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female
age
30-35,
*mber1771
writes:I'm currently in a relationship with this guy. I'm 17 he's 20. I like him alot. but i think i might like girls MORE than him? ive always found myself sexually more attracted to females. and i dont want to hurt his feelings...im confused! i love him..but would rather be with a female!?
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reader, loving arms  +, writes (17 February 2009):
it doesn't really matter mate, it's just a label. if you love him and at this moment are happy to have a boyfriend then go with that. If/when you finish and your next relationship might be with a woman or another man then that's ok. We don't need labels just enjoy whoever you are with regardless of their sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): You know, words like "bisexuality", "lesbian", "homosexuality", etc are just labels to distinguish what you might be for those who seek such labels. In reality, sexuality is just a gradient of what you're attracted to. There is nothing you should be confused about.
If you like guys, then you like guys. If you like girls, then you like girls. If you like both, then you like both. If you seem to like girls more than guys, but still like guys, then you like girls more than guys, etc, etc, etc.
In short: just be yourself.
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