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writes:I'm 15 years old and I've been talking to this 19 year old, I'm a freshman and he graduated last year. He always says how much he likes me and he wants to be with me, and ive had sex with him. He bought me a phone so i can text him, and he is paying for it. Hell pick me up from school and he always calls me and pays for my stuff, hes taken me out on numerous occasions and he is amazing. He remembers everything i like and he gets me everything i want, ive been drunk with him and he doesnt take advantage of me, and he took care of me. He will cancel all his plans just to hang out with me. He doesnt just want sex either, he doesnt bring it up, even when i want to. he wont date me though and i want to know if I should continue with him. He is the PERFECTEST guy ever but my parents would shoot me, but I'm really not caring, and I just want to be with him. what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): First of all: learn some grammar. You're 15 and you speak like a five year old. PERFECTEST is not a word, sweetheart.
Now I need you to think about this for a second. You're 15 and he's 19. You've had sex and, legally, that's rape. Do you know how long he could go to prison because of you? You're being a bit selfish, you know. Have you ever thought that maybe that's the reason he won't date you?
Yes, he sounds like a GREAT guy. I'll give you that. But you really really need to think long and hard about what this could do to the rest of his life. And yours.
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reader, shortstuff4789 +, writes (16 February 2009):
 ok you are 15 he is 19 you guys had sex that is rape youre not old enough to consent and you shouldnt be hanging out with a guy that old he should know better. this is wrong im sorry hun but it is really wrong i have been there and it only leads to hurt. end it and dont go against your parents. dont hide it from them . he will get in serious trouble if anyone finds out. you need to be away from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Trust me it is not worth the headache, everyhthing will seem fine now but it wont last, the fact that he said he doesnt want to date you should be answer enough, he was willing to have sex with you but he wont date you. He may seem to be perfect and is treating you the way you want, but he is probably caught up in the moment as you are. As hard as it is, it wont work, not only based on your age but the circumstances surrounding your "relationship". Also if a man is not confident enought to say to everyone 'you are my girlfriend' then you should know something is wrong. Also you are underage and that is already problem enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): girl, i ended mine realatinship today with my sinor boyfriend with was 18 and im 15.so to tell u the truth, end it.its not ment to be. cuz if he is letting u get drunk in the first place, that means he doesnt care about u.and if u get caught haveing sex, he could go to jail. me and my ex always had it clear about sex, and i no it may seem that everyone is just against him, but they r right.i hope u listen and dont have to learn the hard way like i just did.lots of luv
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reader, angeleyes4281 +, writes (16 February 2009):
Then what exactly would you say is your relationship? I would say you guys are dating! I mean, if he bought you a cell phone, pays for you, picks u up from school. But if he says you guys aren't dating, then he maybe with someone else, the times he's not hanging out with you. Or he maybe embarrassed to say he's dating a 15 year old. If that's the case, I say you shouldn't continue with him in a romantic way, from your point. Since it seems like you really are falling for him. And NO GUY, is worth going against your parents. Especially if he's saying he doesn't want to date you.You can try to be friends with him. See how that goes. If it doesn't work, then just move on. Some guys are too good to be true. Good Luck!
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