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female
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anonymous
writes:I hacked into my bf's email accounts and found out that he's been downloading an excessive amount of porn: he's downloaded close to 50GB worth of porn in the span of one week. Is this normal? I am just so utterly disgusted with this right now. I mean I have no problem with him watching porn, but I've always imagined it to be once or twice a day. But 50 GB worth of porn in one week?! The thing is that I cannot confront him about this either because I am at fault for invading his privacy. Is this something that I should be upset about? Or should I just brush it off as if it's nothing? Does he have a problem?
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reader, nichiren  +, writes (26 February 2009):
 Your only issue is the amount of porn you found when you hacked into his account?
Is it affecting your relationship in any way?
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reader, angryunka +, writes (21 February 2009):
If you satisfied him, he would not be looking at porn.
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reader, TannedDoll  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 heyy how did u hack his email?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): You've been nosy and interfering and you don't seem to realise that, but no problem.
People like choice, it doesn't mean he's watching it all at one time. I download thousands of things, but most things I never, get the chance to look at.
People who spy and snoop, usually get things totally wrong. It's none of your business as long as it is not affecting you, leave the poor man alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): You hacked into someone's private account, do you have a problem with respecting people's privacy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Let's put it this way: what is your problem exactly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso you think 60 videos in the span of one week is nothing? From his email I can see the accounts (with login names and passwords) he created in several porn sites. After logging into those porn websites, you can see how much porn torrents he has downloaded and uploaded.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): 50 gigs is nothing. Let's say the average video is 750 megs to 1.2 gigs. That's roughly 45 to 60 videos. However, how did you find out he downloaded 50 gigs? Checking emails wouldn't tell you that.
1) You have a problem with this, confront the problem.
2) You invaded his privacy, deal with it straightforwardly and accept the consequences.
3) If you cannot accept any of this, break off the relationship. Alternatively, you can try to work out this 'problem' you have.
I said "this problem you have" because this is a problem you have with him. This isn't really his problem.
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