A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Eventually I wanna try to have sex but I'm still so young. I would have sex now, but I'm terrified of the condom breaking and I'm too scared to ask my mom for birth control so some of the stress of sex can rub off.I don't know how to handle this situation. I wanna have sex, but I'm just too scared. Is that normal?
View related questions:
condom Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (16 February 2009):
 i think that u should just wait til ur ready..i know you want to have sex probably because you just wanna tell everyone youre not a virgin so that people dont start freaking out when you say you are..but dont listen to anyone just do it with the right guy at the right moment then everythings gonna be fine..but if you do something that you will regret now,you might regret forever...
A
female
reader, audie  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 you are still too young and clearly not ready for sex. you need to mature and be in a mature healthy relationship. i think you should wait till you get married (less complications). i'm waiting and i'm glad i made that decision. dont rush cause all your friends are doing it, you dont want to regret your first time.
...............................
A
female
reader, califnan +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Maybe your being scared, is of God.. I waited for marriage to make love.. Then it was perfectly normal.. I Never regretted waiting .. Even though the marriage ended 22 years later. Now it has been another 23 years since the divorce, I am thinking that maybe I made a mistake by not remarrying.. and am thinking of possibly marrying again.. Again no sex since the divorce... Have Never regretted my decisions of not making love outside of marriage..
...............................
A
female
reader, megan melevolant  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 thats normal love
you should tell you mum as she is the only person that will stand by you all your life.
she might be upset at first but she will also trust you more for telling her befor it happens.
having sex for the first time does hurt but not a lot
and you will enjoy it.
but only do it if you are ready and you are in a good relationshipe because you dont want to regret it for the rest of your life.
good luck chuck!
xox
...............................
A
male
reader, MyDestiny +, writes (16 February 2009):
 dont have sex if you're not ready..
and it is normal,.. everyone's scared on their first time especially girls, with getting pregnant and birth control and ect.
...............................
|
