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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for about a 1 year but we hardly kiss. The weird thing is that when we talk about the things we like doing with each other, he says that he loves kissing my lips because they are so soft. We can go for months without kissing passionately, he actually turns away or uses an excuse not to kiss me e.g. he's got a cold. I started becoming really paranoid about the situation but feel too ashamed to say anything to him. I have tried to make a joke out of the situation to see what his reaction is but he always says that he loves kissing me.I've been told that I am a good kisser and never had this problem with any of my other boyfriends. I know that this is a real stupid reason to break up with him but it is really starting to knock my confidence. We have no other problems in our relationship. What could the problem be?
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reader, Anonny +, writes (17 February 2009):
My man is a bad kisser!! - He isn't reluctant to kiss me - but when he does he barely opens his mouth and I think his eyes are half open too!!
Anyway, I'm so in love with him, that I think a "bad" kiss is better than no kiss so I just accept how he is!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): well honestly i am in that exact situation, when i first got with my boyfriend i didnt mind kissing him i guess because it was new, how ever after a while i didnt really like kissing him for the main fact that i dont like how he did it, im not really sure what it is, but i dont like his technic, what u need to do is be blunt with him, if it is affecting you too the point, that ur thinking of finishing, tell him how u feel, i know but it wont be easy but its better than just leaving him because of that reason without tryin, if he lies and says he likes kissing u then, tell him to kiss u at that time , if he does it reluctantly or refuses then u have ur answer, u could both try talkin about and 'practicing' a technique u both like,tell each other what u like and dont like about the kiss and then accomodate to suit, if not then i cant see things lasting. hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Some guys just don't like kissing. I am with such a guy he says he hates kissing, but recently I have been changing my appearance dressing sexy at least he thinks it is sexy. He has not been able to stop from kissing me now. Find out what turns him on my guy likes for me to dress casual but with a little flair like a nice blouse that doesn't show too much a pair of nice jeans, heals, and some jewelery. For some reason it really turns him on and this weekend we spent more time making out then we did "making love" and he hardly kissed me before except for a peck or two.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Your breath perhaps. My ex was a good kisser but his breath wasn't always something nice to taste. I always avoided kissing him for long. only small pecks.. chew gum.
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