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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid, I have been seeing this guy for about 6 months now we are not boyfriend and girlfriend but we a understanding that we arent seeing other people he just isnt ready for a committed relationship and I respect that but the other day he forgot his cell phone it wasent my intention to look through it I just was picking his pants up off the floor and notice his phone I saw that he had some missed calls and text messages so I read it and said :this is my number in case you want to hang out sometimes I confronted him and he told me I was acting like a idiot and overeacting over nothing we havent spoken since I know I shouldnt have went through his phone but a couple weeks ago we a argument over some earrings I found on his dresser and after that I didnt trust him so my question is did I overreact or do I even have a right to be mad since we are not in a committed relationship
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reader, Full moon temptress1 +, writes (16 February 2009):
It seems to me you want more from this relationship that whats being offered.If you like him tell him how you feel,however you could risk losing him.You are alredy getting upset over the texts.If you continue you could end up getting more hurt.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (16 February 2009):
It sounds like he may be in other non-committed relationships, yes you are over reacting, as you both know where you stand and if you wanted more from him you should have made it clear to him.
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