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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok, well I've madeout a lot and cuddled and shit but I do think I'm prude and I get pressured to get fingered and giving blowjobs and handjobs and sometimes even sex.I do wanna try to get fingered and try a handjob and a blowjob. I know what they are but I know nothing on how to do them.I'm very confused, that I won't live up to his expectations and hurting him and what not.What should I do ?!?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (16 February 2009):
 You are very unlikely to cause any hurt, but you would be very wise to restrict your sexual activity to things like hand jobs at most for now. It serves the purpose of relieving a boyfriend's sexual tension, if you wish to do that. You would be entering a realm of very serious sexual activity if you venture beyond kissing, petting, fingering, stroking and hand jobs. Please understand that I'm advising as one who once progressed even more rapidly in my youth, and who learned by experience that it would have been better to wait. Save the big stuff for later, and you will probably be very glad that you did.
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reader, megan melevolant  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 well you need to make out and just slowly like move your hand down to the top of his pants and tell him you have never done it befor
hopefully he will understand and will offer to help like by holding your hand to give him a hand job.
when you have done that for a bit he will just put his hands down your pants it always happens
one thing will lead to another and befor you know it you will be the best he has ever had :P
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (16 February 2009):
 none of that will happen just relax..he'll be happy to teach you, he'll show you how to do it, he'll teach you how he likes it..
just tell him that you're new to this sort of thing and he'll understand
gudd luck, you have nothing to worry about
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