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writes:okay umm there is this female i'm-a call her Hshe happends to like my boyfriend you know it wasnt really a problem at first i mean they had went out before but they broke up. so me and H have known each other since about 6th grade we have bumped heads a few times but that is water under the bridge. to me its seems like everything i do SHE DOES MR.lame [the boyfriend] told me he aint like her anymore so you know i TRUST him i trust him 100% i just dont trust her what should i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): No, you DON'T trust him. You don't trust him at all. You're just trying to make yourself think you trust him and say you don't trust her.
Reality check: when it comes down to it, it's up to him whether something happens between them or not. It's not up to her.
If he truly has a monogamist code of principles in him, then no matter what she does, how she acts, how forward she is, he will not budge and only have his heart for you. However, if he reacts to her actions in a way deemed too much for you, then it means your relationship with him is not strong enough and/or he isn't solid in his feelings enough.
What should you do?
A) Continue to believe you trust him completely and do what you've always done.
B) Tell him to stop being friends with her or get in contact with her.
C) Ditch him and find someone more suitable for you.
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