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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't think my mom approves of my g/f

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been going out and have been living together with my girlfriend, who has Cerebral Palsy. We have both met my parents twice. I get that impression that she cannot get used for us being together. When I asked my mum what she thought about us getting engaged, she imp... (119 words)

I don't think my dad will like me having a date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, really like this boy, but i dont think my dad will like the idea of me having a boyfriend. He has asked me on a date to the cinema on valentines day and i dont want to lie to my dad about where i am and who im with. I really like him and its really hard. How do i tell my ... (64 words)

Dry sex..no possibility of pregnancy right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had dry sex with my b/f naked about a week or so. Accidently, he ejaculated when he was rubbing his penis onto my vagina. He kinda tried to insert, but did not insert it completely and he took it off immediately. (btw, I'm virgin so it didn't fit in.) Right after that day, ... (98 words)

I cheated on my g/f now she doesn't believe how much I love her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ive have cheated on my girlfriend that ive been with for over 2 years ..with her brothers girl that he has been talking to and i have been crying and crying and i told her what i have done and all i can do is cry i really do love her and she was my first for everything and same ... (326 words)

How can I save this friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I graduated from college a few years ago and have become really good friends with one of my professors. We've known each other for about five years and have become close friends for about 2 1/2 to 3. Since this last summer, when I got a job several states away, we have ke... (407 words)

Anal sex: What is like to give it? What is it like to get it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - akward question my girlfriend confronted me the other day and told me she wanted to try anal sex with me (her recieving of course) ive never tried it so i dont know what to expect can any guys tell me what its like to do that to a woman and can any galls tell me what ... (69 words)

Does your b/f or g/f text or meet you everyday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my bf for three months now. he broke up with me once because he was "confused" in his life, but we are back together. My question is, does your bf/gf text or meet with you everyday or at least three times a week or so? My bf barely texts or meets w... (140 words)

I like my partner to urinate in me, is that wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a gay male that has finally hit 30 and my boyfriend of 9 yrs is 43, but that's not the issue. a little while after my b-day, all these thoughts came to mind. it has been a while since me and my BF have had sex, but i am not sure if that is the problem. one of the "kinky... (151 words)

He wants to see me and another girl too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy who I know I am in love with, but he keeps telling me he doesn't want a relationship, but said he loved me too and really misled me. He is also seeing another girl as well which is killing me inside. He was honest and told me from the start she was ... (152 words)

I want him to be my prom date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I like this guy a lot. But I only see him like for 2.5 hours a week in classes/and stuff. We normally talk a lot and it's really fun bein around him. I reallyy like him, but I have no idea if he likes me too. literally no idea. is there any way I can maybe get clues? :) ... (98 words)

Girlfriend wants to see what else is out there!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, so here is an update on my situation. The girl that Ive been with for almost 5 years wants to see what else is out there. It has been an amazing relationship. We are our first everything and it means a lot to me, and I used to think to her. I saw her last night ... (692 words)

Break up with ex 9 months ago but I still miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I really need some help. I broke up with my ex 9 months ago as we had a very complicated relationship, I have tried extremely hard to get over him and I thought I was completly over him until today because I have just spoken to him for the 1st time in three mo... (158 words)

Former teacher "troubled soul"--how can talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had this teacher last year and he was a great teacher, but somehow this year, whenever I see him in the hallways, he just seems really sad. My friend even notices it and says that he's a "troubled soul". I don't know why, but I'm a nice person and seeing someone I know sad ... (115 words)

He only likes me as a friend..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya I'm going crazy over this situation I have got myself into. I started crushing on this guy a little while back. I got his MSN and we talked. On the first conversation (on MSN) we had...he kinda goaded me into delcaring my feelings. He said it wasnt reciprocated but... (128 words)

My b/f ignores me & flirts with other girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going to make this quick because I cba to type the full story. Ma bf and me been out since the begining of October. He had myspace b4 I did and on his b-day in November I was the first one to say happy birthday literally as soon as it hit midnight I text him saying happy ... (230 words)

Thinking of being on my own - I need your advice, would this be selfish of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Here is my story. When my husband and I first met, it was not love at first sight for me, but it was for him. Since getting married he has had a lot of insecurities that I had tried to get past, but as the years flourished it was getting a lot harder. When we were going ... (798 words)

What are the classic signs of a controlling man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I would love to know how one can know if a man is showing signs of controlling/possessive behaviour? Apart from breakup with the man who has these patterns, what can one do to avoid a breakup and heartache etc - is it possible for a man to overcome this behaviour? and what can ... (94 words)

My g/f is pregnant and now acting all weird

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Kay my friend told me she's 10 weeks pregnant (she cheated on her boyfriend with his friend and haven't told anyone yet besides me and other friend of hers) she took a home pregnancy test and it say she was going to be mommy. She completely freaked out and had a total melt ... (111 words)

I guess he only wants sex but it's hard to say no, help me out please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i really need advice because i dont kno if i should lose my virginity right now to this guy..he just got his license! and he plans on having sex. we are not together, but we have been friends for over a year and our relationship has been purely sexual, even tho im a vi... (373 words)

Men, would you let your partner sunbathe topless?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

7 February 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Hey i was just wondering what guys out there would let their GF/Fiance/Wife sunbathe topless in public? Or any women out there who knows if their BF/Fiance/Husband would let them, or if they still would if their partner would let them or not lol?... (46 words)

Many troubles and on top of it all, I fear my hubby will leave me, how can I stop feeling so bad?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age - i feel so lonely since my mum died and my son left home and my dad is losing his memory fast, i only have my husband left, i feel my worlds fell apart, i keep falling out with him and i think he will leave me too, and i will be all on my own and it makes me ill, how can i stop ... (67 words)

Why would she want to look for other guys so early after we broke up? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up a few weeks ago she said she had lost her feelings for me. She has admitted to talking casually to guy behind my back for a few months but claims to have never cheated on me. When I confronted her about it after the breakup she claims to not be interested ... (238 words)

I keep thinking how my ex cheated and mentally abused me and can't get over it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I hate the way my life is right now! I dont enjoy life. I dont find anything exciting. I have to really make an effort to get out of bed do cleaning etc. This is all because of an ex that emotionally and mentally abused me. Weve been spilt up 5 months with no contact. Apart ... (420 words)

Erection, ejaculation, but not intercourse, help! I'm his first.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - My husband can get erections and can ejaculate, but we never had sex. He'd never touch me and I'd always initiate, he would get an erection but no intercourse, he'd ejaculate by other means. He is 42 and I am his first. Please help. ... (44 words)

Why is it easier for guys to get a partner than it is for girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) age 41-50 - why is easier for guy to girlfreind then a girl to get a boyfreind, i find getting boyfriend next to impossible and i don't like dating web sites.i find guys don't like becasue i have a fat round face and short body thats out propertion,and chubby legs,i have never had a boyfri... (124 words)

I don't know what to think, why does he need a break?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay . its really hard for me . im only 16 and im feeling the bad part of love already.. i had a boyfriend who was my life we lasted 2 years and three months... and he told me that he needs time .... i dont kno wwhat to think .. is it that he dosent love no more .. ??? for ... (104 words)

Bf calls ex and lies about it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Everyone has a past. My boyfriend is 28 and I am 23. He dated a girl for almost 4 years and they broke up almost 2 years ago. I keep in touch with a few of my exes once in a while about once a month or every couple months. Last night my friend called my phone and I was confus... (178 words)

How do I know when to flirt and should I wait until he asks me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy and he really likes me we talk every night on msn and have already been on a couple dates i'm really shy and bad at flirting and im waiting until he asks me out, i talk to him so much easier on msn then in real life weve been really good friends for a whil... (88 words)

Anything I can do to make this dance night unforgettable for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i am bisexual and i am going to my schools valintines dance with this girl. we are going as dates. she dates my guy friend. he says she can date chicks too just no guys. anyway i don't know how to slow dance and i am a little shy, i've never seen her in person. we only ... (95 words)

My friend is extremely depressed after a break up, how can I help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. So i got this friend and he and his gf broke up about 2 months ago and he seems so depressed coz he says he never felt so with any other girl. I try talking to him but i jus end up saying the wrong things or he jus too sensitive. He does not even chat anymore its as ... (80 words)

I'm having an affair, help me decipher his sexual behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am sleeping with a man that is in a relationship with someone else.. Yes this is an affair... He tells me that he doesn't sleep with her often.. I know that its more then I think but oh well.. My question is lately his has been cumming so fast, where befo... (86 words)

She told me she loved ME, then all of a sudden broke up to be with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - help!! ok i dated this girl..i thought we were gonna take things slowly..but she was like madly in love..she kept sayin that she's never felt like this about anyone..and she's totally in love and stuff..even i got pretty serious about her..then there was this guy who kept pes... (172 words)

His back and forth attitude really hurt me, what am I to believe now??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello: First I want to say that I'm writting for advice NOT to be slandered for my scenerio. I work with a guy who yes is married, however our odd hours and found interest in eachother's abilities, art and such..have created a mutual bond bewtween us, and in general y... (545 words)

How do I give her the space she needs now if she talks to me every day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - She wants space and idk what to do about it help me ( Long 10 point answer).? So basically theres this girl i like very much , even love and right now she says she likes me but doesnt like me like that because right now she cant like anyone like that, so the best thing for me t... (302 words)

How do I get my b/f to text me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi well my gf wont text me back cause we got into a fight cause she is always talking to this guy and i dont mind but they talk all and i mean all the time they were talking on the phone at 2 in the mourning and i told her how i felt and she said okay and now she wont answer my ... (133 words)

My mate won't talk to me if I go out with this boy, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best mate fancies the pants off this boy she told him that she likes him but he said that he likes me my mate said that i cannot go out with him or she will talk to me ever again. i want to go out with him but i don't want to lose my friend what do i do?? plzzz... (75 words)

How do I stop making my boyfriend pay for my ex's mistakes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex was abusive and mean but i loved him. one day he hit me becuz i wasn't ready for sex. after we broke up i met this amazing person and i find myself making him pay for my ex's mistakes. how do i stop treating him so badly and actually start to love him the way he loves me?... (60 words)

Too many mixed signals and not enough time apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up 4 weeks ago after 3.5 years together. We were very much in love and talking about marriage and kids just a month before the breakup. We had a heated arguement over a college female friend she wanted me to stop talking to. She knew nothing was going on but ... (1092 words)

Don't know if he likes me or not, could you offer your opinion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya ok here goes, to cut a long story short... i reallllllllly like this boy. and i have done since september, and last week i got my friend to ask him out for me and he thought about it for few mintues and then replied no and my friend said oh why not, and he said im not r... (174 words)

In love with a married man and missing him badly, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i had casual relationship with my co-worker who is married with two kids. he was a straight man, but i have managed to fell him down in my snare as I did not stop till i get him. i initiated everything even the first sex we had, i was the one who went to his flat. we are ... (261 words)

We're not romantic, what should I get him for Valentine's Day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with a guy for a couple of months now and everything has been going awesome. He knows I hate Valentine's Day and that I really don't like doing anything for it but he told me the other night that he wants to get me something. I was kind of put on the spot ... (118 words)

Do women realise this about guys? Is it not true?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - To many women think we are playing mind games with them so guys I'm gona have to spill the beans and tell them what we are realy doing. When a guy has a great conversation with you wherever it may be and then all of a sudden seems to ignore you for three or 4 days and then ... (371 words)

My friends say he likes me but I'm not sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there is this guy i know through a friend and we have recently got to know each other better. we mostly talked online but have now gone out together with friends etc my friends say he likes me but im not sure, and i can't really tell! he asked for my number and invited ... (151 words)

He acts like me wants me, then he gets back with his ex. What's his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - plzzzz guys can u help me. ecpecailly guys. I’m trying to figure this guy out… A few months ago, I met the most awesome guy and we just clicked. In fact, I think we practically spent every waking moment together when we weren’t in our classes. I started to really fall f... (596 words)

What is it with guys and their EMOTIONS??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this person that i am starting to see ( month and a half) would tell me subtle things such as i am here for you...i would do anything for you and would love it when i would say i miss him. but as soon as i say i feel that we're growing closer how do you feel... no reply... (84 words)

I love my new partner so why did I burst into tears when I found out my ex husband is getting married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

- can someone help me sort my head out? Im getting divorced from my husband of eleven years...he told me that he wasn't in love with me anymore although he did still love me as we have two kids(10 and 8)and has been having an affair for two years. it came like a bolt of l... (360 words)

What kind of things could I say to help to turn him on during sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've recently started getting a lot closer to my boyfriend. He's started asking me to give him blow jobs however i've never done one before and i don't have a clue what to do. Are you able to give me any tips on what to do and what feels good??? We've also had sex a... (100 words)

Quick ejaculation and erection problem - how can we overcome these?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've recently started sleeping with my boyfriend and its all going great, however there is one problem. He cums quite quickly is there anything i can do to make it so he lasts longer??? Also after he's cum once we often want to try again but he has trouble getting it u... (86 words)

Once the trust is gone, is it lost forever?? I fear my hubby will leave again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts, I am thinking of leaving my husband as i just cant seem to move on from what happened 2 years ago and i feel i am wasting not only my life but his also and feel i am not being fair. The only thing is i am terrified that i will be doing the wrong thing and live t... (257 words)

Any opinions on first time orgasms?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - During intercourse last night I experienced a tingling sensation which spread up my spine.It was really pleasurable and made me gasp. Afterwards my boyfriend asked if I'd had an orgasm.I'd never experienced this sensation before but said I think I had for the first time. An... (54 words)

Am I bisexual? Will I grow out of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a female teenager who is confuseed about my sexuality. I masturbate quite often and unfortunately I cant get turned on by the thought of a man.. Only girl on girl action really gets me aroused... but if im dating a male and things get rowdy.. I get aroused. I fantasize ... (87 words)

Lately my FWB has been treating me badly, do I have a right to be angry, should I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in an fwb relationship with a close guy friend. Things were going pretty well, and we spend lots of time together, most of it not just to hook up. A few weeks ago he told me he wanted to be with me, and because of our previous rocky relationship, i said no because he was a ... (269 words)

Should I declare my love to another woman from work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age - I am a woman of 44 and have been in love with a woman at work for 15 months. We have become good friends and do lots of emailing, some of which are quite flirty. She is straight and believes that I am - my main relationships have been with men. It's got to the stage where i am ... (146 words)

The tiniest things make me cry!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16, and I don't know if its a problem. But i'm really really emotional. I cry over anything and everything. The TINIEST things make me cry, I just dont get why. I was looking on the intenet to see why this happens, some sites said it could happen due to the past, like a... (261 words)

Mom found unopened condom--what will she think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well basically me and my friends were messing about and lets say I ended up with this unopened condom in my pocket(its a long immature story, lol). It was in my outdoor coat, so not one i would be going out in, but at the time i was out playing in the snow. Anyway my mum ... (110 words)

Whom should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this problem. i'm starting to like someone else. but i'm still in love with this present guy. the present guy was some kinda, conceit but he's smart. he's kind to me when we i was a freshmen, but when he was elected as a president, he changed. it was very hard for me to ... (117 words)

Does he like me? Or just want to touch me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I Seriusly Need Help =(.. Im 14 Years Old And My Bf Is 15 We Have Been Together For 1yr 6months.. I Love Him Loads He Loves Me Too.. But For Me I Feel As If He Is Just With Me For Touchin Me.. Whenever Were On The Phone Talkin He Says Things Like 'I Cant Wait To Have Your B... (130 words)

Over a year..not over the ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey , I would appicated if anyone can give me some advices on what to do. Here's the story, I went out with her for about 3 years. The day I asked her to be my girlfriend was on my bday so it was really speical to me. She was my first girlfriend and I'm her first boyfriend,... (414 words)

Son stealing my dirty panties to "relieve" himself...Help!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My 13yr old son has been stealing my dirty panties and I believe he is using them to "assist" himself. I have found several pairs under his bed and well lets say there is evidence as to what he is doing. Do I confront him about? Do I just ignore it? I dont want to make him ... (101 words)

I'm in touch with my son with another woman how do I tell my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a major problem. In the summer of 2004 I had a relationship with a married woman I myself am married (was then too). We were both separated from our spouses at the the time of our relationship. She had 3 kids with her husband, I fell hard for her and loved her enough to ... (449 words)

How should I present his V-day package to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya all, I've just bought my boyfriend some fluffy handcuffs for valentine's day and was wondering how to give them to him? I've also got him a photo frame - a more romantic gift Lol! Do you reckon I should give him the present and then just show him the handcuffs in a kind ... (83 words)

Took break now g/f is depressed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, I need some help. My girl friend and I got in a fight last weekend and I told her I needed some space at the end of the fight to think things over. She got really depressed and now she doesn't feel close to me and resents me for not checking on her while I was getting ... (137 words)

He likes me but I don't reciprocate, how can I avoid hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound a little trivial but i'd really appreciate some advice. okay here goes.... there is this guy on my bus who i've know forever.. recently he's been getting really clingy, i'm not interested in him in a romantic way but i'm pretty sure he likes me. with valentines ... (88 words)

I started bleeding during sex, help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i had sex with this boy and i started bleeding so we stoped but now im going to have sex soon with this other guy and i dont wanna start bleeding again because he might go off me , which i am very worried about becaUse i like him a lot any advise will help tar Heart... (67 words)

Should I make the most of our FWB, or ask him to move out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age - Hello, I don't know what I should do. I am house sharing (my house) with a much younger male friend, who I have fallen in love with. I have told him, and he says he loves me as a friend but that's all. In some ways I can be content to live like this but I am worried how I ... (125 words)

My dad laughed at me because I'm using crutches!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay....on thursday i fell down the stairs and my foot really hurt so yesterday my mum took it to be xrayed at the hospital. they saw no major break but the said dont walk on it for a day and so they gave me crutches. my mum said that i was a drama queen cos im always hurting ... (145 words)

How can I tell him "I'm a Virgin!"?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old female virgin that has been seeing a 30 year old guy for about 3 weeks. We have been on 4 dates so far and he made it clear that he wished to come home with me after the last one. I feel guilty turning him down, yet need a little more time to get to know him ... (109 words)

Thoughts of a past crush have once again crept into my head but I am in a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at my wit's end right now. For the past month and a half, I thought everything was fine between my boyfriend and I but thoughts of a past crush have once again crept into my head! Here's a little history.... I have asked for advice in the past about my four year relati... (237 words)

What are the nice sexy words you can tell your boyfriend when you are having sex?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - 1.when having sex and your boyfriend tells you your sweet what do you answer? 2.what are the nice sexy words you can tell your boyfriend when you are having sex? 3.what are the nice sexy positions for a lady to be in when having sex? 4.is it right for a lady to smear he... (75 words)

Damaged goods?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was hanging with a friend, who likes me. The feeling isn't mutual. He got mad when I told him we would never be together. And he starting putting me down, stating I was damaged goods. Am I damaged goods because I was in a relationship and ended up getting hurt? I don't really ... (64 words)

I lost my best friend because of all this

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. Today I lost my best friend (I think) We have been together for almost 10 years now and lately things have been going down hill. See... She is engaged to this guy we call Kyo... He is bi and so she lets him be with other guys... Well... My boyfriend is bi. I call him ... (475 words)

I don't know what to do I love him!

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im madly in lovge with my boyfriend we have so much in common and so much planned out for our future i kno that he is in love with me as well and well this year ive had alot of diffulculties and i still am any ways like 3 weeks ago i cheated on him and im afraid that he is ... (139 words)

Controlling boyfriend

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years. We just had a baby in August. She is 6 months now. My boyfriend is super controlling. We were engaged last month but he took his ring back, he usually breaks up with every 2 weeks or so about things that seem ... (373 words)

Is it advisable to have sex with her?

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7 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i am a married man looking unto the for children, and this neighbor a married woman, i will say we seem to love each other naturally, because she confides in me on advice once a while thereby giving me advice on how my wife and i will bear children, but all of a sudden we see ... (110 words)

Why is my ex flirting with me when he dumped me?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So when I first got there we stared at each other for a bit then I looked away and went to sit down. He didn't talk to me. I found out he told Brian he wasn't going to. Well Brians mom sent us to the store to get food….me, chris, carrie, and brian. While in the car and at t... (389 words)

I don't understand why he wanted to break up

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i have a serious problem. i was in a relationship for past 4 years, last year nov 08 he asked for a break up, the reason for break up was religion( im muslim - yrs 23 and he is hindu - yrs 24) earlier he never had any problem with religion, i dont understand wat happend to ... (103 words)

I just don't know what is going on with me?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - since me and my boyfriend broke up everything has been going downhill. i was depressed for a couple weeks after but i've talked to a lot of people and they've made me realize it's time to move on. so i guess i got over that. but now i just feel like i don't care about myself or ... (151 words)

Is he trying to make me feel jealous?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy who works at a restaurant close to me, that I've liked for about a year or so now. I have a feeling he knows I like him, along with the other workers, (since I go there frequently now, lol). But recently when I've gone, I've noticed he's starting to talk with some ... (216 words)

What did I misunderstand and how might she come around?

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7 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Met a girl last summer in a city that I live in overseas (her hometown), and we had about 2 months of casual but fun dating before she moved back to the US to finish graduate school. There were no commitments made when she left, but we kept in touch with the occasional email. ... (370 words)

My intelligence may be getting in the way of our relationship, any ideas?

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7 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend (we're both 16) thinks I need to stop being smarter then him. He gets d's and c's well I get b's and a's. I don't rub it in his face at all (plus I think its rude as well) and I have been offering to help him get his grades back up but he says that will make look ... (96 words)

Need a few answers on oral sex, please help?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I give my bf head a lot and when he gets close to cumming he pushes on my head and I can't deep throat him ): and I gag and its embarassing and I really wanna learn how to deepthroat without gagging!... (42 words)

Can anyone help me by answering a question regarding ovulation and pregnancy?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If I am on a 42 day cycle, does that mean my days of ovulation begin on the 21st? And also, does this make the chances of pregnancy lower for me?... (31 words)

Any suggestions on how I can find a guy, please?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - WHY IS IT SO HARD TO GET A GUY? I NEED A MAN PLEASE HELP ... (19 words)

My first husband remarried, then called me and we started chatting, no sex, he does not want another divorce, I still love him, what should I do?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was married twice. I have known my first ex since we were in 7th grade and we had been together ever since; we got married when we were 23 but divorced when we were 27 due to my family issues. He was hurt and so was I. I had to take care my family problems and had to leave ... (411 words)

We broke up, he says he loves me, but I hear he is trying to be with at least three girls, should I forget him?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend just broke up with me on the 3rd because of so much stress and hes depressed and things like that but says he still has feelings for me. its only been a few days i know but we have only talked one time sence then through text.....i really really miss him....i... (151 words)

Together for 4 years, this Valentines, he is going to a strip club, should I get over it?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just told me that he's going to a strip club with his friends on February 14th... I had planned to take him out to dinner at his favorite restaurant on that day for Valentines day... Now I know Valentine's Day is just a stupid excuse for forced romance and stuff ... (129 words)

Would a pregnant woman get pregnant again, by having sex during her pregnancy?

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7 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i had slept with this woman and shes 5 months pregnant, i can't get her pregnant from this aswell can i? ... (25 words)

My ex girlfriend invades my head at night, what can I do to stop this?

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7 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Here is the thing me and my girlfriend broke up after only like 1 month. The bitch never really respected me and I am over her I mean I do not think about her much during the day and I do not really miss her. But when I sleep I can not get her out of my dreams. It has been way ... (89 words)

What do I do to reduce my insecurities, regarding my relationship?

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7 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everybody i have a problem. im too jelous with my girlfriend i dont say much about it but i am i and cand stand it im just too jelous i and want to be comfortable with her. i trust that she wont do anything with other guys. but still sometimes when shes some guys she ... (114 words)

My guy friend has anger management problems, how can I get him to understand that?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 17 and I've been having this problem with one of my really close guy friends. His mother has recently passed away and he's only 16. the only people he has in his life is me and his sister. Everytime we are together which is alot he always punches me or kicks me or slaps ... (206 words)

What can I do to help them with their problem?

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7 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i need some help ASAP my friend and his GF had sex today and the condom broke they are only 15 and dont have access to any contraceptive pills they ar freaking out what should they do Thanks in advance for your help ... (52 words)

Strong feelings for the boss

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone Last x-mas we had a company dinner, i always had a crash on my boss. we had few drinks and he asked me for a ride. He is single he so invited me inside to see the house, i went in as i was leaving he kissed me, i couldn't resist so we made out a lot that night. ... (93 words)

Anyone involved with a cop?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Have any of you ever dated/loved/married a police officer? I've met one recently and I sense that we're developing strong feelings for each other. I am hoping we might start dating but all my friends seem to be warning me not to get involved with a cop. It's not that I have ... (77 words)

No affection this week

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my man are going through a hard time right now. i am thinking about ending it with him, but i really truly want to contuine 'us', but aparently this week wasnt are week. he was sick, so maybe that has to do with it, but in the whole week i didnt get a hug, the whic... (185 words)

How do I make him realize what I feel for him?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi a couple of days ago,i told the guy i am in love with that i love him(u guys might remember that question..).he is 11 years older to me,but ilove him. we are family friends,and so he considers my mom like his mom,and all that.so he told my mom,that he cannot possi... (263 words)

How do I get his attention when he's always listening to an ipod

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How am i supposed to get this guy's attention if he's listening to his ipod all the time? i swear, he even does it when our teacher is giving a lesson and he's only in that one class of mine so it's the only time i see him... what should i do?... (52 words)

I need help making things right with my friend.

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7 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this girl for a long time (about 10 years). We went to school together for a long time, but halfway through eight grade, I had to switch schools. Two years later (Halloween of this year), we ran into each other and our friendship picked up where it left ... (156 words)

My fake boyfriend.

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked my crush if he liked me and he said no and that he was about to go out with my best friend. I got mad at her and him and now at school I told 3 of my closest other friends that I had a boyfriend that lived in Canada and they believed me which was good, but I feel bad ... (84 words)

How can I stop hating myself so much???

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When I was 9 I started to have sex with myself and now I'm very ashamed of myself and sometimes I think people can see it in me and will make fun of me. Now I'm scared and I also looked at porn and am even more ashamed.... (49 words)

How to finish off a great day????

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Valentine's Day, HELP! Ok, so my boyfriend and I are going to watch a live sports game! That's at 1:00pm. I'm thinking it will end about 3:30pm. Any good ideas on what to do afterwards?!? I haven't had sex with him yet. I wanted to go out of my way and plan something nic... (68 words)

My ex and I are in love but in different relationship, what do we do?

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7 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I have a huge problem. I'm still in love with my ex and he says he's still in love with me too but we are both in different relationships. My boyfriend is amazing but I miss my ex so much and I don't know how to get over him. Would it be easier if I just stop talking to him ... (136 words)

She's talking to her ex and I'm uncomfortable with it, what should I do?

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7 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, well im dating this girl and we have been going out for a really long time like 2 or 3 years, and i know im only 15 but i love this girl. but in the last couple of days she has been talking to her ex and ill be like "who are you talking to?" and she wont tell me right away ... (134 words)

Did I ruin her birthday by saying I wasn't ready for under the pants action?

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7 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - okay ineed a little help... mee and my girlfriend have been going out for over 3 months now,, and she's great, i love her to death, i cant be without her and she loves me too-she's a really great grl.. so yesterday was her birthday and she held a birthday party f... (221 words)