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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am deeply in love with my cousin and I don't know what to do cause he says he likes me too

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with ma cousin I moved in with ma cousin because living on campus was very expensive but he had only one bedroom apartment since he couldn't tell my parents that so he would sleep on the couch and me on the bed. But at some point he moved on the bed but he would... (875 words)

My ex boyfriend is driving me nuts with so much confusion!

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up 3 1/2 months ago about. We have been friends throughout the breakup because he wanted to be. We do have sex but that has stoped, unless a rare occasion that I ask him- because he doesn't ever bring it up so I know that isn't what he wants from me. ... (359 words)

I'm thinking about this old friend far more than I should... Advice please!

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been with my girlfried for five years and I recently came in contact with an old friend who we used to hang out as friends with a group of people on the weekends but now after a few weeks I've been thinking about her non stop I want to tell her but I don't want to ruin ... (76 words)

What do I do? Where do I go from here?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 2 and a half years now. I love this guy to pieces and he is the best. He is my first true love and we even lost our virginity to each other. We have created a really special bond that I think is hard to find these ... (536 words)

Are these signs of being homosexual?

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is being attracted to attractive transexual or transgendered people a sign of homosexuality? A friend of mine has transexual porn at his home. And well a few of us checked it out and the 'ladies' were attractive except for the fact that some of them had a penis. But they... (98 words)

Advice needed! Should I let him know how I feel knowing that he will feel pressure from this line of questioning?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend "retired" a year ago, and he is taking some time off to figure out what he wants to do when he grows up. I can appreciate the need for contemplation, but he wants to figure it out before we talk about our future and starting a family. I a... (265 words)

When you cannot find a partner, is their anything wrong with porn to take care of your needs?

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - When you cannot find a partner, is their anything wrong with porn to take care of your needs? There is a difference between fear of rejection and abundance of rejection. I am not a picky individual. But I am just not attracted to larger women. By larger I mean visibly... (197 words)

I'm too shy to talk to girls...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

26 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am really having a low self esteem. I am 19 and still Single. Got rejected once. The fear of rejection hurts me. I'm going to university for a month now. I really want a gf. Someone who I'll adore me and love me. But I think I' too ugly to have a gf. I always get ... (141 words)

Differing religious beliefs and relationships.

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a relationship work when in different religions? I feel like even the most accepting catholic would not make it with a jew or friend because different religious beliefs could be the cause of conflict. what do you think?... (40 words)

Coping with age and accepting getting old and being single...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is being 32 old to some who are 30 years old? I am turning 30 next year, I feel old in comparison to someone who is 28 years old. I am scared of turing 30 because I never had a boyfriend and never had my first off a guy a really like. I am depressed turniing 30 and ... (96 words)

No proof of cheating?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been cheated on multiple times, and emotionally rejected. My best friend went out with my ex basically. And that relationship only lasted 4 years then broke up. Now that I am in a new relationship of 6 years now, I always have a gut feeling that my boyfriend is cheating... (160 words)

He seems to have cooled things but I don't want this to end.

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship and get on really well. He used to live near me and go to the same school, but he moved and we didn't want to end it. He makes me laugh so much and I make him laugh too. He's really sweet and nice, and we could ta... (191 words)

Microgynon 30 (the pill) and bleeding! need help! x

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been on microgynon 30 for a few months now, it was working great at first (better than the contraceptive implant I had in previously, was bleeding constantly) anyway, so it has been working great but this months packet I've missed a couple, and I haven't been taking it ... (121 words)

A nice love story to lighten the mood!!!.. Add yours..

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Everyone! Every time I come on here there's so many sad stories, so I thought I would share a nice little happy story with you all.. feel free to add yours!!.. My story is about me and my fiance.. the love of my life! For years i had been dating a guy on and off... it was ... (351 words)

Do men upper 50s and older still think about sex often?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Would men in their upper 50s and older still be into sex (think about sex often, masturbate, visualize having sex, etc.)? Let me explain - this guy and I have known each other for about four or five years; he'll turn 60 next month and I'm 25. We get along great and are go... (270 words)

I love her so much it hurts!

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I love her so much it hurts. We went out for a few months and then she randomly dumped me. Now her friends are saying she really doesnt care about me in any way what so ever anymore. Its it tearing me up for her to do this. she has never ever been that kind of person and it ... (76 words)

How to ask about second date without being pushy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to the cinema with this guy last Monday, we had a great time. He text me the same night saying how good it was and suggested going out again. i text back agreeing. The next day he seemed less flirty online and I mentioned about going out again and he said he'd text m... (201 words)

He hasn't replied, should I start looking elsewhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Basically went on the first date, Couldn't of gone any better, We chatted for 2.5hrs then we walked for a bit and found a place to sit there we kissed for 2.5 hrs, Then i walked her to her car holding hands, Text her on Monday to see what she is doing she said she was free that ... (98 words)

I want to have sex at 13, what do you advise?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im am 13 and i really want to have sex i just dont have anyone to do it with! who can i go to?... (24 words)

He wants it hard and fast and I am a virgin and he knows but doesn't care! Please help!

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay. this is really scary to me so someone please give me some advice. i have a boyfriend, he is 18. i'm a little younger than him, hehe. anyways we want to have sex. he knows i am a virgin.... he wants me to be on my hands and knees when we do it. and plus he says he will not ... (219 words)

She's being cold towards me all of a sudden, what can I do?

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey me and my girl will have been going out for 6 months now. Everything has been perfect, wonderful. WE get along, similar interests, we are totally open with each other, don't lie to each other we have both been faithful, we have fun.....etc But now all of a sudden, she's ... (247 words)

Flakey, selfish friends. What should I do about this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this friend. Who I've known for 5 years. He has a great, charming personality and -generally - is a lot of fun. But he also has another side to his character I can't understand. He will do things like invite you to a party with all people he knows, and just not turn up ... (305 words)

Did he just ask to kiss me?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together awhiel I realy like him and he likes me so toaday he asked to kiss me I was like did you just say that look on my face I took to long to awnser and he walked away I wanted to i've been wanting to I do but I thought I was imaging it ... (77 words)

Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them? We hear that men are always thinking about or watching sex at some point or other but even some unattractive average woman offered herself to a man for the night would he take it??... (48 words)

Where is he? What is he doing?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i am 36 years old and my boyfriend is 40. we have been together now for almost two years. In that two years, i have brought up the future and what he thinks about it, whether we will live together and other things along those lines. He told me that he can see us livin... (1402 words)

Why can't I find a girlfriend?

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why can't I find a girlfriend ? Okay I am 20 years old soon to be 21 I have brown curly hair brown eyes. I have tan clear conplection and I am 6 foot tall about 165 I bench around 245 I am well built and I even make $6000 dollers a month and I I got a little over 7 inch dic... (78 words)

I was working 4 jobs and she was at home watching tv & cheating on me!

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I did perhaps the greatest mistake of my life. I met a girl who was coming out of an abusive relationship and I decided to give it a GO. I worked 4 jobs at some point but still had time to attend her emotional and physical needs. I workship and adore this person, she was ... (359 words)

I don't want my sister to watch porn, what can be done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

26 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i caught my sister watching porn and masturbating !! she is 15. it has shook me inside and i cant see it happening and leave this matter though i understand its normal.what should i do about it ??? i dont know why but i dont want her to do it. please help!!!... (52 words)

We met a couple of times, when is it OK to sleep with him?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've just started dating a guy quite a lot older than me. I like him a lot, and I also find him very attractive but we have only met up a couple of times, and been talking on the phone etc. I dont want to sleep with him too soon, but I think he expects me too but I dont want ... (85 words)

Do most men like to offer oral sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do men really like going down on women? - I know that most men like blow jobs - but do men really like going down on women or do they prefer to skip the foreplay and just get on with it? Honest answers please - as I've got my first night of passion coming up with a new guy and ... (64 words)

My question is what we can do to make the sex somewhat enjoyable and special for the both of us?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 and a sophomore in highschool. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. I think it's safe to say that we're very much in love. He's my bestfriend first and then my boyfriend. I can tell him anything. We haven't had sex yet. Honestly, we've been taking ... (207 words)

He says maybe when he has lost some weight we will have sex again!? I don't understand him.

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfrined for 2 years now. Since september last year he has been acting strange and we havent been sleeping together. We have has sex 4 times since then. He isnt cheating on me i know that for sure because i am always with him.He has recently turned 30 and ... (134 words)

Can you still have periods when you are pregnant?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you still have periods when you are pregnant????... (9 words)

I never seem to please her in bed as I get tired, help!

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do with my girlfriend anymore!!! i mean in bed i never seem to please her!! i have a 6 3/4 inch penis its below average i beleive .. but thats not the deal when we have sex i do all i can to make her reach an orgasm and she always orgasms at least 2x! and... (154 words)

He cheats because he doesn't want to get hurt...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend who has been thru alot he fears being cheated on so he hurts me first. he cheated on me and got the girl pregnat we are now back together but i fear it may happen again. he admits he has a problem and that he wants help and needs help. we have talked about a ... (282 words)

Did I do the right thing? And will he come back???

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I've known this guy for about year, everything was good. In the beginning he was like, he wasn't looking for a relationship ( not ready/stable I guess) and I was like "whatever" on the whole thing. If I got into one, I got into one, but I wasn't searching for a man. So, ... (673 words)

I hurt him but I want him back. What more can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice. I had a wonderful relatively new relationship and I messed up. we had an almighty argument. I said things bang out of order, he gave back, so I said things worse. It was awful, and sadly all done by text. It was out first ever argument. Anyway I did the full apo... (402 words)

Photo of exwife

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, Here is my situation. I am currently dating a man who has been divorced for 2 years. He on occasion talks to his ex wife, I'm fine with that because I do the same with one of my exes strictly platonic. Well my issue is that I found a photo of his ex on his... (366 words)

I can't stop snooping because I worry he will cheat, please help me me keep my family!

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I'm going to start off by saying I feel like I have really accepted that part of him, soemtimes anyways. But I just cant stop snooping. I worry all the time that he is cheating, why you ask becuase I was with a guy before him who cheating and abused me for 5 years. ... (861 words)

Could an 18 year old girl and a 31 year old man have a successful relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started seeing a 31 year old man, i am 18. We get on well, and are both very attracted to each other but I know he thinks the age gap is an issue. We both look exactly our ages, which means we do get strange looks when we are out. I haven't even been able to ... (100 words)

I'm meeting my boyfriend's parents, should I bring flowers for his mother?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it a good idea to bring something for the family: the mom? I'm meeting my boyfriend's parents this weekend but he just said we'll go out for dinner at a restaurant. It was going to be at his house but he changed his mind and wants to take us out. Should I still bring some... (71 words)

I don't understand the reason of his being upset. Am I right or am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my boyfriend is all bothered because he text me yesterday wanting to meet up for sex during work hours. I lied and said that I was stuck in a meeting and left my phone in the car. I don't want him to get used to calling me out for a nooner!! I could easily get fired... (202 words)

How to meet Latin women?

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26 February 2009 (M)

age - I have always loved Latin women. I have dated a few before. I am headed to visit an old friend in Argentina later this year and I see this as a way to meet a potential girlfriend in a place where I have heard there are beautiful women. But the only problem is I dont speak ANY ... (71 words)

How to get him to play fair with the household bills?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a long story but here goes. Iv been with my bf for a year now, and i have a daughter (but she is not his, he does treat her like his though). I live on my own with my daughter and im not working at the moment but am seeking, so i am benefits. He wants to move in , ... (438 words)

My best friend is going out with the guy I love

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26 February 2009 (F)

- So I've liked this guy for about 3 years, but I've never had the courage to do anything about it because I just get tongue-tied around him and it wasn't like he liked me anyway. A few weeks ago he became good friends with one of my best friends (who is in a different friend... (345 words)

I'm not really sure what happened with our relationship

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently asked for a break from my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years and I suddenly got frustrated and tired that he was now depending on me financially. i have been the one funding our meals transport and everything. He has a job that is not well paying but he has ... (461 words)

How to get rid of hair between legs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What is the best and easiest way to remove hair between legs? I don't like being hairy between my legs and it's somewhat annoying. If you could give me tips, and possibly a new and easier way that would be greatly appreciated. Shaving my pubic hair above my penis is simple.... (79 words)

How soon is too soon to propose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

- Hi Auntys and Uncles I really need your opinions advice on this.. To put it simply I want your opinions on how soon into a relationship is too early to propose? The complicated bit is my divorce from my my ex is not yet final(will be in 5wks) and so will my boyfriends ... (225 words)

Wearing previous engagement ring

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend insists on wearing previous engagement rings -- yes, she has a few of them -- when we go out together. When I introduced her to my family, my sister took me aside and asked if I had something to tell her ... of course she drew the natural but incorrect conclusion. ... (100 words)

I can't figure out my ex's purpose

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me in a text message and wouldn't call me to discuss it until I called her. Then she promised another call that never came. Finally I emailed her asking for closure and she gave it to me, saying she'd want nothing more than for us to be friends. Sinc... (207 words)

Is he gay? Or just experimenting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband likes to have phone sex with gay guys he meets on the party lines and he recently asked me if i wanted to put my dildo in his ass is he gay or just wants to experiment?... (39 words)

Manipulated, lied to, and cheated on by whorehouse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do! My husband and I have almost been married for a year and we have a 5 month old baby. He had been going out a lot for "business" and would never answer my phone calls or even call me regardless of the fact he was out WAY after the time he promised... (581 words)

Can an emotionally abusive man change with therapy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - can a self centered emotional abusive man change with therapy or it is a long up hill battle. He only sees things one way his - even if everyone disagrees. He is stubborn. He even gets mad at doormen and if you dont agree with his views on everything than forget it. An... (91 words)

Try again? Or lost cause?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

26 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay there is this woman I care for, I have know here for eleven or twelve years, since we was kids. Now she is grown up and has one child, and getting ready to have another. She has told me that the relationship she is now is over but she cannot afford to live on her own. Of, ... (108 words)

My vagina hurts after sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in my relationship for three years and my boyfriend is great! When we started having sex (two weeks into our relationship) it was good! There were no problems at all. For about a year now, everytime we have sex my vagina hurts after it! its like its been over st... (145 words)

I can't stop arguing and crying!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me. I love my boyfriend, he treats me like a princess. Lately I seem to start arguments and I moan about everything! I am certainly not the fun loving person I was when we met! I cry nearly everytime I see him, I just get upset at little things! I think... (153 words)

My husband is "gay for pay"?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Earlier this week I came home from work and found my husband in the living room on the floor writhing with another guy. The windows were blacked out. I asked him what the hell he was doing, and he was brazen enough to say he was making guy-on-guy porn for women, and said ... (197 words)

Should I wait? Or make the next move myself?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so ive known this guy for around a year, he randonly added me one night on msn soo we got chatting and it turned out that he lived pretty close to me, in the same city/town. i never trusted people online, with all the stories you hear and stuff, but he was on webcam, he ... (410 words)

My girlfriend does not wish to make our relationship official, do you see a future for us?

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf split with me a few months back but now we see each other again. It's all unofficial so we not bf and gf as such, in name only. All of her friends knew we split but none of them know we seeing each other again, and thats how she wants it to stay. Our relationship is ... (125 words)

How can I win back my lady's trust?

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26 February 2009 (M)

age - I've been in a relationship for 20 years, my partners self esteem has hit an all time low, and she doesn't feel she can trust me. I've been working in a pub with a girl who I've got on really well with, I considered us to be friends but my partner thinks taht I was having an ... (139 words)

Are these signs of him wanting to break up?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend always ignores me whenever he sees me, he doesnt call me anymore and when i call him he makes up excuses and says "someone else is calling, ill call you back" and when i say "i love you" he'll say it back but it's more of an "i dont care what you think" and it ... (98 words)

My fiance has a problem with her own past and I'm starting to feel like I'm held hostage in this relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been in a LD relationship and have been engaged for just over nine months. I really love my fiance very much but we have recently been experiencing problems. We disagree on many issues and cannot seem to compromise as we both are stubborn. My fiance has a past which she ... (317 words)

I don't mind if I become pregnant but my fiance is not sold on the idea

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I wonder if anyone can help me here? My fiance proposed to me at the weekend. That night, we consumated the engagement. We didn't realise, until I felt him cumming inside me, that the condom had split. He uses an ultra-thin make so it wasn't that noticable that it ... (195 words)

He wants to go on a trip without me and I don't feel comfortable about it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have just 6 months ago taken my husband back after a few years apart. We separated somewhat ammicably after he started seeing another woman (which only lasted a few months). It was hard but I got over it and we became friends again and have been for years. ... (292 words)

He is very good at running away and hiding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Everytime he gets angry over anything he runs and hides for days, even weeks. he is very good at running away and he admits it. What to do with this behavior... (35 words)

He cannot handle any emotions and I am the one who suffers for it

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26 February 2009 (F) age 51-59 - He gets angry over things I dont cause and then turns it around and says I caused it. He then overthinks the event and talks to all his older women friends he is 53 they are 65-70. I feel that they are enabling his abusive behavior since they would rather have him escort them ... (252 words)

Does this mean I could still be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so on february 16th, my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex. On february 18th i took the morning after pill. And now today i just got my period. It is right on schedule, neither early or late. Does this mean that i still might be pregnant? cause its been like 10 days so ... (80 words)

What do women 'really' want?

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26 February 2009 (M) age 36-40 - I've come to the realisation that when women talk about they want in men, the words cannot be trusted 100% - sure they may be some truth in what they say but not entirely or either not at all. Actions and behaviour prove the opposite. Women tend to say things that are things ... (194 words)

He dumped me because I nagged too much. Is it too late?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! Basically I'm writing because my love broke up with me. We had been dating for around 1 year. We had an intense relationship and it also got a bit serious because we would spend time with friends and his and my family. I used to feel a bit insecure and una... (180 words)

Size and performance anxiety during sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have had substantial anxiety developing related to my marriage and sex. I was a little bit anxious when we were first married because we did not have sex with each other until we were married. I was rather anxious over size and performance, because a previous girlfriend told ... (482 words)

She can't show me any love and doesnt' want any

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 41 and was in a serious relationship with a 24 year old woman for over a year. She split with me 6 months ago, said she loved me but couldn't be with me. We had no contact for a few days then she called me in tears saying she loved me and couldnt bare to be without me in ... (271 words)

I'm 27 and not interested in sex

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do i feel like this? Im 27 and not interested in sex! I have a gorgeous boyfriend of almost 2 yrs and we have a beautiful 8 month old daughter. I do feel tired a lot what with lookin after my daughter all day so maybe thats why, but even when im not i still dont feel ... (76 words)

My husband has become obsessed with bullying

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old businesswoman and my husband's 26, and works in training. and we earn good money, and have a good social life, and are well-liked in our social circle. In the past few weeks, however, my husband's become obsessed with bullying. Not being a bully, but preve... (241 words)

Are all women the same?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am just curious, for those of you (women) out there who are experienced, is there a difference between sizes? If it's small you cant feel much, bigger feels fuller? And if she's loose or tight? Which do you (men) perfer? Are all women about the same or different? I hear men ... (63 words)

Will he get tired of me sending sexy pictures to him?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Fwb, i am female and he is a male we were messing around with each other and i had my hand downstars and i was playing with my hand there and put it back but a bit too hard and i hurt him a little i know i should be a bit more carfull and i said would u like me to say sorry so ... (165 words)

I want him to be happy but am I wrong to ask for a little bit more attention than him simply sitting next to me?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance came to the UK a year ago and has been unhappy in his job for a longtime with the commute and the stress etc and I have been there to support him and try and cheer him up. Recently he has started a new project in his spare time which he is really motivated by but it ... (161 words)

Did I make a mistake by confronting the woman I suspect had an affair with my hubby?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, a few years ago I think my husband had a affair with his cousin's wife who is also my best friend. I never caught them in the act but my instinct tells me something was going on. Signs after signs like she knew things about him before I did or he would want to go see a ... (319 words)

Girlfriend at sleepover,may be drinking

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are 16 and have been going out for just under a year now, we love eachother to bits, had our first time together etc, i couldn't imagine my world without her at the moment. Tody she told me she's going to a sleepover at her friend's house tomorrow and 2 of ... (278 words)

My wife feels sex is nasty

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a happily married man, And have been for ten and a half years. When we first got married my wife and I had a great sex life. We have four kids and still love each other very much. My problem is that now my wife says that she feels sex is nasty. She says that even when she ... (120 words)

I'm losing feelings for my g/f and interested in my friend

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my current girl friend for four years, mostly happy times. Lately, however, we seem to get into more arguments and almost every time we do she immediately jumps to the "should we break up" phrase as a solution. I know this seems one-sided, but I really am tryi... (273 words)

AT 13, should we have sex?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and so is my boyfriend.we are really deeply in love with each other.we have been going out for 4 in a half months.we both want to but should we have sex ?... (34 words)

Do I support him forever or move on?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 11yrs. My husband has been staying home for the past two and a half years with my daughter. Btw, I have three children, two of them are in school. Basically, I have been working to support my family. My husband worked in the past but never really kept a ... (198 words)

Disappearing partner

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi my partner and i got married in Jan in New York after being together a year in a long distance relationship... He is in the states and i am in the UK. We have agreed that he is going to come to the UK in the summer to stay a year and then go back to the states. Problem... (226 words)

She dumped me and then gets a job at my work!

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - What do I do? My girlfriend dumped me less than a week ago. It was a complete shock, she said she loved me and gave no sign of leaving right until the moment she admitted to cheating on me during the last 3-days. It is very painful, I thought I met my soul mate and never ... (137 words)

Should this bug the hell out of me?

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my girlfriend, she is my only concern in this world, and I've let her known that many times. There are things I've told/named her that I've never told to anyone else, namely ex-girlfriends. She tells me I am "her life, her sky, her everything." She says she's ... (208 words)

Ex-girlfriend problems

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 3 years recently broke up with me. To give some background on the situation...We both are from and went to school in NYC (and both plan on staying there). She is still a senior and I graduated from college last year. For this year, however, I moved to Chicago ... (840 words)

Did I make a mistake by being easy?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been emailing this man from a personal ad he had advertised online that I responded to. We've been corresponding since the beginning of February. Made out a couple of times, today I had sex with him. He's not interested in a relationship. Did I make a mistake by being easy ... (162 words)

Could masturbation and smoking cause erection problems?

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a question to all the men out there and also the girls but mostly men. when i have sex with my girlfriend i sometimes get soft erections and it gets me mad and i cant get it hard no matter how hard i try. this one time i took a pill to make it hard and it worked but only ... (106 words)

How far should I go on this first hang out session?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm recently single from a 5 year relationship with a guy I planned on marrying. I'm 20 years old. I met this guy that is the brother of one of my friends. He's really nice and sweet and we've hung out twice since I met him in a group. Well, on Friday we're going out and ... (261 words)

After 10 years he finally tells me he's not a virgin?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Need Help.... Well I've been together with my boyfriend for 10 yrs we recently moved in together before we get married by the end of the year.. but something ocured and well i'm very concerned and upset! In the beginning the virginity question popped up and well of course i... (223 words)

If he loves me, how can he hit me?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in a abusive marriage I love my husband but I can't do it anymore im to the point I hate him I don't want to have sex with him I pray that things will get better but he gets worse what should I do he says he love me but how could hit me... (55 words)

Should I trust that he isn't having sex with men?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I are soul mates. We have the best marriage of all our friends and everyone tells us that we look so much in love even after being together for sixteen years. We have 3 children,and have always been good parents. I recently found gay porn on my husbands computer... (289 words)

How can I avoid awkward moments?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I guess a little intro is due just to understand better, so here goes.. I just got out of a 3yr relationship about 3 weeks ago. I hadn't been happy with a lot of things but I tried staying in the relationship and make things work, only the problem wasn't with me but with the... (424 words)

Is he a commitment-phobe or a total control freak?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a better than average looking women who is nice and fun and have many friends. My current boyfriend gets upset when they say hello even though I introduce him. I feel his jealousy is way over the edge. He even got upset at dinner with my mother because I took 3 minutes ... (186 words)

How would she of gotten his email address if he wasn't a member?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i found a email from a girl in my husbands email box that had her email address. she claims to be from adult friend finder and it read this. hey its been like a month or something since we last chatted and I was thinking about you and decided to shoot you an email to say hel... (231 words)

My husband is a loser! How can I get rid of him?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is a loser! i knew that long time ago and was just in denial. Now, my problem is how to get rid of him. For the past 2 years we've been together he cheated on me 3 times, or at least that's what he admitted to, because i caught him; he physically abused me and to top ... (299 words)

Relationship Help! Cheating girlfriend, broken heart, sexual past.

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I really need help people, im am in a mental and emotional dilemma that is eating me more and more everyday, and i dont know how much longer i can take it unless i get some advice to get over something. I read articles and articles, but i cant get any answers. Looks like thi... (1621 words)

Should I fight for my love for him or just go our separate ways??

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years... and i just found that there has been another woman in his life for at least 4 months.... what should i do??? should i fight for my love for him or just go our separate ways??... (48 words)

Pregnant from this?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid,am afraid i might be pregnant. my bf and i usually use the withdrawal method when we have sex. a couple days ago after he ejaculated on my stomache, he wiped the sperm off myself and his self using a towel and couple minutes later we did another round. is it possible ... (73 words)

How do I deal with the annoying age comments I keep getting?

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26 February 2009 (F)

- Thanks to anyone helping me out on this one. Ok, maybe I am too sensitive but in the last week alone three different guys have brought up my age. I am in my late forties, not exactly train wrecked yet but guys have either said I look good for my age and then tried to backtrack ... (166 words)

We plan on getting married, but I want kids and he doesn't!

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We plan on getting married someday he doesn't want kids and I want a big family and always have! How can we make this work?... (25 words)

Sex is a curse not a blessing

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am still to think that been beautiful, sexy is a curise not a blessing. I am 5'8, tone slender body. Every body in my school, both high school and college thinks I am beautiful. both male and female. I am into fashion. But I have never had a boyfriend. Most guy tell my ... (182 words)

Tied up again

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi anuty,last few days I feel like a prisoneer...2 days ago my girlfriend got me drunk,seduced me into sex and then handcuffed me to her bed at her place..slowly she began to remove my trousers and...then all of a sudden she whipped me with my belt and then gagged my mouth with ... (142 words)

I bought a ring to ask him to marry me..

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend thinks I am cheating on him; he came home and I was hanging out with one of the people he works with; but we've all hung out before ;and I didn't think anything of it. All me and this guy did was talk about tattoos, concerts, some korean chick he liked, and how I ... (111 words)

Hate him

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So ya I talked about this boy that love me and is obsessed with me ya I said I hated him and his mom his mom called me and was like don't talk to him anymore but I did call him some other mean stuff he yelled at me once and I didn't like that then he threatened to beat my ... (182 words)

What do the dating titles mean?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm confused about the terms in dating. What does "friends geting to know each other" mean? What does "talking" mean? what does "dating" mean? What does a relationship mean? If you go off with someone for the the weekend are you considered dating? And should you be exclusive ... (52 words)

1st blow job,what do I do?

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, weve been goin out for almost five months, after almost breaking up she hasnt been givin too much attention, and today she said how really "wanted" me, and she got rly horny, so we started thinkin about "goin somewhere", eventually, she kinda tells me ... (118 words)

Why does she act that way

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - it's this girl at my school she weighs more than me.and she constantly calls me fat.when i call her fat she gets angery.than people say i bully her but she starts it.what should i do?... (35 words)

I'm sick of being a baby sitter to her! What can I do?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Ever since kindergarten, I've been going to school with this girl named Karen*. Throughout elementary school, I just kind of had the whole little play-together-on-the- playground-from-time-to-time kind of relationship with her. She had her own little group o... (491 words)

Often seeing a male teacher after hours

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a female student who has yet to reach the age of 18, and I think that something may be wrong with the relationship I currently have with my male science teacher. He's almost 30 and has been married for less than a year. Although I'm reluctant to say this, I've probably ha... (647 words)

He says he wants to leave..he's not happy

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this man for 14 years now, we have a 9 year old son. We have had our ups and downs, but have remained strong. I have had a problem feeling insecure due to a weight gain. I never wanted to go anywhere because I felt that I was so fat and he is so physically ... (351 words)

He left me for no reason

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The same bf tht gtt mad @ me over a picture tht he didn't get just dumped me...I tried to ask him y he wz mad buh he would never tell me and then he was like just don't talk to I'm done with you but he didn't give me reason I've been nothing but good to him...I'm so ... (62 words)

They tell me he'll realize he made a mistake and will come back

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me. We started dating at 17 and I know he wants to experience flirting with chicks and getting wasted at the bar and doing whatever other guys do. We've decided to hang out as friends. His friends and family say give him a bit and he will realize he ... (104 words)

Cheated on b/f now I'm 7 months pregnant

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my b/f back in september and now im 7 months preg. well my b/f found out about it and left me. it is killing me not bein with him or talkin to him all the time he said he might take me back if the baby is his but thats not good enough i want to be with him now i ... (88 words)

Your opinions needed here! Does he like me as a friend or more?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy I’ve known for about five years (he’s actually a former college prof of mine; he is not married). We’ve really kept in touch since I’ve graduated, emailing and sometimes talking on the phone. He has been flirting with me since last summer, constant eye contact, sit... (251 words)

My husband supports his 33 year old sister who is perfectly able! How do I tackle him about this?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is only twenty four years old and he's very established for his age and he works very hard. But he takes care of this thirty three year old sister and he has been. Does anyone think this is weird that he would fully support her five thousand dollar a month ... (123 words)

I feel as if I'm gonna puke... could I be the big P???

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so I'm 16 years old. I took birth control pills for about 6-7 months, I stopped taking them about 2 months ago because I missed a pill and me and my boyfriend thought I'd gotten pregnant. So the past couple weeks I've been having a fever and sore throat and a feeling like ... (82 words)

Unfortunately, I love him, and that feeling isn't going to go away. What do I do here?

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26 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 18 years old and I have liked my teacher since I was 12. I can say honestly and genuinely this is not a wind up or fantasy. I am going to share this in the hope that i might get some advice for myself and also warn others of the potential circumstances one faces wh... (1569 words)

I'm never "in the mood" after I masturbate. Is this normal?

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26 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 14 year old guy and I think I've been masturbating for 3-4 years now. Yeah I enjoy it and it really feels good, but after I masturbate I'm always, always not in the mood any more, I would think that I'd be able to savour the moment after my climax.. but instead I end ... (101 words)