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writes: I am going to cut the self pity part and simplify it- I have so far had 4 serious bf's and one serious hook-up. (by serious I mean, I really really REALLY liked them) 3 of them cheated on me. One even had sx with another girl while i was on a trip, and the other one kissed one of my best freinds 20 minutes after i left the bar. So obviously I am insecure about relationships, it is only normal.So i broke up with my 2 year bf augsut of last year, and have been dating a guy for 3 months. he said he loves me, and i said it back at him. thing is, i said out of courtesey! I thought i did, and when he said it, i took 30 minutes to react back.this was two weeks ago, and until now, i feel incapable of saying it first than him. I dont want to hurt him, he is such a great guy! so why can't I feel it! when i said i love you to by previous bf (he was the first one i said it to) it sounded so pure, and so real! and i even felt this tingling thing inside of me. and i know that maybe its because I am too scare dto commit? to realize that all will be gone someday? I dont know..
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