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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He says I bitch a lot and that's one of the reasons he doesn't want to be with me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help. I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend haven't been happy in a long time. I kicked him out last month and hoped that would motivate him to spend time with me and be intimate with me. He spends no time with me at all. Ever since I kicked him out we go weeks ... (173 words)

I have a deep mind and am a moral person. What does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy, but I don't know how much he likes me. He always smiles and seems happy to see me, but he's pretty much friendly to everyone. However, he also said that I have a deep mind and am a moral person. What does this mean?... (49 words)

My boyfriend wants me to suck him off!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to suck his penis... but when I try to do it I don't like it... I try to deep throat and stuff but I just don't know how to make him feel pleasure... I don't know how to do that. ... (44 words)

I don't want to follow in my family's footsteps...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, How can I argue to my parents that I don't want to follow their religion any more? We talked about Islam recently and they say I MUST follow it "for my own good" although I said I was atheist. My siblings are all being mean and pushy to me and calling me immature. If I d... (79 words)

Any good suggestions for great wild sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while now but every time it's missionary... he just won't let me get on top for some reason... Any good suggestions for great wild sex? !!!=]... (38 words)

What does this mysterious blank email mean???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ex sent me a “blank” email that has nothing in it on the day before Valentine’s Day, what does it mean? Is he trying to tell me something ?... (30 words)

Feelings for my same sex colleague...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I got a job in a shop in town about 5 months ago. 2 of us work in the shop, me and my boss. I'm openly gay at work and happy with my sexuality and often make jokes about it if someone doesn't think about what they say first. My boss is 25 and has been in a relationship f... (341 words)

Why did his ex get the naughty pictures of him and not me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a while now, we live together. He has 2 kids and an ex-wife. Well, here about 3 weeks ago his ex sent me 3 pics that he has sent to her of him naked in our home (that we moved into together)!! She had been trying to tell me before this, that ... (305 words)

I still like her and I hold hope that we could get back together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I suffered from depression and she knew this before we went out. We went out for 3 months and she tried to get me to see that I needed help but i never did. It started getting worse so I had a lot of anger and I argued with her a lot. I argued with her about everything for no ... (623 words)

She's giving me conflicting signals all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Let's give you a little background, about a week ago the guy she was in love with crushed her by telling her he's done with her, even though they've been broken up for 7 months, in that 7 months he's ignored her w/e. Me and her went out for 2 months but couldn't continue it ... (240 words)

Ideas for sending kinky picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im with this guy at the moment and hes really great . . . as close to perfection infact . . . well sometimes haha but anyway he asked me for a valentines to send him a kinky picture ?? iv sent him pictures before and he has sent them as well so i totally trust that he... (116 words)

Was I conned? Or had he not thought about the circumstances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i was seeing my now ex for 6 months, i realised he had a drinking problem, and i made him choose me or drink, after a row, it was causing problems in our relationship, he promised to give up the drinking and get help, he managed to do really well for about three weeks, then ... (397 words)

I'm 25 and think I have ED

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 25 years old and I think I have E.D. at first I can get a rock hard erection but as soon as i put the condom on, it gets flacid ast and I cant maintain the erection. this is really frustrating because I perform fine without the condom. I tried to get the most sensitive ... (88 words)

G/f--one minute she's alright..the next she's not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend an i are in a long distance relationship. one minute she will b alrite with me then she wont be. she says evrything is fine with us. ive tried talking to her but she just evrythings fine. does she still like me or is she getting ready to finish??? or am i just ... (59 words)

In love with 2 ex's!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with two men, one is my ex b/f. We broke up 8 months ago after 8 years. He is with someone new now and has cut all communication with me. The other is also my ex b/f whom I dated for about a year and a half while I was on a brake from the 8 year relationship and I ... (104 words)

She sees me only as a friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell in "love" with a girl well i cant get her out of my mind, she unfortunatly is 1 and half year older than me so i think thats where my problem lies. I asked her out she said she already had a boyfriend by this stage which i didnt know about and that she only saw me as a ... (110 words)

He'd rather jerk off than have sex with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My man would rather jerk off then have sex with me. It takes him like 5mins to get me off and it takes him like an hour for him to masturbate. He goes for like a week not wanting to have sex with me but jerks off every night. He says it isn't me, he just likes the feeling ... (101 words)

I think he's cheating..what else could it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are in our early/mid thirties and have been in a long distance relationship for 18 months. I have nagging doubts that something is amiss. The first time was 7 months ago when I spent ages waiting for him whilst he went to buy things in a shop. I found hi... (385 words)

"You know how I feel about you" what does that mean?

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - if your boyfriend tells you "you know how I feel about you" does it mean he's saying i love you? or what just that he cares? why can't he open up?... (31 words)

Does he still like me? He's ignoring me again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - let's say it snowed all day long.if a guy is really into a girl would he throw snowballs at her or ''wash'' her face with snow or not?today it snowed,so the kids from our school had big snow fights in the breaks and we had a lot of fun.my crush was there too.he was looking ... (209 words)

Why can't women just say no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - im new and im pretty horrified at some of these stories, why is there never a lack of lerking guys waiting to take advantage of these younger and somtimes underage women, its like theres a perv lerking in every family, on every street waiting to pounce on the emotionaly ... (76 words)

Erection painful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my friend - and i do mean my friend im not stupid enough to say its my friend when its really me so MY FRIEND told me that ever since he started masturbating his penis gets so erect that it is painful so does anyone have any explanation as to why that happens?... (53 words)

Talks about sex and then gets cold feet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My "boyfriend" often texts me saying how he would like to get with me, make love, shag me etc etc. However, whenever I suggest spending the night with him - he always gets cold feet and comes up with an excuse! What is happening here? - I know he is having problems with his... (78 words)

My girlfriend's ex is is a family friend! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of two years has an ex that is a good friend of her family and her brother's best friend. The real problem is that I didn't know about this until about a year and a half into our relationship. She didn't mention it because she thought I knew. My GF and I hung out ... (506 words)

I lied about my age & he found out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey im 34 yrs old , met and a guy some 3 yrs ago, thot it was going to be just a fling, but he ended up talking marriage, problem is im 3yrs older than he is but i lied then that it was just one yr diffence, well he just found out, i actually meant to tell him just didnt know ... (104 words)

G spot questions

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - would you girls stimulate your man's G spot and would you guys let your girl do it to you? ... (23 words)

He doesn't want to spend Valentine's Day with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a month now ... but he doesnt want to talk to me on the phone ! I dont get it ? He tells me to hang out on valentines day ... but now hes telling me that hes going to a sweet 16 and that gets me mad cause we were suppose to be ... (90 words)

Way to make him change? Or leave my alcoholic husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age - I've been reading a lot of questions and answer about being married to an alcoholic. Its good to see I am not the only one in this type of relationship. But at 50 years old I should have known better. I started dating my husband a little over a year ago. He worked a lot so ... (469 words)

I've moved to another country..will he fall out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i've been dating this guy for a year and 7 mnths now we love each other so much he's the nicest person i've ever met. but there is a problem i've moved to another country.i dont know if this will make him fall out of love for me but i cant afford to lose him. I Love him so much... (60 words)

Can you get the spark back between you & a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy who ive known for about a month, ive bumped into him twice and we got along really well. We speak on facebook and text and weve been speaking so much, flirting, he mentioned going to the cinema with me. etc etc. Just obvisley really interested. You... (237 words)

What is romance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is not that serious, but it's something I need to know. What is romance? Me and my boyfriend are debating on what the true definition is. I'm saying it's the candle light dinners, with the rose pedals on the bed etc... he says it's the fact that he spends all his time ... (62 words)

Do alcoholics always return to their former partners?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age - My question is....do alcoholics always try return to their partners after they have made some catastrophic, not well thought out, off the wall life changing decision once they realize how stupid they were?... (33 words)

Committed Relationship Question

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age - I have been dating a girl for 6 months. We are in a committed relationship. She works in a small office of 4 people and has a male coworker that started working with her about a year ago - 6 months before we met. He works at her office once per week and the two of them have ... (134 words)

My b/f wants to cum on my face & in my mouth but I hate it!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of a year wants to come in my mouth and on my face. I give him oral sex, and I let him come on my neck and boobs, but he is always unhappy. Having cum on my face feels disgusting and I feel violated and disrespected. He wants me to go down on my knees and close my ... (179 words)

Is he flirting with me? Does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is how it goes. I just know him this past September through my friend because he always comes over at lunch. Later, we added each other on FB and MSN. I’m not sure if he’s joking or serious or not; but there’s one time that I asked him ‘Have you like someone secretly ... (498 words)

Any advice for 1st kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everyone, ive been going out with a guy for about a month and hes soo sweet hes taking me out for valentines day and then we're going to the cinema and i know he wants to get off (make out) with me but its my first kiss and i dont know how to any tips?... (56 words)

First date! Any tips?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Ive asked a girl out and she said yes. We are going to the cinema i think (lol). I just donno what do do on the first date. I get nervous around girls and this is gonna be really hard :P any tips?... (45 words)

I'm heartbroken..doesn't he want to see me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm new to this site. I'm experiencing a lot of heartache right now, and just want some friendly advice and encouragement. Here's the story. I met a guy and we dated for a few months. We decided at the start of the relationship that we would let things progress... (976 words)

I'm depressed & he's living & breathing his job!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Im a housewife thats been totally depressed lately,been through alot with my husband,he`s just obsessed with his job and all dat has to do with it including staff,of late i guess he`s doing everything at work,he`s got no time or patience for me,and there`s been this cer... (105 words)

Back to the ex? Or stay with the b/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i started having sex at age 14 with the love of my life =] ... but we broke up last year and the second boy i fell in love with .. I started having sex wit him ... but then i started talking to my ex again and i still love him cause he was my first ... but my boyfriend ... (89 words)

Has anyone else experience this in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife had an affair and through intimate vetting it seems to have made us more open and intimate with one another. Has any one else experienced this?... (28 words)

Is this against the law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

- Hi hope someone can help.I've been divorced for about 10mnths and have met a wonderful guy..ive been seeing him for about 3months now and we want to take our relationship further.we have a romantic evening planned for valentines day and i was really looking forward to it! but a ... (184 words)

Friend wants to go on a cruise, does it mean something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known this girl I'm about to discuss since probably as far back as middle school. (I'm 24 now). We went to middle and high school together and were in a lot of the same classes, but we never really hung out after school during that time, maybe once or twice with a group ... (236 words)

I just want a bit of excitement in my life! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my current girlfriend for 4 years. I still love her but the thrill I used to get from being with her faded some time ago and I really miss it. Recently, I've been noticing this really cute girl in my college (went back to college recently) who I'm very att... (96 words)

I'm not happy here and can't make a future here. Should I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfrienf for ten and a half years. While we are polar opposites in terms of personalities - he is quiet, gentle and throughtful and I am outgoing and quite tempermental. he is also eleven years older than me. We fight like cat and dog, mainly instigated by ... (251 words)

How can I get pregnant?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriends have had sex three times. Those three times hes cummed in me, but nothing had happened. Wat should we do, i mean my girls tell me maybe is when i get up the sperm goes down. I just need advice am i ready to have a child ?... (52 words)

Does he still like me? Or just messing with my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, Me and my ex have remained friends, anyway we fell out last monday, but we are now on speaking terms, he has this new gf and shes really nice, anyway,on tuesday when she wasnt there, he said to me about what he was going 2 get me for my bday if we hadnt have fallen o... (199 words)

I can't but feel that I'm missing something with my b/f!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my guy for 4.5 years now, and while I know that I love him, and that he loves me, I can't help but feel that something's missing. My bf is a wonderful guy, he's sweet, smart, and kind. However, I've never really lusted after him at all. He's my first and only ... (186 words)

I don't know if he loves me but I would die for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hay .... i was with this boy for about 2 years we broke up due to the fact i have a problem with trust him even when he done nothing we was apart for about a year saw diffent people and he got in contact with me and said braking up with me was a big mistake soo we talked ... (229 words)

Is it wrong for me to love someone 10 years older than me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am deeply in love with someone, He buys me drinks all the time, drives me home when I don't have a car, talks to me when I'm down, looks at me from afar and when we see eye to eye he smiles, we're both in the same college. he's every girls dream and has the same interest with ... (189 words)

I have a wonderful man waiting for me but I'm too scared to leave my abusive boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm stuck in an abusive relationship and I have a way out, but I never take it. I'm 23 and I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14 and we have a house together. For the past three years or so he has been mean and abusive. He shouts at me, hits me and sleeps with other women ... (992 words)

I don't want to stick around for nothing! What is going on with this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! I am hoping you can help me with this confusion, or tell me I am right or wrong. This is a short version, with few details, but if some details will help let me know, but I hate typing forever. I meet a guy last April. Neither of us were looking for anything, but w... (683 words)

How can I be me again? I don't like the bitter person I've become!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I have been married twice and have kids from both marriages. I am not saying that i am a perfect angel and did not contribute to where i am today but i have been beaten and cheated on and i am the type of person that gives her all in a relationship. My second marriage... (225 words)

What does a girl say when she likes a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you know the diffence between win a girl likes you or is just being friendly. Like sometimes girls will ask me what my name is. Or tell me there's. But this could just be them being friendly. How do I know the difference.... (45 words)

What do I do if he never mentions Valentine's Day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for about a month and a half and he hasn't mentioned Valentine's Day at all. He is a really nice thoughtful guy, he goes out of his way to do nice little things for me and I have seen him do the same for friends of his. I don't understand why he ... (118 words)

I want to confess my feelings for her and hopefuly she'll return them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

13 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've fallen in love with my friend. Now it's driving me nuts; I constantly think of her and I get jealous when other guys hit on her. Of course, I understand I'm being irrational, so I try my best to do what's best for her. Recently, another of my friend has been spending ... (380 words)

Could I forgive myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) age 41-50 - here goes, my confession. its been a long troubled relationship, we met when i was 16 he was 18 we had a daughter a year later and held it together, BUT we both had different lives, seperate lives,we have always been in love in a strange way. i wanted a bit more from the rela... (257 words)

I worry he will kill himself if I leave him but if I stay he will destroy us, what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi please I hope someone can advise me on where to go I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years we have a three and a half year old boy together he is an alcholic and is very unpredictable he has been in rehab twice and only just left one treatment centre which he was there for ... (304 words)

How do deal with the break up when he is family friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend of three years...he was my first boyfriend and i dont know how to deal with the break up..specially because he is my brothers best friend..and visits frequently..what do i do?!... (37 words)

My FWB wants to spend Valentine's Day with me, what does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having a fwb relationship with a close guy friend of mine. We talk every night and we spend quite a bit of time together, and most of it is not just about the physical things. I was pretty upset before because i felt like he paid more attention and hung out more ... (207 words)

I've never had to share my boyfriend before, his little girl makes me mad at times!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been togeather for 4 months now and we both have daughters. Mine 8 and his 5. I love him sooo much but i am jelious of his daughter and his relationship with her.We dont fight about anything but his daughter or his ex. I know that his ex and him are ... (221 words)

My boyfriend is a closed book, how do I resolve our situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This may be a bit long winded so bare with me! Myself and my partner split up a few months ago after a very intense, passionate and serious 4 month relationship. we were due to move in together and go to the caribean this year etc. We split over a huge row - but in summary ... (500 words)

I have all the symptoms of pregnancy... could I be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys im in a very horrible situation on december i went to see this guy and we then went back to his flat he gave me some drink and 2 lines of cocaine which i knew i shouldn't have took then we had unprotected sex 4 times and i was on my period which i thought was finished ... (334 words)

Why did he introduce me to his son if we had a casual relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I wonder if anyone can shed light on this. My ex and I have split up a month after my meeting his son. My ex was reluctant to introduce me to his son as in his words, he didn't want his son to meet someone who may not be on the scene in 12 months. Anyway, he introduced us ... (140 words)

How do I go about telling my mother of the age gap in my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, i need some advice. I have been with my Fiance for over 3 years now, and we plan to get married next year and hopefully move country to live together. We both still live at home and however, to cut a long story short, he is 8 years older than me. I am 19 and he is 27.... (128 words)

Me and my bf are starting to worry about this missing period, any help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I havent had sex with my boyfreind but we've done other stuff and i want to know, is it possible for me to get pregnant if he fingered me and he possibly had sperm on his finger? its just ive missed a period and thats never happened to me before and theyre always very ... (99 words)

I'm scared that I'll lose my daughter if I tell her about me and her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age - My daughter broke up with her fiance about eight months ago, it was just a case of them drifting apart which happens often in relationships. My daughter's ex is very attractive and clever and I was sad to see him go as he acted like a true gentleman and was very nice to look ... (728 words)

My best friend is seeing my ex, am I right to be upset?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do i feel like this? A couple of weeks ago i found out my best friend is seeing an ex of mine. I was so angry, mainly because i feel she should of spoke to me first and asked if im ok with it. I would have if it was me and one of her ex's! But to be honest i dont think i ... (185 words)

Has he lost interest because I neglect my looks?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I have recently found out my husband has joined facebook. He looked up a old schoolfriend he was once inlove with in school. He has only written twice to her, cause I found out and approached him. He told me he done it cause his unhappy in his marriage. He nev... (154 words)

How to handle being screwed over 4 times? Please read and help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all I have way bigger problems than this one but maybe I can do somthing about this... so backround info then... the problem then the question. I have had an on and off thing with this guy for about 5 months now and he tells me he likes me and I tell him I like him too ... (589 words)

Heartbroken and lonely

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a difficult question! I have been living with my roommate for almost two years now. We recently hooked up, had sex however he has a girlfriend and he made an effort to try and make me a friend of this girl. He has acted like nothing has happened between us ... (193 words)

I've been having sex with many women and now my wife wants to end the marriage but I don't!

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13 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - hello i love me wife and kids. for the last years i have been having sex with many women. as this action has no reason my sexual realationship with my wife has been down hill, following the birth of our son. this action on her part did not help me in my sexual ... (90 words)

I'm worried she'll slam the door in my face

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13 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Kay me and my girlfriend had this horrible fight about me not spending enough time with her after her dad died and wont go to his funeral (I can't handle funerals with wanting to pass out). It got the point where were just streaming at each other, Then she called me "an selfish ... (127 words)

Smack talking

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's these two friends that are very close. They both talk smack about each other behind their backs and tells me everything. And they don't want me to tell anyone anything. If I tell them to confront one another they'll say "she'll take it the wrong way" and some other ... (94 words)

Does this make a good gift?

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to get my boyfriend of 3 months a card,some chocalote,and a letter saying why I love him for valentines day does this make a good gift?... (28 words)

If he's telling the truth why won't he take the lie detector test?

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 10 1/2 years says he didn't cheat on me. However, I don't believe him and want him to take a lie detector test. He said, "I will not take one because of my integrity. And, I know I didn't do anything." So, my question is...if he didn't do anything, why not take ... (613 words)

I love him but I let other men kiss me!

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this makes me sound bad on all levels and i'm finding it really hard to keep this from the person i love. I'm a uni student and me and my boyfriend spend weeks apart from each other, on two separte occasions i've cheated. Each time the cheating was me not pushing a guy of... (228 words)

Does she want me more than her boyfriend?

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13 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl, and we have been freinds for a year and a half. about 5 months ago we started going out, however it ended in about a month. She was very distressed over her ex boyfreind at the time and he took advantge of the situation. I used to be freinds with this ... (286 words)

The ex came back, now he's confused & I'm not sure what to do?

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just got out of a relationship with this man two days ago. Even though it was just a two month relationship, I feel like we flew threw all of the steps. We met at a Christmas party and hit it off. About a month into getting to know each other, we slept together. A week later, ... (425 words)

Plenty of eye contact but no action! Interested? Or not?

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 and I go to college. There's this guy in one of my classes. Its been about 3 weeks. We've maintained plenty of eye contact and all. We haven't actually spoken to each other. He definitely notices that I have been looking at him. He's been looking too. One time, th... (206 words)

He asked about my past and now says he can't be intimate because of the images he sees of me and my ex!

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i are dating long distance. Things would be going great between us until he starts thinking about my past. i have had one boyfriend prior to him and one hook up. He says he can't even be intimate with me because everytime we do, he has images of me and my ... (121 words)

Is he protecting me from him? Or is he playing me?

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old collage student. My friends consider me good looking and even knowing me do not believe that I am a virgin at times. I have everything, and everything that a teenage girl could want...except a serious relationship, I fear letting people get close to me ... (443 words)

Is she just saying that because she doesn't like me?

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13 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so i've been talking to this girl for like three weeks and then at a party she asked me to go up to her room because she didn't feel good and we ended up cuddling and making out and it was great ... we did this for like 3 days straight, she seemed to like me . and then ... (146 words)

He just keeps cheating..shouldI leave or not?

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey every one i need some advice other than my close friend my mom and others close to me well....here it goes.....iam 18 yrs.old i have a 5 month son and his dad is now in jail i broke up with him bc he cheated on me and i found this out until now that hes in jail i dont know ... (575 words)

I like him...he likes her

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i need some help!! I have a crush on one of my good friends and i've liked him for about 1 year and a half, I really like him. And here's the thing, he likes one of my Really good friends, he tells me he likes her sometimes, and im not sure if he knows i like him. I DO ... (117 words)

I want to make out with this girl I'm friends with

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13 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i invited this girl to my party. I want to make out with this girl i'm friends with. How can i make this move? We will be drinking too. I don't want it to be awkward. We talk lots but no steps forward! Please help! ... (45 words)

I know he's a mess but I miss him!

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Does it mean something when you think of someone constantly who you are no longer with? I feel like sometimes I'm Im obesessing over this guy i only dated 3 months, but he made a huge impact on my life. I'm a well educated women, always unlucky in love, yet fel... (498 words)

He doesn't know that I love him

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13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a waitress at a high class restaurant... and I'm in love with one of our regular customers... The problem is, he doesn't know I'm in love with him.. The reason is because I always remain professional towards customers. He usually visits our restaurant with his sister.... (343 words)

Why am I so intent on hurting the only man I love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

13 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm awful. Morally bankrupt. I feel disgusted with myself to even admit this to anyone, let alone me. I've been with my partner for three years now, and love him with all my heart.We're soulmates and best friends. However during the three years we've been together I've had ... (151 words)