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writes:A few months ago i started goin into a chatroom for the first time. I met a guy in there(Bryan)and he was very kind and caring. After a few weeks of just being frends i started to develop emotions for him. I didnt want to tell Bryan how i felt simply because if he didnt feel the same way it might ruin out frendship. But after a few weeks of hiding how i felt about Bryan, Bryan told me that he realy realy liked me and that he wanted to be more than frends. S o from there we started dating.After being with Bryan for a few weeks i decided to tell my frends about him, all my frends were realy shocked that i had allowed myself to get into a relationship with someone who lived the other side of the world. My frends advised me to dump Bryan straigh away because i would only get hurt. I ignored what my frends said because i truly loved Bryan. But i started to feel that the relationship was a bad idea as it could never be anything serious because of the distance between the 2 of us. Bryan then told me that he had arranded a plain to come and see me in England, i was so happy that i was finally goin to meet the guy of my dreams.I started to count down the days to when Bryan would arrive and in no time at all he was in England. My psrents wouldnt let Bryan stay at our house so me and Bryan both stayed at 1 of my frends house. The few weeks we spent together were the most amazing weeks of my life but before i knew it Bryan was leaving to go back to America, we were both really upset but he had to go.When Bryan was back in America we carried on our relationship over the internet like it was before, but me and Bryan started to argue but i just thought it was usual in a relationship. But in time it came to the point where me and Bryan were argueing every day and it was just upseting me. I finally decided to dump Bryan, it was a realy hard desicion but it was the right 1.Ever since iv dumped Bryan we have been on and off but the other week i decided to dump him for the last time, it was a realy hard ting to do, me and Bryan were both heartbroken but we both got through it. Eer sonce that day me and Bryan have just been frends.I have now found another bf who lives by me but when i told Bryan he was heartbroken, all he keeps saying to me is that he loves me and he needs me in his life, i no i feel exactly the same way. The other day i had a hock when Bryan turned up at my house and asked me to move in with him, he told me that he had brought a house in England and he said that im all he needs.I realy dont no what to do shall i dump my bf and get back with Bryan or not....please help me
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reader, minnie_me +, writes (19 February 2009):
minnie_me is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you your advice has realy helped me and you are right i shouldnt rush in to moving in with him...thank you!!
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reader, llcooljayce  +, writes (18 February 2009):
 Trust your heart. Sounds like this Bryan really loves you, and you him. I don't know that I would rush into moving in with him, but see if you can't work it out. :)
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