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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My biggest letdown.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay listening to ultravox, vienna has me all emotional now for my next questian, just recently I realised a friend of the family (step cousin) was as into me as I were her, we all met up for another cousin's birthday, and I've known her years and she was more beautiful then ... (146 words)

What does his actions sound like to you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, This is a little long but im going to try and keep it simple... Okay so 6 months ago i met a guy online (yeah its one of those stories lol).Really hit it off,talked for hours,talked for hours on the phone,webcam etc-basically we got really close (close as you ca... (421 words)

Single on V-day..go out? or stay in?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - what are you singles doing on valentines day/night? i used to hate valentines day when i was single, but now i am kind of excited, as i keep thinking there will surly be nice single guys out in the evening to have some fun with. will you singles embrace the chance to have s... (74 words)

Does milk make your skin break out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, okay so I've started drinking milk for a change in my daily diet, before I didn't drink milk that often. The thing is my skin started breaking out on my back and chest, and I haven't had skin problems for years so this is something I notice. I've heard that drinking... (111 words)

I made my mom hate me and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've made my mum hate me and I don't know what to do. It started just over a year ago when I started seeing a guy who is 11 years older than me. I was 18 at the time. I was scared to tell my parents as I had seen their reaction when my sister moved in with a older man so I kep... (514 words)

I can't be told I am wrong for wanting to know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to make this as short as possible for someone to understand. I don't live an easy life. I know my dear husband loves me a lot and I do love him. We been together for over 13 years and in the beginning it was more downs than ups. I married my husband in jail in 1995. He ... (1602 words)

Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

12 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me feel so bad about myself that ... (64 words)

A car accident a couple of years back have left my breasts mis-shapen.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay a bit of a boobie question. I really hate my breasts, I know I should try to accept and 'love' them but I can't. I am a 36a and they seem mishapen. I was in a car accident a couple of years ago and they are scarred and slightly puckered, also a really severe rash left me ... (112 words)

What shall I text back to this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just text this guy which has shown ALOT of interest over the past month. Weve bumped into each other two times and got on REALLLY well :) and hes always said sweet things like hopefully il seen you soon your really pretty we should go cinema one day you can come rou... (201 words)

His ex wife is back on the scene...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age - I married a wonderful man 3 years ago. He has a heart of gold and is very, very good to me. My concern is his ex-wife. All of a sudden she has started to show up at my husband's family events. This past christmas she showed up at the family party. And what a show she was ... (172 words)

First time with a prostitute...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it better to lose your virginity to a prostitute if your past your teens than waiting for sumthing long term, which could take forever?... (25 words)

I feel like I have no control of my life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, I would like opinions please, I have been in a relationship with a bloke for 12 years it has been a really difficult one too, I'd try and talk to him and he would tell me i was being stupid, walked away when i cried, sometimes id loose my temper and smash a cup or ... (250 words)

I'm lost on what to do, does anyone out there have any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for about a year and a half. We have no kids, and I am 27 she is 24. It has been rough financially on both of us, for most of the marriage, and even before the wedding when we were both in college, with us living on my income which was only about ... (426 words)

What should I get my teacher for valentines day to show that I appreciate him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I get my teacher for valentines day to show that I appreciate him? I don't want it to be able to be taken the wrong way, though. just something little... any ideas?... (34 words)

I feel betrayed by my friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel betrayed by my friend. I have been friends with a guy who is younger than me and although I developed feelings for him we have only been good friends. I became friends with a woman and she thought I had something going on with this guy. She was never interest... (237 words)

How can I make him see that the way he talks to me hurts me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 2 years. We don't live together yet as we just can't seem to stop arguing about things, big or small. I don't always think I am right but my boyfriend doesn't seem to ever see my point of view unless he agrees with it ... (155 words)

Should I call him asking why? Or leave it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I live in another country and my family in my home country.My dad introduced me 2 a man when i went home 4 christmas and told me that he lived in the same town as me.We exchanged business cards.he told me he will call me whn he is in town.When i got back home i emailed him.He ... (182 words)

Trouble making co-worker

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i have been togther for fifteen years now we have 3 children. he recently cheated on me with a girl he works with about ten years younger then me, she was well aware of me and our children but she pursued him anyway. and yes she pursued him. he has never ... (171 words)

Will he return to me? Does he like me or just having fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - last week,i and my crush met in front of our school.before that he used to ignore me for a period.when he saw me,he came straight to me,greeted me and we started to chat.he asked me where i'm going and he said he's going there as well but he remembered that he has to meet with ... (432 words)

Has he gone off me? I don't know what is going on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy i met about a month ago at the bus stop Since then we got in touch on facebook and spoke online alot, we exchnaged numbers and i text now again. We are blatinally intrested in each other, and hes a proper nice guy so i doubt he would be feeding other girls the ... (316 words)

Odd choices

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been using certain sociel networking sites sinse christmas, trying to meet new people and networking for similar interests, im a goodlooking guy, im a bodybuilder, i dont talk about anything sexual and i dont rub my assets in peoples faces. So my questian is why are the ... (152 words)

She is being blinded by love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend that I love dearly. She is the God mother to my daughter. We have have been friends for about 12 or more years. She has been there in my corner thur the good and the bad. As I would like to be the same for her. But, for the past 7-8 months she has been ... (136 words)

What am I supposed to talk to his sister about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... Me and my boyfriend have being going out a month. We are both 15 so we cant drive so for V - day we are going with his mom and sister. His sister doesnt seem to like me to much and he just said i many have to hang out with her in the mall. Well he is getting his hair ... (85 words)

I think this girl is trying to horn in on my guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - the guy i have been dating for the last few months and myself nearly broke up on sunday. first of all, i think i am reading into it too much when i am afraid that because he was willing to let it go that he really doesn't care- but he was very willing when i said "we can't go ... (568 words)

Is it time to move on after almost 20 years together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like I'm the only one in this situation, but I know with all the people out there, I can't be. I've known my husband since we were 12 years old. We had the same circle of friends, and eventually became high school sweethearts. We've been together for 19 years this co... (503 words)

How do I make up to my friend for annoying him a whole year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - two years ago i really fancied this guy and i asked him out and welll..it didnt go to plan and i asked him not to tell anyone that id asked him out...and i knew that he fancied another girl...i feel really guilty about annoying him all year (nearly two years since that ... (87 words)

What can a parent do if their kids chose a wrong path?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) age 51-59 - How can I be happy ,if my son is a drug addict? Do I have a right to stop contacting me? i love him and I did everything I possibly could for him. He is not alone , his brother is down the road with him. They are adults now. He kind of took him down. My life is a mess, and i sp... (162 words)

Husband cheated so I fell in love with a picture on the Internet in return, what's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age - Ok here's the problem .............. been married 22 yrs. Husband cheats with ex then drug whore in these 22yrs . Says he has stopped ! Ok I have been faithful this whole time . But because I had been hurt so much thru this I had to find an escape place . A place to go t... (227 words)

Would a guy really sleep with you for a year if he was not really attracted to you, just for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been sleeping with this guy for about a year now on and off. We have not made a commitment to each other and it has never ever been brought up in a conversation. My friends just think he is using me and that I am just giving it away for free. I have always let hi... (187 words)

This family friend is very dangerous but no one believes me, I'm worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me! I need your advice badly. My father has got this “friend” who I believe is a risk for the integrity of my family but my father doesn’t realise that because he is a big hypocrite and a kissass to my father. He believes the guy to be a harmless person who he sh... (491 words)

Is there such a thing as "love of your life"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) age 41-50 - How many of you believe ,that there is such a thing ,as ''love of your life' ''soul mates'' And so on... I thought I live with one of this, but I'm not sure if I just want to force this on me, or it is true. It seems to fall apart but I'm still holding on to it. It is p... (93 words)

I'm developing fixations with people I normally wouldn't be interested in! Am I desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi guys...any help would be much appreciated. I'm 24 and had a very nasty break up after a 4 year realtionship about a year and a half ago, and getting over it has been hard work. But the past few months, I have been feeling a lot better about about everything, but... (227 words)

A special night, but no sex, any suggestions please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please Help! I'm supposed to plan a special pre-Valentine's Day for my boyfriend. I'll pick him up and we take go from there. I want it to be special but no sex! He's open minded but I want him to enjoy it! What can I do? I don't want to do the usual (dinner). It will b... (76 words)

I don't think I should tell him about my abortion, any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love and I don't know what to do. My best friend is a guy and I love him to bits. We always go out for drinks together, we share everything. I've tried to tell him that I'm in love with him and he say's that he is in love with me too but is worried that our friendship ... (258 words)

I wonder, does my ex still like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex moved away and thats why we broke up. I went down to see him yesterday (first time in 2 years) and he: - Asked me if I'd like to go out for a drink with him. - Hugged me goodbye. - Ended up having a right laugh. - Friend said she thought he was still 'fond' of m... (172 words)

My husband stopped looking at me as a woman. How can I live in such a fog?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) age - I need a good advice here. Valentine day is coming,and it's always reminds you of love,if you have it or not. A long story short ,I don't know if I should leave my marriage or not....My husband stopped looking at me as a woman. I mean a few years ago, he won't look at me with ... (304 words)

What went wrong, is it really that he is not interested? Or do you think he has erection issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I meet this guy where I work at a swimming pool. He goes to the gym then comes for a swim. He is very hot and very big muscular. He also comes at times with his daughter. I have known him for a while but we just started to talk more over the last month 1/2, he is very ... (1127 words)

My boyfriend and I have problems because I was afraid to tell him I was pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years in may. In about Nov I found out I was pregnant and was terrified to tell him. I tried to have it taken care of alone I couldn't afford it so I was screwed and I never told him its now feb and he's figured it out . He ... (133 words)

Sex toys and pornography, any recommendations?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with my wife for 17 years. We have a good sexual relationship. Its not great but good. It seems to have become routine. She likes it a certain way and we always do the same thing. I feel like a robot. My question regarding our sex life is that she uses sex toys ... (186 words)

I'm excited to find out if I'm pregnant, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey this is for all the women that are expecting or that has had children already. . . I'm excited to find out if I'm pregnant or not but as of right now it's too early to know. . . according to my ovulation calendar the days that I had intercourse were my most fertile and as ... (205 words)

I want her to feel special like a queen, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to take my girlfriend to a special dinner in about three weeks, of course im going to take her to a dinner but its going to be one about an hour away, Dolly Parton owns it, its a dinner and a show, we may come back to town and go to a place in the mountains and "be ... (131 words)

Should I send him an anonymous Valentine's card or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i went out with this lad for a couple of dates, never saw him for a couple of weeks but saw him at weekend. I was shaking thinking hes really fit but not sure if he knows that i like him. Should i send him an anonymous valentines card or not? Any advice would be greatly ... (61 words)

My boyfriend's ex has moved in with him, what do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends ex girlfiend has moved in to his flat because she got no where else to go.he says everything is fine between us but he seems distant.what should i do?... (31 words)

Is it wrong to date someone who I'm very attracted to but with whom I can't see a future together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

12 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've recently started dating / going out with a girl (31 yrs old) who I'm very attracted to, and who I get the impression is also really attracted to me (I'm a 28 yrs old guy). Which is great. The trouble is, we both have ideas about our long-term future, the way our lives go... (340 words)

I had sex with my best friend's fiance, should I come clean or avoid to do it again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I knew my best friend's fiance before they got together. He is extremely attractive but when he was single I had a boyfriend. I have since split up with my boyfriend. I live in London and regularly make trips up North to see my best friend. Her fiance is always there and looks ... (290 words)

Any changes after first time sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am from a European country and i don't know english that well... I am a virgin and i wanna ask you a question which haunted me!!! what is going to happen with my penis when i will have sex for the first time .. do i fell a pain...? a big one...? will something break ??... (97 words)

Are we more than FWB?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I work with a man that i've always been attracted to, but nothing ever happened besides mild flirtation. one night, my boyfriend and i got into a bad fight, and he basically broke up with me. We had been fighting a lot. anyway, i asked my coworker if he wanted to meet me for ... (487 words)

My fiance lies to me about watching porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have wrote on here before about my fiance being really into porn. we broke up twice over it last night was the third time! He don't have the internet on his phone no more cause he said he took it off so I could stop thinking he was doing it! So everything went dandy for a ... (231 words)

In love with my same sex friend but don't want to freak her out by her knowing I'm bisexual.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need a bit of advice. I have a best female friend who I have been in and out of love with for years. I have openly discussed being bisexual with her in the past. However I find it difficult being friends with her at times, as I am always left wanting more and then fe... (150 words)

Does the size a woman's boobs matter to men?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am worried... I have small boobs and that the guy I like won't find me attractive becasue of it, does the size a woman's boobs matter to men? Is there anything I can do to make me feel more attractive in front of my guy and is there anything I can do to make my boobs look ... (110 words)

Should I directly ask him about his Wife for closure??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello: Many of you have given me help and I know what to do. I find it hard to resolve the fact that I actually fell for the games/fantasy of this married guy I work with. I went back to work again the other day and already he is mentioning, oh we'll have to go out for beer... (331 words)

I think I may be falling for him again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am graduating high school this year and thank God for it because my school is full of backstabbing bitchy friends. Friends i have known for 5 years have either turned their back against me/have become incredibly mean to everyone else/have hurt me in the last year. I am so ... (233 words)

Can two people can have such a special connection and continue to stay in touch and see each other every few months without hurting their marriages?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it ever true that two people can have such a special connection and continue to stay in touch and see each other every few months without hurting their marriages? Or is that a fantasy? ... (35 words)

Do you think he'll appreciate me more now and want to take things to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is going to be working at a job that is two hours away from where he has been staying. He has been closer to me since he's been staying with family looking for a job. Nothing has changed about our situation except that now we will see each other less. Some of my ... (136 words)

What do you suppose he meant by THAT?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm using my aunt's site. I'm 21. Anyway there are these guys at work, they are older than me, and well, one of them, TIM, I think has been hitting on me, like, we were talking and I got passionate over the idea of eating a grilled steak.... then Tim said oh I just love a ... (161 words)

Should we try again with some councelling or am I kidding myself that this would ever work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I seperated 6 months ago after I found out he had been having an affair for 3 years. He had stopped the affair but when he lost his business and the pressure of a new baby and my father dying he started it again to "escape". He has feelings for the other woman ... (156 words)

Confused over both of these guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok... this is an EXTREMELY complex problem lol.... 2 years ago me and this guy had a crush on one another. However it didn't amount to anything because he moved away to uni. In time I ended up going out with this guy's friend. Me and the guy's friend had been together a few ... (200 words)

Why do I feel still insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age - I broke up with my ex last year, a good friend of mines helped me through it, now we have become more than friends, in fact you could say weve taken it a stage further, I stay at his place a couple of nights a week, we get on well, he is older than me, we share the same ... (199 words)

He said he'll change but will he really? SHOULD he really?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here's the deal, I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year, and it's online but we were pretty much inseperable. I know I love him but when I finally went to see him in person I realized some things. I realized what I really want in a guy, like more enthusiasm and ... (174 words)

Is my ex trying to get me jealous???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, me en my boyfriend broke like a year ago and decided to remain just friends. For months after the break up we had sex which up to now we have never talked about it, just 7 days ago he was teling me about his new girlfriend who happens to be a long time friend of mine who ... (111 words)

He's accusing me of cheating and I would NEVER do that!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of one year has been accusing me of cheating on him on a daily basis (this is not an exaggeration, no matter how badly I wish it was). As of lately, it has felt as though there is some chemical switch in my brain that causes me to absolutely freak out whenever he ... (171 words)

A husband who hopes it's not to late to save his marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (M)

age - I'm a 48 yrsr old, a year ago my wife found out that I was seeing a 28 year old co worker she took it bad and took an overdose it, was because of that I realised that she really did love me but I made it clear to her that I stayed with her not because she took pills but because ... (541 words)

I need some questions for my valentine's day fun!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Valentine's Day Questions? Hi there, I have been dating a guy for a few months and know them pretty well. We are spending our first Valentine's Day together this weekend. We have a hotel booked, champagne for breakfast etc. I thought it would be fun to play a little ga... (139 words)

What's his problem? I don't deserve this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my partner is being really nasty just lately and i have asked whats wrong but he wont say. we have been together for over 3 years we have a daughter and another on the way and i also have a son by a previous partner. we planned this baby so i know it can not be that, i just... (84 words)

I'm having sex with mother and daughter... but this can't carry on...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

12 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This may sound like every man's dream but I've gotten myself in to something that I don't know how to get out of. About three months ago, I met a woman at work who is older than me. She is 46 but certainly looks good for her age. We both share an interest in gardening and sh... (518 words)

Who should make the first move in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why don't men make the first move for example kissing or intimate moves or do they like woman doing this? I am shy on making the first move, I like this guy he is well cute and we known each other for years and we are seeing each other a lot more, we like each other we bo... (109 words)

How can I tell a currrent boyfriend that I think we should be freinds instead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I tell a currrent boyfriend that I think we should be freinds instead? Me and my guy have been together for 2 years or so and well I feel we aren't getting anywhere, we argue and fight with each other a lot and I don't feel love from him any more, I am quite sad. ... (182 words)

Dumped! 3 months pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well my life is in total tatters right now. I have 4 children one on the way. 3 children were from a previous relationship. I met my partner 2 years ago we clicked straight away, I was taking the pill but still got pregnant, we kept the baby and made a go of things. We have had ... (260 words)

How can I throw him out of my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My emotional affair ended with the married man! I miss that time and very upset..need counselling? i m 27 and had an emotional affair with a married man with 2 kids for the last 1year. i trapped in his emotional talks . initially i never beleive him then suddenly he used to ... (385 words)

I need confidence to get started!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy and this guy like me we have told each other over email.... well we been talking about sexy over about my sexiy underware and how much he wants to see it on me and i really want to because its a lovely relationship we dont put any pressure onto ea... (174 words)

He still loves me but his parents didn't like our relationship

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - MY ex and i split up 5 wks ago, we have been in heavy contact for 3 wks now, texting, he told me last he loves me but we cant be together as his parents didnt like our relationship so the fact he loves me doesnt change a thing. we have plans to meet up and go out, does this m... (137 words)

How can I encourage him? He never makes the first move!

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i have been seeing this guy that i have known for a long time throught my high school years and we get along... we went out in out hight school year and split as young peopel do hehe no shame int hat its the proccess of going throught life it the only way to find... (192 words)

Cold and heartless

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I left a message telling my ex that my mother died of cancer after we broke up. She never replied to say anything that might show any sympathy or compassion. Can someone be so heartless???... (35 words)

If we were to start anything it wouldn't last, is it worth it?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I Like this guy who is super cute just seeing him 4 a sec maks me smile n when hes not around i feel really moody n misreble but as soon as i see him i smile and get realllly happy and my friends have noticed as well. hes in the year above me and ive spoken to him on msn and ... (384 words)

Should we keep this as just a fantasy?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have a fantasy we want to act out. I want him to go out and sleep with another woman and then come home and talk dirty to me about it. Should we do it or keep it fantasy?... (44 words)

I want to call the wedding off, but he doesn't. What should I do?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in need of advice desperately.I've been in a relationship for the past 2 and 1/2 years now,we are getting married in a few months time and I'm studying .lately Ive been having doubts about us,about the wedding,about just being with him.I'm not sure if this is part ... (268 words)

I want to seduce him on Valentine's Day - but how?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This Valentines is going to be myself and my Husbands first Valentines together as a married couple. Im quite shy but with the day thats in it, I would love some suggestions as to how to seduce him. Im trying my best to organise a meal for the night before so that on Valentines ... (125 words)

14 in love with 31 year old!

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a secure unit and there is this one woman called angela and omg she is stunning i mean i am head ova heels in love but she is about ten years older than me and she has just dropped a bombshell on me she is leaving i am broken hearted and i dunno what to say ... (103 words)

Should I do something for him on Valentine's Day?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need help with what to do next about my ex, I’ve posted some questions earlier (thanks for all the help :)). To give an update and for those who don’t know, I’d been with my ex for 1 year 8 months but we broke up about 4 months ago. I still love him dearly and think we ... (263 words)

I want to talk to her, but where do I start?

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, I need some advice here. I used to go to school with my mums best friends daughter 10yrs ago until we moved away, we were always so close, spent holidays together, did nearly everything together. She was 12 and I was 11 back then, we did do some things which we ... (294 words)

Friday the 13th message to ex?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All Ok tomorrow is Friday the 13th, I want to know...should I send my ex the following SMS: Happy Friday the 13th...Wishing you all the misfortunes in the world!! Love -(my name)... (39 words)

He was wet rubbing against me..could I get pregnant from this?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Tonight me and my boyfriend were fooling around, he was fingering me and I was giving him a handjob. One thing led to another and both our underwear came off and our genitals were rubbing up against each others. He had ejaculated, and I was wet too. He did not insert his penis ... (80 words)

Can someone tell me why I still love this man?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i still love him after he did what he did? i was with my ex boyfriend for a little over 2 years, and we have a beautiful daughter together. but he use to hit me, all the time, for no reason at all. and i still love him. i feel that even after all he has done to me. to ... (95 words)

Changing a High School Image

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - alright, so some people are going to read this and think oh great.. a typical high school popularity story. but in my school if you haven't been noticed by now, then you won't be noticed at all. i have a great group of friends, but i'm sick of third/fifth wheeling. i don't even ... (184 words)

I don't think she knows what she wants

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a girl for 4 months now we got drunk and went to ponderosa to eat which we do often. After we ate she asked me if I wanted to go get married I told her I would have to get to know her better that we just met and that she would have to stop talkin to these ot... (590 words)

Is she just bored or has she stopped loving me?

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of over a year now said that she is bored of our relationship! Right now we are on a break, and we have decided to try to get the spark back for her! She wants me to be more controlling, and not just give her everything she wants. I'm not sure if I should just end ... (141 words)

My ex b/f gave me genital herpes on purpose!

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend has given me genital herpes on purpose. we broke up for a few months. he started seeing somone else, then we got back together. after two months of being happy again a friend told me the girl he'd been with had the std and had told him, AFTER HE BROKE UP WITH ... (139 words)

Is it worth it to lose your virginity when not in a relationship?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it worth it to lose your virginity when you are not in a relationship? I am 20 years old. I am horny all the time, been hooking up with a guy that I am very attracted to whom I would not mind having sex with. I am not naive about sex, just inexperienced. I believe that I am ... (212 words)

Normal? He wants bj twice a day?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend wants me to do bj for him twice everyday(at least once,but doesn't have to make him cum though), if we ever see each other in that day(we don't live together). I just want to know is it normal for guys or it's just he has too much sexual desire? cause I don't want ... (85 words)

Pros & Cons for adoption & Abortion?

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question. My girlfriend just found out she is pregnant and we can't keep the baby. Basically she has to decide whether to get an abortion or give the baby up for adoption. I was just wondering what the pros and cons were for each option. Thanks!... (49 words)

The pain of her past never goes away

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, well this is going to go into detail. So be warned. Im currently a senior in high school. My girlfriend who I am in love with. (I dont know how this site really works, but please dont judge me for saying I love her, or that Im too young. For right here and now. I am in... (538 words)

He doesn't want a commitment but continues to flirt!

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this new guy that just moved into my hall in college. After I met him. in a couple weeks he is starting to flirt with me and it looks so obvious to everybody. He does not want a commitment/girlfriend right now but after he told me this he continues to flirt with me ... (89 words)

He's always busy! Should I end the relationship?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - l am thinking of ending my relationship with my b\f of 6weeks but need advice because l don't want to regret it later. am thinking of calling it quits because he is always busy and doesn't have time for me. we work at the same company but at times we don't get to see each oth... (98 words)

I feel like no one will like me soon, what should I do?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old and this past summer I went out with this guy that was visting from another state just for the summer. We kissed the second day we met and went out for two months, but things never really got further than that. I wanted to protect myself because I knew that he ... (171 words)

I refused to get an abortion and he started hating me.

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i'm 8 months pregnant and the father doesn't want anything to do with the child. we were together until i found out i was pregnant. Because i refused to get an abortion he started hating me. we still catch up about once a fortnight but he's only nice to me until we have sex ... (133 words)

He's a great boyfriend but he has no motivation!

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is the same age. We have been dating almost two years. We laugh, have great chemistry, share some common interests and get along great with eachother's friends and family. The problem is that he has very little direction in his life ... (259 words)

I keep hearing my boyfriend is flirting with other girls, what should I believe?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i keep hearing things from other people that my boyfriend keeps messing around with other girls and flirting and stuff like that. i try not to believe it, but its almost a daily thing and he gets mad when i do believe it. but im not sure what is true, because before he got with ... (84 words)

I hate my B-cups and I need to know how to make them bigger!

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 15 and ive been in a B cup since the 5th grade and im a small B i hate the way they look Especially without a push up bra i mean my 10 year old sister is bigger than me {go ahead and laugh cause that is funny} my boyfriend trys to make me feel better but i kno if my ... (97 words)

MUST you use enemas or douche before anal sex?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've given anal sex a try several times before and was put off by the pain (my partner is fairly well endowed). The last time I tried it I was a bit drunk and kind of changed my mind halfway through but didn't really articulate that thought firmly enough for everything to stop. ... (251 words)

I'm pregnant and do not want children. Do I abort it or put it up for adoption?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My birthday was two days ago, and for my present I found out that I am pregnant. For many people this would be fabulous news! And I really do want children, however due to finances, we really cannot afford to have a baby just yet. We were using protection: spermicide, condoms, ... (115 words)

Cheated on for the fourth time- what I am doing wrong?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm single again for the first time in a long time and I'm not quite sure of myself. I've been in a grand total of 3 relationships and they've all ended badly. I'm not sure what it is that I'm doing wrong here I mean I could swear that everytime I do everything right but it ... (203 words)

Where's the love when I have the flu? After two years he "hasn't decided" how he feels about me!

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. We lived together at one time but he asked me to move out because he was too stressed out and claimed he didnt love me anymore. Well a few months later, like a sucker, I went back to him because he was claiming he knew he ... (269 words)

If I do something wrong, all hell breaks loose. If he does something wrong, he thinks it's nothing. How can I make our relationship more fair?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now and i love him to death but lately he has been really aggressive. he has also been making the relationship 80/40 like if i do something wrong all hell brakes loose,but when he does something wrong and i get mad about ... (91 words)

I got mad when I saw him hugging another girl- am I in the wrong?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im not sure if im in the wrong or not about my situation so here it is me and my boyfriend agreed to not hug anymore people of the opposite sex so today when i was in school i turned around and he was hugging another girl and i dont know but when i seen that i just got so ... (120 words)

My boyfriend looks at porn all the time- he even asks me to leave so he can look! Any advice?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. My boyfriend is a porn fanatic. He looks at it whenever he gets the chance, even with me around. He asks me to leave. We have sex regularly, at the very least once a day if not (usually) a lot more. I dont have a problem with him looking at porn, but he does it ALL the ... (117 words)

How do I ask a girl to be my girlfriend?

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok im an 14 year old boy, i like this girl at my school but i wanted to ask her to be my girlfriend but i dont know if she likes me and im too nervous to ask her, so how do i ask her to be my gf?... (49 words)

I'm afraid my girlfriend might get bored of me. How can I prevent this?

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys im really afraid my g-f might get bored of me. i love her soooo much and shee loves me too we always talk about our future together and enjoy it. but lately im getting vibes shes starting to get bored of me its nothing she says or does i just get this weird feeling ... (212 words)

He's been offered a job someplace else, and he hasn't called me back to talk about it yet. What do I do?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is a dating dilemma, sort of. I have been dating a guy for some weeks now. Things are going great between us, he admits that we have good chemistry, respect for one another etc. Though, something he is puzzling me. I will send him a txt and he does reply, but the past... (251 words)

How will I really know that our relationship is over?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How will I know that our relationship is over? We've been together for 8 years now 2 years ago I left the country to work broad next year is our plan to get married. Little by little I feel like he doesn't sound interesting in listening to my stories. I do the same thing. ... (243 words)

Is she trying to tell me to leave her alone?

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been dating a girl nearly a year. We both went off to college this fall. While our relationship has suffered somewhat, we did go on some dates when we could (and were both back home). I last had contact with her on Jan 26, when she responded to an email, in a p... (123 words)

He's afraid to commit, will he come around or never change?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age - i am a 53 year old woman, was married for 28 years, divorced 5 years. have been very careful with my heart in the new dating game again, until now. i met a man i have been dating for 10 months, we have both been through the same situations, both have grown children, ready to ... (138 words)

My BF chats with my friend on MSN... alot. What should I do?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf often chats with my friend on msn but he doesn't tell me. i always thought they seldom contact but they actually chat quite alot on msn. my bf will tell her things that i may not even know. i'm sad and disappointed. What should i do?... (49 words)

A guy losing his virginity on V-Day to his experienced GF...

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this valentines day me and my girlfriend plan on having sex. Imma virgin but shes not which makes it a little weird for me. Any advice for me.... (30 words)

I have to stay with my GF because she's pregnant, but I think I may be gay...

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - help me please! im totally confused about my sexuality. im in a relationship for a year and half with a girl. iv been having sex with her for about 7 months and im 21. around 2 years before i met her i was in a relationship with a girl and loved her and wanted her all th... (491 words)

How many of you have had to deal with homesickness during college?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think this is like two questions on one... well. I guess I just need lots of advice. I'll try to make it short. Basically, in a nutshell, I am a momma's girl and I've always felt like I needed to be near her. I'm a junior in high school and I've been thinking a lot a... (364 words)

Am I being unreasonable? I don't want to stay at my BF's when he might have pot around!

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating a really great guy for several months now. He says he has no issues with me and enjoys spending time together. I do too, but recently at dinner we had a more in depth discussion about something I made very clear from the outset -- my disdain for pot and ... (439 words)

1st time--which position is best?

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12 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I have a question.When losing your virginity,is it better for the female to be on top or the male ?.Bearing in mind, we are both virgins.Any other tips would be great too.I've thought of us having the light off and just having candle light,and perhaps some music.I could do with ... (57 words)

My friends are trying to set me up with a girl, but she is "fast". I know the are trying to help but...

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem, well here it is guys, My friends have been basically sick of seeing me alone without a girlfriend for so long. And have decided to try to hook me up with a girl. Well from what they have told me and my one friend who i really trust the most has informed that ... (276 words)

Do you divorce your spouse when you're still in love with him?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I are going through a divorce after being together for 15 years. We have a beautiful little boy that means the world to us but our relationship has been an uphill battle from the start. I've been the bread winner for the family in addition to cleaning, laundr... (247 words)

Another rubbish night out. How do I get out of this mess?

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've had a really lousy evening on the town. I went to a club and I was completely bored. I was approached by a couple of girls tonight, and I did absolutely nothing. I just can't communicate in a club. The music is just too damn noisy! Valentines day is coming up, and, ... (170 words)

I have trust issues because of my ex

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry that this is long but heres the thing. When I was a sophomore in highschool I met my first real boyfriend Jason. Its clear to me now that the signs were big that he was no good but I fell for him anyone. We dated for nearly three years but it ended badlY because al he ... (350 words)

Am I sick? Or pregnant?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am afraid that we are doing some thing wrong. I graduated last year and my boyfriend and I are having sex, but I am not comfortable with him. We are both in collage and do it almost every nite. The last 4 times are unprotected and it felt wierd and now I feel sick like ... (67 words)

Can you become ill from giving a woman oral sex?

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Can you become ill from giving a woman oral sex? i'm not talking about STD's, just curious cause i'm a bit of a hygiene freak so to speak.... (28 words)

How do I reignite the spark in my relationship?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question, how do I reignite the spark in my relationship? I've been with my man for 3 and a half years, we're living together the last few months and thats been good i guess. I'm feeling really weird. I love him to bits, and he's absolutely stunningly gorgeous. But I ... (353 words)

How long did it take for you to be ready to talk to your ex again?

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12 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, my ex (who was also my best friend for four years) and I broke up almost four months ago (after six months as a couple), and I find myself missing her these days. She tried calling me a couple times last week after not having spoken to one another for about a month, but I ... (173 words)

I feel so unappreciated by my husband...

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for six years and have two children together (6 with adhd and 2), however most of the time I feel like I am a single mother. He never does anything but sleep. He'll stay up until five o' clock in the morning watching movies, playing video ... (493 words)

Is he looking and signing up at porn websites? please help!!!

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend gave me his email password along time ago when we were just friends and he knows I still have it. Anyways I always go though my junk and delete it but he never does so I go on his and do it for him. For the last 2 days there have been junk mail that says: 1st ... (247 words)

When a guy asks their girlfriend to get on birth control, does this mean he's thinking of something long lasting...?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When a guy asks their girlfriend to get on birth control, does this mean he's thinking of something long lasting...? You know a more serious relationship? Maybe... trust, love, or just wants to feel the 'real thing'? ... (40 words)

Is it unreasonable to ask my bf to keep his Playboy mags out of my sight?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I sincerely appreciate the response of men to this topic. However, I am always discouraged because it ultimately ends with the conclusion 'it's normal' and/or guys will become addicted no matter what. I really want men to GET what porn CAN say to the women in your life and why ... (551 words)

I feel I need to give him SOMETHING to keep him interested. Am I right to feel this way?

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12 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Curious - I've been with my boyfriend for a few weeks now. We've discussed sex and all. I told him I wasn't ready yet. He was understanding but said 'I still have my needs'. He asked that I agree to at least BJ's. I didn't say anything at first. But eventually caved... (93 words)