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writes:Hi I really need help :/, I'm only fifteen and I can usually get boys with ease but everytime I go see a boy, This may sound werid but I always get really horny and want sex with them and straight after it I always seriosuly regret it and feel really really horrible. I am also supposed to be waiting until I'm 16 ( in 2 months exactly) to see another boy who I believe i'm really in love with but he's 19 and don't want to go any further until I'm 16, I really feel like I have cheated on him I feel so so horrible and slutty please help me and be nice :( xxx
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reader, massdestruction3  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 k c100 was a good answer.Your hormones are flying around, you should feel this way, it's normal, just relax.Now i'ma guy and same happens to me, but i don't get horny cus then i'd be embarresed
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Your not a slut dont worry, you are just young and you are finding out about sex. It is only natural to enjoy sex and some people have stronger urges than others.
If you really want to wait for these next two months (which isnt long at all - it will fly by!) for this guy you like then you need to stop putting yourself into situations where you will be able to have sex. Think about when you keep doing this and why. Is it after you have been out drinking? Do you find it hard to say no to going back to a guys house? Or do you invite them round?
You need to cut out the part before you sleep together so you dont put yourself into a situation where you can have sex. You say its every time you go to see a boy - stop seeing other boys and then the sex will stop! Its pretty simple!
If you really believe that you have strong feelings for this guy then you will wait and you will stop seeing other people. If you cant stop yourself seeing other boys then you dont have such strong feelings for him as you think. He sounds like a good guy seen as he is waiting for you to reach 16, not many guys out there are like that. If I were you I would feel lucky that there is someone like that interested in you!
Make sure you are having safe sex (both condoms and birth control). If you are not then you need to have an STI test before you sleep with this new guy as you dont want to pass anything on to him.
You can control these urges, it just takes time and determination. Dont put yourself in a position where you can have sex and then you should be able to manage to wait for these next 2 months.
Good luck!
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