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female
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36-40,
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writes: Why would a guy initiate contact with you via text, and then just not respond to you after that?This guy that I've kind of seen a couple times called me after not talking in a while, but I didn't pick up because I didn't want to seem too available, so he left a voicemail saying that we "hadn't talked in a while, so was wondering if we were still doing that...talking. anyways take care" I sent him a text a few hours after that asking how he was and he responded within 30 minutes asking me how I was and giving a little update with him. I responded back, asking him another question, and he has yet to respond after a day. what's his deal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Men are wierd I had the same sort of situation. I was hanging out with this guy and all of the sudden he stoped calling me and I thought well I guess he is not interested so I stoped calling him. Then a month later he calls me out of the blue. I have caller id and was mad he had not called for a month so didn't pick up. He must have called 20 times that week, calling my cell leaving messages with my mom and everthing, even found my facebook page and friend invited me lol ! Anyway from what I have learned about men when you want them they run, When you don't want them they want you ! What the hey right ! So if you really want this guy to call you I say don't call him agian and he will call. Men have a 3 day rule anyway and are scared of a commitment. Hey if he don't come around no big deal ! then he's not right for ya more fish in the sea. and you don't need all that drama. good luck in all you do take care :)
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