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writes:I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 2 and a half years now, she's 22 and a half and i'm nearly 27, when we first met i was in an unsigned band and out a lot but due to work commitments i had to leave the band which meant my social life has declined, a lot. After about 6 months into our relationship we moved in together but in the last 6 months shes been going out a lot, this doesn't bother me as she is 22 and deserves a social life but what does bother me is shes staying over at other lads houses and says there are a few of them, but as i don't know any of them i'm not sure. Also there is one of the lads who i know is on her facebook, but i can't view his profile which means he has bloked me??? i just feel there seems to be something going on there but am affraid to find out incase there is as i love my girlfriend loads. I've been cheated on before and it really broke my heart. The other thing is our our sex life has really declined (once in 2 months). It used to be atleast 2 or 3 times a week. She says this is due to us moving in so fast. She keeps telling me she doesn't want to feel like a married couple which is hardly like it is as shes out with her mates half the week and i can't go out as much as it's my house and most of, if not all my wage goes on bills and as shes a student but working and has money problems, i don't want to take her money. It doesn't bother me not going out every weekend, i'd sooner stay in with a dvd. i just don't know what to do as i don't know if shes tring to break up with me or just wanting a flexible relationship or something, is there anything io can do or should i ride it out till she wants to settle down.
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reader, MyDestiny  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 if you're not soo hot for her hanging out with her male friends than tlk to her and tell her you're uncomfortable about it..but dont tell her she CAN'T, cause as you say-she does need to have social life tooo
to ease your worry you should meet her male friends and maybe bond with them..and the next time she hangs out with them..go with her and all of you guys could get to know each other more
gudd luck..
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