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writes:Well, Me and my boyfriend split a few weeks ago, because I moved states....And within a week of us breaking up, he slept with 2 people....And then continued to mess with my head for a week after. Like one day he would say he still loves me and only wants me...Then the next day he would tell me to get over it because he has moved on!I miss him so much, as he was my first...I know what he did was horrible, but I cant make my feelings for him go away!What can I do to get over him!? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): you'll never forgwt your first,the good and bad feelings alike.the first is always the hardest and most menorable. but its like this,i dont agree with anyone settleing down with the first love.i beleive a person should see alot of people to find out what they like and what they dont,what is acceptible and what's not.i feel down the road this will make you happier and take less time to find happiness,but the first is always the worst,from the eating,sleeping,concentration,nausia.ive been through it,i know.and a long distance thing...its hard but youre still young.move on and it sounds like hes not the kind of guy you deserve anyway.dont sell yourself short.it'll be his loss,not yours
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reader, BabygurlVa2090  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 In my opinion forget about him, now i know he is ur first and everything and u know what they say its hard to get over your first love, BUT if he is treating you like that then it means that he probably didn't care about you from the beginning.Trust me i've been in almost the same situation that ur in and its going to take one day at a time to heal from it, and at the end of the day u will know that u didn't need him and the right guy will come into your life and he will love you and treat you like the queen u r.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): he will see when you move on with other people. i always say karma will be the end of situations like that.
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reader, RiSi_YUMM +, writes (16 February 2009):
 you cant make your heart change how it feels, with time you will see you will be okay and that he is the one missin out on something good so just keep your head up and be STRONG
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