a lot, but we took it really slow and i was able to enter her fully. The pain seemed to go away and i was able to start to thrust gently. But right in the middle of things she began ... (130 words)

What's he doing? Broke up with me, now dating his ex

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for about 4 months and everything was great, he treated me good and he was the perfect boyfriend. He told me he cared about me and how much he liked me. He lost his virginity to me and as did i. Before me was his ex of 3 years. While him and i were dating ... (259 words)

It was so painful but I want to try it again

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my boyfriend wanted us to try anal sex. We tried it once before but he didn't go all the way in. Well this time he did and I wasn't at all relaxed.. ummm really tight. It hurt and I made him stop. I want to try it again because I've done it before and I enjoy it! But ... (94 words)

I think my g/f is hiding stuff from me

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so my girlfriend and I have been fighting alot over the past few days. Last sunday she told me her phone was messed up and she can only make calls. Later that night i texted her from a different phone and she had texted back? Was this because of the phone or is she lying ... (133 words)

Relationship has faded, how do I make it fresh again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. im almost 20 and hes 23. we have a very loving relationship, care about each other greatly, love spending time together and can always make each other giggle. however i think im the kind of person who always wants too much... (198 words)

How can I make a guy I briefly dated move on?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok let me break this down. 1) Casually dated this guy 3 months ago. Was very brief. He was not only older than me by 6 years; it was pretty evident he has always had a stern and mature approach to relationships in the sense that he wants to settle down...Immediate... (367 words)

In my first loving relationship, I experience erection problems for the first time, why?

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24 February 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I'm 27 and I've been seeing this girl for about a month and a half. We are in love with each other and love spending time together. I've never been in a loving relationship before and I've never wanted to satisfy a woman more than I do her, she means the world to me...Anyway, ... (238 words)

Shall I tell him? Or leave it?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is one big long hard story and i need help!!! I spend a lot of time with my cousin sarah and i practically have been living with her. She has been on/off with this lad phil for 5 years. He has a younger borther jack who i really like and have done for over a year. Last ... (212 words)

I can't get over my hubby's affair of 2 years ago, help!

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24 February 2009 (?) age - Well, its been 2 years, since my husband had an affair. I still can't get over it, will I ever? He is there for me he never leaves me, I know he is remorseful, and he makes sure I know where he is at all times...but I can't get over it, why, when everything was perfect, so I ... (62 words)

I have a mental blockage about sex since that night, how can I be less nervous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was going to have sex with my girlfriend of only 2 weeks, when I was 14, almost 15. I know this was a stupid thing to do, and I should never have even considered it, but I felt ready. It was my one chance, and I didn't want to muck it up. I was staying in her back garden with ... (420 words)

Intimacy issue

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an intimacy issue and dont know hoe to solve it. Im 17 and never done anything with a guy before and when ever someone makes a move i reject it automatically even if i like them :S It is really starting to get to me and i just dont know what to do anymore. If anyone has ... (72 words)

How do I not get attached to him?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been sleeping with a guy since early this month. It started out as a NSA (no strings attached), but after being with him, chatting with him alot, sleeping with him twice, it's getting more difficult for me to get him out of my head. I try to resist the urge to text him, ... (162 words)

Is this legal? Or not?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my state's age of consent is 18. He's 19 and his state's age of consent is 16. We're not having actual intercourse yet (he lives about an hour away) and probably won't by the time I turn 18, which is in 2 months. But we have sex chats and sometimes ... (83 words)

I was fine during foreplay but lost it during sex

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24 February 2009 (M)

Is this healthy in a relationship

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for some time, however, recently i have noticed that when i get down, even if its just a little, he gets annoyed with me, as if im being purposely moody with him, when, in truth, im just feeling a little down. like he'll say things like ... (170 words)

Is my b/f pervy or does he love me?

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24 February 2009 (F) age 41-50 - pls pls as many opinions as possible from men and women, im having a hard time deciding if my b/f is a bit pervy or does he love me. everything comes down to sex if i want anythin he will jokingly reqest sex or a favour like that. when i see him he ses do u notice iv been good ... (173 words)

Did I contact him too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I met a man on Saturday night in a nightclub who was married but separated and had two children.He seemed really keen on me.He bought me a drink,he asked me what i wanted out of life, we swapped numbers,we danced with each other all night,when his friends were looking at their ... (333 words)

First time anal or any sex

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How bad will first time anal sex hurt? Also, what position is best the first time? This will be my first time for nething so I want it to be perfect!... (33 words)

His ex looks preggo! What to do?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - If you met someone online and married them after a very brief courtship. (the marriage involved a cross country move) Then met their very recent exgirlfriend and she looked preggo, what would you do? Would you think she is playing a game? Everything happened so quickly w/ ... (63 words)

How do you know if he really likes you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i was wondering...how do you know when a guy is really in love with you?how do you know when a guy is coming after a girl,just to show to his guy friends that he is cool enough to make her his girl friend?how can you know if he really likes you or just wants to proove to his ... (132 words)

Are all men forgetful? Or do they just not care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Are all men forgetful or do they just don't care?!? Ok, today I've been with my bf for 1 month!! And many more to come!!! He hasn't said anything. Should I mention it? Or is that really not an important date for a guy?... (48 words)

I know its going to happen but I'm so scared of losing this person!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm only 13 but i have a really close friend who is 17 and will be leaving school soon. she's the best thing that ever happened to me and has completely changed my life. she's the person i can always trust, and she always helps me when i'm have worries or problems. she stands ... (216 words)

She can't get over that I cheated on her

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24 February 2009 (M)

age - I had a texting fling with a younger woman and my wife seems to class it as 'cheating' even though it was a daft game which has all finished now. I stupidly left some of the texts on my phone and she found them (should she have been snooping?). It was never meant to put our ... (209 words)

I don't want my partner to know I secretely prefer to watch women in porn

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a loving releionship, but I when my partner is not around I secretlety watch porn, preferring to watch girls than men. In real life I find men very attractive and would not want to date a woman. i have had an experience with a woman in ym past, which I enjoyed, but I di... (108 words)

Will I get bored with my marriage?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am so afraid that I'm going to get bored with my marraige and cheat on my wife. My family and religion taught me that the best thing you can do for your marraige is to wait to have sex until you are married. They said that having your wife as your one and only sexual part... (337 words)

I don't think he sees me as long term

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and i have been together for 2 years. We love each other a lot, he makes sure to tell me everyday. we've had our ups and downs and just a few months ago my bf went from having it all (nice car, good job, nice home) to being left with nothing (no car, no job, legal issues, ... (303 words)

I'm worried about what people think about the age difference

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 15 nearly 16, i am going out with a girl 2 and a half years younger than me (13 nw). i really like her and think that the relationship may go somewhere. I do not mind the age difference and neither does she but when my friends found out they were shocked. Should i feel ... (121 words)

What sexual position do women enjoy the most?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Simple one really...what are a woman's favourite sex positions that satisfy her the most? I think my girlfriend is getting bored of missionary... ... (38 words)

My mom and I don't get along..how can I emancipate from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do!!!! I'm done with all of it an I want out and I want out now!!! I f*** up my life every chance i get but I'm not acting out for attention. I'm acting out to get away. I love my mother to death but for as long as i can remember me and her have been at ... (177 words)

Did she or didn't she

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend confessed to having sex with another guy. she even gave some detail. after a couple of days she told me she made it all up! i dont know what to believe! my gut tells me that she did! what do i do?... (44 words)

My boyfriend chats to my friends on MSN and has invited them to hang out with us. How do I communicate with them more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, I was just wondering if any of you could give me some advice. Background info: I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 4 months (and we are both 16). After he had met my friends he added them on msn, etc and chats to them quite a lot. This affects me a bit, especi... (425 words)

I'm a virgin, he's not. I am ready to have sex, but don't want to be another skank on his list. Any advice?

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24 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - This is my first real relationship. I'm 19 hes 20, and we went out on our second date, last night. We made out for a long time and it was hot:P I am a virgin and he is not at all. I know he wants to have sex and I want to too but I don't want to kill the relationship. He isn't ... (170 words)

I cheated on my husband, and then lied to him about how far I went with this man. How do we move on in our relationship?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age - Hello, I have a huge dilema, I cheated on my husband and it all came out about 9 months ago,the affair stopped and my marriage is still intact, although it has taken a lot of trust and patience from my husband.I have been married a long time and ended up having an affair which ... (790 words)

Online dating for 6 months, I will see him in person soon but I'm scared of losing him!

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - mkkay here goes ive been dating this guy over the internet. we been dating for 6 months now! he is going to come see me soon well so he says! but anyway i love him so much i beleive i have totally fallen for him but im a little scared, he is my first love but he has broken up ... (177 words)

I'm insecure about my saggy clit, help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - mkkay well can you help me! i wanted ta know is it normal for your clit to be saggy? and is it a turn off? i didnt let my ex touch me down there because i as so insecure about it! i want to sex my boy friend but im afraid he will be freaked out by it and scream and run away! ... (70 words)

For anyone who has forgiven a cheating partner, how did you do it? How long did it take you?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I forgive my boyfriend for cheating on me? How do I get the images of the two of them out of my head? A short background: My boyfriend broke up with me last March and slept with a girl that night. We got back together a day or two later. I didn't find out until late J... (445 words)

Should I write a complaint?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i went to the opticians the other day and had the most awful experience. firstly it was fine, i was so calm and happy trying out my contact lenses for the first time! Then the optician sent me through to a woman who didnt realise there was a lense already in my eye! so first of... (169 words)

We broke up due to long distance, will I ever get over her?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Since i was young i have only dated guys, but jus over a year ago i met a girl and shortly after fell in love with her. at first i wasn't too interested because i was sure i was straight, but after geting to know her, i can clearly say i fell head over heals with her. we dated ... (264 words)

Can I trust him again? Should I give him another chance?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After a 5 month seperation, my husband showed up to plead his intentions of wanting to work things out. He stayed for about 2 weeks and we did a lot of fun things together. When he had to leave (he is military and lives overseas) I told him I still don't know if I want to get ... (358 words)

No label to my status?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been seeing this guy that i've liked for 3 years for the past six weeks, and when we first kissed i asked where we would go from there and he said we should just go with the flow! and evertime i say i'm going to say something to him as to where i stand i never get the ... (75 words)

Is this normal? Does this mean that first time sex will hurt?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this is gross but I am very worried. I am a virgin but have done gym and horseriding my entire life and used tampons for several years. I do not think I have a hymen as I can't see it or feel it and I have fingered myself. However if I try and put anything with a ... (145 words)

Risk of pregnancy if I only touch her vagina with my penis?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i want to know that could my girl friend fall pregnent if i only touch her vagina with my penis tell me soon... (23 words)

I kissed another girl, but I didn't plan to cheat, help?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 and half years now. Last week when she was away I went to the cinema with a friend of mine who is female as it was her birthday. After the film while waiting for her mum is was a bit cold so we hugged to keep warm and then we ... (77 words)

What do we do? Choose the holiday or try our best to get this house?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i need advice on what i should do. myself and my boyfriend have planned to go away in the summer with family for a family members big birthday. it will be so much fun i no as we havent been away in a few years. i have the money here to book it now but something has co... (167 words)

He's older and knows I have a boyfriend, how can I show him I'm not interested?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help with this, please take this seriously. Background: I have taken on a new job, as the guy who was doing it has decided he needs to cut back on it (it's a part time thing, and he has a proper full time job as well), but basically co-operation wit... (261 words)

I think he's immature and scared, but what's really going on with him?!?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Where to start.... Ok, started dating this guy over 15 years ago, my first everything. Dating for years then reconnected this summer after about 4 years. He was breaking up w/ this girl and we got pregnant. Spend an amazing weekend together while she was moving out and we ... (311 words)

Should I ask my wife to repeat last year's fun?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age - my wife tried another guy for her birthday last year as a one off. we both found it a great turn on at the time and have since. she hasn't asked yet about this year but i would like her to. do you think i should ask or wait untill she brings it up... (54 words)

Is it possible to flirt without teasing? How?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've noticed a lot of guys flirt by teasing...is it possible to flirt without teasing? I never like to make fun of people in any way shape or form because I'm quite big on respect...and to me teasing isn't really showing respect (even if it's just for fun/in a friendly ... (99 words)

I feel like my sex drive is diminishing, I don't understand why.

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been with my fiancee for two years. I'm totally in love with her and fancy her like mad. But, recently, when it comes to sex I get erect during, kissing, foreplay, oral sex etc but when it comes to putting the condom on, I lose my erection and I can't get it back. I ... (86 words)

She demands so much of my time...

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 32 year old male. Have been in relationship with a woman for 15 months now. It is going well on many fronts, but some we have had problems. I have problems with erections, althoguh it seems psychological. We are working on this, and she is very patient with me. On t... (312 words)

Please someone tell me am I going bonkers and reading far too much into this or is she really sniffing round him cos she fancies him...?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know where to begin! I had been with my partner for 12 years. We fell out and were both too stubborn to make up. We sold out house and went our seperate ways. Before this I tried to reconcile but he didnt want to know. He had started going out all the time and I suppose ... (509 words)

Has anyone any experience with an older boyfriend?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is there anyone out there who has had experience with older boyfriend? I am seriously struggling to cope with his ways which he won't comprimise... Thanks... (26 words)

What exactly IS flirting and is it okay to flirt when you're in a relationship?

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24 February 2009 (F)

- What exactly is flirting? How would you define it? And do you believe it is ok to flirt with anyone when you are in a relationship? Why/why not? Yes, a very broad, general question I know, I'm just looking for peoples opinions, so I can see how the majority sees it. Thanks... (59 words)

Should I act like I don't care and keep holding my head high even though he seems not to care?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently met a young guy who I liked a lot but as I said he has moved on, last night he was in the shop with her... as I walked in I felt so stupid but managed to smile even though I hate seeing them together. Should I act like I don't care and keep holding my head high even ... (104 words)

Are they just being friendly? Or could there be more?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I work as a part time cashier in a little shop. There's a new guy that works there and a few other guys I have served who seem rather nice. They are all similar ages to me and most of the time we 'meet', we have a good chat (even though it's short)! The problem is I'm not sure ... (108 words)

Mum fell out with me because I went round to see my friend!

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend who lives round the corner from my Mum's boyfriend's house. Mum decided to go round to see him one night so, by the way, I dropped in on my friend too. I had a fab time with my friend and spent almost four hours there! When I went back round to Mum's boyfriend's ... (126 words)

My husband has cheated over and over again

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24 February 2009 (F)

age - I know you will read this and say i deserve what i get here goes. 12 months ago(feb 08) i was told my husband was having affair,i confronted him and he admitted to seeing this girl whom he worked with but said it had only been going on for a couple of weeks and they never ha... (450 words)

For those with experience in relationships... how can I make this last?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well cutting it short. This guy asked me out. He's 19 and lives in london. I'm 18 live in Wolverhampton. He will be my first boyfriend - I have "seen" guys before but they were always short things because they wasn't really worth it. But he is whoa. I won't be able to... (152 words)

I love 2 men and I'm exhausted

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I'm ashamed to ask for help on this topic, but I'm in desperate need for some advise. I've dated 2 men off and on for a few years now and I need to decide who I should be with. Both men are very good to me. They love me so much and they would do anything for me. Mike is ... (326 words)

I am fed up with his grumpy behaviour!

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been in a relationship with a man who is 20 years older than me for a year now. i have a young son and he has three grown up ones. we love eachother,but,he has a very bad temper and wont have any of opposite opinions from me if they dont fit in with his. he usually ... (93 words)

Is it possible to have an orgams for everyone?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so basically I'm 19 years old, have a comfortable sex partner, who cares about my needs, but I still don't orgasm. I have never had an orgasm in my life, whether it be during sex or masturbation, it's never happened. I've felt like my body has pins and needles and felt ... (121 words)

I love you. Why can't you feel the same?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. Some people are probably going to ignore this question. So, I`ll ask that you just stick around to hear my ENTIRE story. *sigh* I fell in love, and that sounds cliche. But, as we all know, everything does, and, it`s true. I love him so much. We have been the best of frie... (115 words)

Why are so many men afraid of commitment?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do men (and women too I guess) fear settling down with one person?... (14 words)

I found out my husband was having viagara

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Tonight I found out my husband has been taking 'pills' to have sex with me. We have been married 2.5 years. When we were first together he couldn't keep his hands off me. Now it seemd he can't bring himself to touch me without a little courage in the form of a viagra. I found ... (99 words)

He's jealous and always wants to know where I am!

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody Iam sorry this will be long but please advice me what to do. 2 start with is I was engaged with this man for over 16y I have 2 girls with my previous marage and a son with this guy, he never wanted 2 get married I was the one that always wanted 2 get married we b... (271 words)

G/f cheating on me!

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i think my gf is cheating on me... we only been dating for a month and a half. but a couple of nights ago she went out wit sum guy friends and went home around 3am. then that morning she went to her ex boyfriends house because he's off to join the army. which makes me even ... (168 words)

Is she going to leave me?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend now for 1 month shes 16 and Im 19. I love her and I can see us spending a long time togehter but Im afraid that she is going to leave me someday to be curious. She is young and I am her first real boyfriend. And Im trying to show her how much I ... (126 words)

Do I tell my friend from overseas how I've been feeling?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Back in '98 i went on a bus tour through Great Britain. As i stood there, waiting to find out which bus i'm on and when it leaves, i saw him and prayed that he'd be on my bus. He was! I became really close with him and his sister (who was there as well).They are from Australia ... (238 words)

Another game to him? Or could he like me?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy he lives in milwakee and i live in az so we dont really see each other which is hard cuz i have alot of feelings for him.i met him at a wedding which was last year and a few weeks ago we finally talked over facebook and he was flirting saying stuff like ... (120 words)

Crush on my cousin

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in love with my cousin. I am 17 years old and she is just going to be 17 in couple of months. We chat with each other quite often. see movies together. hold hands but still she only treats me as a cousin. I don't think she likes me in that way. i want to touch her private ... (106 words)

Should I let my wife wear spandex to work?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age - is it okay for me to let my wife out the house wearing tight spandex to work?... (17 words)

What's the best penis size?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - What is the best penis size? because im like at 7 inches and my penis is 5"thick so i want to know if ill be hurting my gf or not pleasuring her... (32 words)

How would I find out her name?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - From when i was about 8 i loved this girl, and same with her but she moved away and i forgot her name LOL anyways i can contact her? and what should i say... (34 words)

She made me promise not to tell anyone but now everyone knows!

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24 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Kay my girlfriend recently told me her dad is a drunk. Before she told me she wouldnt let me or her friends come over her house because she never knew when her dad was sober or not. She made me promise not to tell anyone because she was afraid of being tease. I was hanging with ... (148 words)

Virgin & he's too big!

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24 February 2009 (F)

age - ok so im a virgin and have been with my nonvirgin boyfriend for a while now. i want to give him my virginity and we have tried having sex FIVE times now and have yet to make it work. im am a rather short girl and weigh 103 therfore im smaller than most girls down there. he ... (156 words)

She won't let me touch her below the waist in ANY way

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, me and my 15 year old girlfriend (were sexually active but don't have intercourse) is very very self concious about her period. She won't let me touch her in anyway below her waist, any ideas to help her ease up? She's very clean..always, and doesn't taste bad... (48 words)

I really want this girl but I can't see anything coming of it

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I never realized how much power a single girl can hold over me. I fell very hard for a girl back in 2004, and to date, I cannot get her out of my mind. She's everything a guy would want: absolute natural beauty, intellect, shy personality. What's worse is that she's been around ... (347 words)

I really like him but he never shows his feelings toward me in front of others!

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there is this guy,and he has a girlfriend + he is my best friend's brother. Blah,he is just really confusing. Like,he tells me he loves me and whatnot,and We have had..um,"action" in the past. But when we are around people,he just hides it. He's never told me not to tell ... (173 words)

How do I seduce him?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25 years old, and im interested in a 50 year old man. After spending time with him for the past couple of months(as friends), I've found that the feeling is mutual. He mentioned that the age difference is the only barrier, so I feel he won't make a first move. And this ... (76 words)

How do 40-45 year old men keep up with much younger women in sex?

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24 February 2009 (F) age 51-59 - If man's sex drive drops after 40-45, than how can they keep up with 20 years younger girls? Is this because their old wife does not turn them on , but the fresh young woman does? Is this an ago thing, or ist biological? I keep hearing about guys ,who goes with the younger... (65 words)

I want to trust her while giving her space

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend an I had only been together for a couple months when all of a sudden in december she just stopped being affectionate towards me wouldn't kiss me, barely look at me, let alone make love to me. We had made plans for christmas eve and christmas day, only to have her ... (1378 words)

It feels like we're moving too fast, but it feels natural. Should I slow down?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy last year. I wasn't really interested in him. But he continued to pursue me. Finally I gave him a chance. But after a week or two I called it quits for no reason. A month down the line, I decide to call him. Of course he cursed me out. Saying that I played with his ... (151 words)

What is considered sex between two women? My girlfriend says she's waiting for marriage.

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm dating a woman for the first time and my girlfriend and I just started screwing around (rubbing against each other, mostly). Before we started dating she had always said she wanted to wait till marriage to have sex. I asked about this and it came to the question 'What is ... (101 words)

How do I tell if he's interested in me when he works so much?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really into this guy but he's difficult to read. We had an amazing connection but he's always so busy with work (12 hour days) that I'm not sure if he has the same interest in me. How do I tell? ... (41 words)

What would you do if your partner and his relatives did something against your own values?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - If a few of your partner's close relatives were casual pot smokers, who held down jobs and were otherwise responsible, loving people, would you feel comfortable letting your kids visit these relatives, if you are morally opposed to any casual drug use? How do you reconcile yo... (78 words)

How do I make him feel comfortable enough to say how he feels?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and my gut tells me he feels the same, but he's really shy .. how do I make him feel comfortable enough to say how he feels?... (31 words)

How can I leave my past behind?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Recently i started dating an ex of 8+ years although i was in a long term relationship with another man of 7+ years. I allowed myself to get in this situation as i always had a weakness for my ex and he said all he things i wanted to hear(he was never really happy with anyone ... (365 words)

His ex was the reason we broke up, but can we work this out without her in the picture?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. Here's my story. My boyfriend left me about a week ago and I'm devastated. We broke up because of his ex. While we were dating, he'd constantly talk to her and she'd always convince him to leave me. She hates me, for reasons I have no idea why. She's a lesbian now and I ... (205 words)

In love with a married woman

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I'm a woman who has secretly loved another woman for over 2 years, but I've never told her, as she's one of my closest friends and I wouldn't want to lose her. Not to mention the fact that she's likely straight, since she has a husband. But theres also a good chance she ... (251 words)

He's always flirting with other women

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend seems to constantly be flirting other women, in particular with one of his very close friends (who is a girl and has a boyfriend). I also think he may have dated her a few years ago (though I have never asked him about it). The other day I noticed that he had ... (219 words)

Should I try to make it right with us?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been dating this straight women for about 4 months the problems is that she has a b/f. i really love her and in many ways she shows me that she loves me but recently we broke it off because we didnt get along anymore due to the fact of age difference and that im immature ... (66 words)

Is it abuse when a girl hits a guy?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have a girlfriend. We seem to fight a lot. when I make her upset she tends to hit me. The other night we were arguing in the car and I said something to upset her, and she swung her arm and struck me right in the eye. she hit me hard enough to the point where i couldn't ... (112 words)

Me first or him first?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I make the first move or should my bf?... (10 words)

Can someone translate what he's trying to tell me?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello to everyone.have a few issues and need some advise.input from everyone will be great, but I definitely need some male input in my crazy life. here it goes ive been with this guy for about 7 months sorta and before we began this crazy thing i call a relationship i told him... (340 words)

Happy man in his 40's--what should his sex drive be?

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24 February 2009 (M)

- If a man in his 40s is healthy and happy then what should his sex drive / libido be like?... (20 words)

Opinions about men going off sex?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I just read an article "Why men don't want sex anymore" at http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/sexandlove/article2220901.ece?OTC-RSS and ATTR=Sex+And+Love In summery it sort of surmises that some men go off sex because they feel misplaced and like they have no ... (79 words)

I'm not sure what his intentions are

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy online about two weeks ago. I hope I won’t sound stuck up when I say this but I've been bombarded with emails from guys so I’m being very picky. This guy stood out because he was nice, not suggestive, and didn’t blab on about himself (plus I found him ... (412 words)

Caught between 2 people

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I moved to a new town just over a year ago. When I first got there I met someone and we became friends. After a couple of months, we started dating and I fell in love. The only problem was that I wasn't fair to this person. Before I left home, I made promises to another perso... (236 words)

Bob & Tom!! Which one??

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been in a relatinship for 6 years with a guy (tom)I work with. He loves me very much. We have been living together for about 5 years. 12 years ago, I lived in a different city and was dating a different guy but it wasn't a sane relationship. During that time, this friend I... (453 words)

10 -15 masturbating..quicker with sex?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I usually last around 10 to 15 seconds while masturbating. Is it going to go quicker with sex? and how can i get myself to last longer? ... (27 words)

He called me twinkle toes..was he being rude?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel a bit silly but glad I mentioned this to my boyfriend. This past weekend we had sex for the very first time..I had mentioned before that I would give him a lap dance. He brought it up, and I wasn't up for it. I guess I just wasn't feeling it. The next day he said joki... (195 words)

The best lap dance ever!!!

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I'm trying to surprise my bf with a lap dance. How can I make sure it's the best ever?!? ... (20 words)

My boyfriend insists I'm always picking on his 13 year old daughter...

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 years insists I'm always picking on his 13 year old daughter. Am I crazy? I have three kids of my own ages 10, 9, and 5. My girls adore him ages 9 and 5. My 10 year old son is neutral my boyfriend does nothing with him. On the other hand, I take his... (171 words)

My girlfriend's best friend...

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - All right so here's the deal. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, and I truly love her. But for some reason lately I've been starting to enjoy the company of her best friend. Which she is not even close to being as hot as my girlfriend. Her best friend knows how to make ... (111 words)

He still has the woman who was once his wife still living with him!

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay! SO the last time I needed advice, it was about my boyfriend and how I thought he was cheating on me. Well now that I've moved on from that, I've been feeling a little better. A few days ago I came across somebody else, but he's a pastor. We talked, been out to eat, and ... (104 words)

My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate.

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, This is a pretty weird question, I'm going crazy though. My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate. I know this is possible because of all the crap I've read on the internet. It's not that big of a problem right now but I'm considering my ... (115 words)

Why has my ex started calling me again?

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24 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex has been calling me lately. What does he want? We dated for 4 years and broke up a year ago. I caught him with another woman in his bedroom on New Years day 2008. What a way to bring in the New Years right? (Hahaha I can at least laugh about it now)After I caught him, he ... (252 words)

My girlfriend is so flirtatious! How can I calm her down a bit?

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24 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm an 19 year old guy and i have a problem with my girlfriend. She is 19 too and I've found that in the last 6 months she has been becoming much more flirtatious with other men, particularly older men. She gets a lot of attention when we go out but she never used to be... (268 words)