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writes: I've had a crush on this guy since my freshman year in High school, i'm 20 now. I recently got a Facebook account and added him as a friend. He e-mailed me so we've been talking. He asked me to hang out and gave me his cellphone number. I text him and now he has my cell phone number and told me he will give me a call sometime this week to hang out. I've never talked to him before in high school. We both knew who we were. One time I asked him to come to the homecoming with me and he said he would but that I had a boyfriend. I know I did wrong for trying to hang out with him while having a boyfriend but I've matured since and don't want to do something like that again. Now he seems to really want to hang out with me and I do too but there's one problem... He has a girlfriend!!! I used to hang out with her a little in gym class but we're not really friends or anything. I don't want him to play with me. I'm the serious relationship type. Should I just hang out with him as friends and see if maybe he ends up with me?? I don't want to get my feelings hurt so please advice.
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reader, anoms  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 to me i dont think i would associate "your amazing" with sex, unless it was specifically "the sex was amazing". he's probably refering to the connection you share with him, and that he feels very close to you, possibly admiration and respect who knows, gudluk.
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (3 March 2009):
Ivanna22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question One more thing. What do guys mean when they say ur amazing to a girl? I mean I always hear a guy say that about a girl who he thinks she's great in bed but we didn't even kiss!!! Male advice please?
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reader, anoms +, writes (3 March 2009):
its really good that you knew wher to draw the line, if you take this any further before he splits up with his current gf then your leaving youself open to heartbreak. if he respects you then he will stay friends until he has made up his mind, but i would'nt try to sway his decision in your favour in any way, he has already made a sexual advance so dont give him the opportunity to have his way with you and decide later, thers no telling how far he would have gone if you allowed it. he can express himself without kissing, he's just toying so dont go ther. put yourself in his gf shoes, ask yourself what you would do if you knew what he was upto..gudluk.
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (2 March 2009):
Ivanna22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay so he picked me up saturday night very late because he ws at the library studying before. He is going to become a doctor. We have never talked in high school before more than a hello and we both knew each other's name. When he picked me up and we started talking he said that he's always had a crush on me in high school but never had the nerves to come up to me and talk to me specially cuz I didn't speak any English. I was so happy to hear that he liked me so I told him I alwas had a crush on him too. We immidiately clicked. We got alone very well it seemed so natural and i wasn't bored like in the other dates I've been going to. hen we parked at a park and he asked "will it be out of line if I asked to kis you"? and I said ummmmm..... but you have a girlfriend!!! and he said i know i know!. It was kind of awkward. He said he wantsto move to this island i forgot the name of it, but that him and his girlfriend won't last because he doesn't do the long distance thing. He also said that his parents wanna move to Cali and that he can't go because of school and he will HAVE to get his own place and then he said sort of jokinly "we can be roomates" I just laughed. He said he wants to take me out to eat nxt time and I said okay. He dropped me off and then he texted me a minute later saying "I def wanna do this again soon. Ur amazing. I had fun" so I textedhim back saying Aww yuo're so cute. I always had a crush on since since freshman year in high school. I would've kissed you in a heart beat but you know that wouldn't be right. Let's just be friends hang out and see where it goes". He said i would like that very much good night. So what do you guys think about the whole thing? don't wanna just be the girl he's chating on his girldfrind with. I like him alot. I don't wanna be just a booty call. What do I do? I will really appreciate it if males answered this too. I want a guy's advice.
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reader, anoms +, writes (16 February 2009):
good your being mature about this, go with your gut instinct, if you want to hang out and be friends and get to know eachother better go for it, but if you go any further your going to be back here asking if he's taking advantage of you, if you guys get along you never know it could lead to somthing more serious down the road but just have fun with it for now and stay out of trouble with his girlfriend if you get me, gudluk.
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reader, nathanshott132  +, writes (16 February 2009):
just hangout and see if he changes his mind about you.
that tends to happen alot.
And if it does turn into something,
tell him how you feel.
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