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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does my ex fiance want to get back together? hH sent me a picture mail of his penis!

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1 February 2009 (F)

age - Does my ex fiance want to get back together? hH sent me a picture mail of his penis!... (18 words)

Do you think that it is probable that I could simply be a rebound?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. There's this girl who I've liked, but I've never really done anything about it until recently when I started hanging out with her more. She just broke up with her BF, and she seems to like me too, but I'm worried that I could just be a rebound for her. Do you think that it ... (65 words)

Letting go of seductive teacher - please help me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, I have a huge problem that has taken over my life, and I'm looking for advice on how to LET GO. I'll try to not make this too long. Basically, I have a female teacher(single, 40s) who I have finally realized is doing WAY more harm to me than g... (627 words)

I'm worried just in case I'm not fully developed...

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1 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok this might be a stupid topic but it took all my courage to ask this question. I'm seeing this girl, we're great mates and I really love her with my heart, she keeps trying sexual advances on me and well I'm kinda scared in case my penis isn't big enough, I know it's a stup... (158 words)

My boyfriend lectured me on my lack of experience with clubs.

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I guess this is probably not a very important queston but it's made me feel uncomfortable and pressured to change. Ok last Friday me and my bf went out clubbing. We had a quiet drink on our own first at a pub then met my mates in the next pub. Things were going great... (409 words)

I am married to a guy that I haven't ever loved.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! First off, I feel so confused and screwed up and I know that there's going to be people on here that will think badly of me, but I am only human. I am married to a guy that I haven't ever loved. We were together for 2 1/2yrs. We have been married for 6mos. I got ... (414 words)

Now why would she do that? Wow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I went over my boyfriend's house to spend a romantic night with him. Found some explicit messages, and long story short the chick he was cheating on me with came over and everything exploded. He claims I wasn't there for him and I didn't give him attention but the whole time I ... (176 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to give me a blow job????

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - How can I get my girlfriend to give me a blow job???? We've been together for over 3 months and made out a lot.. and I've done a lot of oral for her so I think it's just fair for her to do it for me tooo... see she's a little afraid that she won't do it right or I'll be ... (174 words)

Is it stupid to have a long distance relationship after a month of time together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey..Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months. we knew eachother before we started dating thru my ex-girlfriend (they had a falling out before we got together so it;s not an issue). Anyway we didnt talk for a while then before i came home on midtour leave from iraq ... (180 words)

How can I ask him to delete his 'myyearbook' account?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have this huge problem and i dont know how to solve it. . my boyfriend has a myyearbook i hate the fact he does because there always seems to be a bunch of girls all up on him and he tells me its his friends and i believe him but i do not trust all those girls he ... (120 words)

My girlfriend things it's wrong to have fantasies about me

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so my girl thinks it is wrong of her to have fantacys about me but i think it is hot so how can i ask her to see it my way idk how it is wrong to think of the one you love the most... (46 words)

Self conscious about the size of my penis

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 18 and i am a virgin. i have always been self concious about the size of my penis. i dont know if its average or big or anything. lengthwise, it is more than 7.25 inches, almost 7.5 inches and 5.25 inches in girth. i dont know if that would be big enough for a girl or not. ... (66 words)

My boyfriend may already have a child, I'm so confused.

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am falling apart and I want to be as strong as i know i can be. My heart fell in love with my 26 year old boyfriend 8 months ago. He had no kids and seemed like he would fit very well into my life. So we started hanging out after talking online for 8 months. Now we all of ... (225 words)

I'm bisexual but not sure if I could get an erection over a woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a bisexual man of 21 inclined towards men(i dont have much of erotic feelings for women except when i masturbate forcing myself to think of women).But i am attracted towards the female sex..i.e i love flirting with women.now i am seeing this girl who hints that we have ... (108 words)

My girlfriend doesn't want to do anything physical anymore

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so we have been going out since March 2008, we had a 1 month break in november and we got back together. Our relationship has always been great, but recently she got over the "honeymoon" stage and i havnt. She has told me she doesnt want sex anymore. PERIOD. I h... (261 words)

I need some tips on how to control my anger.

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some tips on how to control my anger. I'm 15 so I don't have time to go to courses or whatever so I need things that you can do at home. Any advice appreciated.... (39 words)

How do you know if a guy's using you for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do u no when a guy your "together" with is using u for sex ??... (16 words)

Am I better to move on and see her only as a friend or stick in there and try to work it out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Previously my girlfriend and I were living together until when out one night she grabbed a strangers crotch when I was away from the table we were sitting at. She claims there is nothing worng with what happened. Upon arriving home I told her to move out. Since I have tried to... (281 words)

I really feel as if I'm just missing out on life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm 14. I've been feeling like I'm missing out on stuff. For example, I've never even had a boyfriend and I've never even kissed anyone. My friends have boyfriends and drama in their lives. Not that I want drama but I'm just rarely involved in any problems and stuff. ... (163 words)

I know I'm still young but I'm so scared to be alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25 I have a daughter with my ex. We have been broken up for at least 5 years. I was in a relationship after that and when we broke up seeing guys here and there. I know I'm still young but I'm so scared to be alone. I was trying to explain to my daughter what step ... (190 words)

I'm finding it extremely hard being away from him and its very unsettling for me,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together now for just over a year. We both love each other very much but in oct 2008 i went off to uni. I'm only 19 and my boyfriend is 25; but were experiencing some real problems. I'm finding it extremely hard being away from him and its very... (242 words)

Do you guys have any ideas and suggestions of what I should do to reduce being so aroused all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I know you've heard a bunch of questions similar to this but it's kinda different... See here's the thing, I'm 14 and lately I've been feeling really horny and turned on. Sometimes for no reason at alll.. I have a boner when I go to sleep and when I'm in class.. so it's ... (112 words)

I know he still has feelings for me but I just don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So last summer I met this guy, we started off friends but I kinda had an idea that he liked me. We started to hang out and I really started to develop feelings for him. We started to text every day and were acting like a couple, practically going out only we hadn kissed. ... (189 words)

What do teachers do at the prom?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do teachers do at the prom? Just stand there? Or do they talk to each other, or dance? It would be weird having them, like, watching us, you know?... (30 words)

How do you get over young love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm fourteen, my ex boyfriend is fifteen. We have known eachother since we we're about twelve years old and have had on and off flings ever since. It wasn't only until November 2008, we decided to go steady. My ex boyfriend is a little troubled. He is more into the 't... (393 words)

Will it last if we both live at home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think it's possible for my boyfriend (age 29) and I (age 25) to have a SERIOUS relationship even though both of us still live with our parents???? I'd love others insight on this.... (38 words)

My brand new BF bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My very new boyfriend bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday only two weeks after we had met. Although I had told him that I have never had anal sex before and wouldn't mind finding out about it, I felt that it was way too rushed and made me feel like a bit of a slut ... (92 words)

What does a "goer" mean?

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My friends the other day at college where on about this girl, who just started in our class, they said she was a bit of a goer, what does a goer mean ive never heard of it?... (37 words)

Girl who didn't want a realtionship with me - can I date her best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

- Last summer, I(38) went out 5-6 times with a lady, Susan(33). However, things between us didn't work out; she was "not ready for anything heavy due to a busy schedule" I kept in contact ,discreetly,but at the same time I kept dating as Susan was negative. Around January ... (772 words)

Next time I see my gym crush, what should I do?

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1 February 2009 (F) - I go to the gym about 3 times a week. For a while I liked one of the trainers but after realizing we had a big age diff. and he had a girlfriend I decided to move on. Today I went to the gym. When I got off the eliptical to use the weight machines a guy was looking at me. I we... (172 words)

His Mother hates me because I'm Spanish and I can't stand the way she treats me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey just wanted some advice, ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year 1/2 about to be 2 years and we love eachother very very much, we made future plans and all, the problem is his mother. she doesnt like me at all because im spanish. im dominican and they are jamaican and for ... (185 words)

Has anyone else experienced this kind of pain after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a bit of a problem, I've been having bleeding during the month especially after having sex, which only stops when I have my pill free week. About a week ago I last had sex and ive been in pain since. The only way I can describe it is like two small lumps in my groin that ... (126 words)

He needs to realize that if he keeps acting this way, he'll lose me and his friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love. I've been with this boy about 4 months and i'm sure its the real deal. The only thing is i've done alot to make this work including fighting with my mom..[she doesn't approve of him] why? because of his ways. we fight, break up and then make up ..and i admit it; ... (202 words)

I really want a girlfriend but nobody asks me out, what should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - im so depressed!!! i feel lonely and miserable all the time and i really want a girl friend.. ive never had one in my whole life...im 14, even though my parents dont allow me to have a social life or a girlfiend..and even though im a little insecure about my penis size i s... (105 words)

He lost his job and he's homeless... should I let my new man move in with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age - the man who i have been seeing for 5 months has just been made redundant and homeless as his flat is in the place he works. He has to be out by 10 feb. he has no job to go to and no home. i have my own place (where i live with my teenage daughter) and have said he ... (183 words)

I have a female problem, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I am 19 yrs old and since I have started my period I have always had a white pasty vaginal discharge(simmilar to when I am having sex) it dont smell or itch but it I dont like clean it out like everyday my husband thinks I am cheating one him is this normal? Also lately I ... (76 words)

Lesbian in love with a guy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, I have been aware that I am lesbien for a couple of years now. I am still not out the 'closet' or anything, but recently there has been this guy who I have spent alot of time with. I really like him, and want to be with him, but am not attracted to him (due to me being a ... (92 words)

Why is it not happening for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ok, im 21 years old and iv never had a relationship. i seem to be the only one out of my friends that doesnt have a boyfriend. men just dont seem to be interested in me. i do talk to them but theres nothing worse that being in a night club and some drunken idiot co... (252 words)

Working from home ideas?

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1 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - can anyone tell me of any genuine work from home jobs i could do ?.For personal reasons,i dont want to go out to work,and would feel much better working from home as you can do the work at your leisure in the comfort of your own home.I also want to pursue acting,by either ... (163 words)

Condom split! Chances of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i had sex last night and condom split i am 5 days into my cycle what is the changes of me becoming pregant. many thanks for help ... (30 words)

Turn him on in a van!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - cold nights here in england. Me n me bf ant seen each other because of this and I dont like going in houses because am really shy and my little sisters usually embaras me. We like to sexualy pleasure each other but not through sex but how would you do stuff like that sat in a ... (82 words)

Feeling left out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a very social person. I love people. My feelings are always hurt when I am left out of a party or get-together. I have a couple who are good friends of mine. I am pretty sure that they consider me a good friend also. I have done lots of favors for them, helped the... (353 words)

Me, best friend & crush triangle!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For about 8 months now i have felt very strongly towards a guy who is also one of my best mates. Recently people have been saying that he likes me too but doesnt know if it is as a good friend or a girlfriend. However my best friend just said that she likes him too (which i ... (177 words)

Different position hurt--is that normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a bit of a strange question. Im sorry if this sounds awful. Last night whilst having sex we tryed a different position wth me bent over and I found it realy uncomfortable and i dont know if it was because he was going realy fast. it was a bit painfull right d... (107 words)

What are his intentions for going out with me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't put my finger on what is my boyfriend's intention of going out with me again. I went out with him for about 2 months and he wanted a breakup saying that we are not "perfect" for each other. I mean, come on, it's a restarded excuse to break up with a person; NOBODY'S... (790 words)

Contact? Of leave him alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi would like some advice was seeing someone and said was too busy with work etc to see me, havent heard from him should i give him some space and leave him alone or should i contact him? would like some advice,... (42 words)

Torn between my big ex & new guy

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1 February 2009 (F)

age - i meet a new guy in june and have feelings for him after leaving my ex. it just happen. i meet up with my ex two month later. i been sleeping with my ex boyfriend because he is big and knows how to treat me as a woman. my new guy is small and not very good and i have not slept ... (159 words)

Love through a dating agency?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello i am 29 and have only ever had 1 girlfriend. I have never been good looking, but in the past year i have tried to make myself more attractive by regrowing my hair. My hair was receeding quite alot and girls actually said the thinning hair made me less attractive. (i wasnt ... (120 words)

He's in the army--how often will he be able to contact me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my man has just gone back to germany hes in the army..iraq next month. wondering , he said he'll have msn and yeah it will be hectic but how often will he be able 2 contact me i know alot of u are related or with sum1 in the army so it'd help i emailed him yday and ... (80 words)

I want a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 havnt had a boyfreind since i was 14. im attractive even if i do say so myself but the thing is men or boys dont seem to be intrested thy treat me like one of the boys we have a laugh ect. im allways myself around boys/men.. bubbley,giggley,fun to be around,good listen... (133 words)

I didn't want him to know how I felt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've fancied my flatmate ever since we met but I've been doing the right thing and just keeping my distance because we're flatmates and we have to live together. We have a very close relationship regardless, and we always have drinks together in his bedroom. Sometimes we ... (240 words)

After 5 years, she pushed me away so I made my decision

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, After 5 years my girlfriend who I love to death and care for so much has been pushing me away. I am 22 and she is 21. We have been having these little arguments and she keeps bringing up the idea that if we are like this now, what will we be later. When its good, ... (233 words)

Can life be perfect? Is it too good to be true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age - My husband and I have been together for thirty years and married twenty-six. We have a twenty-five year old son and two twenty-three year old daughters. I also have one grandchild whom I spoil like no other! Even if she is about 7500 miles away. Anyway, my husband is a doctor ... (199 words)

How can I get my g/f to put out

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my screen name says it all! help ne one with advice been with gf for 12yrs have a 3yr. son i get close she gets pissed ne advice on how to approach her she tells me when she ready to have sex we will which of coarse i cant make her have sex with me at one time we went without ... (78 words)

Is it normal to have a bad attitude when you have been treated badly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i wish to be happier but I find it hard to trust people as I have had many friends and boyfriends bertay my trust. I still am a happy girl inside but recently I have become very negative because people treat me awfully sometimes (i am patient too) ..sometimes i worry over sma... (125 words)

Could they be sleeping together but not letting on?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have this female so called mate who always sleeps in my best friends house.. (i like him in that way) he insists she stays in another bed..but shes up there everyyy weekend. I have been told I am much better looking than her and have LOTS more to offer a man. She stays i... (109 words)

Is it too much to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for about six months now. everythings good, we love each other very much and enjoy being together. our only problem is his ex girlfriend, i still feel she likes him, the signs are very obvious, shes said a few hurtful things about me since we've be... (293 words)

Ex problems..confused and need help

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I am so confused. I dated this guy for alittle over a year. He was my first love and our break up came out of no where. In the past he has gotten into trouble with DUIs. After we broke up he started dating my friend but that only lasted a month. Than he started calling me ... (540 words)

He tells my friends very sweet things but never says them to my face

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive recently been fwb with an ex. he lost my trust towards the end of our relationship and was a lying ass but some of my friends believe he has changed after this time, although i am still skeptical because ive always found it hard to trust people. he talks to me everyday and ... (222 words)

What do the keys and code mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I need an unbiased and neutral second opinion… Ok, recently I spent the whole weekend over at my girlfriend’s house alone for the first time in our relationship. We have only been together for a short while now. But, over the weekend, she gave me the key to every entrance at... (361 words)

Lack of trust...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - If your wife doesn't give you her my space/page address do you think that is wrong or what?... (18 words)

DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

1 February 2009 (M)

- I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 visitors during the month. ... (155 words)

Will my chances of concieving be greater as I've had antibiotics?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, a quick question. Me and my boyfriend have just decided to try for a baby. Last Friday I started penicillin for tonsilitus, one day after that on the Saturday I finished my pack of contraceptives, I finished my pencillin on Friday and was due to take my new pack of ... (97 words)

He says the hugs he gives to other girls are just friendly hugs but I can't help being jealous.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year now but he is always hugging other girls at my school, and when I talk to him about it he say's they're just friendly hugs and don't mean anything, but I can't help feeling jealous? What should I do ?... (49 words)

Laws on teacher student relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :) I just popped on here to ask a simple and maybe somewhat controversial question but I shall discuss it whatever :) If you are 18 and want to pursue things with a teacher what EXACTLY are the laws on this? I understand people will tell me to stay away and don't g... (140 words)

An unlikely pairing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it possible to fall in love with someone even if you really don't fancy them? I have started a relationship with someone, but can't get over the fact that I don't fancy him and feel uncomfortable about it. We are an excellent match in many other areas, but I don't think I ... (144 words)

I just wish he could quit thinking his friends are the coolest things around and can do whatever the heck they want.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't even know what's going on. I was complaining about a friend of my boyfriend's trying to charge me more for something than he really needed to. My boyfriend told him something different that was lower and he was fine with it. So, he was just trying to take more money ... (437 words)

It's been four years and for some pathetic reason, I can't feel anything for anybody.

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been four years and for some pathetic reason, I can't feel anything for anybody. He is always on my mind, I've tried doing new things with other people but it feels like I lost a part of me. What must I do? ... (45 words)

I lied to him about my age... how can I tell him the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I lied to my boyfriend about my age. When we first met I was 18 (and he was 27) but I told him that I was 19. It wasn't a huge deal because it was only 1 year but now I'm about to turn 20 and he thinks I'm going to be 21. Going out to bars and clubs have never been a problem ... (188 words)

How do I tell a friend that I don't fancy him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Andrew, I have a question that needs a rapid answer to prevent a good friend getting hurt. How can I tell him I don't fancy him?.... I recently joined a dating agency, which was based on compatability and without pictures. I was about to end my member... (317 words)

Am I too skinny?

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1 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - hi everybody. do you think I am too skinny? I am 20 years old about 5'3-5'4 and I weigh 105 pounds at a size 1 but sometimes a 3 in some jeans. People call me anorexic and that is not true because I eat a lot but just dont gain weight that easily. according to the info I ga... (82 words)

Is it worth it to see if he's really changed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys last time i wrote on here was about a year ago wen i was getting over an ex that broke my heart out of the blue after cheating on me with another girl, and then chose her.he lied alot and then cheated on her with me bt again chose her when i told her what had happen.... (357 words)

How can I make valentine's day special for her?

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm planning to stay round this girls halls at uni day on 13th and 14th. We are good friends. The dates were a coincidence, i just set the day of the week and just realised now its valentines day on 14th. She broke up with her bf nearly half a year ago so i'd like to make it ... (89 words)

I really like him but he said he has fantasies about being with boys

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello aunts and uncles, Sorry, this will be a little long. I'm in a dilemma. I've to tell the whole story to make the situation clear. I'm a 25 years old girl. I met a guy around 30 years of age at my workplace. I soon fell in love with him. He is very nice and he is v... (840 words)

How can I test the waters?

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm inviting a very close female friend to my flat soon. Plan is she'll stay night here, we'll be drinkin and catchin up on things as i'm at uni far and never see her. I would like to initiate something physical with her that night, i'm not even sure about sex, just making out ... (152 words)

If he liked me, wouldn't he contact me?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like my good friend Sarahs brother Jack. Last week sarah invited me to a family party. Her brother and his friend were there and we all had a great time, me and Jack took tons of pics together. We were all drunken and ended up back at Jacks. His friend and Sarah went to bed ... (366 words)

My wife to be is planning on marrying someone else?

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I live in the United Kingdom,my wife to be lives in Africa, i love so much,she tells me that she misses me and she loves me, few days ago, her friend told me that she is in love with another guy who lives in the States,she has sent pictures to him,exchanged phone numbers and ... (170 words)

Can I drunken snog lead to more?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok heres the thing had a drunken snog with this lad that i used to have a crush on many years ago he asked me if i regreted it and i dont and i dont think he does to but where do i go from here a date, or just like hanging out? i do like him and i dont want it to have been a ... (77 words)

Do I have a high sex drive?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, and i have a very high sex drive... for example, if me and my boyfriend have sex, i'm always ready to do it again. Could this be because i don't orgasm, or do i just have a high sex drive? any help appreciated :)... (49 words)

I want to be in a relationship with him but he's emotionally abusive

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1 February 2009 (F)

- How do you let go of someone who you care about so much and possibly even love despite the fact that they treat you not right sometimes? I have a friend, who wants to be in a relationship with me and I want to be in one with him too, however, Ive been putting it off b... (300 words)

He's going to be with his baby mama on Valentine's Day

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i aske my x boyfriend of 1 year what he doing for v day and he said he gone to be with his baby mama so how can i tell him i want to be with him for valentines day???... (41 words)

He has sex with me but there's a baby mama in the picture!

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello..im 17 and i was dating this boy for 3 months and i found out he had a child on the way.were both 17......but when i found out about his baby mama.. we were still dating like it was nothing new....i didnt really care because he was with me everyday so it didnt ... (253 words)

Trying to connect with g/f but not successful

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I have a little problem.. Well I have an Idea what I am going to do about this problem but I am fully not aware of what I am fully doing. So heres the story. I am currently dating a girl. I'm not for all of the lovey stuff and I am in highschool and I want no... (441 words)

Sh'es gained weight & I don't want sex

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I really and truly love my wife and she is also my best friend and i'm not a jerk but over the past few years she has put on some weight enough to shut down my sex drive i would never tell her to lose weight and i would never stray but i am also worried about her health. ... (115 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend now I don't want to lose him

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a man in a club and at the time i couldnt see a future for me and my boyfriend, i ended having sex wit him that night now i totally regret it, i feel so guilty because now i realise im in love with my boyfriend and dont want to lose him! I no it sounds stupid it has took... (161 words)

I have no network of friends he's conquered them all

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been thinking of leaving my boyfriend for about a year, but I feel completely lost and helpless. We've been together for three years, but I feel like most of the time he has been emotionally and psychologically abusive. At the beginning of the relationship, I had a ... (552 words)

My boyfriend thinks hes a three year old!

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, Well here's the basics im seventeen been with my boyfriend a year, everything has been great until around the end of november. When "the baby voice" came into my relationship. Out of no where my boyfriend started speaking like a baby, it was kind of funny at first but ... (475 words)

Valentine's Day Gift! What to get or do?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! I know that this might be a lame question but... Valentines day! I am a stay at home wife/ mother to be! My husband works and pays bills but I don't have any money. If I need something I ask and I usually get it. Yes I am a little spoiled! I have not been able ... (188 words)

What would be the best way to make friends?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i really need some help here... Im a really shy girl and have a really weird way of doing things, its difficult to put into words, i can talk to someone via sms or email, even writing them a letter but face to face i cant talk, even if it is the same person. I want to move ... (207 words)

My brother moved in and he's so messy!

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1 February 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My brother (and get let fired from his job) and his girlfriend got booted from they'll apartmant. They have been living with me and my boyfriend. My brother has been driving me insane. He hasn't been picking up after hisself, he leaves dashes and treash around the house. He ... (123 words)

When would be a good time to call him back?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just recently broke up. We have been going out for almost a year. During our relationship, there have been many arguments to which my resolution was to always break up which I have been working on. This last break up have been far more serious and could be ... (153 words)

Should I ignore his texts or reply to them?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I am in a stupid quandry. I have asked only a few of my friends what I should do and they both say IGNORE! Back in October a cooworker and I became attracted to each other and he proposed that we start having some fun together. Which I was completely fine with and h... (330 words)

I love him, but I think he's running away

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay long story short, i met a boy 'Andrew' at school. we went out for about a week in yr 9 but broke up mutually because we both weren't ready. After the break up we became closer and spoke more often, and i always remembered the feeling i felt when we first held hands. 2 y... (378 words)

His family is still in love with his ex and now he is questioning us

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I started dating over the summer and we really hit it off. I found out later that he broke up with his girlfriend of two years just so he could be with me. Everything was perfect until he was in a motor cycle accident and that is how I was forced to meet his pare... (265 words)

She is sending me mixed signals

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me n this girl just went on a date sorta thin to da movies and we held hands n stuff durin it but like thru the whle movie she was textin other guys coz and fliritng and i told i dont like it wen u flirt wiv other dudes and she said she wasentr flirting even thou she said this ... (204 words)

Back to the ex just for sex!

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i keep from going back with my ex just for sex? That's really all I use him for, I don't know if he knows that. But every now and then I would text him to see if he wants to hang for a lil bit.. and of course he's a guy.. So of course he's going to say yes. I know if i ... (140 words)

I like to watch gay porn

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old girl.. Is it weird that I like to watch gay black male porn.. i'm far from being gay (trust me!) But its something about that type of sex is fun to watch.. Help?... (38 words)

I'm in love with my stepbrother

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please somebody give me some advice. I think I might be I. Love with my stepbrother and I don't know what to do! I'm so confused sometimes he acts like he likes me and then he acts like he doesn't? But I really think he does and so does my closet friend which is the only other ... (200 words)

Is there a point where its too late?

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Allright long story short there's a girl in my class I've been crushing on for a while. Specifically like 3 months. Maybe more. Anyhoo we get along great, there seems to be some connection, currently friends (though not GREAT ones), yada yada but there seems to be a lot of ... (330 words)

Am I the other woman? Pregnant and confused!

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I don't know where to start really,so I am sorry if I jsut seem to ramble. I am in a realtionship of 3 years and have recently been told that my partner is still with his so called ex.(she called and threatned me)I had no idea from what he told me they were split up...now ... (344 words)

21 year old dating a 15 year old?

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1 February 2009 (M)

- So I recently have been attracted to a younger gal. The thing is shes 15, and I'm 21. I've been to dinner with her family many times, and they like me a lot. They invite me to a lot of occasions, dinner and drinks every week or so. But I'm afraid of what others, and m... (152 words)

I feel so retarded for waiting

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 19 year old college student. i have broken up with my boyfriend of 6 months (10 to be exact, we were official 6 months) in mid-november. he didnt tell me that hw was working with his ex-gf this whole time so i ended it with him. she was his first love, his first sexual ... (1333 words)

I love physics more than my gifrlfriend.Is it fair to her?

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am currently engaged in a pleasant long distance relationship with a wonderful lady (we have been together 1 yr). We do not have frequent contact, but I care for her very much and we enjoy the time we spend together. I cannot see myself loving anyone more than her. ... (222 words)

Handling dogs & disease?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HI. I want to know if anybody here knows if having/ handling dogs transmit any kind of diseases that could affect female health and/or pregnancy. I've been having this doubt on my mind for years and have not find an answer. The thing is years ago I listened to my then pregn... (263 words)

Did he have a baby with this fling?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a man for a year now and things are going well. I have a child from a previous relationship but my bf is very loving to her and he is a very nice man. The problem is that he had a brief relationship a few months before we started dating. he mentioned her to ... (373 words)

I asked her if she was my girlfriend--did I blow it?

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girl have been dating for about 3months we go out to eat a lot and she usually kisses me when I take her home. Or just when she feels like it, when we first met she was all over me and we had sex. But she said she didn't want a relationship though its weird. But we h... (248 words)

Should I just move on? OR is there a chance?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do I start? My life for the past few months has been hellish at best. I recently graduated from high school(in May). once that happened everything seemed to fall apart. i moved in with my bf's family in may-november, but we broke up in september. i was in a relationshi... (490 words)

Girlfriend gone wild and unreasonable

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1 February 2009 (M)

age - My girlfriend (20 years younger) and I had a drag out name calling fight today. This has been building up for several days and exploded today. Her problem is she thinks every time she wants something from the store (usually food) or go on a drive etc. I am supposed to drop... (172 words)

I'm afraid if he leaves I'll go back into depression

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend a lot and we've been on and off for almost 3 years in june. The problem is we are living together now and we constantly fight. We both cut each others throght out. I've tryed to communicate shoot I even tryed to get him to do a 14 day dr. Phil program but he ... (201 words)

Any advice on how to fall pregnant after a miscarriage?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to have another baby I had a miscarriage 9 months ago and have been trying ever since then. Any advice I'd like to get them.... (28 words)

Is this a phase like I went through? Will my ex come back?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My (ex) boyfriend "Jake" and I started dating three years ago. Before we started dating I learned that he dealt with depression. He would drink occasionally and frequently smoke pot. He wasn't a partier, but enjoyed having a good time with his close group of friends. I ... (675 words)

Opinions appreciated... Did he use me?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About 3 months ago my bf dumped me because of my age.. I'm 16 he's 18 wow!! Well we broke up and that really fucked up my life honestly I really love him.. the months past and he still flirts with me and he's always there when I'm sad. After new year I lost my virginity to ... (151 words)

Am I hallucinating or is there a possibility of me being pregnant?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old,I just recently lost my virginity about 4 weeks ago.I have a few questions. While me and my bf were having intercourse the condom came off. It is my fault for not stopping him, we kept on having intercourse without the condom for a while, several times he ... (229 words)

She found someone better than me but I'm going downhill without her...

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hii.. I am 29 year old, married and have 2 kids. when i got married i was only 18.. my husband was 37.. somehow we happened to live but i was not happy in that life. i always used to search for something like soul mate.. I don't like man mostly. I like only to be close with ... (190 words)

I still love him sooooo much...

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and i have been broken up for nearly 5 months now and i still really love him and miss him sooo much .. i still think about him alot and it just hurts soo much because i dont have contact or seee him often ...we were togther a year and a half .. he was amazing my best ... (369 words)

Need solid sensible advice...

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1 February 2009 (F)

age - I started a relationship with a man 7 years ago when he and his wife were on the verge of a divorce. He was thrown out of his house and needed a friend at the time. I wanted to be that friend. The divorce came soon after. I had also separated from my husband some time before ... (1052 words)

The big question is... Is he interested in me????

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I look at him, he stares right back at me. We give each other long stares and when I look away, so does he. Is he interested in me?... (30 words)

How do I move in to make out with her?

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 8 months now. There is a long story behind why I know this but I am absolutely 100% sure she is ok with me making out with her. How do I move in to make out with her and how do I actually do it? Also, is there something I should ... (82 words)

Yesterday the girl I've been crushing on since I met broke up with her boyfriened. Is it to soon to ask her to go on a date?

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi. Well today my girlfriend just broke up with me. Yesterday the girl I've been crushing on since I met broke up with her boyfriened. Is it to soon to ask her to go on a date?... (37 words)

She broke up with me but her best mates and sister, seem to think that she will get back with me...

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - It all started in secondary school. A girl who I was very fond of, asked me out after months of flirting. Stupidly I said no. I said no because I was afraid, and scared, after all she is in the year above. But during my final year of secondary school, and during the summer ... (395 words)

Is it too much?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's always been so hard to decide what I should give for the boy I like on Valentines day. Well here's what I'm planning : - pre-made t-shirt that says "You dance to the beat of my heart" (because we dance together) - a tiny teddy bear hugging on that t-shirt. (inside th... (242 words)

Why has my girlfriend gone off sex?

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1 February 2009 (M)

age - I have been with my current girlfriend for about 18 months now. I am at uni, a mature student, she has a young 18 year old daughter with a young baby son of 8 months who lives away from her mother. My girlfriend doesn't seem interested in sex any more and when I mentioned it ... (134 words)

I really want a wedding and kids but sometimes I can't stand him!!

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and me and my bf have been together for almost 3 years. The first year he did a lot of bad things and I wished that I had broken up with him but I stayed with him to try to make it work. He is a much better boyfriend now but I have a hard time forgetting the past. I ... (139 words)

In need for help AND a guy! Any suggestions?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been feeling a little lonely lately, ever since I split up from a guy many months ago. I really want to start seeing another guy again but I dont possibly know how, I'm 13 years old, I go to an all-girls school, I only have girl mates and a few guy mates I dont really get ... (93 words)

Touched by my cousin and don't know what to do...?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so tonight I was at my aunties and uncles house, and I'm really close with my cousins. So me and my cousin were watching a film in the front room but I was on the side of his chair so I could go on the computer, he put is arms round my waist and left his hands just above ... (176 words)

I am furious right now. He doesn't mean a thing to me, so why does he have this power to make me feel even more miserable about my life?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I warn you. This will be long, but I need help on this situation, and I'll try to make it short. I am a Senior in High School, my old high school closed down, and I transfered to a new school. For three days, I dated this guy who was bisexual. There was nothing between us, no ... (690 words)

He thinks of me only as a friend. Is there anything I can do to change that?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy. He is a friend from church and I have hung with him a while and went to dinner. Then the next day my dad was in the hospital and he came over to comfort me. He is a really good friend and I really like him. But he thinks of me only as a friend. Is there ... (69 words)

Why do I get erections for absolutely no reason???

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1 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old boy and I'm kind of getting worried, I don't know how to say this but about 4 - 6 times a day doesn't matter whereever it is my penis just becomes erect randomley.... sometimes it's if I look at girls and Ii understand that but I was in a exam and well half ... (78 words)

I love my girlfriend yet sometimes I don't look forward to seeing her... why am I like this?

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1 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So this is a really weird question, and I don't know what's wrong with me. I have been this way since day one of our relationship. Because of schedules and strict parents I rarely see my girlfriend. But now it seems that when I do have a chance to see her I don't want to ... (129 words)

What should I tell him? I still want his attention..?

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1 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I met, he lives with my friend and I went over to their house. The guy asked for a kiss and I told him that I shouldnt cause I just got out of bad relationship. Then, we had more drinks and he tried again and this time I kissed him. He kept kissing me ... (154 words)