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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend moved back to his home country for work. We decided to break up cos we thought that a long long distance relationship would not work because at the time we was going through a rough patch in our relationship.He has been away for a few months now and I have to admit I really miss him. When we talked last, he told me how much he missed me and really regreted us breaking up. We have not discussed getting back together but he has asked that I fly out on holiday to see him. My worry is that he only misses me because he is very h*rny, he doesn't want to risk having casual sex as it extremely frowned upon in the country and could result in forced marriage. He got very upset when I suggested that sex is the only reason why he wants me to visit. I know he finds it very hard to talk about his feelings and he quickly changes the subject but when it comes to talking about sex, he can talk for hours. Is he playing me?
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reader, The old Man?  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 If he isn't willing to discuss his feelings, I'd say sex may be his motivation for wanting you there.
How about you just ask him, "Why do you want me to come see you"? If he says I miss you. Ask, "Do you miss me, or my body"?
Just remember, you're not a pizza!
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