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Her parents are making her break up with me, help!!!!!

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Question - (16 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I'm 15 and my gf is 14, we've been going out for 4 and a half months now, I really love her and she really really really really loves me, her parents just found out about us, and they're making her break up with me in front of them!!!!! What do I do? I am freaking out!!! What do I do????!?!?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

I am 19 and I am in the same situation as u.My parents are driving me crazy.I have chose to break up with him.I don't want my parents to blame him.I don't want him to suffer as I m suffering from my parents.

If u really love her, face her parents, talk to them....mayb her parents are thoughtful...

think carefully, coz....her parents may make u and your gf suffered as well....

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A female reader, loco123 United States +, writes (17 February 2009):

Okay, since you said you both really love each other, you will find a way to be together. I think the reason(s) are for her parents getting mad, is that, she didn't tell them, they are probably worried. Have you tried to talk to her parents? even though it will be kinda nerve recking, but if you really love her, and if she really loves you, You both will do ANYTHING to stay with each other// no one can read minds so you gotta speak out. So it will take some courage, When you talk to them here are the "Do's And Don'ts"

1. do NOT whine

2. do NOT seem to immature

3. do NOT lie, Never do that to the parents! They'll freak! believe me!

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5. DO tell them how you feel

6. Tell them you love her.

7. Tell them you WON"T ever intentionally hurt her.

8. make them believe you two should be together.

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I really hope i helped! Just be brave!! You can do this because you KNOW you CAN!! :) Be strong.

Tell me if everything goes well. x0x0x0

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

How can they make you stop loving one another? Even if she says 'im breaking up with you' infront of her parents, doesnt mean she means it. You can still be together. What is stopping you? You can text, email, meet at school (if you are at school). The only time parents can do anything is when you are at home. Why do they want you two to break up? Where there is a will, there is a way. Just dont get caught lol.

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A female reader, xlipgloss06x United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2009):

xlipgloss06x agony auntwell, im sorry to hear that hun. maybe her parents are scared off there daughter growing up to fast. your not freaking out its natural to be that way, try and stay calm. try talking to your girlfriend about all this and come up with something. hope this helps xx

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