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writes:How do tall guys 6'3/6'4 feel about short girls? I'm 5'1 and I've been feeling really insecure about it lately b/c the guy I like is around 6'3-6'4 hes a giant..how can I kiss him? is it strange to u guys if you were with a short girl? how do u feel about it? idk if ill even be able to reach his shoulders and hug him:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2014): I'm 6 Foot 6 And My Girlfriend Is 5 Foot 2 I Bend Down And She Gets On Her Tippy Toes And We Share A Kiss !!
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reader, Lulu101 +, writes (17 May 2012):
Hello. Well my boyfriend is 6'5 I'm 4'9. I know major difference! But for hugging, just stand on your tippy toes*! And kissing, well sitting down is a whole lot easier! But if y'all want to stand up, he could easily pick you up or my boyfriend sometimes knees down. Great advice is to play around with different positions, maybe sometimes you can stand on a basketball? Me and him when kissing near stairs, he usually stands on the bottom and I on the 2 one... Dancing? Well girl slide on the tall heels! I wear 5' and 6' heels. I'm used to it, but try wearing short ones for right now. Or maybe he can pick you up just a little so you can stand on his feet* well hope this help! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): Hi
Well....I'm currently going out with a guy that I know him for quite a while and he's a giant to everybody. He's 6'5 and i'm 4'9. Yes, it's a HUGE difference. But i love him for his personality and sweetness he has. It doesn't bother me that he's huge. Because he can hold me when i cannot reach his head. So you don't have to worry about a thing. I know you'll realise that height doesn't matter. As long he loves and cherish you carefully.
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reader, chris792  +, writes (25 March 2010):
i am a very tall guy and i am actually attracted to short woman.And to answer your question i like being with a short woman.and about kissing it is the guys responsibility to bend over to kiss the girl,I even get on my knees sometimes to kiss her.Don't feel bad i am 6'6" and geting taller and my girlfriend is only 4'10"so we know what you are going through.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): My boyfriend is 6'1 while I'm 5'1. It makes absolutely no difference to us whatsoever now, though I know how you feel. I felt very subconscious at first, but we chatted and he told me how much he loved my height.
Kissing is an interesting concept though! If standing he either A) bends down and I reach up B) leans back against something to get down to my height C) My favourite, he picks me up in his arms! He carries me around a lot - something that would be impossible if I were larger! We both love it and it can be so much fun in so many ways! And its great when he helps me out, you feel so safe etc! Love knows no bounds, however large or small they may be :)
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reader, fairylady  +, writes (7 November 2009):
My dad is 6'3" and my mom is 4'11". My sister is 5'10". I'm 5'0". Guys approach me more than my sister. My sister had a bf who was 6'2", they had been dating for a few months. That was before she introduced him to me. Now I'm dating him and I love him, he's the hottest thing alive. I'm sorry for my sister, but it's something I can't help.
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reader, Dominic.S. +, writes (8 April 2009):
my parents had a big height difference. dad 6'6 mom 5'2. I thankfully got the tall side. but yeah dating a short chick is the best. you both feel good about it all. you gotta live it yo get it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): Hi...
I'm 5 ft and my boyfriend is 6'3 nd it is really amazing havin such a tall boyfriend...
I used to be insecure about my height but when im with my bf height never bothers us we still kiss nd hug nd it seems a lot more fun being able to look up to someone and have them wrap their arms around me..
I feel a lot more comfortable with my tall guy...
at the end of the day its only height there is ways to work around it....eg
-sitting/lying down when ur with him
-wear heels
good luck
k...x
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reader, princessjasmine +, writes (19 February 2009):
princessjasmine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi anonymous that makes me feel better..i was dating a guy that was 6 ft. he had no problem with it, and it didnt bother me...but this guy is 6'3/6'4 thats HUGE...thats a good 3-4 inches more than wat i was dating (and he was tall enough) I dont know how i can handle that, its the one thing thats holding me back from him...its not even relay about him, its about me, i dont know if i want that...but i do want him..you think it'll look awkward? will i look like a midget to others? see u and the girl ur seeing are exactly one foot apart, im a foot and 3 inches apart! thats a lot...wat do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): Hey Jasmine,
Its very random that I ended up reading your question but its my current situation that interested me in what people had to say to you. But I'm 6'2" and I've just started seeing a girl who is 5'2". So far I think she is great and I like the fact that she is short, for alot of reasons. All tall guys aren't the same though. How many tall guys do you notice if they are with an taller girl, compared to the tall guys that you notice who are with a short girl? I personally think that its all in the person, and who they are. Don't stress yourself out worrying about blending in with the common comforts. Do what makes you happy.
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Sweetie, would you rather be with a guy who does not love nor treat you well but has a compatible height with you, than be with a guy who loves and respects and treat you well regardless of his height? I had a really [genetically] skinny friend in college who was only attracted to chubby guys, she said as a couple they would make a perfect 10 (get it? 1 is skinny her and 0 is her round chubby b/f) LOL.If it helps, you can always add an inch or two by wearing high heels when you're out with him, right?Forget about what people think and say. Do you ever think that they may be jealous of you? They may, you know. Think of the beautiful children that you will have together! :-)Cat
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reader, princessjasmine +, writes (16 February 2009):
princessjasmine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso i WILL make an odd couple:( i dont like the sound of that. im insecure about my height to begin wiht, and he jus tmakes me more insecure..hes just a great guy:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): i actually think most guys perfer having petite girlfriends. it makes them feel more masculine
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 I'm not quite that tall, but I did date (ok, sleep with) a girl who was a good 11 inches shorter than me once. It didn't really affect anything, though if you have sex in certain positions things don't quite line up right.
Hugging and kissing wasn't so much a problem... but then it was just a one night stand... so we didn't do much of that anyway.
Sorry I'm not much help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): You should just ask him how he feels about it! I'm sure it's crossed his mind :) You'll make an odd couple, but who cares? There are seriously more things to worry about in a relationship than how you'll look walking down the street...
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (16 February 2009):
It is not the size that matters, it is the heart and the soul of the person that is more important :-)I am 4'11", had a 6'6" wonderful b/f! None of us was interested nor good in dancing so that was not a problem. LOL. But the rest was just awesome! Great for sitting in his lap, fun for all kinds of positions in sex, "useful" for helping around the house, wonderful for spooning (yaayy ... he loved it as he could basically wrap me all over LOL). The only disadvantage is when you are talking to each other when both are standing. (We are no longer together not for height reasons) ;-)Like anything else, if he looks down on you (pun intended LOL) then you obviously would not want to be with him. If he loves you and respects you, and fun to be with, then he's a keeper! Whatever height he may be.Have fun! Cat
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