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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:This guy from work and I have had a crush on each other for 3yrs, but we never did anything about it because I had a boyfriend. Recently I broke up and with my boyfriend and this guy found out. Since, he happens to be head of my work group and also my soccer captain (co-ed soccer) he has access to my phone number. At first we were making plans to get together and work on projects at his place, but we never made it there. Then he asked me to go clubbing with him and a couple of friends. The night was going well I thought, he even mentioned he might have to marry me and take me to where he was going to be moving to because I mentioned I could have a drink in my hand without drinking it almost immediately. I couldn't dance with him because this other girl we were with was hogging him. By the end of the night they were kissing. I stood by for a little cause I was hoping it was accidental. However, when it was clear they were into each other, I bolted outta there without saying a word to his friends. They all tried calling me but I didn't answer till another one of his friends texted me. I was filled with anger, I didn't want to say something I would regret. Somehow the next day we made plans to hang out at his place. We watched movies and little by little he got closer to me. By the end of the night we did the deed. Since then, I've been wanting to see him more but he makes himself so busy with his friends that I feel like I'm impinging on his plans. When we do hang out we have a great time. When we do the deed he holds me while we sleep. During the day, everything has to be so hush hush because of work ethics. Also, he gets calls from women all the time, in which he answers with "hey you", including if it's me. I asked him about what we had, and he was said "i don't know what it is". I should probably add that he'll be moving away permanently within 3 months. I don't know what his deal is? I would be willing to move but I'm not sure he's a serious fellow. Please help!
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reader, BabygurlVa2090 +, writes (16 February 2009):
 I think you just like him more than he likes you. You may try to make him like you, but you can never make a man love you.I suggest that you just leave him alone and let him go his way and you go yours, because if he is getting calls from other women that just means your another girl on his list.
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