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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't know what to think now? Does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in grade nine and friends with this girl, Bree. She is also in grade nine and is in every single one of my classes. I live in a small town and just started going to her school, in a small town close to mine, this year. At the beginning of the year, she kept to herself and ... (541 words)

How do I get the upper hand in this break up and remain strong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I know this is going to sound strange, I think. I never really looked at things this way, but maybe if I did long ago, I would not be in this predicament right now. My husband and I have been together for 3 long aganoizing years of pure hell, for me. He has been mentally and ... (986 words)

I want to ask her out but have never been on a date before. Advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Sometime before Christmas (11th December)I attened an informal meal and get together hosted by one of my friends. Anyway, I started talking to this girl while I was there. She left quite early, but in the time we did talk we got along ok. So I thought I would like to meet aga... (403 words)

My b/f was fingering me and it hurt then and it hurts now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, im only 16. and have never slept with anyone, or done anything apart from snog (sad i guess but ive just never met the right person) well anyway been a relationsip with this really nice dude for about a month, we havnt really spoke about sex, and then last night i stayed at ... (231 words)

I have failed my wife and I am sorry. I want to recover!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My name is Tony. Im 36 years old and id have to be one of the biggest idiots out. I have been married to my wife for nearly 14 years. We are the proud parents of 3 beautiful children. My wife and I have been together as a couple for 20 years. For the past 4-5 years I ... (1674 words)

He says he doesn't like me but in fact I think he does?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) age 51-59 - okay like i seriously like this guy he is so perfect and i have cared about him for years now!!!!!!!! he is sooo mean to me though he acts like im not important and his friends treat me like crap. he is always watching me and smiling and acting like he likes me once he was STAR... (178 words)

Uprotected sex 3 days after my period, are there risks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im dating this guy and we had unprotected sex on 2/7/09 which was 3 days after my period and now im starting to think i might be pregnant am i just paranoid or could i really be prego?... (38 words)

The guy I like cheated on the exam, should I tell him it's wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy in my bio class... but today i caught him helping my friend cheat on our exam! and now, of course, they're both going to get great grades and i just think it's wrong. I want to tell on them, but i don't want them to be mad at me and lose any chance with ... (64 words)

Any tips about asking her out after I refused her invitation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - the girl i fancy asked me to a party on saturday. i said no because i thought she was jokin and did'nt want to gatecrash someone else's party but i'm regretting it we are both 17 and only see each other at work once a week and have began getting closer week by week we talk to e... (135 words)

My crush likes another girl, what to do, I don't want to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, i am really confused. i have been talking to this guy for about 7 months now, and we are no longer talking anymore, He has been talking to this other girl and i have feelings for him still, i have been trying to get over him But every time i see him talking to this girl ... (160 words)

Men, what do you prefer, experienced or unexperienced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I was just wondering for the young guys, (16-25) what do you prefer, experienced or unexperienced? Would you prefer for a girlfreind who is a virgin for example, who you can teach, or someone who is very experienced? xx ... (39 words)

I discovered the man I date does porn for a living! Should I confront him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a really big delma that i can only ask you guys about. Ok, so I've been dating this guy for 5 months and i just learned from searching him up on google, that he does porn for a living. I he's really nice around me and consideret i mean he bodybuilds and does that ... (119 words)

Is this a good idea in order to miss school one day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - whats the best way to make yourself feel unwell the next day, for example, if you need a day off school?x... (21 words)

Tips about using dildos?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - when i mastuabate I play with my clit. Ive tried a dildo like 5 times, though it never works. How do i make it feel nice? It does fit down there, and it doesnt hurt, i just get nothin sexual out of it. How do I make it more sexual? Thankyoux... (51 words)

Is this fat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i am 9 and a half stone, 5 ft 4, and have size G boobs. Is this fat?... (18 words)

He acts like he is embarrased to be seen in public with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age - Ok so Iam just so lost and confused I am in love with a man 10 yrs my senior. he has a very stessful job and refuses to talk to me about anything he refuses to go anywhere or do anything but sit in the house and play on his commputer. He knows that we need to deal with all... (310 words)

Is it ok for a student to be friends with a teacher after graduation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it ok for a student to be friends with a teacher after graduation? like, keep in contact via email and maybe, meet for coffee once in a while? i mean, it's not like they'd exactly be student- teacher anymore, right?... (41 words)

I want to deal with our constant arguing and settle down, I just don't know how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've dated my girlfriend for the past five years. They've been really great in a lot of ways and she's made me very happy and I like to think that I've made her very happy too... But in the past six months, my wires have been very frayed. You see, I've come to realize that our... (549 words)

Am I destined to be single forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I destined to be alone forever? I am almost 20 years old and have never had a stable relationship. My longest was about 6 months on and off with a player type guy. The players seem to be attracted to me and vice versa but I only kiss them (at least I do now, having learned ... (167 words)

My crush of 3 years likes my twin, should I tell her I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, ive never been on here before a bit of a new bee :) Well i have a big dilema, ive just found out my crush of 3 years is in love with my twin sister. My twin has come to me for advice as i know the boy more, but she doesn't know about my feelings and i think she has ... (123 words)

Is this the silent treatment? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am dating man for a few months now this is the same man that i have posted other questions on here.i i have had problems trusting him he has never done anything to betray me it is mainly my insecurites,.we had a fall out recently because he thought i was questioning his ... (192 words)

Is there a condition where a woman's orgasm causes her libido to diminish?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age - Is there a condition where a woman's orgasm causes her libido to diminish? If my wife and I have sex and she doesn't achieve an orgasm, she wants more. But if she achieves an orgasm, we can go days without her desiring more. And God forbid, she has 2-4 orgasms in one night, I ... (91 words)

Do other women ever feel a little aroused during their period?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - do anyother women experience feeling a little horny during your period? i don't think i could ever have sex during a period, but sometimes i feel a little up for it. must be to do with hormones of something? i guess i'm lucky, as i never have heavy, painful periods..maybe t... (64 words)

We're trying for a baby but the problems we have are a stress to our marriage, please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for last 10 yrs and have a 4 yr old son. 1st problem: We were planning on having a 2nd baby through artificial insemination(we had to do that for 1st child also). The doctor told us that I can get pregnant but would be better if I lose weight before the trea... (379 words)

We have been dating for the past weeks but I don't feel attracted to him, what should I say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started going out with a guy who I have known for a few years and who has always been a great friend of mine. A few weeks ago, he asked me out, and it sounded like a good idea to me becuase I have always really liked him. As we have been dating the past few weeks, I ... (116 words)

Why does he get soft as soon as we start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age - why does my bf willy go hard when we mess about but as soon as he puts it in it goes soft?... (22 words)

He does not want to talk about us and has become verbally abusive. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. It has had it's challenges as he has not always been truthful. Whenever I confronted him he would always pin the blame on me. The relationship had escalated to verbal abuse in the past however this has subsided. ... (157 words)

I quit smoking but have put on 2 stone! HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age - hi i have put on 2 stone since packing up smoking i am now 16 stone i feel out of breath all the time my clothes dont fit and i might have dibetas now the nurse said. can you please help me all i want to do is eat cause i am not smoking june i packed up... (58 words)

Would you date a girl with this sexual past?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) age 41-50 - She is perfect in looks for you, perfect in personality for you! She is 21 years old (just imagine that is the perfect age for you lol), KNOW 100% she would never cheat on you, EVERYTHING is perfect for you. But..... She lost her virginity at 14 through anal, slept with... (184 words)

Do I have feelings for him? Do you think he really loves me? What's happening here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys!!!!! like 1 or 2 years back, I met this guy while staying at my cousins' house. After he saw me for the 1st time, he started trying to get together with me, even gave me roses twice. I was kind of going through a v difficult phase in my life as I was feeling lonely and ... (207 words)

What did I do wrong? All I did was love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It all started out very nice.. he was so sweet and charming thought he could be the one. After a few months he started being very distant, went calling me much and he would argue and yell at me all the time. When we made up everything was ok then he went very distant again and ... (197 words)

I'm not sure if I can trust him again after he sent naked pictures of himself to other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and three months. We have had our up and downs as in any relationship but he's caused quite a few of the downs. For example, during July this year he had left his email open on my computer. I was about to use my computer when I ... (624 words)

Why is love hard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay this is not a question I just want an opinion. Why is love hard? Well my opinion is that love isn't hard its only something dificult to understand. Many people think that love is something u could find easily and live it without getting hurt. There wrong,love is something ... (191 words)

I'm a loner and friends talk about me behind my back, I can't take it, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend was being really nice to me when her other friend was away and i was really happy because i have no other friends but when her friend came back she dithched me and now im a loner! i tried telling her on msn how i felt but she got annoyed and went offline and at school ... (80 words)

After the first time you had sex did it mess up your menstrual cycle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a question to the ladies. after the first time you had sex did it mess up your menstrual cycle? my 2 best friends said their period was delayed after making love the first time. i recently had sex and i was due to come on on saturday. pregnancy test says negative and we ... (75 words)

What does it mean for a man to agree with birth control?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Cuious -Does this change our relationship in any way? My bf and I talked about me getting back on birth control. I'm wondering if this defines our relationship as more serious? How does a guy feel about this? ... (38 words)

What does it mean when a mean sends you naughty messages about what he would do to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - For the men:- If a man sends you quite saucy text messages about what he would like to do to you (in the bedroom department) does he really mean it or is there a chance that men just like to string women along for a bit of fun??... (48 words)

I like him so bad it hurts...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy at work, im 17 and hes 22, i like him so much it hurts and i cant stop thinking about him, i drunkenly told him i like him but i dont know if he took me seriously, we always chat at work and he's always giving me compliments but i dont have the guts to ... (85 words)

What do you do when your bf chats to girls on sex sites?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What do you do when you find out the boyfriend you have had for a year is using sex sites to chat to girls everyday... (25 words)

Female vs. male masturbation - what is your opinion on this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always wondered why female masturbation is such a taboo subject. It is almost accepted that men will masterbate, so why isn't this level of acceptance given to women making themselves aware of their bodies in a completely natural way. Just thought i'd see if there was ... (87 words)

Ex is so mean to me since we broke up, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i went out with this guy about a year ago and since we broke up (it was kinda a mutual agreement)and hes really mean to me ALL the time! its really getting me down! hes really mean to me! i was just wondering what to do?... (47 words)

What I could do to make it up to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - in year 7 i asked this guy out and it went horribly wrong...i knew that he didnt fancy me...anyway i didnt really talk for like ages and then we were talking again (we werent properly going out cause i didnt want anyone thinking i was desperate to ask a boy out (i know its ... (216 words)

He doesn't love me but is happy to receive my sexual favours!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i just asked this guy "what would you say if i asked you out?" and he said no because it will mess up our friendship , i was like oh ok , but the problem is i have been doing sexual stuff with him , like tossing him off ect, but he will still let me do it , he says he has f... (97 words)

How to work out my differences with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone.. i have an issue, thought i should get some opinions on it to help clear my head a bit. i'm 18, i've been with my guy for just over a year now. seems young but im sure that im in love with him, he really does mean the world to me. however, i have very strong m... (268 words)

I distrust my husband with his work colleague as they flirted before, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I found my husband had been flirty texting a work colleague from another office while we were going through a bad patch which is now truly resolved. He was full of remorse and promised he told her it had to stop and has proved with his mobile phone bills that this is true.... (236 words)

I worry I might have herpes, warts, or rash?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had lots of sex this one week, and I started to get a little sore during this week. After, I went to the gyno for a checkup on my cervical dysplasia. The gyno said it was mild and took a sample of my cervix. It gave me a strange discharge of course, but it ... (332 words)

Girlfriend always has to masturbate before sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend that I have been with for about 2 years has recently started masturbating before we have sex. I find it completely odd. This is how it usually plays out... I start doing stuff with her and getting "fresh" haha but after we start getting in the mood she asks if she ... (212 words)

Delayed period, what could it be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 19 year old lesbian ....i have been with my girlfriend for a very long time i usually get my period two days after her is been about a month passed is till havent gotten it i dont sleep with boys so what could it be im very scared... (51 words)

What can I do to make him stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend was together for 10 months now and we`re not in love anymore.He wants to leave me.What can I do to make him want to stay?... (29 words)

I feel so alone as all my friends have partners whereas I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am starting to feel really alone as all of my friends (every last one of them) has a boyfriend..I have a LOT of friends too..the thing is they spend all their time with their boyfriends.I dont mind this but most of them rarely would put me first even once. .. On the days I a... (167 words)

He stood me up, now we're on a break again and I worry it's over for good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for neerly 4 months we started out great but just after christmas we started to argue really badly, he wasnt spending no time with me he went weeks without answering to any texts and when he sed he'll come over he stands me up in the end ... (154 words)

My bf only wants sex when he wants it... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is 24 and I'm 20. We pretty much have sex once everyday.but lately I've been getting aggravated he says I dnt ask for it enough and I'm not aggressive enough, but everytime I ask he's either too tired or its just exucses. Also he won't let me go down on him and we won't ... (232 words)

My birthday surprise didn't exactly work out, help?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - it's my birthday tomorrow, and i don't really see my boyfriend a right much anymore after a few complications, we're still the same just not always with each other like we used to be. Anyways, he told me yesterday that i could see him today but then he suddenly changed his mind ... (221 words)

Will I ever get over this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i liked a guy for a really long time and finally after years we started going out.i was ecstatic.i loved every moment.he told me that he loved me and i believed him.but he never wanted anyone to know that we were going out cause he 'thought' that we should give it more time. ... (398 words)

Why do I never seem to meet single people who have no hang ups and that are honest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a divorced man and have been single for well over a year. Since my divorce i have been quite active on the dating scene but have got to the point where i am so tired of being let down, or having my fingers burned from dating unavailable people both emotionally or by ... (245 words)

When someone says you've got too many hopes for someone what do they mean?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When someone says you've got too many hopes for someone what do they mean? Like my mate said it about me n this lad i like, i know we'll never be any more than good friends but stuffs happened in the past that drove me and him apart and now we're fianlyl becoming good friends ... (151 words)

My husband is a lazy sod!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 38 years old and married to a man who refuses to work. We own our own construction company and we only had one more job to do on our list. My husband REFUSES to do this job although we have borrowed thousands off my parents and his. I am out of work due to a lay off. We ... (446 words)

Why is he giving me the cold shoulder?

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10 February 2009 (F) age 30-35 - At a new year party I met a great guy. We were both drunk and ended up spending the whole night kissing and talking, we had so much in common and I really fell for him. We text a bit after that and last week I went to a party at his house. He ignored me the whole time and I ... (149 words)

Why is he texting me so often when he's living with someone else???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age - Me and boyfriend finished at christmas after he met someone else, we were together for 11 years he moved in with her straight away. I have received 12 texts since last Tuesday, firstly saying why did I not say hello when I saw him at football, then it went on then sat saying ... (240 words)

In love with 2 guys and I'm totally confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Am in love with 2 guys! My son's dad and the guy am seeing now! and they both love me. What should I do?... (26 words)

I'm just confused because she has been extremely open sexually, and I don't understand this sudden hang-up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I live several hours apart, and so we only get to see each other a few days every two weeks. We have had sex and both have been extremely open and honest to each other about everything. Recently we got on the topic of masturbation... I asked her all sorts of... (342 words)

Am I gay or not? I really need an answer.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and I wanted to ask a question as I think I could be gay because I get on when I think of a mans penis. I was thinking about it for a one and a half years. But I don't get on when I think of women, I get a nice feelings but not an erection (sometimes I do but ... (233 words)

We won't let each other go but we're with different people!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I see a few people on here have already commented on this topic but mines is slightly different so here's the story. When I was about 18 I met this guy who I ended up dating for nearly 2 years. We were completely in love (or so I thought) we'd do everything toget... (835 words)

I am having a lesbian affair even though I'm not gay. What is wrong with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid. I am in a loving relationship with a guy who i am intending to spend the rest of my life with. And i think i am about to start a serious affair with a GIRL from work. I know what i am doing is wrong and immoral and do feel guilty. However i really feel that if i d... (235 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to feel more relaxed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 33 and have a 26 year old gf that is a virgin. She was extremely shy when first dating and is still very quiet on sharing feelings but getting better. It has been hard to get her to express herself and often meets me on level of shared feelings about each other but rarely ... (106 words)

What is causing me to have this "brewers droop?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, bit of a long winded question but I really need help so here we go... Up until summer last year, my sex drive was perfectly normal and I frequently had erections without even thinking about it. Until that point I hadn't had much experience in intercourse but I always had... (234 words)

Why do we always fall for the wrong people???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do we love people who are wrong for us more than the people who are right for us - majority of the time? Is it cos we have less chance to have the person who is wrong for us than the person who is right for us?? are the good ones almost 'too available' that their good ... (176 words)

I would love to settle down but I don't know if my boyfriend is right for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old and looking to settle down and have kids. I get on really well with my boyfriend, we are both sociable and he makes me happy. However, I worried that perhaps he is not right for me if I am looking to settle down. He has little money, every time he gets paid ... (235 words)

First time sex leads to a hurt ego and erection problem.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I tried to have sex with a girl. We were in the club and making out and I was hard like rock hard. We decided to go to the beach (it was winter but Cyprus is not that cold in winter.. but still) and started making out there, I was still hard. Then I got inside her and ... (377 words)

I think I like her, and might even ask her out in the near future, Am I being hasty to think that way?

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10 February 2009 (M)

I'm not gay, so why do I get nervous that I am?

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10 February 2009 (M)

age - I'm not gay, so why do I get nervous that I am? I'm 44, married for 21 years, with 4 children. For a year now I have been off my cocaine and alcohol addiction but towards the end doing 1/2 ounce of coke a week having a 2 year affair with a naughty girl, I was totally paranoid ... (324 words)

Is it still possible to fall pregnant even although we both had alcohol in our system?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well my ex boyfriend and I Got drunk and slept together having sex on Saturday 2/7/09 and Sunday 2/8/09 unprotected and about 3 times and all, 3 times I believe he ejaculated in me I checked my ovulation calendar and both of those days we're my fertile days but since we had ... (64 words)

What kind of questions should I ask to find out more about him?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - anyone plwease help!i am 24years old and meet a man through internet,i think he is the one i have been looking for around the world and now i have found him.The problem is,i am staying in Lesotho and he is in JHB.He keeps on telling me that he loves me but i donk know.Peple ... (156 words)

I'm lonely and think I'm going to get crazy!

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Since i broke up from a 10 year relationship in 2005 it has been very hard for me to find a stable relationship. My relationships only last for about 3-4 months, if i don't dump the guy, he dumps me. Sometimes i think i'm too wild in bed, then change my behaviour and act quiet ... (116 words)

I'm sick and tired of carrying my husband

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Where do I start? My husband and I have been married only a few short months. He is twelve years older than I am. I am a very successful in my line of business and lately I feel like the work mule. I feel instead of a hug when I walk through the door all I get is a hand out... (447 words)

Why does his penis slip out?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i lost my virginity a year ago and everytime me and my boyfriend have sex his penis slips out half way through. is this my fault? can anyone explain why this happens?... (32 words)

Am I a nag, or has he over stepped the trust line?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After looking through my fiancee's phone i noticed a girls number from work in the recieved calls listings, i asked him why she called him and he denied all knowledge untill i said it was an answered call. later i realised the same time he got the call he had recieved a dirty ... (226 words)

Is he just saying he loves me just to get into my pants?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi... i really need advice. i have been in an off and on relationship for 8 months already with a marine. he recently came back from iraq when me and him met.he suffers from depression and ptsd. its been really hard to keep our relationship going. he has told me that i deserve ... (138 words)

Should I help him or leave him to deal with it?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I feel smug about this - after me and my ex broke up he slept with another girl (he called it re-bound sex but he broke up with me) anyway I found out about this when I rang his phone and she picked it up and had the great pleasure of telling me that they have been ... (233 words)

How should I tackle the future given the problems my husband and I have had?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know where to start. I've been married to my husband since 2002. We've known each other since we were about 18/19 and got together when we were 21, just after leaving university. We moved in together very quickly - after about three months of dating but we'd been ... (1616 words)

How do I shake this feeling that he's cheating on me?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Right where do i start:(! I have been with my current boyfriend for just over a year. Things are really good and he treats me well. but theres one thing i just can't shake the fact that he has cheated or is cheating on me, i haven't got any hard proof but let me just say a few ... (110 words)

My online friend suddenly disappeared leaving me worried for weeks, what should I do?

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10 February 2009 (M) - I have a really good friend who lives right outside NYC, about an hour and a half away from where I am at. We used to chat online through AIM/Skype/etc (almost) every single day, and we both really liked each other, and we were very close to starting a relationship. Then, one... (311 words)

Does the pill stop your period?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age - hey i was just curious, does The Pill stop your period?... (11 words)

Now it only takes 5 minutes! Why?

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10 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - In the beginning of me and my girl friends relationship! When we was having sex it would take me hours to actually cum! But now it only takes me but 5 mins! We have the same amount of sex and we still use condoms! Why is it that now it happens so quickly?... (53 words)

Has he lost interest already?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I kissed one of my friends room mates two nights in a row last week. He wanted to have sex and started touching my boobs, and put my hand down his pants but I stopped him and left. My friend told me that the next night, he tried to do something with a random girl but got turned ... (150 words)

He says he's over me but I'm not convinced

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey my ex broke up with me 5 months ago .. we basiaclly never see each other or have contact at all the two times ive seen him something has happenened despite him saying hes over me and hes moved on. on chrissy eve i saw him at the bar and he was drinking .. this was... (338 words)

How do I get her back so she'll love me again

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10 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my wife just recently separated. i was unfaithful more than once, and she took me back the first and second times. There was no sex involved in these unfaithful matters, but she thinks so and i can not blame her. i am madly in love with her, i want her back more than ... (71 words)

Sometimes his negativity is hard to deal with

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little past 2 months and I'm definite I'm satisfied. Sometimes though his negativity is hard to deal with since he always claims that I am "too good" for him which I don't believe and I constantly mention that he's great. He is ... (68 words)

Do guys tell each other EVERYTHING about their sex life?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not talking about guys that are in serious commited relationships but I guess like the guys who party and go to bars. Do they tell their buddies *everything* when it comes to sex? Like "this girl was good in bed, that girl sucked, this girl was hairy, smelly" etc?... (51 words)

I constantly think about sex, undressing women, thinking about sleeping with them, stopped having sex as often with my wife, anyway to stop my urges?

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10 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Am I a sex addict? Pretty much what's on my mind most of the time is either fucking porn or fucking... I feel I got a problem with it. I've talked to my counselor about it and he said I might be addicted to sex. When I first got with my wife we would fuck about 2-3 timès a day, ... (169 words)

What does he mean by "dress up nice"?

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10 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - What does it mean when a guy says to dress up nice? What should I wear? ALSO I need sights with easy but nice looking hairstyles to wear out that aren't too hard.. Preferably a sight with step by step instruction and curled hair. But whatever. Thanks!... (53 words)

Am I being played like a fiddle?

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10 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so heres the deal. I met this guy last month and then he goes away on business out of state, now we would talk every night or every other night and everything seemed fine. He would tell me he missed me and wanted something serious and he was thinking about me all the ... (164 words)

Is she serious about wanting to make out with me, I am a girl??

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a girl. And I feel like lately a girl friend of mine has been either a) making a very bold move on me or b) having a very interesting sense of humor. She messaged me one day basically saying that if I wanted to make out she was totally down and all I needed to do was ... (124 words)

Should I just give up/ is it too awkward?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I could really use some advice please. One weekend, I met this group of 5 guys through my friend and partied with them. I was drunk and made out with one of them two nights in a row. He wanted to have sex but I didnt let him and left. My friend tells me that this guy is a ... (219 words)

How do I get past this crush?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and work with a small group of people. one of the guys i work with (P) is 38 and I find him incredibly attractive. We have a lot in common and have a similar sense of humour but we don't socialise outside of work. I think P knows that i fancy him because he flirts w... (231 words)

He went running back to his ex!

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years i paid for his car and help him financially. his ex girlfriend called and said she want him back and he went back to her. she doesnt even know about me. but i still love him n cant get over him what should i do?... (57 words)

My best friend wants more than friendship, I don't feel the same, how do I let him know definitively?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have a very big issue my best friend jordan is in love with me and has been since 7th grade. we've tried it out a couple times to just talk but we for some reason would argue about little things. And i guess it doesnt help that im not attracted to him. its just over ... (123 words)

Could I have gotten pregnant after having unprotected sex, the first time we had sex??

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 yrs old i had sex about a month ago..my bf took of the condom i remember him stoping several times inside me with out a condom..it was my first time..2 days after i did it i stared an early period it only last about4 or 5 days then i just stared feeling ... (136 words)

I like him a little too much to just forget about him, but I need to, please give me suggestions?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with my last boyfriend. He constantly called me fat and treated me like crap. I was scared to break up with him because he had horrible anger problems; and since he knew where i lived i thought he'd hurt me if i ended things. While I ... (312 words)

Could someone please tell me what is up with my relationships?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Question: I had 2 flings the past year that i was crazy about. So heres the pattern: 1.They chase hard 2. they get me 3. I fall for them ...eventually it becomes sexual 4. I think of them and want to get a lil serious 5. they get distant and pull away 6. I get co... (158 words)

Could I possibly win her back, inspite of our problems?

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10 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend (26) broke up with me (28) about a month ago. We had been dating for six months and connected perfectly on very many levels. We were both very attracted to each other, had the same goals, interests, and simply loved spending time with each other. Everything seemed ... (1414 words)

Is he a player who likes everybody, should I just move on?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so im 14 years old, and i met this guy at the movies, and wen we met we clicked pretty well. the only problem was, he was one of my acquaintances' ex. but she cheated on him so he didnt like her very much at the time i met him. but they still talked on the phone. and she ... (201 words)

My wife wants to use money that we don't have to help her family, I'm sick of it, please help?

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10 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 39 this year. Have 4 children and a caring and lovely wife whom I have been married to just on 10 years. She if Filipino and I am Australian chinese. I used to work 2 - 3 jobs just to pay bills. Now I work one job, but work all day and night. I see my family on weekends ... (426 words)

My long distance relationship is in slight crisis mode, help?

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10 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is having trouble in college. She's trying to make friends, however, she made none. Everyone calls her name and looks down on her as stupid or a weirdo. I can't do anything to help her right now because she lives in Rhode Island while I'm in Hawaii. We are doing a ... (340 words)

Guy treated me horribly now how do I move on?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get over this guy? Its impossible! Long story short, I met this guy 2 years ago and we started off as friends who developed into more. He told me he liked me, we hung out and texted nonstop, leading me to believe we were headed for a relationship. During that time... (194 words)

Afraid of making the wrong choice!

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Torn between two men and I can't decide. One is patient, kind, buys me lots of nice things and treats me well. But I'm not really attracted to him. He is very quiet, and I don't feel close to him; I don't feel lik I really know him even after many years of being together. ... (176 words)

Bloody ex is confusing!

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - MY EX well where do i start!!! he slpit with me over a month ago, we have been in contact for two on IM think we clocked 18 hours over for days, but he just wants to be "friends" we had a fantstic relationship but it ened coz he told his mum and i aint suitable blah bl... (136 words)

He got me a $1000.00 gift certificate and I'm planning on divorcing him!

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10 February 2009 (F)

- Separated from husband, planning on filing for divorce, just giving him time to adjust to the break up. For V-Day he bought me $1,000.00 gift certificate from a nice jewelry store. I don't know what to do! We've been apart 2 years and I've told him I'm not coming back. I ... (207 words)

My ex b/f is coming back but he's more experienced than me! What should I do?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. A few years ago my boyfriend moved to australlia, we have always kept in contact and now he says he is coming back here for a few months atleast. He says he has not loved anyone else while he has been living there, but he has had sex with a few girls. He asked me ... (108 words)

How long do I finger my g/f to give her an orgasm?

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10 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - We want a bit more sparkle in are realationship, but dont want to have sex yet or my girlfreind doesnt want a lickout or doesnt want to give a blojob. We are both 15. We've been goin for 15months. I respect her alot and ive sugested sex but she seems to want to stay at what wer... (77 words)

How do I become more secure?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a jealous person, but i feel like there are rational explanations for it. i do trust my bf, but i'm just iffy about a lot of girls he hangs out with. like, my first impressions of them would not be the greatest, even before i knew they were friends with him. like this one ... (171 words)

Why does he say he wants to meet up and then never shows up?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I live with my boyfriend of a few years and we get along pretty well. But he has this thing were he will say or text me to meet for dinner or meet at the supermarket or tell me he will be home for dinner in 15 min.....things like that but then he will never show and his ... (155 words)

B/f wants to be very aggressive!

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf has a very, very high sex drive! He wants me to be more aggressive when it comes to making the first move. He mentioned this before, it's a huge turn-on for him. How can I please him in that way, specially soooo close to V-Day?!?... (47 words)

Can I masturbate near the end of my period?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What happens if I masturbate toward the end of my period, if there is no flow?... (16 words)

Its all a lie!

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i husband was unfaithful to me,i was not in my contry when he do it to me,now am back i just know he was unfaithful,he tell me he wil never hurt me anymore,but the thing is he don't touch me he don't kiss me,when i ask him if he still love me he said yes,i think it's all lie,i ... (64 words)

I have so many feelings for him but am afraid to open up

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for 7 weeks now. We've know each other for 2 years but didn't want to ruin our good friendship. We spend every weekend together. I know how I feel for him just un sure if our feelings are mutual. He always calls or texts right when i'm thinking of him. ... (194 words)

He says he got her pregnant before we got together! Should I believe him?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is, you see I'm with this guy almost three months now, now he's going to come and tell me that another woman is pregnant for him, he said it happened before we got together, my question is should I stay with this guy or should I move on with my life? Someone tell ... (58 words)

Office friendships

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10 February 2009 (M)

age - There is a very nice very attractive lady at work. She works in a separate area and we seldom saw each other until lately. Knowing she's not maried, I asked her to lunch. We had an enjoyable meal and both of us agreed to do it again. I asked her again but due to busy ... (256 words)

He cheated! Does he still love me?

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my husband don't love me any more, he was unfaithful to me, he don't touch me he don't hug me, when I ask him if he still loves me he said yes but I don't really know, I just get a baby, my husband said to me he's sorry for what he done to me, he will never hurt me any ... (76 words)

He went to whores and prostitutes while I was on holiday!!!

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on a vacation with my baby and when I was gone my husband got totally wasted with some friends and went to a whore house and had sex with a prostitute. Right after I got home from my vacation my husband and I put our child to sleep and he started crying and confessed ... (220 words)

I need to prove I don't need my family and never have to thank them for anything else.

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10 February 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I'm guaranteed a job if I take these classes. I'm desperate for good money because I am very indebted and living with my parents at 34. I'm definitely taking the classes and I already paid for the registration of the course. In the next four weeks I'll get a certification that ... (270 words)

I don't think I know how to masturbate

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10 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very confused. I have tried to masturbate in the past, but, I am worried I am doing something wrong. My boyfriend and I have sex alot, but I am confused on how to masturbate properly. I am 18 and have tried to masturbate since iwas 14. My bofriend and i started have sex ... (57 words)

Is there any way possible I can make this work again with my wife?

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10 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with my wife now for 22 years. For 13 of the years we have been married. We are both 36 years old and we meet at school. My wife and I have 3 children. 9, 7 and 3. For the past 5 years I have treated my wife badly. I have on 3 occasions acted ... (1200 words)

I'm dating my ex's friend but I still love my ex

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10 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I started dating my ex almost 2 years ago now... we were together for about 10 months when due to issues outside of our control we split up mutually... there were no hard feelings and we remained friends. However shortly after that (about 1 month) me and one of her closer f... (346 words)

Terrified to ask her out in case she says no and it ruins our friendship.

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10 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a few questions... I have liked this girl for a few years now and we have just been good friends. We have alot in common and I have the sense that she likes me too. She is always giving me random hugs and whatnot so I think it's time to ask her out and quit waiting. To ... (171 words)