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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend is planning on cheating on his girl..what am I supposed to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend started dating a girl i sort of have known for a while a month ago. They seem to be getting along fine, but recently they haven't been spending to much time together which is mainly because they are both pretty busy which is understandable. But my friend came up to me ... (298 words)

How can I give myself a great orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really turned on by fingering myself but don't know how to give myself an orgasm or what it feels like to even have one... I need some tips on how to finger yourself the best way possible and give myself an orgasm.... any thing to put on down there or something that makes ... (59 words)

I need some "first time" advice.... quick!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - For the past year my best friend and I have been getting closer. We have decided to have sex for the first time this Friday, so in two days. Is there any advice somebody can give on what to do and what not do? This is my first time but not hers. So I am inexperienced. Any ... (66 words)

I don't want to be the "fill in guy"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - For a couple of years I have had very strong feelings towards a friend of mine. However I never tried to push this feeling, and so we remained "just friends". I would occasionally drop in a cheesy line, or a small flirt, but nothing serious. A few months ago we were talk... (372 words)

Is this not something that should have happened for me by now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I won't go in to too much detail coz I'll be here all night. I was just wondering if it's weird that I'm 21 and never had a relationship. Sometimes I think I don't have time for a boyfriend but a lot of the time I feel really lonely and wonder why I don't have one. I guess it ... (122 words)

I feel trapped and attached with this married man, how do I get out of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in a relationship with a married man going on 6 years I always hoped that we would become a permanent relationship. I gave this man my heart and soul and just knew that one day we would go further as being a couple and that he was going to leave his wife because ... (204 words)

Is it asking too much that he should stop paying her stuff altogether and help me if he lives with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend lives with me and is recently divorced. He pays out quite a bit so I haven't asked him for money to live there. It's been 3.5 months and he hasn't chipped in for anything. He has no kids with his ex and she works full time and he continues to pay her cell even ... (197 words)

We're friends... but we do have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) age 51-59 - After dating for 5 months, I got pregnant and miscarried. He then said he just wanted to be friends but now we are having sex again. I told him "friends" don't have sex, so don't break my heart, but said I wasn't pushing him for an answer until he was ready to give me one. He ... (86 words)

I am getting to the point where I can't stand my sister.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting to the point where I can't stand my sister. Absolutely everything I say seems to be a trigger for her to compete to the point that I've almost given up talking when she is around. For example, the other day I happened to mention to my Mum that I was going to ... (410 words)

The romance rut!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel that me and my boyfriend of over a year have fallen into a romance rut. I want to try something that will really wow him and hopefully spark something inside of him to make him show more affection. Any suggestions?? ... (44 words)

Is my penis small or does size even matter at all?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 6' tall male i am slender/athletic. at times i feel like my penis is small but other times i think it is a good size. My penis size is around erect 6" long, 5 1/2" thick and flaccid 3 3/4" long, 4" thick. Is that small or does size really matter? My question is does size ... (74 words)

I'm too overprotective of my girlfriend, but I'm willing to change - please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well this is the first time iv wrote on this forum so please be nice. There is a long background story to this so please be patient... We are both 18 and iv been with my girlfriend a couple of months now (officially) however we have been everything but the title... (339 words)

I'm freaking out after my horrible sex experience with my BF, can you help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i'm seventeen and my boyfriend and i had sex last night as a late valentines day present and now i'm freaking out. Well my boyfriend kind of pressured me into having sex at this camping trip and he didnt stop when i told him to stop being so rough on my body and he didnt. ... (117 words)

I'm dieting and exercising, why am I not losing more weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently begun a diet. weightwatchers to be precise. i dont go to any meetings as i cant afford this but i have the newest book and have researched alot into it. i am 5ft2 and at the beginning i weighed 11st10pounds. which i know is very overweight for my height..... (250 words)

Lost my girlfriend, lost my whole world... what am I to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - sorry in advance for the poor spelling ,puncuation and length.i have been with my girlfriend for almost 7 yrs now.we fell madly in love at first sight when introduced by mutual friends.she was divorced with 2 kids .i tried all i can do to be friendly to them but due to their ... (597 words)

I'm getting married, but I'm not too excited about taking his last name!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

- I'm getting married this summer and I'm very excited. The only thing I'm really fretting about is the last name change! I'm really attached to my own last name. I asked my fiance if he'd want to swap his last name for mine, but he's not into that. He suggested hyphenating but I ... (191 words)

I want to come out of the closet, but I'm extremely scared!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a very confused individual.. im a lesbian, i think about girls in a sexual way 24/7 and find sex with a guy unappealing. guys just dont really do it for me i guess. but i am extremely scared of coming out, and to add to it i have just started a relationship with a ... (160 words)

Why do some women hate their men watching porn?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2134 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - why do some women have a problem when they find out their man enjoys a little porn? i don't get it. we all know men need something visual to get them excited, so what is the difference between a woman reading an erotic novel or having a fantasy in her head to a man watching p... (81 words)

Should I help him or do men usually do that themselves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. We want to begin to get intimate. When we are ready to have sex for the first time (I'm a virgin and he's not)should I help him put his penis in me or does the man generally do that. Any tips from your experience?... (56 words)

Am I a financial convenience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age - Is it me? Married 24yrs and my husband is perfectly nice everyone likes him but I feel so neglected. I have taken a week off work and I am five days into it and have not held a conversation with my husband who is more intent on watching the horse racing and engaging in his ... (217 words)

I think he's cheating, but I'm not sure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im having trouble in a relationship and Idk if he's cheating or if I should leave him,his 24 and I 18and he also has a child.we only see each other 3 times a month, he doesn't have a cell phone so I can't get into contact with him, I can only speak to him when he calls me and ... (132 words)

The bad times never seem to stop! Does anyone else have this experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) age - Hello,I wonder what would most of you say about this problem. Now, I can't go into long detales, as it would be very long story, so I won't . But I just try to tell ,what is the general thing. I"m a realistic, mostly logical person, I think. So this is out of character for me... (197 words)

What's going on in his head? I need advice

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating my first boyfriend a month ago.I am just turning 18 and he is about to turn 19. He spoils me,and takes me out to nice restaraunts,and I lost my virginity to him acouple weeks ago. eveybody thinks he is my prince charming including me. He took me out to Dinner ... (239 words)

All of a sudden I can't pleasre her anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, My girlfriend and I were having sex and then all of a sudden things i was doing stopped pleasuring her. even things that used to work before that point. what the hell happened?... (34 words)

I'm in love with my friend's husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 30 in age and have a son of 7 years im a divorcee few months back came to my parents a friend of mine helped me in my establishment .she and her hubby made my standing .but somehow i started loving him she doesnt know but he is honest to her and never accepts my love 4 him ... (103 words)

I sent her an email I regret, its been downhill ever since, can I make things right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I really need some advice. There is a incredible woman I've been in love with for some time now. We've seen each other for about a year, but these feelings didn't begin till last summer. She's the type of woman I think I would do almost anything if it made her happy. ... (403 words)

She doesn't trust me since I lied about watching porn, how can I make it right?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I'm a male, 20 years old. I need some serious help. I've been with my girlfriend (we got engaged recently) for almost 3.5 years now, and we have had a great relationship. I love her to death, she loves me, and everything was fine until about 6 months ago. My ... (315 words)

Sex after dating him for 5 years - would this be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - and im 16 and i was wondering if i wanted to have sex with someone i been dating for 5 ears would it be wrong if i had sex with him since i know we will be together for longer time?... (41 words)

Why did I say no when I wanted to say yes to his proposal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and he recently asked me to marry him. He is the most wonderful man I could ever have asked for, but for some reason, even though my head and heart wanted to say yes, I said no. I've broken his heart and don't understand why I told ... (179 words)

I want to see my girlfriend with another guy, how do I suggest this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my beautiful girlfriend for about a year now. We're in our 20's but shes several years older than me. We love each other very much. We've had amazing sex since day one however as of late I've been having this reoccurring fantasy of watching her having sex with ... (249 words)

Guys would you marry a girl who was forced to do oral sex in her past?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Guys would you marry a girl who was forced to do oral sex in her past?... (16 words)

My ex still wants to hold me close, even although we've broken up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex, still wants to hold me and be close to me, he broke it up, should I allow this as I love him and want him back or tell him to leave me alone. I'm confused coz I know he loves me but someone got in the way of our relationship and he said he can't be with me (mom from hel... (68 words)

I just wanted to know how I keep it at the level of 'potential' girlfriend, without getting too close.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've met a lovely guy, and have been on a few dates as well as talking on the phone/online etc. He has been very open with me from the start that he isn't sure what he wants yet, We have both just come out of bad long term relationships. He says he likes... (191 words)

Problems with ex husband...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age - I recently re-connected with my first husband after 20 or so years. We live 700 miles apart, but we are talking about my moving with him and spending the rest of our lives together. My question is, should I trust him and all the things he is telling me such as he never stopped ... (148 words)

I snogged him and am now worried in case I have HIV!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a virgin and worry and stress about things in general, also Stds, I recently met a guy and snogged him loads, I never had sex or anything but now I'm worried I've got HIV cause he isn't a virgin. ... (43 words)

How can I stop getting so angry at him when I'm out drinking with friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem that's really starting to get to me. I'm 19 years old and been with my boyfriend (22) for 7 months now. We have a great relationship, very caring, loving, trusting etc, however our only problem is when I go out drinking... If I'm out with friends and I get dr... (300 words)

I am presently in a relationship however I am interested in another guy... what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey I am presently in a relationship however I am interested in another guy who in many ways I think is the one for me since he fills many gaps that my boyfriend doesn't. I love my guy but I am also in love with the other. how do I move on. Please I need some answers urg... (62 words)

Where did all the blood come from???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a big concern here this morning... I lost my virginity 3 days ago - Sunday night, to be more specific. I had some light bleeding that went on during the next day and a half. By Tuesday night, it had stopped completely. This morning (Wednesday morning), I woke... (126 words)

Should I go see my ex for reasons of our split and maybe see if we can save our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

- I was seeing this girl for about 4 months and she was really keen on me from the word go. After only about a month and a half she burst into tears one night when I could'nt have sex with her without a comdom on as for some reason it hurts me to not use one, and always has. She ... (922 words)

How do I get this girl to lay off my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) age 26-29 - Hello, I'm 13 and I live in the nice part of Kent. I'm really stuck at the moment because I have a really nice boyfriend, and we used to share everything, except now I have a problem - my best friend, who went out with him in year 7 is being a complete bitch. She still fancies ... (317 words)

I've cheated and been taken back, but can I still be friends with "the other guy"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who I've been with for a bit more than a year, but before our anniversary we fell out (Broke up and made up 4 times) and I cheated on him with our friend who had a crush on me. The friend shares a lot of interests and hobbies that I have and is really fu... (212 words)

She loves everything about me but she doesn't want a relationship with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a female friend who loves me, thinks I am the funniest person, loves my cooking loves my company, but does not fancy me and as a result will not be with me. She will hang out with me 24/7, all the time I wish that she did fancy me because if she ever got married she wish... (80 words)

Am I safe???

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone... guess what, I had sex with my boyfriend on valentines day and it was unprotected, I took the post pill the next morning and the second pill was supposed to be taken after 12 ours the first is and I forgot and took it after 24 hours from when I took the first ... (131 words)

Can she keep using the kids against him to make sure we stay apart or could we be together and him still see his kids???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old girl and I was seeing a man of 33. We have known each other for nearly 5 years but we were only seeing one another for about a year and a half 2 years. When we first got together he had a girlfriend which I knew about and two kids aged 4 and 6. They lived on ... (1152 words)

He finds it so difficult to move out because of the children...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Myself and someone I work with fell in love with each other about 5/6 months ago... we both told each other and things progressed in to a "love affair". There was one problem though. I had a boyfriend, who I ended with because I had no feelings for him and he has a fiance and ... (240 words)

Can a normally good and genuine person become a cheat?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Is it possible to be a good person who loves a man with all her heart to become a nasty cheat after a lot of hurt, but is it possible for the same person to be loving and faithful to the same man when they both realize they messed up? I know what society thinks about cheating, ... (109 words)

If he was so unhappy why did he spend so much time with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - help, i feel so confused. I have been with my boyfriend a total of 7.5 years, the first few years of our relationship were good although he was quite jealous and parnoid. 4.5 years in, we split up because he wasn't sure about us and had died his feelings down for me. Wh... (350 words)

How can he just move away with no strings attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We were together since i was 14. I lost my virginity to him at 25 (he is the only guy i've ever slept with), only because he pledged to my mum that we were going to be married. I'm 33 this year, we're still not married. He never has conversations with me (of any kind), never ... (171 words)

Please help on how to find closure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Please help me before I go mad. I’ve been involved in a text relationship with a man for almost 3 months. This man happens to be my driving instructor. I am in my early thirties and he is 52. I know cliché! Anyway the story is this........ we have been texting one another way ... (488 words)

How can I fix the relationship & make him see what he wants?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 16 and female. i was pregnant 4 months ago but i had a still birth i developed an eating disorder the only thing i cling to is my beloved boyfriend weve been together 2 years and he asked me to marry him on valentines day. i know were young well he's 18 but still... (176 words)

I'm always the single girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age - hey im almost 15 years old, and ive like this guy who is going out with one of my sort of friends. (we arent really close or anything, but we are friends) i dont often feel this strongly about guys and now i finally find a guy i could see myself with and hes taken! they have ... (173 words)

How can I forget that my b/f had sex with someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i forget my boyfriend had sex with someone else? how can i trust that he wont hurt me again? i want to trust him but i dont think i know how any more well me and my bf have been together for almost 4 years he is my first everything and we recently got into a big ... (272 words)

Land lady flirting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi aunty,well last few days have been a roller coaster for me..i am mid 20's guy staying by my self in a small apartment..as per the rules and regulations of the apartments contract,alcohol is not allowed.. but i still do bring beer from outside and i guess my neighbou... (299 words)

I can't tell my husband where I've been!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age - Hi All, I posted yesterday about my husband text flirting with a colleague (one of her texts verified that it had gone no further) and thanks for all the advice. Although all this happened over 6 months ago, I am getting worse rather than better in imagining what they said to ... (413 words)

Am I just a booty call or is he really just not ready for a serious relationship??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So there is this guy I met we went out and had some drinks and talked for hours we later hooked up that night.. He doesnt really call anymore just text about every night.. Sometimes to come over or just to see how I am doing.. We see each other atleast once a week. One night ... (181 words)

Am I right what I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Hello!Thank you for this kind of opportunity, beacause I am confused I want somebody to give me an advise. I've been married for more than 5 years, we have two lovely daughters.But, I feel not in love with my husband, just because I admire somebody else.I... (212 words)

I'm worried I won't be able to hold onto her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well here is my situation: Me and my girlfriend have known each other for over four years we have been practically been best friends.. and just recently begun going out for about 3 months now..i am 19 she is 18.. Here is my question: She wants to not have sex with her future h... (139 words)

Why did he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time [we have been together well over a year and it wasnt so long ago that we did it] it was really good, despite being told the first time is always rubbish. it only lasted a few minutes but, just as he was about to cum, he ... (80 words)

I think he dumped me cause I passed gas during anal sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating my first boyfriend last year and all was going well until about 6 weeks into it and we started doing anal sex on and off for a few months, and it seemed nearly every time we did it after 2 or 3 minutes it I needed to break wind 3 or 4 times. This become highly ... (159 words)

Found out from my friend he is seeing someone else and am crushed...please help...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old and i just found out that this guy i liked is going out with someone else. We had been texting each other all them time everyday for about two weeks and i had really thought he liked me or at least i hoped he did. Even though we never went out i still liked hi... (196 words)

I don't know what he will say about my feelings, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have slept with this guy twice nearly two months ago now i cant stop thinking about him i really like him to the point where i think i love him,i havent told anyone this because i dont know what he will say about it but what can i do??? Please help!!... (54 words)

I'm married but in love with a relative who is my ex, please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I`m happily married, after 9 years i met my childhood boy friend, who`s in love with me without telling it to me coz we`ve blood relation, and i`m in love with him as well..but i`ve keepng it for ages...now his telling me it all...and i can`t fade his love..we`re not living in ... (66 words)

How do I ask my husband, who does not like to discuss sex, to try some of these things with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married with four children and love my husband, but I fantisize about another man. My husband definitly still turns me on, but at times I can be sitting watching tv and dream of this other man doing things to me that my husband does not do. Is it wrong to imagine another ... (169 words)

Marriage before I go away to the navy??? Or not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says that he wants to marry before I go into the NAVY and that this is our engagement stage.... oh yeah we have been dating for 7 months... but any how when I tell our mutural friends he comes back and asks me why did I tell them that we are getting married and a ... (117 words)

Girl problem from a new bi girl.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met a girl in a class in college and I really like her... but I'm 20 and have never been with a girl!! ahhhh!! This wouldn't be that much of a problem, but I'm not sure if she is gay or bi or whatever. Indeed, it is my first big lesbian crush, and I go to a christian ... (116 words)

Am I being unreasonably selfish here or is something else at work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age - I am strangely and suddenly conflicted. I broke up with my ex-wife a few years ago, we still have a couple of minor children and get along great as friends. We were together for many years. On some level, we still love each other though her feelings may be deeper than she ... (144 words)

Is she the woman he subconsciously wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has a very close female friend and perhaps I'm just reading into it too much but it seems to me that she's the girlfriend he's never had. When she walks into the room, he lights up and shouts out her nickname. When he talks to her, he's always touching her ... (110 words)

How do I talk a girl into trying/having anal sex?...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this fetish with having anal sex with girls. A lot of girls won't even try it but I have a real big fetish with it. How do I talk a girl into trying/having anal sex?... (37 words)

My g/f thinks I won't wait until shes ready to have sex... What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 19, my gf is 16. We have only been togheter for a month but already talked about sex. She is a virgin and I have slept with 5 girls in the past. She said that she wants to wait until she's ready and I tell her that I respect that and am willing to wait. However, I bring up ... (143 words)

My g/f has self esteem issues, how can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend at times has selfesteem issues..one moment she is telling me how great i am and sometimes when she mentions it shes crying saying she doesn't deserve how i treat her and she doesn't understand why i love her i deserve better....usually i try to point out my weak ... (110 words)

Baby mama drama makes me doubt my boyfriend

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - me an my bf have been together for 2 years. he has a son and has full custody of him--mother has visitation rights. i have a hard time dealing with the situation. he tells me there's nothing to worry about because he loves me and he's with me. but how am i suppose to not worry ... (170 words)

Having change of heart about having abortion

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going to try to make this quick...I am writing because I need advice very soon. My situation is down to the eleventh hour so to speak. I am pregnant and have had a change of heart,I think??? I really think I want to have this baby and know it is not something I will be ... (154 words)

Did she want to see my junk?

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18 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - this past summer i had a girl out at my house we were going to sit in my hot tub outside then go swimming in the pond after that. well the thing is she didn't really have a swim suit and so she wore her t-shirt and her swim suit bottom. and she goes on saying that she doesn't ... (133 words)

Can anal sex stretch you out?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an embarasseing question regarding anal sex. I've had it a few times with my boyfriend (but it wasnt my first time with anal) (who by the why is pretty large for my standards, but not gargantuan, even though he does wear magnums) the first 2 or 3 times we tried lasted ... (193 words)

He cringes when we talk about feelings

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Need help. I have been dating F for 3months. We're both 28. He's a great guy and a kind heart. However, he has not been in a relationship in years and I think we are having different expectations in this relationship. He is not the most sensitive of guys and we don't do 'norm... (284 words)

What's going on? Am I ready for sex?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy at my school that I really like. Whenever we try to talk to each other we get nervous. I get sweaty between my legs and I feel a yearning for him in my clit and vagina. What's going on? Am i ready for sex?... (47 words)

Bad peeling on inside of thighs?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been noticing that the skin on the insides of my thighs is peeling off like a bad sunburn. Why whould this be?... (23 words)

I got fired because I'm pregnant!

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18 February 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I'm 5 mouths pregnant and recently got fired because of it (I was a waiter). My ex-boss always had it out for me since day one said they needed more "skinner" waitress who could got more tips (so he could pay them less). When I told my husband about he went insane and he wants ... (96 words)

Did my 15 year old boyfriend leave me because I wasn't pregnant?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend is fifteen and I'm fourteen. we were dating for around three months before we broke it off, but we had other 'flings' prior to that. Needless to say, I fell for him long ago, and I never got back up. My ex lives about two hours away from where I live, but i... (462 words)

Mixed signals

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18 February 2009 (F)

age - I met a wonderful man while we were both on vacation. We spent a wonderful week together, talking, flirting, site seeing. We did not have sex. At the end of the vacation he told me that he really liked me and kissed me. I told him that I really like him and he responded ... (243 words)

Hoping he will get divorced?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am seperated for the past 6 years (really nasty husband) and with a married man for the past 7 years(opened my eyes to the abuse, helping me financially and in every way was there for us)... now i am confused if i should belive that he really loves me. he said that he wants ... (142 words)

Is he using me till something better comes along?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are generally happy. The problem is that he has never told me he loves me, he says that he would probably cheat on me if the right opportunatity come along and he wants to marry someone who is from the same country as him. I... (141 words)

I know sex isn't everything, but it is something!

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I fear I may have been a massive bitch to a boy - so excuse the length, but I need to be honest here if I am to get honest answers back. There was this guy I met at uni about 4 months ago. He was really nice and sweet and we really got on. We started off as friends and then... (488 words)

Was it bad of me to reply like that?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So this guy I've been talking to for the past week feels like I've been putting all the effort by texting and getting him to hangout. After the last time we hungout I didn't hear from a week. I wanted to text/call him but I was waiting for him to do so then out of nowhere on ... (107 words)

Was he having pity sex with me?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - This is kind of embarassing for me even though it is anonymous, but here it goes. My husband and I have been split up for a little while now. It just seemed as if we couldn't spend 2 minutes without getting into an arguement anymore. Since this was the second time around for us ... (343 words)

Is it normal that he wasn't bothered by seeing me kiss another guy? Which I do NOT remember doing!

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend I went to NY for valentine day. After meeting with friends and having some drinks we ended up at the club where we got more drinks. After several more I got black out. My boyfirend told me next morning that I was making out with some guy at the club. Meaning ... (137 words)

I want to have sex with the man I love, but I am self-conscious!

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to have sex with they man i love, but i am so self conscious of my body, he is really in shape. and im not, im not an obese girl, a am slighty thicker than some. most guys like my shape, but i dont, i have ugly light strecth marks on my stomach and sides. and im ... (67 words)

I just want to know if this fetish is healthy!

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18 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, I'll start off with saying that I have a sexual fetish, and I want to know if it's healthy. It's a pee fetish, but I know about golden showers and the consumption of urine being healthy. I'm, frankly, more into desperation. I know that holding to much urine, for to ... (112 words)

Could I have had an orgasm?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am a 18 year old girl. i just wanted to know what a orgasm feels like i cant say that i have had one one before but really what am i to expect to feel in my vagina and my body. i have tried masturbating i felt a bit of tingeing in my vagina but not much it did not seem to ... (72 words)

I'm confused between friendship and love....

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18 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Last year I started loving a girl whom I have been knowing from the past 3 years. She has been a very close friend of mine. I always admired her and also told her that I like her the way she looks and etc. We have even gone very close and have been involved in pre-sex cuddling. ... (285 words)

My boyfriend says he doesn't know how he feels about me...

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Right, some background. My boyfriend and I met through a friend. We had flirted on a few nights out and ended up kissing at a party a couple of weeks back. The next day, we had a long chat, and we have been talking every day since, and seeing each other most days. The past ... (734 words)

Could helping his wife make me more appealing to him? Men's opinions please.

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A MAN's ANSWER woudl be great here. Thanks. Last summer I had an emotional affair with a guy from work and I worked through it while on break from the job. I have returned and in seeing eachother there is no doubt that we missed eachother as we hugged in sincerety, shared ... (299 words)

My boss kissed me, what do I do??

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i got really really really drunk and my boss kissed me he has a girlfriend and i feel sick with guilt really really really bad any advice please thanks by the way my friend was there with me and she said if wasn't that drunk !... (46 words)

She knows I love her, she doesn't hide anything from me, but why would she do this?

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18 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically ive been talking to this girl for awhile almost 5 months, we went out for 2 but had to break up because she wasnt over her ex, and didnt want anything bad to happen between us, so about 2 weeks ago the ex called her and finally told her he was odne with her, even ... (245 words)

What's the proper way to finger a girl?

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18 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Proper way to finger a girl.. that is pretty sensitive to going deep??? This isnt my first walk in the park nor is it hers we have been doing this for a year and god knows how long she has been doing it by herself... (45 words)

My abusive relationship is now over, but I'm wondering if I've become an abuser myself!

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - This is going to sound so strange, but I have been in and emotionally and verbally abusive relationship for 3 years and I finally told him to get help or leave, he denied he had a problem and left saying I kicked him out. I have decided to get counceling for myself and although ... (1336 words)

I was wondering can vaginas get tighter, because I have a really tight one.

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had sex in a car before the break out bleeds, and he got his penis in me pretty easily. Then he tried a bed today and he had a lot of trouble getting his penis in me today. I was wondering if vaginas could get tighter, because I have a really tight one. we also tried doggy ... (84 words)

Do even the sweetest guys still play mind games?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I split up 5 weeks ago as a family member didn't agree, his family. We are both in our twenties but he still studies and I'm a single parent, A week after he ended our great relationship he made contact, stating we should remain buddies. He contacts me daily and chat... (183 words)

What does it mean when your husband of 10 years suddenly begins behaving differently in the bedroom?

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18 February 2009 (F) age 51-59 - What does it mean when your husband of 10 years suddenly begins behaving differently in the bedroom? After all these years, he suddenly is interested in new positions and has become more vocal during sex. He also has started cumming on my stomach rather than inside me. I don't ... (111 words)

I am leaving in 3 months. Is opening up worth it?

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18 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, Ok. the problem is simple. I miss my ex, but I do not love him, if it makes sense. I miss our moments and I wish me and my bf had those momenst too. (we've been together for almost 4 months) not exactly the same, but that things were similar.. My ex always asked que... (226 words)

I've cheated on her 3 times, now she said she needs space! How can I rectify this problem?

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18 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend says she needs space from me, because I cheated numerous times and she took me back every time (cheated about 3x). The last time I got caught she saw me in pictures with the other lady, she forgave me and gave me another chance and about a year after she says she ... (185 words)

How to make a player fall in love with you?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How to make a player fall in love with you. I don't like to play games but I deserve a really cute guy I'm cute and the cute guys are always players. So how to I get myself one?... (40 words)

I'm not IN LOVE with him...

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys and girls. Here's the thing - and it's a pretty big thing to me so need some help! Been with my fella for 3 and a half years. I know that I love him. We get on amazingly and are really similar, have a laugh etc and understand one another. But for a very long time n... (232 words)

Should I move on... or get even???

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently meet a younger guy, I thought he liked me but it turns out he has numerous partners and is now using his new partners to make me jealous. What should I do? I am absolutely gutted about this. Shall I move on or get even?? ... (50 words)

Is there a way to tell him I'm ready to lose my virginity?

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I'm still a virgin. The person I'm dating isn't and I was planning on having sex but I'm not sure what to say. I wanted to know is there a way to tell him I'm ready to lose my virginity?... (41 words)

Would YOU marry a shy guy?

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18 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Folks, I am curious about how a woman will react to events and mishaps in her engagement and marriage with a shy man. I am talking about a man who is so shy that his parents and brothers/sisters have to speak for him in situations. He is so shy that he is unable to t... (112 words)

He is so established and knows what he wants, and one thing he wants is a woman who will have sex with him.

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18 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Readers, I met this guy Dec 23. I am head over heels for this man, I am 19 and he is 28! He is so established in life, but most of all his is very religous as I am! His words sit in my head, when he touches me I stop breathing, just yesterday he was kissing on me and I ... (258 words)

She's very sick, and pushing me away.... What do I do?

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18 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with Jenn for 8 months, we were friends for a few months before that. I am a songwriter in Nashville, and she lives in North Carolina. Jenn has severe lupus, and is in pain a lot of time. She is only 26, and it kills me to know how badly she hurts. She also recently ... (504 words)