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Will he ever get over her and be with me?

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22 February 2009 (F age 26-29 - My friend told me he likes me. I like him too but he still likes another girl and the other girl treats him like crap. I don't understand why he still likes her. I wanna date him but he said he's not ready to date anyone... not even the other girl. Will he ever get over her ... (62 words

Dreams about my girlfriend cheating one me...

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Alright so I have a girlfriend, yes I am a lesbian. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years. And lately I've been having dreams of her cheating on me with her ex's, when I say ex's I mean every single one that she's had. These dreams are every night and I think about ... (87 words

Any tips so that he lasts longer than one minute?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, and have fooled around a lot before that. He never seems to last long... At all. Is there any tips that could help him control himself so he's not done in one minute?... (45 words

Do I keep chasing or do I just leave her alone?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - Please assist me. There is this girl who is a close friend of mine, I told her I loved her and wanted her to be my gf but she said no and we still stayed on as friends. But I was always telling her that I loved her until she told me she had gotten a bf, but I still kept on ... (141 words

I thought he was the one, he can't be if I keep wanting to break up with him though, can he?

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22 February 2009 (F age 26-29 - I dont know what to do, I'm going out with this boy and I really like him but we always argue and I doubt our relationship and sometimes I want to dump him but don't know if I should. I met this guy over IM and one of my friends knew him so I went and met him. When we first ... (124 words

Why has my boyfriend's interest in sex with me waned?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 2 years and I usually have a normal sex life, but for the last 3 weeks we haven't had sex once. I know I could initiate it, but I feel like if he REALLY wanted to have sex I wouldn't have to. He usually has a higher libido than I do. I asked him if anything's ... (150 words

Help in masturbation...

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - This is a little embarrassing, but I need answers! I'm 19, have NEVER masturbated before in my life but I'm not a virgin (I've only had one partner) and the guy I'm with now doesn't believe in sex before marriage. I like him a LOT and I can see myself with him for a long time, ... (182 words

Since my hymen was already broken from sports, why did it hurt?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were at my house alone today and we ended up in a play fight over the remote. Well, it resulted in sex. We got so turned on that we got physical. It was unprotected and it hurt. I was a virgin and this was my first time. I don't know if he came inside me, but ... (77 words

I don't think I want to carry on, what can I say to end this relationship?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Well... Im thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend who has latly really got on my nerves... But the things is im really bad at breaking up a realation ship, i like dont have the confidence this probly sounds stupid but i feel really bad and i dont know i just can do it... ... (369 words

I'm having mixed feelings... What should I do?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - So my guy friend asked me out the other day and on friday we hung out I was really excited to see him since it has been a year since I've seen him. I feel like when he asked me out I was just going along with it but I was pretty sure I wanted to go out with him..I'm having ... (101 words

What should I think about this present?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - hi quick question what should i think about this? a guy gave me an engraved pen with my name on it for my birthday?? ... (36 words

I like him but he only calls when he wants to have sex!

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been "hooking" up with this guy for a little over a year now, and before I never really thought a relationship would work between us and just enjoyed merely having sex with him. Lately he hasn't been returning my usual late night calls and text and only wants to get ... (115 words

In love with someone I cannot have

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22 February 2009 (M age 41-50 - what is there to do when you love someone like you've never loved anyone before and that person does not correspond you and is with someone else and you feel like you got no chance and you've done all you can?... (41 words

I will feel like an idiot if I ask her out

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi On Friday last week I asked a girl to the cinema via msn. She was really hinting before. I told her mate I liked her and when I said to her I shouldn't of told her I feel like an idiot she replied that I shouldve done it. Then after that I Said "so if you don't mind me askin... (163 words

I'm growing up and find some things not as interesting anymore

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi there I really think I have changed within a period of weeks/days and want to know what I should prepare myself for. Well our school has broken up from half term and we go back tomorrow. Over the holidays I have really changed. The week before I was a shy guy that wasn't t... (188 words

Crush on someone you've never even met?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Is it stupid to have a crush on someone you've never even met? I have spoken to him on msn and on the phone and stuff but I've never seen him in real life. I feel really stupid but I REALLY enjoy speaking to this guy. Shall I suggest that we meet up? - its not like he isn't who ... (83 words

How should I kiss my friend?

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22 February 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hey, ok so my friend and i are crushing, umm friday were gonna go out, with a couple of friends, the thing is that, what if i want to kiss him or he approaches? I haven't had my first kiss. I wouldn't know what to do. people talk about all these tongue tricks. can you please ... (65 words

Is it normal not to be able to get my nipples hard?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend loves my breast, even though i, at 16, don't, and he loves to play with them, and i like it. but he like it when my nipples are hard, and i rarely have hard nipples. my nipples are rounded completely. the only way he gets them hard is when he sucks on my boobs. ... (70 words

Want to send ex bf a flirty birthday message that doesn't push it too far. Any ideas?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - It's my ex's birthday on February 25th, and I still really like him (after 5 years). We met up recently after not seeing eachother for 5 years, and my friend thought he was still fond of me. Anyway, I usually give him a happy birthday text! The thing is, I really don't kno... (184 words

Shall I go looking for love? Or will love find me?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hey, This is just a general relationships question and I would like to hear people opinions..The question is... Shall I go looking for love? or let love find me?....... (29 words

Lived together and argued. Living separately, we're fine but now she wants to move in together again.. I'm worried.

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22 February 2009 (M age - Me and my girlfriend lived together for over 2 years. However towards the end it got very strained and we were arguing every few days. Sometimes we got on great, but other times I received verbal abuse and occassionally physical too In the end she moved out, a month a... (333 words

Husband emotionally cheated a year ago. Now I feel very unattractive and suspect the affair was sexual.

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22 February 2009 (F age - I have been married for 22 years my husband had an emotional affair with my friend and i have a feeling it was sexual but they both denie this how can i stop feeling like i do I feel like he destroyed what we had and i thought it was something special, its been a year since I ... (85 words

Bigger and better orgasm during masturbation. Any tips on how to get one?

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22 February 2009 (M age 36-40 - I have been masturbating for quite a while since really i was 13. i have had at times a big "OH WOW", orgasm. but not all the time. Are there any ways to get a really good orgasm? Are there ways to stimulate myself to make my orgasm bigger and better? And what things can i use ... (69 words

Told my bf he's have to work to see my new bra. How do you think he'll go about this?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi i teased my boyfriend and tried to sound sexy the other day by telling him when we meet tomorrow he is going to have to work to see a new bra that i have brought and he says that he likes a challange and is looking forward to it..but what things do you think he will come up ... (116 words

Losing virginty to a black man

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hello everybody,I want to address mostly to white girls who have lost their virginity to black men or have heard stories about it.One of my friends advised me not to do it with a black man first,because it might be more painful and stuff but I really feel more sexually attractd ... (71 words

One minute he's courteous, the next, he teases me!

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Men, I need your help. Or women if you have had similar experiences. The guy that I like is very confusing (I know which guy isn't, right?) One second he's offering to brush off my car and holds doors open for me. And the next he'll tease me with a smile on his face. Now no... (101 words

I just want to be happy but I don't want to make the wrong decision.

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - I need advice. I am married, I have two kids and I am 9 weeks pregnant. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. I love my husband but I still love my ex. My ex still loves me. I want to be with my ex but I don't want to ruin the relationship my husband and I ... (155 words

His porn watching is so bad I've even thought of having an affair!

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22 February 2009 (F age 51-59 - I'm 42 and in a relationship with a man who is 40. He has recently been injured at work and since then he would rather sit in the bedroom in front of the computer every waking moment.. He watches so much porn that one would think it would make him want sex but he would rather ... (226 words

How do I stop hurting so much? was I all wrong?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - my close friend cut ties with me completely. my friend was going through some personal issues. my friend would not make many plans with me. sometimes my friend would cancel plans and not give a reason. or my friend would say no to spending the evening with me and give no ... (163 words

Shall I just admit my feelings?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Well, I was given a guys email address from one of my friends and we instantly got along. I spoke to him alot and then we decided to go out for a walk together and I began to like him even more. I'm not sure what to do, I don't want to tell him plainly that I have feelings... (155 words

Is this guy just keeping his options open talking to me?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been talking to a guy online since November, we would go 2 weeks without talking and then talk... I started it. We haven't met in person. Lately he's been onlilne more so we talk. They say if a guy isn't interested he'll just not talk to you, however, he does initiate ... (262 words

Do I get on with my life or wait in the wings?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - I was with a guy for a year and a half and one day he told me we should take a break. After a few weeks this break became a break up. I sadly kept asking him why can't we just back together and he told me it's because he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend. They stayed f... (161 words

No matter what I do I just can't seem to make him cum! Help!!!!

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 18 and experienced and I'm 15 and still a virgin, but we've touched and I had oral for the first time with him and our sex life seems great but he can get hard, but cum with me. I mean I can get him hard in less than 2 minutes but no matter if I give him a ... (127 words

I feel so ugly!

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi, lately I've been feeling down. I am embarrassed with the way I look. I can't even wear a bathing suit without feeling humiliated. For one thing no one knows about it but I gotta talk to someone about it. I have hair on my belly and I'm so embarrassed... omg.... and not ... (97 words

I feel really guilty, should I tell her?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - A few weeks ago, a girl I liked a lot, kept asking me to buy her flowers. I was still under her influence because I liked her a lot. There was a new girl I liked, but at the time nothing had happened. Even though this other girl had a boyfriend she kept asking me to buy her ... (247 words

Need ideas on how to break up, without hurting her too much?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - I want to dump my girlfriend but i dont know how. We have been going out for a year and i have gone off her. I know it sounds really mean but i cant help how i feel. I have fallen out of love and dont fancy her anymore. I dont want to hurt her that much because i know it ... (81 words

Why am I so unlucky in love?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and never had a boyfriend and I don't know how to get one. At this stage giving is my only option. It's very unfair why I have no luck at all. The guys have it easier. I am shy and quiet with a weight problem.... (54 words

I really think I'm in love with him... but he has a girl...

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey, well I'm in LOVE with someone who has a girl. He's taken, but he never looks happy around her and I always notice him looking at me, I try to stay away and I do, but whenever I turn, his eyes are on me. When I found out that he had a girlfriend I thought that it would kill ... (101 words

Anal stretching?

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22 February 2009 (M age 51-59 - Does anal stretching cause long term damage to your rectum? I love receiving anal sex and have started playing with a large butt plug. Will I have to wear diapers later in life, or will my anus heal itself over time?... (41 words

How can I stop him from making me feel worthless?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and 8 months and I love him to pieces - more than anything but the problem is he does not make me happy. A few reasons are: 1) He will never admit he plays any part in any argument we have- he will always make me feel guilty into... (331 words

He accused me of cheating, I wasn't, called me after 2 months, and hung up, should I call him to get answers as to why? Need help!

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - There are some things I need to say to him and get my questions answered. I feel like I need to let things out and also ask him why he accused me of cheating when he had no proof and why he broke up with me.( he didn’t really say it but he just ignored me for 2months) I ... (266 words

My friends say I shouldn't trust him and that he's lying but I don't know what to believe.

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - I like this guy but he cheated on his ex of two years twice. He promised he won't do it to me and he wants a chance to prove it. My friends say I shouldn't trust him and that he's lying but I don't know what to believe. I really like him and I don't want to leave him. The other ... (84 words

She has taken over my group of friends and left me out, how do I cope?

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22 February 2009 (F - i know this sounds really petty but here goes I hang around with a large group of girls. We are in our mid-20's. I would say that I am probably one of the shyest of the group but we all have a laugh and get on. Over the past year a new "friend" has joined the group. Shes pret... (273 words

Pregnant, in undesirable relationship, what do I do?

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22 February 2009 (F age 51-59 - I had a one night stand got knocked up and moved in with him he doesnt love me or care he tells me he does but no sex no kissing has got physical I pay half bills and buy all food he gots out wiyh ex sleeps with her and others yet wants us to raise our baby together i have to ... (75 words

I need help choosing between them, advice would be appreciated?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - alright, to set it off, im bi, currently liking girls. problem is choosing between two of them. alright, heres the scenerio, basically, im torn between two ladies. when we start to look for significant others, we have certain "ideals" right? most of the time, we have to let... (281 words

Could anyone please tell me, what stage of puberty I am in?

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22 February 2009 (M age 26-29 - okay i really wnat to know what stage of puberty im in right now..i dont kow i'v got got armpit hair, hair around my anus, alot of pubic hair, some hair starting to grow on my chest/stomach, i've got a bit of a mustach and is starting to grow a little beard.. i would... (88 words

I need to talk through this break-up with my boyfriend with someone, can you help me please?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - I know that everyone goes through a break up and I am now currently going through one as well. We were on and off a lot and it was officially over yesterday. I am falling apart. I have talked to him and he is hanging out with his friends and he is doing fine. Everyone tells me ... (392 words

Why do girls pretend they don't like to perform oral sex?

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22 February 2009 (M age 41-50 - why do girls pretend to not like performing oral sex , then you find out that they love it? whats up with that?... (23 words

I'm 15, really like this 20 year old girl, will 5 years make a big difference??

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - I'm 15 living in Nottingham and I'm in a really difficult situation that I don't know how to resolve. I went to a house party the other day at my best m8s house. Before I went it was kinda common knowledge that I liked his sister (even he knew) but was cool with it. She is ... (338 words

He warned me, I spoke harshly to him, how can I show him I'm sorry?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - I thought friend B was a nice person.friend A warned me.I didn't listen.I stopped talking with friend A.friend B showed his true colors. I want to ask sorry to friend A but I am too ashamed to.friend A is a dream friend.I really hurt him with harsh words.On the other day he f... (83 words

Dating a 50 year old woman, she says she's pregnant, another man may be involved, yeeks, what now?

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22 February 2009 (M age 51-59 - i was dating a 50 yrs old lady by the way iam 45,i knew she was seeing other men but now she told me she is pregnant i dont even know what to say iam pro life its just a mess... (42 words

How did you get over your teacher, if you have been in my shoes?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey You may remember me from this... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fallen-for-my-math-teacher.html if not then read that and your will get up-to-speed. Anyway.. this post is just an additional cry for help really.. I really cannot cope with these feelings anymo... (296 words

He is separated yet still married, what should I do?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - I met a man recently who is 14 years older than me.He is married,but has been separated from his wife for two years.He also has two children.He told me that he is still married because he's worried about upsetting his children if he gets divorced,and also because of the ... (139 words

I am seeing an older man, I wish I knew if it's just for sex or he wants a relationship?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - i need some advice. I am seeing an older man and i spend 1 night a week with him, i also work with him and no one knows. I really dont know where i stand with him and i feel that i will look a bit mental if i start asking questions- he tells me he misses me, and he is ... (230 words

Do guys orgasm each time they ejaculate?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - mainly for the guys out there: do guys orgasm each time they cum?... (13 words

We want to be together but are pulled apart by different goals and plans for the future, what do you suggest?

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22 February 2009 (M age 41-50 - My girlfreind and i have been together over four and a half years. We both love each other dearly but there are problems in our relationship.We both want different things for the future. I want us to both live together, do some travelling then start a family. Unfortunately my ... (143 words

Should I stay with my horrible boyfriend, or take my kids and go?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. he use to tell me how much he loved me, and how he didn't want anybody else but me. i thought he was my soul mate. he came in during a tough time in my life when me and my son was struggling after his dad walked out on us. so when he ... (418 words

Should I tell her or am I being silly?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - A few weeks ago, a girl I liked a lot, kept asking me to buy her flowers. I was still under her influence because I liked her a lot. There was a new girl I liked, but at the time nothing had happened. Even though this other girl had a boyfriend she kept asking me to buy her ... (220 words

What stage of puberty am I in?

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22 February 2009 (M age - what stage of puberty am i in. Ive got pubic hair, i have hair around the anus and i just started armpit hair. I am also beginning to have hair around my chin i already had hair on my upper lip. Will my penis grow more. it is at 5 1/2 inches and im 15.... (59 words

Is there a way I can get confirmation that he opened my email (at hotmail) without him knowing?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - This guy and I have known each other for years and have become good friends. We're former prof-student (I've since graduated) but we get along very well. We've lately been flirting and ever since I was home for Christmas (where we both were flirting) he has since ignored me. I ... (351 words

What's the next step?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - I have just got back from spending a couple of hours with the girl I like this afternoon. Only our second one to one meeting. A bit longer than the first, which just over an hour and a quarter. This was just over two hours. I had a lovely time and am getting a good feeling a... (160 words

I'm worried I might cheat, what can I do if I like this other girl?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - hi, i have been in a relationship for about a year now, and it's had it's ups and downs but lately its been good. however i have been having feelings for another girl since last year and lately they have become very strong. i can't stop thinking about her, even when me and my ... (97 words

Is it weird that I'm a guy who likes to use dildos on himself when I'm with my girlfriend?

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22 February 2009 (M age 41-50 - for some reason i allowed my girlfriend to finger my anus during sex and now i love it but i feel as if im turning into a pervert. i first wandered was i bi but i have no interest in guys whatsoever. however i will admit to enjoying shemale porn. but i chunk this up to a wild ... (145 words

Is he really that into me or was I just serving a purpose?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - I joined a dating site back in Sept and after a few weeks I met someone. We went out on a date and met up a few times before christmas but with conflicting schedules we kept in touch casually. Im suppose I was old fashioned at teh begining and I would never have initiated ... (300 words

Do you always listen to your intuition? What should I do in this situation?

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22 February 2009 (F age - Do you always listen to your intuition,or you just say no to it? I do. I know long time ago ,that my intuition is suffering from repressing it, but if I go with it, I must leave my husband ,and that is the biggest step in my life , after I went to live this life with him. ... (156 words

How do you truly get over someone who you still think is still so amazing? How will I trust someone again?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - My now-ex boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, after 11 months (to the day.. 11 month anniversary) of dating each other. He said he just doesn't love me any more. I want to hate him, but I still love him. I accept his flaws, I want to tell him good morning every morning. I ... (311 words

I'm upset that he says he loves me yet he is seeing someone else...

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hey cupid, I need a great advice, I have been in a relationship for 2 years one of friendship with a boy of UK... we find each other random in one of the online games groups. The point is that we care so much about each other. 4 months ago we became more close. We speak... (225 words

I don't think he loves me... should I leave him?

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22 February 2009 (F age 51-59 - I live with a guy, he tells me he loves me but he never wants to kiss me or have sex with be but he wants me to give him oral sex when he watchs porn. He sometimes has sex with other girls! We have been living together 5 months. Should I leave him? I don't think he loves ... (63 words

How does he feel about me after our date?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - I went cinema with this guy. We had a good time. He sent me a text saying how great it was and we should go out again and gave some suggestions. I text back argeeing. Its been a week since, and he seems pretty different. Doesnt speak online first Hasnt text me even tho... (200 words

Is it me or is he a sex maniac?

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22 February 2009 (F age - my husband is opsessed with women of all types porn celibrities, calendar girls. he watches naked girls on line early morning then come and has sex with me makes me feel like he need them to turn him on and I am just a filler. I am getting breast implants for bigger breast for ... (218 words

Should I ask him out and risk hurting my best friend???

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - I really fancy the same person that my best friend fancies. Well, she says she is just friends with him but I'm pretty that she feels WAY more strongly about him than that. Thing is, she knew him before I did and she was the one who actually introduced us at school. I don't ... (78 words

Is my long distance boyfriend just "friends" with this girl or is there more to it?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hello readers! I have this problem with my Bf. He's been keeping such distance from me, reason being he's working extra hours and has very little time... Which obviously doesn't prevent him from contacting his Gf. Well, that's what I'm also trying to do at this moment... ... (224 words

My friend's girlfriend threatens to harm herself if he leaves her, what can he do?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - My friend is in a bad bad situation. So im here to ask your advice that i can pass onto him because no matter how many times i tell him to come on here hes like... stubborn. lol Ill cut this down so its a long story short but i hope you understand it as well! So i helped ... (310 words

How can I be accepted in this group and what can I do to make my wrists look more manly?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - I have a couple of questions that I'll just pile into this so it doesn't get annoying. 1) I have small wrists (width I mean) I'm 17 and I wanna be manly, and well... this aint doing it for me what can I do to get em bigger/better size? 2) I'm trying to get into this grou... (131 words

How can I tell my shy girlfriend that her pubic hair is turning me off sex?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hey I've been with a girl 18 months now, And everything is ok. Only thing is I REALLY have a thing against pubic hair, I'm not a shallow guy or anything it's just a REAL turn off for me. Everyone has things with make them excited and turns them off and pubic hair is just ... (134 words

Approaching people

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22 February 2009 (M age 36-40 - Generally, at parties I get concerned when talking to new people that they might not be as interested as I am in conversation. If I'm in conversation with someone and they say they want to go to the rest-room, do I wait for them or do I move on to someone else till they come ... (159 words

Obsessed with porn, how can I slow down?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - I dated a guy for two years. We had sex countless times. He then decided to cheat, so we broke up. Four and a half months later, I'm now with another guy and he doesn't believe in pre-marital sex. I totally respect that and all, but since we started dating (a week ago), I've ... (88 words

I don't trust him because he cheated in the past!

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi there I need your help! I've been going with my boyfriend for almost four years well kind of. The thing is we went together for 6 months he treats me like crap, he cheated on me and everything but we got back together a year later and now we've been together 3 years but I st... (136 words

Have I totally scared her off by taking drugs that made me paranoid and needy?

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22 February 2009 (M age 36-40 - This is the first time I've ever posted on any site like this but I really don't know what to do and need some advice from impartial observers! This story revolves around a girl I met at university 4 years ago. We were in a few of the same classes together and we really hi... (1549 words

How to ask a guy you like out on a friend date?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hey well I'm a gay male, and I have a little dilemma.... Well I have a crush on one of my friends and I kinda wanna ask him out, as a FRIEND! My problem is, that I get kind of shy, loose, and bubbly and he ends up assuming I'm drunk.... sorry that's besides the point! ... (167 words

She only likes normal sex but I need to please her in other ways due to my PE, help?

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22 February 2009 (M age 36-40 - So, recently I wrote about my premature ejaculation problem. I am in my early 20's and after about a minute of intercourse I can't hold it any longer which really upsets me. I want to please her but a minute is hardly enough. Some said to do it again but once I cum I go very ... (171 words

How can I make our relationship fresh again?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. im almost 20 and hes 23. we have a very loving relationship, care about each other greatly, love spending time together and can always make each other giggle. however i think im the kind of person who always wants too much. wh... (189 words

I don't know what I did wrong?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - Told this bloke i was sorry i messed things up between us just when we fell out found out my gran was ill and that i just wanted to see him. He said i hadnt messed things up at all just he had a lot on his mind at the time and wasnt really ready for seeing anyone. I mentione... (129 words

Whens the right moment to kiss?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - My ex said he didn't kiss me because it didn't feel right. I know i was shy and he was being respectful, but i want to know when does it feel right, whens the right moment etc i still haven't my first kiss and feel insecure thanks for any help x.... (51 words

I am very angry at my mother, can I have your advice?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hiya, i need some advice as at the moment, i am very angry at my mum. To cut a long story short, i have been with my fiance for nearly 4 years, and we plan to marry next November in a different country and hopefully plan to live in this country and start a new life togethe... (754 words

I live with my b/f and have waited for years for him to get divorced, should I quit?

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22 February 2009 (F age 51-59 - HI, My relationship with a man has been going on for 8 yrs, thing is when i met him ,him and I were still married but separated from our spouses, He had his home and I had my own apartment. I was only separated a year and then filed for a no fault divorce, his was more ... (428 words

How should I tell my partner that I want to have kids?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - ive been with my partner now for over a year and im 21 and hes 22 i wanna have a child but i dont know how to tell him; he has already got a 3 year old from a previous relationship and hes a good dad but he could also have another one which is a few mounths but hes waitin to ... (336 words

My friend's b/f is a playboy, what can I do for her?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - my friend usha is 19 yrs old and her boyfriend navin is 25yrs old. They have great realationship but due to some reasons they have not married . No problem the guy is of playboy nature because he has tried to touch me also but the problem is when usha went to meet him he forc... (89 words

How can we make our first time amazing and perfect?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have decided that we are ready to take the next step and have sex for the first time. We are both virgins and are totally inexperienced(we've been naked together before and have played around a bit.) So any ideas on how we can make our first time together ... (60 words

I feel like we're going round in circles and there's no way out.

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - I feel like I'm in an utterly impossible position. Where to start? Ok, I'm a first year university student and have feelings for one of my best friends here. Likewise, she has feelings for me. We've only really talked about it the last 4 or so weeks...mostly having come about ... (339 words

Is gold root safe or dangerous for a 26 year old man to use

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22 February 2009 (M age 41-50 - I'm a 26 year old man who was wondering how you can get hold of gold root and also wondering is it safe to take. I've heard it's meant to be a safe alternative to viagra.... (37 words

Could I be pregnant and when should I take a test?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have been taking the combined pill, but there have been days where I have taken it late or missed on. I had unprotected sex with my partner and now we are worried that there could be a possibility of me being pregnant. Unfortunately it was not possible to get hold of the ... (69 words

Am I totally wrong for not being forgiven?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - If you expect your friend to be a perfectionist and a true friend, would you not have to be the same? My friend was going through some issues in her life. from this point on, she would cancel plans on me, or if I wanted to invite her to spend time she would say she can't...... (251 words

She's muslim and she's lesbian AND she's unhappy because of the flack she gets off her family!

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend. She is so special to me, she is my everything. We have been through so much together. I love her and she loves me. There is only one problem. She is a muslim, so it is frowned upon on her religeon to be a lesbian. Most people accept her for who she is ... (277 words

Will this always hurt her?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - hiya :) well am 14 and i dont really no how to say this so here goes....... my gf of 2 and a half months is 15 and im 14, we have played around and stuff but ive never actually fingered her. i was wondering if i fingered her properly would it still hurt her if i did it again. ... (83 words

Am I overreacting by thinking my b/f flirted with this girl?

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22 February 2009 (F - The other night when I was out with my bf, we just met this new group of guys and girls, and my bf said one of the girls that she looked just like Britney Spears. And she asked if that was a compliment and he said 'hell yeah, britney spears is hot!'. He then turned to me and ... (156 words

When on a break, is sex outside of a relationship ok?

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22 February 2009 (M age 36-40 - Dear Uncles and Aunts, etc. My relationship is starting to gear back to normal; however, I have to be patient until my lover returns to me in August. Knowing that we are getting back together has been a great relief. However, I am struggling to honour some of their requests, ... (285 words

Am I pregnant? We used protection every time!

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok, on valentines day, my boyfriend and i had sex and used protection. we did it again the day after, again used protection. and then we did it 4 days after that, but again used protection. im not on any pills or anything and i didnt take the morning after pill. is there mor... (73 words

Irritated by my sister in law's behaviour!

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22 February 2009 (M age 41-50 - hi, i am a male of 26 yrs not married n my sister in law is 24 yrs. my sister in law is acting strange towards me. she is married to my elder brother. the problem is that she teases me very often which is embarrassing. the other day when i was going towards the laundry room... (197 words

All my friends have boyfriends, I feel so unloved because I never had one!

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - I feel so left out! All of my friends yes all of them have boyfriends and I don't and I've never had a boyfriend. It's never really bothered me before but it's really starting to affect my self esteem I feel that it has to be something physically wrong with me because guys ... (83 words

My b/f is stalking me?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have a problem guys and i need your help. I am with a lovely guy well I thought he was. anyway he seems to want to change me and stop me going out with the girls or any of my mates for that matter. If i do go out he appears from nowhere and says he was out with his mat... (131 words

Am I a crazy mom?

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22 February 2009 (F age 51-59 - Hello, I've been married 16 years. I was pressured into this marriage, and it's always been rocky. But I've chosen to make the best of things. My husband is an o.k. guy, but he has a temper and tends to take his anger out on me and teenage kids. (not physically) Especially ... (335 words

My manager doesn't want a girlfriend but flirts with me and texts, what shall I do?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - we both have been flirting with each other and we started doing stuff but stopped as he dont want a girlfriend yet but then we started having fun again and we are supposed to be friends and then we stopped it again and he stopped texting me and then out of the blue he text... (120 words

Can lifting weights stunt my son's growth?

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22 February 2009 (M age - my son lifts weights about 3-4 times a week. Can lifting weights stunt his growth?... (17 words

Why would my EX call me to tell me that?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - he accused me of cheating when i wasn't and ignoring me.. and then call me in 2 months to ask me how am doing and how is my BF doing(i don't have one) and telling me hes got a GF and that hes is happy and we can be friends and told me to look after myself and the he hanged up! ... (84 words

I'm 20 years old and I feel as though my mum is very controlling!

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22 February 2009 (F - Im 20 years old and I feel as though my mum is very controlling. I feel like I have missed out on so much in life because of her 'protection and love for me'. I wont go into the long history of all the stuff thats happened, because that will take way to long. The current... (408 words

Why did he change his mind so quickly, when it was him who wanted a relationship 3 weeks ago?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - I honestly can't believe I am writing this, but I am so confused right now and hurting. I have always managed to attract the wrong sort of men- mostly very self assured, arrogant guys who have always ended up hurting me and using me. I met a guy on the internet at the end of ... (476 words

I was told my b/f kissed someone else, he denies it, I don't know what to think!

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - i've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now... and everything has been ok... i had some trust issues at first because oft he way he acted before we started dating...but just recently i found out from a friend that he kissed another girl at the mall... now i no you ... (223 words

Can the doctor say I'm not a virgin?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I'm 13, I'm a virgin but my hymen ripped from being fingered and also "fist" by my boyfriend, I think it ripped because I was bleeding after he fingered me. Since I really am, still a virgin, Can my doctor say that I'm not a virgin since my hymen is broke or can it be ... (90 words

He fingered me..am I still a virgin?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend fingered me and I think he broke my hymen. Am I still a virgin?... (16 words

My wife never lets me help with our son!

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22 February 2009 (? age 41-50 - My wife never lets me help her with our son (hes 7 weeks) because I almost I dropped him of course I didn't mean to. I was holding him to get him some milk and I almost trippped on something and he slipped from my arms but I caught him in time (and scared him pretty good). He ... (101 words

How do I deal with being raped?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - How do I deal with being raped by my father constantly at 13-15? Ive been in counseling but it doesnt work for me I keep having images and flashbacks no matter what. And it doesnt help that ive been molested by my brother and cousins earlier on in life. Its very depressing and ... (122 words

My friend told me that we have to work hard to get back on track

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hello guys me and my best friend argued not too long ago.. So anyway i argue with her cuz i left due to an argument with my GF and they had no sign of me for 2 weeks..(me and her broke up) So anyway i come back and my best friend left me tons of messages on msn being pissed at ... (441 words

Why does a man change after getting married?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - hey guys,can any body tell me why man change after getting married.because i am sick of this life because of my husband.he was nice before marriage and care about me more than after . why this happening to me.sometimes i feel like i want just to leave and go somewhere... (51 words

Is it wrong to think about sex every time you see a cute guy?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Is it wrong to think about sex every time you see a cute guy or just a guy u see while your out walking ect... (25 words

Desperate to see her again

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22 February 2009 (M age 41-50 - I have a severe problem I think. I met my wife back in 1992. We remained really good friends, (she even hooked me up with her cousin) and I finally started dating her in June of 1994. I was VERY attracted to her. We could not keep our hands off each other. This continued well ... (326 words

Did he break my hymen? Am I still a virgin?

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22 February 2009 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend fingered me with three fingers, before him only one other guy had fingered me, but only with one finger, so I wasn't really stretched since I've never had sex. Anyway, he used three fingers. It hurt, and then afterwards there was some blood. I don't know if I ... (112 words

I think I'm sterile and have questions

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am 19 years old. I know I am young but my boyfriend and I who have been together on and off. Have sex regularly sometimes twice a day. He almost always cums inside of me. Not saying that we want a baby so young or nothings its just we know how much we love eachother if it ... (144 words

Does he just want anyone or does he genuinely want me?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok so I broke up with my bf but later on in the day i felt so horrible like a part of me was ripped away. So the next day at school he was being kinda mean to me (i can understand that) And as I was walking to class one of his ex gf's tapped me on the shoulder and started ... (236 words

Can my parents relationship affect mine?

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22 February 2009 (M age 36-40 - I was wondering if anyone else thinks that the type of relationship your parents have can affect the types of relationships a person has as they grow older. Like if your parents argued a lot when you were a kid if that will make you more prone to arguments? Or if your parents ... (73 words

What is this bleeding from?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were making out and he started fingering me, lets just say, harder than he usually does. It hurt, which of course, I expected the pain but when I went to the bathroom afterwards, I was bleeding but I ended my period 2 days before this happened so.. what is ... (56 words

When is the right time to have the sex talk with your BF?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - When is the right time to talk about sex with your bf?... (12 words

Does he love me or am I just someone to take up his time and space?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - So..does he love me?? Or am I just something to temporarily take up his time and space. My ex and I have been hanging out and having sex since November. We were together for 9 yrs, have 2 children and been seperated for 4yrs. I have never stopped loving him, and want to spend ... (246 words

Do I still have issues to work out before I can find a great guy?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm almost nineteen and I've never really had a boyfriend. I'm pretty, smart, and I think generally awesome but I've struggled with self esteem issues for most of my life. I'm now a freshman in college and now am more confident and can be myself. The thing is, I still don't ... (127 words

I really like him, but he's bi and I'm not sure how I feel about it...

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - i started seeing this guy, and i am really falling for him. i find out today that he might be bi. im totally straight, and i dont know if im really comfortable with the fact that he likes guys too. if i was left for a another guy, i wouldnt really know what to think. im all for ... (129 words

My friend and I like the same guy, should I tell her?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey, i need help. my friend and i like the same guy, she knows i like him and i think he likes me, but i dont know if i should tell her, and im scared that if he asks me out i wont know what to say. i dont want to hurt her or him... any suggestions.... (57 words

Was I right to end it with him over lying?

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22 February 2009 (F age 51-59 - I just broke up with my bf today over his lying to me. He is being scammed at work by a coworker and loaned this guy nearly $5000! The guy disappeared and never paid him back. When I got wind of this he told me he had only loaned him $500. Then I found out the truth later... (334 words

Is my son going to be tall?

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22 February 2009 (M age - Hi, i have a child growth question for anybody who knows what they are talking about. I have a son who just turned 15 and he is around 5'7 or 5'8. I wondering if he will be fairly tall. Im only 5'9 and my wife is 4'10 but he seems tall to be our son. Could he be picking up ... (142 words

We're not financially ready, but I really want a baby!

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I got back together after a very long 2 1/2 month split. He came back, and we are now happier than before. I love this guy with all of my heart, and we are waiting patiently for the right time to get married. Something else I want is a baby with him. I'm ... (187 words

I'm pregnant and the Dad wants me to have an abortion or give it up, what to do?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - Im four months pregnant by another man which was a one night stand. at the time I was not with my kids father now we are back together and he knows about it because I told him, now he wants me to have an abortion or to give up the baby after birth. I don't know what to do can ... (65 words

Should I tell my BF to tone it down in the bedroom?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a different relationship than most you could say. i am 16 and he is 27 but we are in love with each other and we dont see ourselves with anyone else. My boyfriend has like a fetish of spanking me and pulling on my hair when we have sex. I dont mind it ... (226 words

What do you think she's honestly saying with that message????

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22 February 2009 (M age 36-40 - my ex-girlfriend and i have been apart for a little over 3 months. She kept leading me on the first few months after breaking up. She'd say she still loved me and missed me and would call and text quite often. Up until a few weeks ago did i actually get final closure. She ... (230 words

My girlfriend's convinced I think she's ugly and think her friends are hot...

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22 February 2009 (? age 30-35 - My girlfriend has the worse self esteem issues. It all started when I check out her friend in front of her and say she (my gf) better looking then she is (I was a bit drunk as well). She didn't really care at first until we got home. She scream at me for not respecting her and ... (121 words

My friends breasts are "leaking" - does this mean she's pregnant?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay. So my friend (YES, my friend, I'm doing this for her because I want to know the answer as well) she's sexually active. Yesterday she told me that her breasts appeared to be "leaking" and she was afraid this meant she was pregnant. I did research and found out that bre... (85 words

What do girls like? Gift wise, surprise wise...

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - what do girls like? -gift wise -suprise wise -generally -having done to them in bed please reply all u women! x... (32 words

Last week he got a girlfriend, but I still think he likes me!

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey Umm, i have a huge problem. umm theres this guy at school, i really like him, hes nice and kinda shy. well me and my friends started hanging out with him and his friends. It seems like he likes me too, but heres the thing last week he got a girlfriend, people tell me he was ... (131 words

He's upset with me, how can I win him back?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - This guy I met 2 months ago. Since the beginning he seem to like me and he was Ok to me. It happens I entered as a contractor in his office, so he started working with me helping me a lot in what I did. We even talked about paying him commission over him helping me out. ... (140 words

My online man's advances are so sexual, how do I tell him that he's turning me off?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - i've been chatting to this guy over the last 3-4 months, he seems really nice, we just talk about school, family, parting the future.... recently he's started asking to see me on webcam (i havn't let in, yet) i kinda wanna do it because i feel like i can trust him, but his ... (89 words

How can I learn to make our sex life fantastic and have an orgasm with him?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - I am in a wonderful relationship with a man I really, really adore. I am happy in every respect of the relationship, except the sexual side. I'm not really sure what the problem is. It's quite complicated so I'll try to explain it as best I can. I have never had an orgasm w... (463 words

36A breasts, how can I make them look sexier and womanly?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hello again everyone, i have a bit of a query. okays i have 36a breasts and i was wondering about ways to make them look sexier and more womanly, just to make me feel better about myself, i always thought they were huge when i was growing up but now i feel flat chested and ... (83 words

How far along until I can know the gender of my baby?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - how many months pregnant do I have to be to find out what gender my baby is?... (17 words

Is it worth staying with him when he's so obsessed with asses?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do with my boyfriend in my position. He is obsessed with asses and this is probably why he loves my body, but I feel that he is a bit of a flirt. We work together so I can see him flirting, etc. That isn't what bothers me the most; he looks at a lot of ... (170 words

I'm deploying soon and need to be able to trust my wife and her bad drinking problem...

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22 February 2009 (M age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am having marital problems. My wife loves to party. The problem is, she doesnt know when to stop or slow down drinking. Im always afraid she will pass out at the wrong party and god only knows what could happen to her. Im in the military so Im not always aroun... (418 words

I'm 16 and still wet the bed, what can I do?

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22 February 2009 (F age 30-35 - okay horribly embarrassing question, i'm 16 and still wet the bed, what can i do? i've been to the hospital and they keep sending me off to gynecologists for internal exams... i really don't want that. anyone on any drugs that help, any ideas would be appreciated... (47 words

Where can I go to escape my husband when I'm ill and in debt?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have already read some of your posts to try to answer my question myself...but, they kind of all say the same thing. I'm a young stay at home mom, 30, with two small boys. I've been with my husband since I was 23. I worked a little but have none of my own money. As a fami... (260 words

My GF thinks I have the hots for this girl, but I don't!

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22 February 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hey, my girlfriend thinks I have the hots for a girl at our uni that I get on ok with and now I feel like she is being a bit rude to this girl who hasnt done anything wrong really. I can admit that we are both pretty comfortable around each other but there is NO chance of us ... (166 words

Why do I continue to think about this man?

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22 February 2009 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid. I am a female in my mid 20s. A few years ago I fell in love with a man that was much older than me, 19 years my senior. I was a student then and he was a visiting guest of the university. Neither of us intended to have feelings for one another but we developed... (186 words

Is it normal for a healthy guy of 21 to be this disinterested in sex, or is it just me?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - hi, me and my boyfriend are both 21 but have very different sex drives. I want sex pretty much every day, and I recon if pushed, he would want it once a fortnight (which sucks, because he is awesome). I'm well aware I'm very difficult to please, and apparantly nothi... (166 words

Is anybody else besides me bothered by how acceptable and common it is for people to cheat on one another?

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22 February 2009 (M age 36-40 - Is anybody else besides me bothered by how acceptable and common it is for people to cheat on one another? It bothers me a lot especially when I'm on here reading about people saying they've cheated and saying "Oops!" like it's no big deal and then people advising them not to ... (77 words

Can going on the contraceptive pill make you fat?

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22 February 2009 (M age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old boy who has problems making friends, see when i went to high school all I did was hang around one of my old friends from pre-school and to get those friends all that I really did was just followed them around until they accepted me as "one of the gang" but I ... (90 words

Help!!! How do I find out if he really loves me like he says?

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22 February 2009 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend always fight, we say we love each other but it feels like there is only sex and not love. How do I find out if he really loves me like he says?... (36 words

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