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writes:my question is..if i didn't bleed on our first intercourse does that mean I'm not virgin anymore? I'm worried about it..i feel that something has changed from him towards me...what will i do..i know in myself and god knows that he is the first man who touches me...please help me..what will i do... Reply to this Question
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reader, x_Raquel_x  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Hi there... honey please do not stress over this... I didnt bleed my first time either... this doesnt make you any different from any other girl, some girls bleed others dont. believe me you & i are the lucky ones. so smile and enjoy it.
Hope I have helped.
Love Raquel xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): It is a common misconception that girls have to bleed their first time having sex.
It's actually a fact that most girl's don't, all it means is that you broke your hymen another way. The hymen is very easily broken in activities such as riding a bike or horse, falling, inserting a tampon etc.
If he's got a problem with you not bleeding the first time, then to be honest he's an idiot. He should trust you when you say he was your first, there's nothing else to it, explain to him that you lost your hymen in a non sexual way when you were younger.
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