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36-40,
*sdgaf910
writes:im newly single. left my ex to live a life. around new years i met this guy, lets call him j. when i first met him i told him i didnt want anything because i just got out of my engagement... well, we hit it off pretty well, and i ended up sleepin with him. we slept together a couple times, and then he told me to stop calling and texting him. because we were arguing over who knows what.. well we didn't talk for 2 weeks, and then i saw him at the same place i met him and i grabbed him and talked to him a little bit. during this whole time he's told me that he just got out of his relationship cause his ex cheated on him with one of his friends. and etc etc. note they were together for about 3 years, they lived together. etc etc. well that next weekend, i got drunk and i saw him there and i called him, and i went home with him. did not sleep with him. then we said that if we wanted any "good times" to just call one another, and we are the only people we have slept with since both of our break ups...i know i like him, i can't deny what i feel and he knows it, and he like to manipulate and hold things against me just in case in a later arguement, i really don't want to like him, cause i honestly don't want nothing to do with a guy because i feel amazing without a man and enjoying life. i know im gunna get screwed over by him cause he did it the first time when he realized that there was more than just the sex between me..., note in the misc of our conversations hes admitted that he likes me back, as i denied that i even liked him, because i want to be safe.. but nothing could happen because his ex gf is still on his brain. i just really want to leave this situation alone, but i like the dude alot. and i notice that everytime im drunk, he wants to know how i really feel about him, but he dont want to say anything of what he feels.... someone help... what should i do? should i tell him that i like him?
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reader, msdgaf910 +, writes (17 February 2009):
msdgaf910 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks girlly. but i think i know what im doing. he kinda helped to situation again
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