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My b/f? Or my good friend?

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Question - (16 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *rokeninside writes:

I have no idea what to do! I mean i'm only 14 and i have a boyfriend in Nicaragua who told me he loves me (which i doubt sometimes) and a really good friend...and he told me he loved me...i have no idea what to do! I have a feeling that i love them both...but sometimes i get the feeling my boyfriend doesn't care about me like before. And my good friend has been there for me when i need a shoulder to cry on. But then again so has my boyfriend. But sometimes he makes me feel like i'm his "toy". And i hate that! My good friend doesn't but then again sometimes he does but he replaces that with small things. Like how he always wants to protect me. I don't know which one to choose! My boyfriend who i've been dating for 8 months...or my good friend who i've known for 2 months?

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (16 February 2009):

mimisoph3 agony aunti cant tell you which to chose but i can help you think a little better though..it seems like you dont need help at all it seems like you got it figured out..it seems like you want the friend...i mean does your bf even live at the same country as you if not he's probably cheating then coming back to you trying to play you..usually good friends last longer because you can be everything around them,and they already know the half of you...soooo i really think that you got the answer in your heart.if your bf treats you like a toy make him stop,youre no toy but a human being

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

does your bf live in the same country as you? does your friend? if neither of them do then i dont know what to say but if one does id choose that one because itd be insane to stay in that relationship if he doesnt even live in the same country as you

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