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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there such a thing as being too tight?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there such a thing as being too tight? I am a virgin but I've messed around with lads including all foreplay, oral sex etc so Im not totally inexperienced but I've never gone all the way as I have this fear I am too tight. I've explored and I know what I like but when ... (139 words)

Any ideas how I can give this another go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend 3 months into our relationship... when I asked him about it he lied to me but I then found out for myself and he admitted it and said he was so scared to tell me coz he didn't want to lose me... the ... (289 words)

How can I "be there" more for her?

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I be there for my girlfriend? I go to school about an hour away from my girlfriend and we can't see each other that often. She feels lonely and that she has no one to talk to. I assured her that I am always there for her when she wants me but she said it doesn't ... (93 words)

Why are guys so confusing...???

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There's this guy I've known for two years, we used to have sex and mess around and I wanted something serious but he didnt.. Now time has passed and I consider us pretty good friends. We don't mess around any more and just hang out.. Now he is being jealous about the guys I go ... (107 words)

If the universe is an efficient place, why do we spend so much energy on relationships???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Why does cheating hurt our partners? Why is there no room for a free ride? Why do married people want to get out of their marriages? Why do single people want to get married? Why do we want to fulfil our fantasies? Why do we get punished for fulfilling our fantasies? Why do we ... (82 words)

What is the most romantic way of asking a girl you like out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this is a question mainly for the girls because they know about this stuff, but fellas your help will be appreciated too. This is going to be a hard question and I can't wait for your ideas!! What is the most romantic way of asking a girl you like out? and when is the best ... (61 words)

Friend or girlfriend? What am I to him?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year, now. We do everything together, I spend his days off with him. He includes me in everything he does with his friends (who are all couples), and his family (immediate and extended). He's not afraid to show me off. He tells me... (141 words)

MSN problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 years old, I have MSN and a lot of people I didn't know added me, I blocked them and deleted them but once one freak added me several more did it was like when I didn't come online on MSN a lot of people added me and when I came on I had a loads asking to accept them. ... (259 words)

My mum just hinted to me that I was born a mistake...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My mum just hinted to me that I was born a mistake and she never even denied it. It really hurts knowing that. I love my mum and everything but when something goes wrong she blames me never anyone else just cause I'm the youngest in the family. They normally say the youngest is ... (874 words)

Whenever we make out I just lose my mind!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 14 year old guy and I'm in a current relationship with this girl, I'm really in love with her and she's in love with me.. we've been going out for 8 months. I really want to have sex and I know you're gonna say ohh I'm too young, oh there's a lot of stuff to think ab... (102 words)

What should I do with my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What should I do with my husband? After 2 years with him we've just been married 1 years, he found someone who is only 18 years old, he is 23 years old when I had 3 weeks holiday. After I got back he said we break up and he can find someone else but that we still be friends... (146 words)

Would you sleep with him and do you you think this whole thing is my fault?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm the girl with the pornstar boyfriend again and I have a little bit of situation. My boyfriend and I had a talk about work at his apartment when I spent the night and he said he does accounting instead of the real answer. He now wants to have sex since I faked being ... (149 words)

Why do children want to have children? It's so wrong and disturbing.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why are there so many children who want and crave to have a baby?! I find it really disturbing that a 13 year old wants to have a baby. They have no clue about how to look after themselves, let alone a baby. Also why should tax payers pay for their offspring! It's awful child... (76 words)

Should I take him back after the hurt he's caused me?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and last year February I stopped going out with my boyfriend whom I had been going out with for a year and a half. We broke up but it was still like we were going out as we were still kissing etc. Then I went on holiday in mid August and when I came back he told me ... (144 words)

How to prolong the climax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I am about to have sex for the first time. I want to know if there's anything I can do to make myself not finish fast. Any advice would be great. Oh and yes I am being smart, I'm using a condom so don't worry about that. Thanks... (52 words)

I just don't know what to do next or what the next step is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have always had trust issues from my first serious high school relationship where the girl i dated left me only a month after moving away. We had been together for two years and it was the typical high school sweetheart relationship that last two years. After she broke up ... (732 words)

I'm being torn apart I think my husband left me for "her"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age - hi i had an affair 20 years ago cause my husband was always leaving me in the house at night with my 2 sons. i beg him to stop going out it went on for about 3 months. so i had a one off affair with the neighbour 2 doors away from me, my husband caught me there. he went mad but ... (218 words)

My b/f's best relationships were ones where he cheated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here is my problem, and I need help. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months now, he has been an absolute prince to me. He has been a sweetheart and a true gentleman. But at the same time he tells me that he loves me yet I have this sense that I dont believe h... (472 words)

What can be said or done so that our sex life improves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and I have been together a long time. we have the same sense of humor, get along great and enjoy the same social activities. the problem we are having that isn't getting much better is our sex life. he has a impotence problem 3/4 of the time. i think it is ... (182 words)

Why do I always burn after having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - and no I am not burning/have any type of std, or any vaginal infection. it happened in the past and it always burned like some one put a lighter inside my vajayjay, and im scared to have sex with the new guy because it may happen again. what could be the problem for why my ... (65 words)

Should I trust him or is he in over his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 14 and I have been told that I'm mature for my age I guess I am. A have practicly been taking care of myself and my brother and sister for two years now, and to get to my point, boys my age are stupid so my bf is 18 we know the risks of being together and talked about ... (191 words)

What is the deal with this guy?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We had a big argument we made up after that and i didnt hear from him and i didn’t contact him either and 2day he called me after a few weeks and he was acting like nothing is happened he was just asking me how am doing and i told him to call me back later cos i was ... (336 words)

Dont know what to say to my girlfriends dad

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi my name is ray im 22 and my girlfriend is 16 her name is lisa ok we have been dateing for a year now her mom knows about it but we have to keep it from her dad till her mom calls me and lets me know that i can come talk to her dad but her dad hates me so i need to know what ... (98 words)

Am I really an evil homewrecker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About 4 years ago now i started talking to this boy who was in my class... we became reali close friends and told each other everything. I helped him get through his break ups and vice verser. About 1 year and a half ago now he called me asking to come and see me as he fell out ... (233 words)

Do women like for a man to shave his pubes?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Do most women or any like it for a man to shave is pubes? or is that weird? i have asked a girl that and she said if women do men should too. but do you think men should shave their pubes? ... (42 words)

I'm 17 weeks pregnant and I'm terrified that I might lose this baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if there is any way to tell if a woman has an incompetent cervix before she actually loses the baby? I'm 17 weeks pregnant and I'm terrified that I might lose this baby! I know that most woman feel pressure on there bladder or pelvis, but by then it may be too ... (117 words)

I was horrified to find out that dying your hair whilst pregnant causes birth defects, is this true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 weeks pregnant and just this last Monday I dyed my hair. I was horrified to find out that it causes birth defects. What are the chances that my baby may be deformed?... (35 words)

Should I do something special for him to apologize for being so stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, so I blew it, and I'd like some advice as to what to do now. My boyfriend is 7 years older than me and has more "history" because of it. Last night, we'd had a bit too much to drink, and I got insecure about something he brought up from his past. To keep it short, we got... (172 words)

My ex boyfriend is doing my head in!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age - I am more confused then I was ever before my boyfirend left me just before christmas after been togther for a 11 years for another women who has a child of 7 and he moved straight in with her big mistake i say. However we had a holiday booked and I lost the lot and he offer... (322 words)

How to get a vibrator?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question. Can somebody tell me how to get a vibrator? Because it is boring fingering myself, and i dont want to use my sisters' one. ... (28 words)

Is it possible to stay friends with my ex now I know he has feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I told my ex i still have feelings for him this tuesday,he sed he kinda worked it out for himself. He tried 2 give me reasons why i shudn't still like him sayin we didn't have much of a relationship etc which left me so upset, because he did not say he felt the same so i felt ... (182 words)

I know she still wants me...what happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age - we have been dating for 7 wonderful months. doing everything with her two boys 12, 13. suddenly she broke it off saying she needs to figure out some things like making sure she isnt confusing love for being safe (she was really abused bad for many years) and, and she says ... (310 words)

Her vagina seems slacker... could she be cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age - I feel my partner is cheating, because at the end of her period when she has stopped bleeding she seems slack and she makes vaginal noises, also even when she is not on her period. I try to talk to her but I always seem to make a a***e of it.. can anyone help me with this?... (59 words)

Does it matter that I'm 2 grades behind her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok theres girl anne and shes a junior whos 16 right now and will be 17 in august, im a freshman whos 14 and will be 15 in may. ive kissed this girl before like a week ago and i cant tell whether she likes me or not. how do i find out if she still likes me? and is it alright if ... (82 words)

I don't know anything about sex but really want to make him feel good

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am trying to prepare myself for havign a REAL sexual encounter with this man I love, I am 19 and he is 28! I love him a lot, and I think i am ready to have sex with him. but I'm sooooo scared! I don't know anything about sex, and I want him to enjoy it and want to come back ... (145 words)

I broke up with him twice but can't help feeling I've made a terrible mistake!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, almost 17. I live several hours away from my now ex-boyfriend. We met each other through a friend who had moved down from her old town to where I live. We made friends and chatted over the phone every night, and after a few months he took a 3 hour train journey down to ... (841 words)

My b/f seems to be pulling away and I'm not sure what to do about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Any help and advice anyone can give I would really appreciate it. My boyfriend and I are both in our 20's and have been dating for 4 years. I love him very much but lately (as in the past few months) he seems to be pulling away from me. He is involved in tons of things o... (293 words)

I tried to help my friend but she's telling everyone how horrible I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age - Hi everyone. please help. I recently was there for a friend who had a bad time when there partner left them for another woman.I felt so upset for her that i invited her to spend christmas with my family. We looked after her and cheered her up. I am so upset as for some reason ... (141 words)

How do I get my husband to plan things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok im a bit late with my problem but its been on my mind, i feel ive no one to say it too and maybe its time i got some advise from people who dont know us. this is my first year married and i booked the time off work and of course made a point of letting my hubby know in ... (202 words)

Darling or dates

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi been out with someone had a break as said was too busy as started new job working shifts etc. Seen him when out he was very friendly said he still had my number etc and would be in touch. I never thought he would answer me so i text him. Every time that i text him i'm s... (105 words)

Does this mean its over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I am attached to this girl that i met 3 months ago...we have been perfect together for a month now..I used to take her out on her lunch breaks and we used to have alot of fun but no sex yet, she also tells me she feels content with me but the last time I saw her was on our ... (183 words)

Advice needed! Do I follow my head or my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My brain is telling me to say "goodbye", but my heart is not onboard. I have been seeing my "boyfriend" for 6 months. We had a rocky start. I had a drunken psycho moment. Then we kinda moved past it. We dont see eachother that often. He tells me that he has feelings for ... (167 words)

Will sex be painful?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a tight foreskin and I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend. Would it be painful? If it would is there anything I can do to stop it being as painful?... (35 words)

Should I have a baby? Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When my mom was 16 she had her first child. which was my older brother who is now 32 and got a 7 month old baby of his own, which is my neice and he has a wife. I am now 16, 17 in september and I have been suffering from depression since I was 13 because of a something that ... (238 words)

Should I surprise him and give him a BJ while we're out?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so tonight I'm going out to the movies with my boyfriend. He called me late last night at work to tell me he was feeling soooo horny! I thought it was cute. And I didn't let him know, but I wanted him so bad!! We haven't had sex just yet. And have gone as far as oral. ... (84 words)

He got me nowt for my birthday and I'm upset about it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I planned a great vday for my boyfriend of almost 3 years... he had so much fun and so did I but it really bothers me I didn't get a gift this year... he has always gotten me one. Should I really be upset he didn't get me anything? I mean I didn't even get flowers or ... (60 words)

Any suggestions on how to get his grandma to let us sleep together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are goiing to his grandma's house this weekend and we may be taking his little brother. We lived with his grandma for a few months and always slept in separate beds... but the little brother will make it so we are 1 bed short. Any suggestions on how to get ... (63 words)

How can I top his gift???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Please I'm desperate, tomorrow is the girl of my dreams birthday and I love her so much. I got her a birthday present for tomorrow but my friend who goes to a different school is skipping school and coming to where me and her go to school to suprise her with a birthday cake! I ... (104 words)

I'm 13 and really want a baby! I'm depressed!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiyyahh help me i realy want a baby and i'm 13 all my mates are sick of me twisting about it i feel depressed because i want one that bad i crave it ive saved money up and thought it through the only thing i dont want to tell my perants i know they would stand by me i... (92 words)

Any ideas for sexy pictures for my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to take some sexy pictures for him, I've taken them before and I know I can trust him with them because we've had fights and even split up for a couple of days but he didn't show anybody or do anything with them. I really want to take these pictures but ... (104 words)

Do lots of guys think vaginas are sort of gross/weird?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - do most guys think vaginas are kind of gross? bc my boyfriend mentioned it the other day (he said "gross" isn't really the right word - and he kinda regretted using the word gross because he realized it probably came across as way too harsh. plus he sucks at explaining things.) ... (471 words)

He cheated on his ex, I fear he will do the same to me, how to handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - dating a guy for 10 months and i have a fear of cheating from men as it was done in the past. i try not to hold my guy accountable for my history. he to has a history of cheating on his ex he says he has changed and want me only and WANTS to be faithful..i am good with that. ... (250 words)

My best friends went on vacation without telling me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My two best friends went on vacation together without me and now one keeps texting me and telling me all the fun things they did/ the hot guys they met. i was hurt enough just finding out about it. now, it's like adding insult to injury, you know? this is the second time they... (92 words)

Appetite problem, please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey..i just wanted to ask umm like lately i havent had the appetite to eat..and i am very skinny..every morning..my stomach hurts and want eat because i cant..i just wanted to know what that means?..but like i dont have sex so i know i cant be pregnant or anything like that so ... (55 words)

Is my husband responsible for my child who was conceived during our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had an affair and became pregnant. I need to find out what the laws are in massachusetts, pertaining to custody. I know for sure that this child is not my husbands but the guy I cheated with. I need to find out if legally my husband is responsible for this child because it ... (217 words)

Update - Should I lose it to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I wrote just the other day wondering whether or not I should sleep with a long-time guy pal I had borderline romantic feelings for (that made it very clear he was uninterested in a relationship, though hooked up with me on the regular). Well it turns out he was interested in a ... (177 words)

Is it only words? I don't feel I really matter to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am confused. I was dating a guy for 5 months, we broke up, and got back together a month later and are still together, now. My only issue is that I don't feel like I matter to him. He tells me he loves me, he tells me I'm his world, yet I don't feel like I really am. On his ... (141 words)

How do I get my dad to drive me to see him without telling my dad about us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have boyfriend who is 2 yr older and lives 80 mi. away. How do i get my dad to drive me to see him without telling my dad about us? I have a cousin down there so i could say im visiting him(he introduced us actually)but that will get old quickly. What do I do?... (56 words)

What should I do if my hubby bought his lover a valentine present and nothing for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age - What would you do if you found out your husband having an affair and brought his lover a valentine present and nothing for you. He says he still wants his marriage to work and his affair meant nothing he just enjoyed the thrill the thought of him never getting caught out ... (56 words)

I am always getting sweat patches under my arms when I go out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This question is a weird one... i am always getting sweat patches under my arms when i go out etc and i totally hate them. they make me so paranoid and feel uncomfortable. It doesnt smell at all - infact it smells of my deodarant but i just cant seem to get rid of them. Its ... (80 words)

I dreamed about my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i had a dream the other night whilst at my boyfriends house. the problem is it was about his best friend. in my dream we were together and we kissed. it was one of those dreams where you feel as though you are really in it and you can feel everything like touch etc. the ... (117 words)

I don't know which one I like the most...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm sooo confused this time. i don't know which one is to choose. i have this crush for this guy, let's just name him boy 1, and i also have a crush on the other guy which is the boy 2. I have a crush on boy 1 since jan 2008, and he knows that i have a crush on him. ever since ... (190 words)

He is a known as a player so I worry he is just after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, im a bit confused lately. i've been seeing this guy (paul) now for 1 and 1/2 weeks. we've known eachother for 3 years and he has liked me for a while but i had a boyfriend (jack). i finished with jack and me and paul started texting and seeing each other at a few ... (176 words)

My wife was offended by my comment about her sexuality, how can I take it back?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have insulted my wife by calling her basic to describe her sexually. She was highly offened. She said i destroyed her confidence and self worth. I did not attempt to correct it and now 6 days later after a talk last night she wants to separate. What should i do? I love ... (72 words)

What can we do so that he lasts longer in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - we'll, my significant other is having really hard times lasting long in bed,its creating a real big sex problem in our relationship. what can me or him do to make him last longer?... (33 words)

When girls masturbate, does that mean they want sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - when girls masturbate does it necessarily suggest need for sex?... (10 words)

Help! Could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okkk well im scared i think that i might be pregnant but im not sure i had unprotected sex a few times since my last period but my partner did not cum inside me until yesterday. my period is due in a few days and when i went to the toilet i had blood when i wipped but it was... (89 words)

He wants a "settled adult relationship" what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im 17, ive been going out with a guy who is 20 now for bout 2 and a half months, hes not the most outgoing of people and he is a bit shy, we havent had sex yet (neither of us are virgins) but nows hes talking about he wants a settled adult relationship. what does he mean ... (97 words)

I'm obsessed with trying to find someone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help as i going mad. I seem to be obsessed with trying to find someone. Im on a few dating web site and im constantly looking to see if i have any messages and get so dispointed if i dont. I just am so lonely and my life feels so boring. I just cant seem to enjoy ... (398 words)

Is it possible to have an operation to restore your virginity???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and divorced but my family has arranged for second marriage. He wants my virginity back, he said it is possible you can go operate, it is possible?... (30 words)

Sex the first time hurt so much, now he wants to do it again and I'm terrified!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time together it was good but became painful at some point and the pain went on for a week or two, now he says he wants to have more but I am scared of the pain and feel I can't do it now so how can I tell him we can't have sex ... (76 words)

Why do I feel this way?

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - HEY!!!! again its lotmoney13!!!!!! Hey, so lately i've been thinking and getting advice from all my friends but one thing kinda dosent add up.....Why do i feel like this when he's around? i have a really deep crush on one of my friends ,he's straight, and in between t... (182 words)

I caught him jerking off to my underage niece's picture!

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel betrayed, lied to and disgusted... I caught my boyfriend in a pile of lies. For some reason he was denying he logged onto my laptop. After a minutes of going back and forth he admitted to it. The only reason I made it a big deal was because he admitted to jerking off t... (189 words)

I'm nervous she's not going to do it for me

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a bisexual female, and just started dating a girl for the first time. I am crazy about her so far but I'm not too crazy about getting oral sex. Only a few people have done it right for me and I don't orgasm from it. Actually, like most women, I don't orgasm unless it's by ... (147 words)

Don't you think he is a hypocrite?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need your advice on this matter. I work with a man who is already married and has a kid. With time, i have begun to feel an attraction for him but I never said anything. I think he too feels the same way. Then I started to e-mail him anonymously to tell him about how I ... (142 words)

He forgets about me when he is away

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi readers! I just need help on this situation right here: My boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship, i'm very much in love with him and he's in love with me... Well atleast he tells me that everytime we talk. Now he's been currently busy with work so much that he ... (293 words)

Advice on cheating?

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, a little complicated. There is this girl who I became really close with about 2 years ago and we thought about dating but decided it would never work and just over time became best friends. Completely platonic. About 7 months ago I started dating another girl and ... (270 words)

I think my parents are being very unreasonable. Can anyone offer any advice?

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I proposed to my fiancee a couple of years ago. We are fantastic together and I couldn't have wished for a better lady. We planned the wedding and started paying it. So far, we have managed to pay half the costs. Then, late last year, I lost my job due to the credit ... (329 words)

So did I break my hymen? Am I still a virgin?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so lately i've been getting horny and i began masterbating frequently. i haven't given myself to a man yet. here's the problem. so a few weeks ago, i was masterbating with a toy for the first time (instead of my fingers). after i was finished, i noticed that there wa... (147 words)

She asked me out as friends but I like her, what to do?

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Right. I am in my holiday, and i have really gotten to know and like this girl in my school. We talk frequently over MSN and txt. And she said if she wanted to meet up. I said i wouldnt be sure if i was free. So i said could re-arrange another time. She said next week, and she ... (107 words)

Pain when I urinate after masturbation, is this normal?

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - When i masturbate it feels good of course it should. but when i do this i always have to urinate soon after. if i don't, when i really have to go it hurts when i urinate. Is that normal to have pain when i urinate right after i masturbate?... (50 words)

I am confused, does he still want me?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I am so very confused. I thought things were over with a guy, I had texted him saying "I guess your over me, thanks for letting me know. see you around" after I hadn't heard from him in over a week then he responded "I'm sorry, you're so fun. Don't hate me". Then a few ... (240 words)

How can I re-fuel his interest in me without messing up the friendship??

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there everyone! So i've been doing the agony aunt thing and enjoying it, but it seems this Miss. Agony needs help :-) I'd appreciate your thoughts, everyone!! So there's this guy i'm very close to. We're really good friends. I've had feelings for him for the past f... (297 words)

Why did he text me so much if he didn't like me?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old and i just found out that this guy i liked is going out with someone else. We had been texting each other all them time everyday for about two weeks and i had really thought he liked me or at least i hoped he did. Even though we never went out i still... (242 words)

Are most beautiful women viewed as sex objects by men?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have noticed at my university that girls who are in relationships tend to be plain looking and most of the good looking women are single. Even though I have heard that I was beautiful many times, I have never had a serious relationship. Men view me as a hot girl who they want ... (114 words)

How can I become more sexually active?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I love each other im satisfied sexually but im not in the mood most of the time. how can i become more sexual and what are some things I can do to turn him on [Moderator's note: What do you mean by most of the time? It is preferred to be more specific. Than... (58 words)

How to survive a sexless marriage?? Should I cheat?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32 years old and married to a man who never wants to have sex anymore. He can take it or leave it. I know he takes care of himself (porn) and we have had a million talks and fights about it. It has gotten to the point where I refuse to initiate because I want to feel ... (138 words)

What can I do with an English BA?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am graduating from college in May. I'm in my last semester of school and I started Student Teaching in a High School. I just came to the realization that I hate Teaching. I dropped Education as my minor, so now I will graduate with an English BA. What can I do with an English ... (56 words)

He acted as if he liked me, now all of a sudden he's being cold, I wonder why?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy I know that had a crush on me back when we were kids... we've crossed paths now and again throughout our lives, and as it turns out, i am now close to his mother, so i see him more frequently. lately he's been saying things like "I think we're soulmates, our ... (195 words)

Is there anything I can do to cope with working with my ex!

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I fell in love with a guy who I still think is a wonderful person, and we dated for 2.5 yrs. He was the love of my life. It was rocky for a while and ultimately ended largely because he never could get comfortable with the fact that I've enjoyed some early professional suc... (439 words)

Will he ever change?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me an my bf are on our 8 months,im 14 he's 15 we were the best couple ever we did everything together,my friends loved him,i was so happy to have him,,he was so important to me,, at the end of our 4 months wen summer ended,we started schools,he started hangin out wit his ... (315 words)

Is this verbal abuse?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am wondering whether being called a whimp by a guy for not doing what he wants me to do and saying that I asked a stupid question would be classified as verbal abuse, I have a history of getting involved with abusive men.... (44 words)

I don't like him like he likes me!

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a relationship that happened very fast. I had just met the guy 3 days before he asked me out. We've been going out for a week and 5 days and he's become very affectionate in public. I don't feel right when Im with him I feel uncomfortable and I like someone else too but I ... (92 words)

I really like this girl but can't bring myself to talk to her what do I do?

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a girl whom I think is just God-blessed in everything she does. School-wise, she's been around since kindergarten, though I hardly noticed her throughout those years. As we became mere high school freshmen in 2004, I began to actually notice her, and I didn'... (330 words)

Porn makes me feel like I don't do it for him anymore...

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend looks at porn. I know it shouldn't really be a big deal, but it is. I mean I dont mind if i watch it with him, but he says he is goin to the restroom and i dont really think anything of it when he takes the laptop with him, cuz i think he is doin something ... (120 words)

Does he actually want to brake up with me?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and him been going out for 11month's. its going great right now, only that he has been acting a bit different, but its not because of us. (family problems he says). well last night i had a dream about him braking up with me. i was devastated, and like i was crying in my ... (176 words)

Hurt and betrayed!

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i need too know what is going through his head! heres the deal... about a month ago my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend. they didnt sleep together he just lied too her saying me and him werent together for 4 days straight he was sleeping in her bed kissing her ... (200 words)

Should I get plan b?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been on the pill for several years. well, I was recently sick and had to take Amoxicillin for 10 days. It was twice a day and 875 mg. I have been off the antibiotics for 4 days and had sex. I did not use back up. I am on my sugar pills and should be getting my ... (86 words)

He cheated 4 years ago, and we haven't had sex since then... he says he's not ready!

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend about 7years,and bout 4 years ago he cheated on me and ever since we haven't had sex, and i do want but its him that is saying he is not ready, and i really want to have kids soon and he is saying that he don't know when will he be ready to have ... (148 words)

So why did he point out that I actually talk in another class?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok... so i'm really quiet in one class, because i'm not too too into it, you know? but i'm a good student. but, of course, most students have at least one class they can let loose in, one they feel comfortable in. i have 2. but the teacher from my "quiet" class was subbin... (154 words)

Are my ex-fiances credit card debts my responsibility??

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, i am 22 years old. I had been in a relationshp with who is now my ex-fiance for 5 years; the problem is i got her pregnant and she is in a lot of credit card debt. I$ had explicitly warned her starting 2 years ago that she shouldn't incur much of her unecessary debt. ... (298 words)

Abortion or adoption?....17 and torn.

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so I am seventeen years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. I don't have a job but am vigorously looking. My boyfriend has a job with very few hours and min. wage. I just found out yesterday that I am about 17 weeks pregnant. I know keep the baby for me a... (166 words)

Should I confront her and ask if the V-Day card was from her??

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Thing recently haven't been good family problems and one main reason a girl. I am the kind of guy that doesn't talk about anything to anyone but recently I have become close in a straight way to a guy we talk about everything and this girl. He knows her well and she is into ... (110 words)

She just won't listen to us... her boyfriend is cheating on her!

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, my cousin's bf was cheating on her and has been cheating on her for a long time he broke up with her on sunday to go out with another girl, my cousin says she will always believe anything i say over him but i told her today the he had been cheating on her with the same girl ... (185 words)

I lost trust in him because of this email message... am I overreacting?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, well ive been in a relationship for 1 year and 6 months. And about two days ago i was out with my boyfriend and since he is able to access his email account from his phone i decided to send a picture to my email from his phone, and when i was just about to do that i saw ... (248 words)

Should I tell him I felt ignored by him even though we are not dating?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There's this guy who is very attracted to me and he I know he likes me at least he likes to flirt and all. He left for vacation and came back yesterday. He called me as soon as he arrived to the airport. I said I'm going to pick you up, I'm with some friends and he said not ... (168 words)

I get the feeling that she wants a life I can't provide.

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in mymid twenties living with a woman that i love dearly and her son of 4. we have been together for 2 years but i get the feeling that she is seeking a life that i can not provide. i am not sure if this is reaction to the idea of settling down since she is a free spirited ... (77 words)

Is this punishment over-the-top for the "crime"?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! First off, I'd like to say that Im only asking for opinions and I want to know if im not overreacting! Ok, well my brother wrestles for the wrestling team and me being his sister, decides to take on wrestling stats so I would be at every single one of his matches... wh... (752 words)

She does not enjoy sex any more...

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and she is 28. We met 2 years ago and she was my first time. Always valued the fact of being virgin until I was going to meet the right one. In the last months her sex drive dropped and we basically are having sex not more then twice a month. She is having ... (330 words)

I am feeling very hurt, upset and anxious and don't know what to do.

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help. I met a guy over the internet who lives in NSW. I live in Perth. We seemed to get along really well. He then started sending me pics of his lower private parts and wanted to know what I was wearing etc and wanted intimate pics of me. At first I said excuse me I don't even ... (505 words)

How can I become a sexual SASHA FIERCE with my first real boyfriend!

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19 February 2009 (F)

Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!? I'm asking because my bf of almost a month keeps asking for sex, but I'm not ready just yet. I'm getting there though. And I think catching him off guard would be the best way to go. What ... (62 words)

Help! My mum caught us in the act and now she wont talk to me!

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were watching a film in my room and we were laying on my bed we started kissing and then he started to finger me. My mum walked in and now she wont talk to me. I don't know what do! Please help. ... (48 words)

I'm think I've fallen out of love with my husband, HELP

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here's the deal. I have been married for 8 years since right off high school. My husband is such a great guy, but he has his faults. When we started the relationship, he made it very clear hat he could not promise to be in a faithful relationship. But ofcourse he expected ... (897 words)

I want a relationship based on love and not pleasure. How can I let her know that?

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay I met this girl I really like 3 months ago and we started dating a month ago but she has a very awful past.. Her ex boyfriende was horrible with her and he used to beat her up and finally they had a kid together. The last time I saw her was 3 weeks ago and I really miss ... (100 words)

Is it worth losing my family and friends in order to achieve my dreams?

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19 February 2009 (F)

- I'm 20, female and from a traditional muslim family. I was abused in more ways then one, everyone thinks I'm useless. I completed my A levels, got into uni but my parents didn't let me go. I have no indepedence, no job, no money, no life and have depression. A prisoner in my ... (128 words)

How can I sound more intelligent when I'm talking to him?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel kinda dumb around the guy I like, he uses all these big words, I wanna open up a thesaurus and build my own vocabulary so I can sound witty and smart, is that bad? Is he right for me if he's smarter than me? It's so attractive to me and I love it, but I just don't feel ... (125 words)

He's going into the marines, should I end it now or wait till he leaves?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a realtionship that's not that serious yet, but he is going to the marines in a few months and we aren't going to continue this. So should I just end it now, or contiue with him until he leaves, and break up with him then?... (48 words)

I know he loves me but I don't think he loves me whole heartedly like he says he does.

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I just made 6 months. We've been through more then the average couple would go through in this time period. I love him with all my heart. I don't have to think about it I just know. I know he loves me but I don't think he loves me whole heartedly like he ... (243 words)

I think I might love this girl but my sister says I'm a psycho!

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19 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just need some help on what to do with my current situation. You see, there is this girl that's somewhat friends with my sister. I really like if not love her, however I've only met her once. Also, I'm a fifteen year old boy and she's a twenty year old girl. Now I know ... (205 words)

I read about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a virgin at 21. Am I a freak? I read erotic fiction books, own several toys and think about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!please help.... (34 words)

Should I listen to my friends or stay with my man?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going out with a older guy and all my friends don't like him. I'm not allowed to date everyone, so I kept it a secret, but we got into a huge fight and broke up for 2 days, which a few friend found out we were together in the first place and they were saying how ... (208 words)

I love him but he loves someone else...

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My name is kareena. I love this guy. his name is shahid. He is my cousin. He is 16 and I'm 14. I love him loadsss but he luvs this other girl. Her name is amrita. I just hate it when ever shahid talks about her. Me and shahid used to be very very close. We used to be girlfriend ... (232 words)

My family has disowned me for no reason... what can I do?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm really confused at the moment. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have 2 children together. I have never really been close to my mum but my nan and grandad have always been like a mum and dad to me. I live fairly close to my grandparents but my mum lives ... (443 words)

Do we love again? Is it different with someone else?

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of four years has dumped me, i hurt bsadly and have spent 8 weeks either crying or fighting back tears. My question is does the first love always hurt this much or do you miss that great loving feeling forever? I loved her like i've never loved before and i am ... (90 words)

I don't want to chase him!

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19 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I hooked up up with a guy about two weeks ago, on a friday night. I ran into him at the bar and went home with him. I ended up texting him on saturday night and we ended up doing it all over again (we did not have sex, just fooled around). He was in a 2 1/2 year relationship ... (252 words)